Arg

[Guest guest]

So some of u know I work at a rough elementary school. If you r my fb amigo you

also know one of my lovely 5th grade students freaked out on me today, called me

white trash...ect. She also verbally insulted my baby:( I have pics of my kids

at school in photos and as screen savers. I'm not ashamed of Ben. I know he

looks and acts different than other kids his age. Her commenting on my child was

meant to disturb me on a personal level- which I did not bat an eyelash at.

Whatever. What bothers me is that someday my amazingly strong and beautiful baby

is going to be hurt by ignorant foul mouthed peers that will directly attack him

for his differences. This makes me sad and, well, pretty pissed off. I'm

ridiculously dwelli g on the future and just feel tired of it all tonight. I

wish my son could be like any other kid but he isn't. It's not just his back

it's everything else included with his syndrome. I think people are so cruel and

heartless sometimes. Although I handled the situation appropriately at work I

now feel angry about the whole thing. I wish I could make things better for each

and every disabled child. It hurts my heart and makes me so sad.

T

[Guest guest]

I saw this on fb Tame and I'm so sorry. I didn't know she also made reference

to Ben as well. I wish the world and espically children weren't so cruel. I

too wish I could take all the disability and pain away. Ben is lucky to have

such a knowledgable, smart informed mother as you. You have helped me sooo much

with the autism stuff. Sorry you had a bad day.

Love ya,

Mel

Tame <dazies2001@...> wrote:

>So some of u know I work at a rough elementary school. If you r my fb amigo you

also know one of my lovely 5th grade students freaked out on me today, called me

white trash...ect. She also verbally insulted my baby:( I have pics of my kids

at school in photos and as screen savers. I'm not ashamed of Ben. I know he

looks and acts different than other kids his age. Her commenting on my child was

meant to disturb me on a personal level- which I did not bat an eyelash at.

Whatever. What bothers me is that someday my amazingly strong and beautiful baby

is going to be hurt by ignorant foul mouthed peers that will directly attack him

for his differences. This makes me sad and, well, pretty pissed off. I'm

ridiculously dwelli g on the future and just feel tired of it all tonight. I

wish my son could be like any other kid but he isn't. It's not just his back

it's everything else included with his syndrome. I think people are so cruel and

heartless sometimes. Although I handled the situation appropriately at work I

now feel angry about the whole thing. I wish I could make things better for each

and every disabled child. It hurts my heart and makes me so sad.

>T

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[Guest guest]

I totally feel for you, I am 27 with scoliosis and metal rods in my back, and now my 3 year old is showing mild scoliosis. I always worry for him that he might end up facing the adversities I do, but hopefully he will get casting done and not end up like me.The truth of the matter is, that we can make the best choices for ourselves, and for our kids, but sometimes life just gives you a hard pill to swallow. It's how we handle these adversities and keeping a positive self-image that really make us great--not having a life without pain or social injustices. It's a life-long battle when you have scoliosis. As a mom, I feel everything you feel, but as a scoliosis sufferer myself, I have learned that it is possible to live above this petty world and become a kinder, more compassionate,

down-to-earth individual simply because of the deformity. I'd rather be the kind, humble me that scoliosis created than some ignorant individual with no real problems to over come. <3From: Tame <dazies2001@...>infantile scoliosis treatment Sent: Wed, November 17, 2010 9:50:11 PMSubject: Arg

So some of u know I work at a rough elementary school. If you r my fb amigo you also know one of my lovely 5th grade students freaked out on me today, called me white trash...ect. She also verbally insulted my baby:( I have pics of my kids at school in photos and as screen savers. I'm not ashamed of Ben. I know he looks and acts different than other kids his age. Her commenting on my child was meant to disturb me on a personal level- which I did not bat an eyelash at. Whatever. What bothers me is that someday my amazingly strong and beautiful baby is going to be hurt by ignorant foul mouthed peers that will directly attack him for his differences. This makes me sad and, well, pretty pissed off. I'm ridiculously dwelli g on the future and just feel tired of it all tonight. I wish my son could be like any other kid but he isn't. It's not just his back it's everything else included with his syndrome. I think people are so cruel and heartless

sometimes. Although I handled the situation appropriately at work I now feel angry about the whole thing. I wish I could make things better for each and every disabled child. It hurts my heart and makes me so sad.

T

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With a mom like YOU, your son will be just fine. :-D Keep your chin up. Don't stress about tomorrow, just try to build fortitude in your son, yourself, and your family TODAY and each day build on his self-esteem, self-respect, and ability to cope with the hard things in life. He will become everything you want him to be, because he has the love and respect of his family--the people who matter the most!From: Tame <dazies2001@...>infantile scoliosis treatment Sent: Wed, November 17, 2010 9:50:11 PMSubject: Arg

So some of u know I work at a rough elementary school. If you r my fb amigo you also know one of my lovely 5th grade students freaked out on me today, called me white trash...ect. She also verbally insulted my baby:( I have pics of my kids at school in photos and as screen savers. I'm not ashamed of Ben. I know he looks and acts different than other kids his age. Her commenting on my child was meant to disturb me on a personal level- which I did not bat an eyelash at. Whatever. What bothers me is that someday my amazingly strong and beautiful baby is going to be hurt by ignorant foul mouthed peers that will directly attack him for his differences. This makes me sad and, well, pretty pissed off. I'm ridiculously dwelli g on the future and just feel tired of it all tonight. I wish my son could be like any other kid but he isn't. It's not just his back it's everything else included with his syndrome. I think people are so cruel and heartless

sometimes. Although I handled the situation appropriately at work I now feel angry about the whole thing. I wish I could make things better for each and every disabled child. It hurts my heart and makes me so sad.

T

[Guest guest]

For·ti·tude –noun mental and emotional strength in facing difficulty, adversity, danger, or temptation courageously: "Never once did his fortitude waver during that long illness."From: Tame <dazies2001@...>infantile scoliosis treatment Sent: Wed, November 17, 2010 9:50:11 PMSubject: Arg

So some of u know I work at a rough elementary school. If you r my fb amigo you also know one of my lovely 5th grade students freaked out on me today, called me white trash...ect. She also verbally insulted my baby:( I have pics of my kids at school in photos and as screen savers. I'm not ashamed of Ben. I know he looks and acts different than other kids his age. Her commenting on my child was meant to disturb me on a personal level- which I did not bat an eyelash at. Whatever. What bothers me is that someday my amazingly strong and beautiful baby is going to be hurt by ignorant foul mouthed peers that will directly attack him for his differences. This makes me sad and, well, pretty pissed off. I'm ridiculously dwelli g on the future and just feel tired of it all tonight. I wish my son could be like any other kid but he isn't. It's not just his back it's everything else included with his syndrome. I think people are so cruel and heartless

sometimes. Although I handled the situation appropriately at work I now feel angry about the whole thing. I wish I could make things better for each and every disabled child. It hurts my heart and makes me so sad.

T

[Guest guest]

Oh I don't even know what to say.......I want to be so ugly to and about that rude 5th grader! I am so sorry Tame you had to hear that and go through it. She obviously has NO respect for anyone! It sounds like you handled it well. I am not sure I could have done the same. When it comes to my children I end up acting like a child myself.

Hang in there girl......God made him perfectly!

TashaMommy of 5 year old twin boys- and Fort Worth, Texas is treated at Texas ish Rite Hospital in Dallas, Texas. After being treated in a series of 6 casts for 14 months he is now in a brace and has been since September 2007.

EARLY Treatment does work if done properly.

You can read 's story at.... http://www.infantilescoliosis.org/stories.html

Or follow our family one day at a time......http://thefontenotslife.blogspot.com/

From: Tame <dazies2001@...>infantile scoliosis treatment Sent: Wed, November 17, 2010 8:50:11 PMSubject: Arg

So some of u know I work at a rough elementary school. If you r my fb amigo you also know one of my lovely 5th grade students freaked out on me today, called me white trash...ect. She also verbally insulted my baby:( I have pics of my kids at school in photos and as screen savers. I'm not ashamed of Ben. I know he looks and acts different than other kids his age. Her commenting on my child was meant to disturb me on a personal level- which I did not bat an eyelash at. Whatever. What bothers me is that someday my amazingly strong and beautiful baby is going to be hurt by ignorant foul mouthed peers that will directly attack him for his differences. This makes me sad and, well, pretty pissed off. I'm ridiculously dwelli g on the future and just feel tired of it all tonight. I wish my son could be like any other kid but he isn't. It's not just his back it's everything else included with his syndrome. I think people are so cruel and heartless sometimes.

Although I handled the situation appropriately at work I now feel angry about the whole thing. I wish I could make things better for each and every disabled child. It hurts my heart and makes me so sad.T

[Guest guest]

Oh I don't even know what to say.......I want to be so ugly to and about that rude 5th grader! I am so sorry Tame you had to hear that and go through it. She obviously has NO respect for anyone! It sounds like you handled it well. I am not sure I could have done the same. When it comes to my children I end up acting like a child myself.

Hang in there girl......God made him perfectly!

TashaMommy of 5 year old twin boys- and Fort Worth, Texas is treated at Texas ish Rite Hospital in Dallas, Texas. After being treated in a series of 6 casts for 14 months he is now in a brace and has been since September 2007.

EARLY Treatment does work if done properly.

You can read 's story at.... http://www.infantilescoliosis.org/stories.html

Or follow our family one day at a time......http://thefontenotslife.blogspot.com/

From: Tame <dazies2001@...>infantile scoliosis treatment Sent: Wed, November 17, 2010 8:50:11 PMSubject: Arg

So some of u know I work at a rough elementary school. If you r my fb amigo you also know one of my lovely 5th grade students freaked out on me today, called me white trash...ect. She also verbally insulted my baby:( I have pics of my kids at school in photos and as screen savers. I'm not ashamed of Ben. I know he looks and acts different than other kids his age. Her commenting on my child was meant to disturb me on a personal level- which I did not bat an eyelash at. Whatever. What bothers me is that someday my amazingly strong and beautiful baby is going to be hurt by ignorant foul mouthed peers that will directly attack him for his differences. This makes me sad and, well, pretty pissed off. I'm ridiculously dwelli g on the future and just feel tired of it all tonight. I wish my son could be like any other kid but he isn't. It's not just his back it's everything else included with his syndrome. I think people are so cruel and heartless sometimes.

Although I handled the situation appropriately at work I now feel angry about the whole thing. I wish I could make things better for each and every disabled child. It hurts my heart and makes me so sad.T

[Guest guest]

She is a mean spiteful child who doesn't respect others at all. She was suspended today. It was just a cheap shot on her part to try and rattle me. Fiddle sticks on her:) You k ow what they say about karma... I try to not get pulled into their Ricky lake drama! T Sent from my iPhoneOn Nov 18, 2010, at 6:20 AM, Tasha Fontenot <ryanswalk@...> wrote:

Oh I don't even know what to say.......I want to be so ugly to and about that rude 5th grader! I am so sorry Tame you had to hear that and go through it. She obviously has NO respect for anyone! It sounds like you handled it well. I am not sure I could have done the same. When it comes to my children I end up acting like a child myself.

Hang in there girl......God made him perfectly!

TashaMommy of 5 year old twin boys- and Fort Worth, Texas is treated at Texas ish Rite Hospital in Dallas, Texas. After being treated in a series of 6 casts for 14 months he is now in a brace and has been since September 2007.

EARLY Treatment does work if done properly.

You can read 's story at.... http://www.infantilescoliosis.org/stories.html

Or follow our family one day at a time......http://thefontenotslife.blogspot.com/

From: Tame <dazies2001@...>infantile scoliosis treatment Sent: Wed, November 17, 2010 8:50:11 PMSubject: Arg

So some of u know I work at a rough elementary school. If you r my fb amigo you also know one of my lovely 5th grade students freaked out on me today, called me white trash...ect. She also verbally insulted my baby:( I have pics of my kids at school in photos and as screen savers. I'm not ashamed of Ben. I know he looks and acts different than other kids his age. Her commenting on my child was meant to disturb me on a personal level- which I did not bat an eyelash at. Whatever. What bothers me is that someday my amazingly strong and beautiful baby is going to be hurt by ignorant foul mouthed peers that will directly attack him for his differences. This makes me sad and, well, pretty pissed off. I'm ridiculously dwelli g on the future and just feel tired of it all tonight. I wish my son could be like any other kid but he isn't. It's not just his back it's everything else included with his syndrome. I think people are so cruel and heartless sometimes.

Although I handled the situation appropriately at work I now feel angry about the whole thing. I wish I could make things better for each and every disabled child. It hurts my heart and makes me so sad.T

[Guest guest]

Tame I'm so sorry you had to hear that! I was a 5th grade teacher at a pretty

rough school too b4 I started staying home, so I know the mentality of the kids

you deal with. She's obviously a very hurt little girl to be placing such hurt

on others. This is one way you might try talking to your son about mean kids

when he's presented with them (all kids will at some point). People who hurt

others this way are coming from a very bad place. I dont say this to lessen what

youre feeling at all-- I'd have probably broken down in tears right then and

there! Just trying to offer some perspective so this doesnt get you too down.

Dianna--you can read Marcela's story at

http://www.infantilescoliosis.org/infantile_stories.html

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> Oh I don't even know what to say.......I want to be so ugly to and about that

rude 5th grader! I am so sorry Tame you had to hear that and go through it.

She obviously has NO respect for anyone! It sounds like you handled it well. I

am not sure I could have done the same. When it comes to my children I end up

acting like a child myself.

> Hang in there girl......God made him perfectly!

>

> Tasha

> Mommy of 5 year old twin boys- and

> Fort Worth, Texas

> is treated at Texas ish Rite Hospital in Dallas, Texas. After being

treated in a series of 6 casts for 14 months he is now in a brace and has been

since September 2007.

>

> EARLY Treatment does work if done properly.

>

> You can read 's story at....

http://www.infantilescoliosis.org/stories.html

>

> Or follow our family one day at a

time......http://thefontenotslife.blogspot.com/

>

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> From: Tame <dazies2001@...>

> infantile scoliosis treatment

> Sent: Wed, November 17, 2010 8:50:11 PM

> Subject: Arg

>

> So some of u know I work at a rough elementary school. If you r my fb amigo

you also know one of my lovely 5th grade students freaked out on me today,

called me white trash...ect. She also verbally insulted my baby:( I have pics of

my kids at school in photos and as screen savers. I'm not ashamed of Ben. I know

he looks and acts different than other kids his age. Her commenting on my child

was meant to disturb me on a personal level- which I did not bat an eyelash at.

Whatever. What bothers me is that someday my amazingly strong and beautiful baby

is going to be hurt by ignorant foul mouthed peers that will directly attack him

for his differences. This makes me sad and, well, pretty pissed off. I'm

ridiculously dwelli g on the future and just feel tired of it all tonight. I

wish my son could be like any other kid but he isn't. It's not just his back

it's everything else included with his syndrome. I think people are so cruel and

heartless sometimes.

> Although I handled the situation appropriately at work I now feel angry about

the whole thing. I wish I could make things better for each and every disabled

child. It hurts my heart and makes me so sad.

> T

>

[Guest guest]

Youre right the child has major issues. I'm over it. The worst part about

working here is that the kids know you can't reply to their attacks. They know

what they can and cannot get away with and they push you as far as they can.

Needless to say my children do not attend the school I work at:) We have a week

off for thanksgiving so I can refill my patience levels....

T

Sent from my iPhone

On Nov 18, 2010, at 9:47 PM, " diannapiquet " <diannapiquet@...> wrote:

Tame I'm so sorry you had to hear that! I was a 5th grade teacher at a pretty

rough school too b4 I started staying home, so I know the mentality of the kids

you deal with. She's obviously a very hurt little girl to be placing such hurt

on others. This is one way you might try talking to your son about mean kids

when he's presented with them (all kids will at some point). People who hurt

others this way are coming from a very bad place. I dont say this to lessen what

youre feeling at all-- I'd have probably broken down in tears right then and

there! Just trying to offer some perspective so this doesnt get you too down.

Dianna--you can read Marcela's story at

http://www.infantilescoliosis.org/infantile_stories.html

Oh I don't even know what to say.......I want to be so ugly to and about that

rude 5th grader! I am so sorry Tame you had to hear that and go through it.

She obviously has NO respect for anyone! It sounds like you handled it well. I

am not sure I could have done the same. When it comes to my children I end up

acting like a child myself.

Hang in there girl......God made him perfectly!

Tasha

Mommy of 5 year old twin boys- and

Fort Worth, Texas

is treated at Texas ish Rite Hospital in Dallas, Texas. After being

treated in a series of 6 casts for 14 months he is now in a brace and has been

since September 2007.

EARLY Treatment does work if done properly.

You can read 's story at.... http://www.infantilescoliosis.org/stories.html

Or follow our family one day at a

time......http://thefontenotslife.blogspot.com/

From: Tame <dazies2001@...>

infantile scoliosis treatment

Sent: Wed, November 17, 2010 8:50:11 PM

Subject: Arg

So some of u know I work at a rough elementary school. If you r my fb amigo you

also know one of my lovely 5th grade students freaked out on me today, called me

white trash...ect. She also verbally insulted my baby:( I have pics of my kids

at school in photos and as screen savers. I'm not ashamed of Ben. I know he

looks and acts different than other kids his age. Her commenting on my child was

meant to disturb me on a personal level- which I did not bat an eyelash at.

Whatever. What bothers me is that someday my amazingly strong and beautiful baby

is going to be hurt by ignorant foul mouthed peers that will directly attack him

for his differences. This makes me sad and, well, pretty pissed off. I'm

ridiculously dwelli g on the future and just feel tired of it all tonight. I

wish my son could be like any other kid but he isn't. It's not just his back

it's everything else included with his syndrome. I think people are so cruel and

heartless sometimes.

Although I handled the situation appropriately at work I now feel angry about

the whole thing. I wish I could make things better for each and every disabled

child. It hurts my heart and makes me so sad.

T

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