Guest guest Posted June 5, 2003 Report Share Posted June 5, 2003 In a message dated 6/5/2003 9:43:28 PM Central Daylight Time, topazmoon1964@... writes: > I had enough. When my partner came in, I asked my supervisor if I could > leave work early to run errands. I then went home, packed my clothes and a few > of my personal items and then checked into a local hotel. Granted, it's not a > permanent solution but I needed to draw the line and start taking care of > myself. > > , It doesn't matter male or female, It hurts to be left in a relationship wondering what went wrong, even worse when only one wants out. There was a lady who worked with me at GRMC who was in a similar situation. After several years together, she had bought a house with the other lady and set up house keeping. She was very happy and thought it was forever. Surpise, surprise, The partner came home one day and decided suddenly that not only did she not love Anita anymore, but she decided she wasn't into women anymore, that she still loved her " like a sister " and wanted to continue to live in the same house. So Now Anita, Who " came out " to be in this relationship, is suddenly in a house living with a woman who she was still in love with and the woman was living in the same house now dating men and acting as if life was grand. She was devastated. So many people told her to get out of the house, but she refused, so last I heard she was still living with her. I think part of her thinks some day the other lady will come back, but from what I hear it is doubtful. You have done right by separating yourself. It will only cause hurt. You are a sweet person and fixing to start a new life....She will be the one who is left behind not you. It is hard, But you can lean on your support people and in July have your surgery. If she can do you like this, she doesn't deserve you. You aren't responsible for her ...Quit covering. Anyway...I hope I didn't overstep, but your not the only person things like this happen to. I see so many relationships of all kinds end because one or the other falls " out of love " . ((((((((Hugs))))))))) in Bama http://hometown.aol.com/mdl1031/myhomepage/profile.html Surgery- RNY to DS revision on12/6 -377.5 12/17 - 346.5 ( minus 31lbs) 01/15- 338.1 (minus 39.1lbs) 02/12-330.0 (minus 47.5 lbs) 04/06- 324.3 (minus 53.2 lbs) 05/02- 311 (minus 66.5 lbs) 05/12- 304.8 (minus 72.7 lbs)-BMI now 48 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted June 5, 2003 Report Share Posted June 5, 2003 > I had enough. When my partner came in, I asked my supervisor if I could > > leave work early to run errands. I then went home, packed my clothes and a few > > of my personal items and then checked into a local hotel. Granted, it's not a > > permanent solution but I needed to draw the line and start taking care of > > myself. ++++++++++++++++++++++ ....Today you took Three important steps. 1. you didn't cover for her. 2. You decided that YOU were important and made a move to start taking care of yourself 3. you shared the info with friends. And by doing this, you make it possible to get some moral support. I wish with all my heart we could all just come join you in your hotel room, cry with you, eat too much junk and talk smack about everyone who's done us wrong. Hugging you with my heart Jo Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted June 7, 2003 Report Share Posted June 7, 2003 Oh , I am so sorry for your pain and hurt and sense of betrayal. I am glad you came to us and I will pray for resolution and a sense of peace for you. Hugs and blessings, Ann Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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