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found this while researching low carb simple sugar foods

Do you know what is at the center of the Bible?

What is the shortest chapter in the Bible? Psalm 117

What is the longest chapter in the Bible? Psalm 119

Which chapter is in the center of the Bible? Psalm 118

There are 594 chapters before Psalm 118

There are 594 chapters after Psalm 118

Add these numbers up and you get 1188

What is the center verse in the Bible? Psalm 118:8

Psalm 118:8 (KJV) proclaims:

" It is better to trust in the LORD than to put confidence in man. "

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" I think one of the most confounding thing for NT woman is when sex

doesn't work. Occasionally I have had girlfriends, and they are

confounded when a man won't be wrapped around her finger because of

the promise of sex. AS men aside, nice guys that are NT can sometimes

harbor a grudge against women, and sometimes the " niceness " is a mask

and when the mask comes off, they really want sex too. I was not

friends with woman but eventually in my friendships with men it

always came to sex. "

I hate my fellow men for having this trait.

I will say this...It IS hard for a man and a woman to be friends

without a guy wondering if maybe the relationship can become more

than friendly, but once the woman states her resolution to keep

things on a friendly basis, then that means the door is closed as

far as anything more is concerned, and men should honor that.

Tom

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" I think one of the most confounding thing for NT woman is when sex

doesn't work. Occasionally I have had girlfriends, and they are

confounded when a man won't be wrapped around her finger because of

the promise of sex. AS men aside, nice guys that are NT can sometimes

harbor a grudge against women, and sometimes the " niceness " is a mask

and when the mask comes off, they really want sex too. I was not

friends with woman but eventually in my friendships with men it

always came to sex. "

I hate my fellow men for having this trait.

I will say this...It IS hard for a man and a woman to be friends

without a guy wondering if maybe the relationship can become more

than friendly, but once the woman states her resolution to keep

things on a friendly basis, then that means the door is closed as

far as anything more is concerned, and men should honor that.

Tom

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Thank you for this post, Tom.

I feel no means no. In a good world we would get to know people as the unique

individuals that they are. If we have an honest interest in going further and

deeper into a

relationship with that person, then we should be able to ask if they feel the

same way - -

leaving the door open to the other person NOT feeling the same way and then

respecting

that NO means, NO.

Women need to learn to do that for men that they may be interested in and Men

for

women.

I admit that there is a lot of misunderstanding. But it happens on both sides.

Perhaps it is

easier for Aspies to go beyond and just be friends????? At midlife I look back

and see my

friendships and see that over the years - even knowing a man was married - meant

to me

.. . . " look elsewhere! " . . . . . Just because someone is a wonderful person

and one has

sensual feelings does not mean that the feelings have to be acted on . . . . it

just means

that we are human and we are having feelings.

I have Celiac disease - I love the smell of Pizza and Italian food - I love

looking at

Chocolate cakes, muffins and pies at the regular, Gluten bakery - I just smile

and say,

" Yummmm, Yummmmm . . doesn't that look fine! " I am alive and enjoy looking at

and

smelling good food! But I don't go eating it . . !!!!!! No means no! I have

Celiac Disease

and Gluten can cause me to go to the hospital . . . . or a good case of open

skin sores for

eight weeks . . . .

Thanks!

Deborah

>

> " I think one of the most confounding thing for NT woman is when sex

> doesn't work. Occasionally I have had girlfriends, and they are

> confounded when a man won't be wrapped around her finger because of

> the promise of sex. AS men aside, nice guys that are NT can sometimes

> harbor a grudge against women, and sometimes the " niceness " is a mask

> and when the mask comes off, they really want sex too. I was not

> friends with woman but eventually in my friendships with men it

> always came to sex. "

>

> I hate my fellow men for having this trait.

>

> I will say this...It IS hard for a man and a woman to be friends

> without a guy wondering if maybe the relationship can become more

> than friendly, but once the woman states her resolution to keep

> things on a friendly basis, then that means the door is closed as

> far as anything more is concerned, and men should honor that.

>

> Tom

> Administrator

>

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" It is better to trust in the LORD than to put confidence in man. "

That is interesting, I saw that very same verse stuck on a tv set in

a Christian shop today :-)

As for the verse itself, well regarding people I am very

disheartened - feeling generally disheartened anyway.

>

> found this while researching low carb simple sugar foods

>

> Do you know what is at the center of the Bible?

>

> What is the shortest chapter in the Bible? Psalm 117

> What is the longest chapter in the Bible? Psalm 119

> Which chapter is in the center of the Bible? Psalm 118

>

> There are 594 chapters before Psalm 118

> There are 594 chapters after Psalm 118

> Add these numbers up and you get 1188

>

> What is the center verse in the Bible? Psalm 118:8

>

> Psalm 118:8 (KJV) proclaims:

>

> " It is better to trust in the LORD than to put confidence in man. "

>

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" I feel no means no. "

I am a big believer in the " no means no " philosophy. This was

hammered into us at college with a " 'No' never means 'yes' " campaign

after a series of date rates on campus.

" In a good world we would get to know people as the unique

individuals that they are. If we have an honest interest in going

further and deeper into a relationship with that person, then we

should be able to ask if they feel the same way - - leaving the door

open to the other person NOT feeling the same way and then respecting

that NO means, NO. "

I agree. But I also feel that some women are unclear about what they

want and change their minds in the middle of things. It would be

better for men if women said " No! " right away and then seriously

thought about what they wanted instead of saying " Yes " and then

saying " No. "

The other thing SOME women are guilty of is to make clear in their

own heads and also to men what is fantasy and what is real. Some

women have a sexual fantasy that involves being ravished against

their will. They ask for men to fulfill this fantasy. It confuses

men when they fulfill this fantasy -as both parties agree to do- and

then the women say " No! " and MEAN it in the middle of the act.

Tom

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  • 3 years later...

You Rock Tame. Your a great momma to that little man of yours. GO TAME Joanmom to Hayden 339 degrees down from 62After 4 casts, now in a brace 23 hours/dayTreated at ish Rite Hospital Dallas, TX

From: Tame <dazies2001@...>infantile scoliosis treatment Sent: Wed, November 3, 2010 6:56:24 PMSubject: As a side note

Today I asked the doc tons of ???? And it was a good appointment. We will most likely have to face rods down the road so we discussed rods/veptr ect. He talked about CHOP and some hospital in Ohio .... All which I learned from YOU GUYS! When we left he said he would let his intern take Cobb measurements next time.... She said okay I can do that. But then he told her he was talking to the mom (meeeee) and commented most interns don't know about VEP. Or Rods, ect. Go CAST! I'm so glad everyone put out what they are familiar with so the rest can grasp what they need and run with it. Thanks so much, ya'all beat the everloving pants off of the other group I belong to (and the shirt and sox too)!Tame

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Nice! GO CAST!

HRH

> Today I asked the doc tons of ???? And it was a good appointment. We will

> most likely have to face rods down the road so we discussed rods/veptr

> ect. He talked about CHOP and some hospital in Ohio .... All which I

> learned from YOU GUYS! When we left he said he would let his intern take

> Cobb measurements next time.... She said okay I can do that. But then he

> told her he was talking to the mom (meeeee) and commented most interns

> don't know about VEP. Or Rods, ect. Go CAST! I'm so glad everyone put out

> what they are familiar with so the rest can grasp what they need and run

> with it. Thanks so much, ya'all beat the everloving pants off of the other

> group I belong to (and the shirt and sox too)!

> Tame

>

>

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