Guest guest Posted April 6, 2006 Report Share Posted April 6, 2006 Hi, Laurie w/13yr dd dx feb2006 here. Is your daughter on any meds? mindsoothe? Hi, I haven't been here for a long while. My 10yr dd was so much better and I went on 'no mail'. She's had a bit of a backslide, however, and I'm now on the hunt for a better therapist. Her last therapist said that cbt/erp can't be done for ocd thoughts -- which is mainly what my dd has. I have since learned that this isn't true; it's just a little more difficult to do with thoughts. Now I need to find a therapist who is experienced with doing that and working with children. I'm in the general area of Toronto, Ontario, if anyone has any leads at all. Am willing to travel. I've come across this herbal remedy called " Mindsoothe " . Here is a link: http://www.nativeremedies.com/ocd-alternative-treatment.shtml Does anyone have any experience with this or heard any stories? It's a combination of 2 herbs: St. 's Wort and Passiflora. Does anyone know of any side effects of either of those herbs? As always, thanks for any and all help! Mo Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted April 6, 2006 Report Share Posted April 6, 2006 Hi Laurie. No, she's not on meds, and she's not a candidate for any, I don't think. She was diagnosed Jan/05. I've tried other 'natural' things with her, such as Rhodiola Rhodax (sp?) and 5HTP. Neither seems to have made any difference. I had heard that ocd was an adrenal issue, so even tho dr says she doesn't have an adrenal issue, I tried the rhodiola. She doesn't have a severe case of ocd in that she isn't debilitated in any way, and her ocd is such that no one outside the family knows she has ocd or even notices anything unusual or different. Well, except for the fact that she's fairly obsessive about saying 'thank you'. They just think she has fabulous manners. She never had many physical compulsions. The few she had when we first discovered the ocd, she was able to quickly get rid of. But we've never been able to help with the thoughts that disturb her. Now she seems to be complaining of the thoughts more often and she's gotten into some routines involving her (many, many, many!) stuffed animals. She's unable to stop these routines even tho I've asked her to and she has tried. This has never happened before. I'm worried that she's at the edge of a slippery slope which will lead to more complicated routines. I also wonder if the 5HTP could have had the reverse effect on her -- is it possible it could have made the ocd worse?? Mo Re: mindsoothe? Hi, Laurie w/13yr dd dx feb2006 here. Is your daughter on any meds? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted April 6, 2006 Report Share Posted April 6, 2006 Thats funny how you described your da as very well mannered. my r is that way too and has always been very considerate of the other person. in 3grd she had a friend who turned out to be a boss and didn't want to share r with anyone and would bully r by saying you can't be friends with anyone else or I wont be you friend. this upset her and we tried to talk to her and eventually I just had the school put them in separate class the next year. What a Great Year! even thou they still played rec.basket ball together. same team, but you could see the competiveness in both of them, but my R would give in first on the game floor. We kept telling her she had to be more aggressive and she would at times but this year she started school ball and at the end of the season is when we realized she had OCD> she was telling the school psychologist she felt her thinking was hurting her game. the contact of others seemed to bother. her. before we realized what was going on, she has said her girlfriends would come up and hug her and she would back off, she didn't like that at all. I just took it as part of her.. she is not lovey-dovey like my ten yrold, and never really has been. we are not vitamin doers and I tired to give her vitamins when she first started showing signs this year thinking all this was about hormones... but didn't continue with it. so I don't really now how other things work against anything. Re: mindsoothe? Hi Laurie. No, she's not on meds, and she's not a candidate for any, I don't think. She was diagnosed Jan/05. I've tried other 'natural' things with her, such as Rhodiola Rhodax (sp?) and 5HTP. Neither seems to have made any difference. I had heard that ocd was an adrenal issue, so even tho dr says she doesn't have an adrenal issue, I tried the rhodiola. She doesn't have a severe case of ocd in that she isn't debilitated in any way, and her ocd is such that no one outside the family knows she has ocd or even notices anything unusual or different. Well, except for the fact that she's fairly obsessive about saying 'thank you'. They just think she has fabulous manners. She never had many physical compulsions. The few she had when we first discovered the ocd, she was able to quickly get rid of. But we've never been able to help with the thoughts that disturb her. Now she seems to be complaining of the thoughts more often and she's gotten into some routines involving her (many, many, many!) stuffed animals. She's unable to stop these routines even tho I've asked her to and she has tried. This has never happened before. I'm worried that she's at the edge of a slippery slope which will lead to more complicated routines. I also wonder if the 5HTP could have had the reverse effect on her -- is it possible it could have made the ocd worse?? Mo Re: mindsoothe? Hi, Laurie w/13yr dd dx feb2006 here. Is your daughter on any meds? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted April 6, 2006 Report Share Posted April 6, 2006 Mo, It's funny we both answered the same questions cuz our kids sound alot alike. The routines you talk about are physical rituals/compulsions if I understand OCD. Have you tried doing exposure/response prevention on them? Lynn --- nne s <juliannepeters@...> wrote: --------------------------------- Hi Laurie. No, she's not on meds, and she's not a candidate for any, I don't think. She was diagnosed Jan/05. I've tried other 'natural' things with her, such as Rhodiola Rhodax (sp?) and 5HTP. Neither seems to have made any difference. I had heard that ocd was an adrenal issue, so even tho dr says she doesn't have an adrenal issue, I tried the rhodiola. She doesn't have a severe case of ocd in that she isn't debilitated in any way, and her ocd is such that no one outside the family knows she has ocd or even notices anything unusual or different. Well, except for the fact that she's fairly obsessive about saying 'thank you'. They just think she has fabulous manners. She never had many physical compulsions. The few she had when we first discovered the ocd, she was able to quickly get rid of. But we've never been able to help with the thoughts that disturb her. Now she seems to be complaining of the thoughts more often and she's gotten into some routines involving her (many, many, many!) stuffed animals. She's unable to stop these routines even tho I've asked her to and she has tried. This has never happened before. I'm worried that she's at the edge of a slippery slope which will lead to more complicated routines. I also wonder if the 5HTP could have had the reverse effect on her -- is it possible it could have made the ocd worse?? Mo Re: mindsoothe? Hi, Laurie w/13yr dd dx feb2006 here. Is your daughter on any meds? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted April 6, 2006 Report Share Posted April 6, 2006 Hi Maureen, My 10 year old daughter was diagnosed last Spring. At the time her OCD was severely debilitating. She had terrible intrusive thoughts - no real compulsions - just the need to tell me about her thoughts or obsessions. We have been seeing a therapist in Michigan since it was closer to home (we live in Windsor) on and off for the last year. Things have dramaticaly improved with the ERP. She isn't on any medication. It hasn't been easy...but yes ERP can be done with thoughts. You just have to be a little more creative. In the last few weeks, she has experienced setbacks too. When my daughter first got sick, I spoke to Dr. Farvolden in Toronto. He specializes in OCD/Anxiety. His number is 416-535-8501 X6181. I also talked to Dr. Purdon at the University of Waterloo. Her number is 519-888-4567 X3912. Dr. Purdon specializes in " thought OCD " . She doesn't work with children but she has can refer you to psychologists who trained with her. She recently wrote a book called " Overcoming Obsessive Thoughts " that deals solely with intrusive thoughts. I also know that there is an Anxiety Disorders Clinic in Hamilton - I think it's at McMaster. I hope some of this helps. Take care. nne Maureen s <maureenpeters@...> wrote: Hi, I haven't been here for a long while. My 10yr dd was so much better and I went on 'no mail'. She's had a bit of a backslide, however, and I'm now on the hunt for a better therapist. Her last therapist said that cbt/erp can't be done for ocd thoughts -- which is mainly what my dd has. I have since learned that this isn't true; it's just a little more difficult to do with thoughts. Now I need to find a therapist who is experienced with doing that and working with children. I'm in the general area of Toronto, Ontario, if anyone has any leads at all. Am willing to travel. I've come across this herbal remedy called " Mindsoothe " . Here is a link: http://www.nativeremedies.com/ocd-alternative-treatment.shtml Does anyone have any experience with this or heard any stories? It's a combination of 2 herbs: St. 's Wort and Passiflora. Does anyone know of any side effects of either of those herbs? As always, thanks for any and all help! Mo Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted April 6, 2006 Report Share Posted April 6, 2006 Oh yes, giving in on the game floor -- that sounds very familiar. My dd played soccer just one summer. We used to laugh on the sidelines because we could actually imagine her saying to the opposing player, " Oh did you want this ball? Here you go then. " She doesn't have a hint of aggression in her. But then, neither does my non-ocd daughter. They both eventually found their way into sports that don't require aggressiveness against other players: competitive swimming and figure skating. Mo Re: mindsoothe? but you could see the competiveness in both of them, but my R would give in first on the game floor. We kept telling her she had to be more aggressive and she would at times but this Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted April 6, 2006 Report Share Posted April 6, 2006 Well, I haven't tried very hard. For a couple of reasons. First, she seems more upset this time around. Secondly, I'm not 100% sure they're ocd, mainly because she doesn't think they are. OK, I'm not 100% sure, but I'm 98% sure that it's the ocd. Another reason is that these routines with the animals are at bedtime. Not a good time to be getting her all worked up. I know this has to be worked on and quickly. I don't feel as confident working on it myself as I did with her earlier compulsions. It just feels different. I'd really like to find a good therapist! Mo Re: mindsoothe? Mo, It's funny we both answered the same questions cuz our kids sound alot alike. The routines you talk about are physical rituals/compulsions if I understand OCD. Have you tried doing exposure/response prevention on them? Lynn Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted April 6, 2006 Report Share Posted April 6, 2006 Thank you so much! I also got Dr. Farvolden's name from the OC Foundation. I've got a message into him, but he hasn't called me yet. I will call Dr. Purdon immediately. Thanks again! Mo Re: mindsoothe? Hi Maureen, My 10 year old daughter was diagnosed last Spring. At the time her OCD was severely debilitating. She had terrible intrusive thoughts - no real compulsions - just the need to tell me about her thoughts or obsessions. We have been seeing a therapist in Michigan since it was closer to home (we live in Windsor) on and off for the last year. Things have dramaticaly improved with the ERP. She isn't on any medication. It hasn't been easy...but yes ERP can be done with thoughts. You just have to be a little more creative. In the last few weeks, she has experienced setbacks too. When my daughter first got sick, I spoke to Dr. Farvolden in Toronto. He specializes in OCD/Anxiety. His number is 416-535-8501 X6181. I also talked to Dr. Purdon at the University of Waterloo. Her number is 519-888-4567 X3912. Dr. Purdon specializes in " thought OCD " . She doesn't work with children but she has can refer you to psychologists who trained with her. She recently wrote a book called " Overcoming Obsessive Thoughts " that deals solely with intrusive thoughts. I also know that there is an Anxiety Disorders Clinic in Hamilton - I think it's at McMaster. I hope some of this helps. Take care. nne Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted April 6, 2006 Report Share Posted April 6, 2006 Maureen You could also try Dr. Taub in Richmond Hill. (905) 508-3422. I can't remember how we got her name but she seemed knowlegable and was prepared to try the CBT - but my son has aspergers and it just didn't work out. kimz Re: mindsoothe? Hi Maureen, My 10 year old daughter was diagnosed last Spring. At the time her OCD was severely debilitating. She had terrible intrusive thoughts - no real compulsions - just the need to tell me about her thoughts or obsessions. We have been seeing a therapist in Michigan since it was closer to home (we live in Windsor) on and off for the last year. Things have dramaticaly improved with the ERP. She isn't on any medication. It hasn't been easy...but yes ERP can be done with thoughts. You just have to be a little more creative. In the last few weeks, she has experienced setbacks too. When my daughter first got sick, I spoke to Dr. Farvolden in Toronto. He specializes in OCD/Anxiety. His number is 416-535-8501 X6181. I also talked to Dr. Purdon at the University of Waterloo. Her number is 519-888-4567 X3912. Dr. Purdon specializes in " thought OCD " . She doesn't work with children but she has can refer you to psychologists who trained with her. She recently wrote a book called " Overcoming Obsessive Thoughts " that deals solely with intrusive thoughts. I also know that there is an Anxiety Disorders Clinic in Hamilton - I think it's at McMaster. I hope some of this helps. Take care. nne Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted April 6, 2006 Report Share Posted April 6, 2006 A word of warning : if your child is on any prescription meds, be very careful about adding anything, whether it is " herbal " or not. St. 's Wort is a relatively powerful source of seratonin, and if added to an SSRI ( the most common kind of med used for OCD) can lead to Seratonin Syndrome, which can be fatal. Also, someone asked whether 5HTP could make OCD worse - it certainly could. Any chemical introduced into the body has the ability to interact with the body's own chemicals in all kinds of ways. The " natural " remedies that are sold to help with problems such as depression, OCD, ADHD, etc. often act on the same neurotransmitters that the prescription medications do. And we are all painfully aware of the fact that those prescription meds cause very different reactions in different kids! I've come across this herbal remedy called " Mindsoothe " . Here is a link: http://www.nativeremedies.com/ocd-alternative-treatment.shtml Does anyone have any experience with this or heard any stories? It's a combination of 2 herbs: St. 's Wort and Passiflora. Does anyone know of any side effects of either of those herbs? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted April 6, 2006 Report Share Posted April 6, 2006 In a message dated 4/6/2006 1:06:25 PM Eastern Standard Time, juliannepeters@... writes: This has never happened before. I'm worried that she's at the edge of a slippery slope which will lead to more complicated routines. I also wonder if the 5HTP could have had the reverse effect on her -- is it possible it could have made the ocd worse?? Mo - I don't know about the 5HTP (I have read about these on the Internet, but don't really know anything about their effects), however what you're describing sounds like what I was just posting on the board - when you refer to your daughter saying " thank you " so much & others just think she's very polite. We always thought my daughter was just " a really good student who was an over-acheiver " and that's why she worked so hard on her homework. That wasn't the case - it WAS the OCD doing this to her. We could have done something about this so long ago & never did because we didn't see it. Then it only took that one traumatic incident (our friend dying) to push her over the " OCD edge " and that was that. I'm not sure if I missed something in a previous post from you -- why is your daughter not a candidate for meds?? LT Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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