Guest guest Posted August 1, 2005 Report Share Posted August 1, 2005 OJ- It is written in the Bible: "It is not good for man to be alone". Open yourself up to dating an under-25 woman. They tend to be more open-minded than the over-30 crowd. I've opened myself up to dating under-25 women, and it has changed my perspective. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted August 1, 2005 Report Share Posted August 1, 2005 I'm too old to starting running after women like a 16-year old after girls. I tried online dating, but ads on these websites are never serious. I don't have any real education and I don't plan on getting any either. Of cause I don't want kids, but almost all women are in long time relationships by age 25. In my hometown, girls either have kids at age 20 or go to college and get them by age 25. Are you aware of the term " Mindblind " ? I'm mindblind. I can't read facial expressions and tell if a woman is interested in me or if she's looking at me as a retard. > > Well, I know this will sound shocking, some religious folks should > not read it, I should not post that because am using my real name, > but, well... > > Well, in the city I live it is not such a big deal and will not put > someone into jail, so, once , when I was 20 something, had broke up > with a boyfriend and was really hurt and in doubt, and in spite of > being experient and such, I wondered if I was not that good sexually, > so I payed someone to have sex with me. I looked at an add in the > paper, went there, he was nice, I asked him many questions, if I was > ok...which he said I was perfect, he was 23, he knew how to deal with > a woman, he drove me very confident, and I prefered than than to be > with someone who wined me and dined me, or with someone I would be > involved and then hurt if the relationship did not turn out ok. > MAYBE, depeding on your belifes, it COULD be a good start to have > someone who is used to it to do it with you at the beggining, because > it CAN be didactical. This experinece won´t prevent that you will do > it with someone you will love in the future, or who will love ya...it > can only help you feel more confident and ''experient'. > > Well, on the other hand many women would be happy to be your first > one. It is somehting unforgetable for a woman... > > For safety reason I left a çiece of paper with the address of the > place I was going to under the tv set...and told him when I arrived > that if somehting happened to me he would be in trouble because a > friend of mine knew I was there-which was a lie but I needed to tell > him that.. > > Sorry if I offended some of you. > > *blush > > Marilia Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted August 1, 2005 Report Share Posted August 1, 2005 Well, guys all ages 'run' after women when they have none, and sometimes, the 'bad' ones run after them even when they´ve already gotten one. Sometimes internet ads do work. The fact it did not work once doesn´t mean it never works. Maybe the first ad was not 'appealing' or creative...or maybe the right woman did not have a chance to read it. I think it does help going to another town...where no one knows you. And do not close the possible doors yet...I mean, there is more magic in this world than we imagine. The day you least expect it you may find you dear one...who knows it won´t be through this list? Well, sorry about my insistence...it is because I simply belive in all I wrote. Hugs Marilia Hey, since you love human touch, why don´t you apply for dance classes? It wil broaden your social circle, you will get more used to hugging women, you will give your body some grace, one doesn´t have to talk much, music relaxes, it is a good exercise and less boring than most of the rest, etc. Re: Aspie babes - to OJ> > > For me, it would be out of the question. I couldn't live with it, so > I'll just stay celibate. I'm at an age where few people are single > and I'm starting to get to old for younger women.> > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted August 1, 2005 Report Share Posted August 1, 2005 I actually had the same idea, but I figured I'd be in trouble if I suggested it... Inger Re: Re: Aspie babes - to OJ Well, I know this will sound shocking, some religious folks should not read it, I should not post that because am using my real name, but, well... Well, in the city I live it is not such a big deal and will not put someone into jail, so, once , when I was 20 something, had broke up with a boyfriend and was really hurt and in doubt, and in spite of being experient and such, I wondered if I was not that good sexually, so I payed someone to have sex with me. I looked at an add in the paper, went there, he was nice, I asked him many questions, if I was ok...which he said I was perfect, he was 23, he knew how to deal with a woman, he drove me very confident, and I prefered than than to be with someone who wined me and dined me, or with someone I would be involved and then hurt if the relationship did not turn out ok. MAYBE, depeding on your belifes, it COULD be a good start to have someone who is used to it to do it with you at the beggining, because it CAN be didactical This experinece won´t prevent that you will do it with someone you will love in the future, or who will love ya...it can only help you feel more confident and ''experient'. Well, on the other hand many women would be happy to be your first one. It is somehting unforgetable for a woman... For safety reason I left a çiece of paper with the address of the place I was going to under the tv set...and told him when I arrived that if somehting happened to me he would be in trouble because a friend of mine knew I was there-which was a lie but I needed to tell him that.. Sorry if I offended some of you. *blush Marilia Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted August 1, 2005 Report Share Posted August 1, 2005 I'm in the situation that I'm undereducated and too fat for most women over 25 and too old for women under 25. And besides that, I prefer to stay alone because of all my problems. > Hey...I'm fifteen months away from 40, and I'm still attracted to younger > women! As long as she's over 21, that's fine by me. In fact, women closer to my > age or older have never really been attracted to me for one reason or > another, especially when I want a family of my own. > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted August 2, 2005 Report Share Posted August 2, 2005 I'm an atheist. And no thanks, I know I'm too old, too undereducated and too fat for women. > OJ- > > It is written in the Bible: " It is not good for man to be alone " . Open > yourself up to dating an under-25 woman. They tend to be more open- minded than the > over-30 crowd. I've opened myself up to dating under-25 women, and it has > changed my perspective. > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted August 2, 2005 Report Share Posted August 2, 2005 I'm an atheist. And no thanks, I know I'm too old, too undereducated and too fat for women. > OJ- > > It is written in the Bible: " It is not good for man to be alone " . Open > yourself up to dating an under-25 woman. They tend to be more open- minded than the > over-30 crowd. I've opened myself up to dating under-25 women, and it has > changed my perspective. > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted August 2, 2005 Report Share Posted August 2, 2005 Well, OJ, I think we all started to encourage you and hoping you find your babe because of your first posts on this subject. They made us believe you wanted to find someone, either to have your babe, or so you could have sex with her, or be touched by her. At least I did. You said things like: "I'm still trying to find my very own Aspie babe, eh... girlfriend". "I don't know if I really want a relationship at all, just the sex". "And another thing -- I really miss being touched! I'm sensitive to touch too, that's why I want to be touched and be close to another person". Then you started to point all the reasons not to even try to have her: too old, too fat, uneducated...etc. Many women do have relationhsip with fat people, as well as thin, uneducated as well as educated...in fact women tend to accept whatever. there are even thousands of books written about women picking guys they should not. There is one called 'smart women, no smart choices', or somehting like that. ( I am not saying you would be a no smart choice....just pointing that some women pick guys that can be bad for them in many ways, and being fat or uneducated is not a big deal.) My first boyfriend was indeed handsome, rich, had gone to best schools, etc...but I was really in love with the second one, who was not handsome, was poor, I was smarter than him...but he had such a firm and great charater...he was noble in so many ways...he was ir-re-sis-ta-ble! So, just stop being so picky on yourself... But I promise this is the last post on the subject...do not mean to push you! Good luck! Marilia Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted August 2, 2005 Report Share Posted August 2, 2005 Well, OJ, I think we all started to encourage you and hoping you find your babe because of your first posts on this subject. They made us believe you wanted to find someone, either to have your babe, or so you could have sex with her, or be touched by her. At least I did. You said things like: "I'm still trying to find my very own Aspie babe, eh... girlfriend". "I don't know if I really want a relationship at all, just the sex". "And another thing -- I really miss being touched! I'm sensitive to touch too, that's why I want to be touched and be close to another person". Then you started to point all the reasons not to even try to have her: too old, too fat, uneducated...etc. Many women do have relationhsip with fat people, as well as thin, uneducated as well as educated...in fact women tend to accept whatever. there are even thousands of books written about women picking guys they should not. There is one called 'smart women, no smart choices', or somehting like that. ( I am not saying you would be a no smart choice....just pointing that some women pick guys that can be bad for them in many ways, and being fat or uneducated is not a big deal.) My first boyfriend was indeed handsome, rich, had gone to best schools, etc...but I was really in love with the second one, who was not handsome, was poor, I was smarter than him...but he had such a firm and great charater...he was noble in so many ways...he was ir-re-sis-ta-ble! So, just stop being so picky on yourself... But I promise this is the last post on the subject...do not mean to push you! Good luck! Marilia Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted August 2, 2005 Report Share Posted August 2, 2005 Marilia, I tend to do the same thing. But I think this is one example of the person just wanting to vent a little, not actually asking for advice. (Just wish I could remember that and keep my own mouth shut.) ;-) Inger Re: Re: Aspie babes - to OJ Well, OJ, I think we all started to encourage you and hoping you find your babe because of your first posts on this subject. They made us believe you wanted to find someone, either to have your babe, or so you could have sex with her, or be touched by her. At least I did. You said things like: "I'm still trying to find my very own Aspie babe, eh... girlfriend". "I don't know if I really want a relationship at all, just the sex". "And another thing -- I really miss being touched! I'm sensitive to touch too, that's why I want to be touched and be close to another person". Then you started to point all the reasons not to even try to have her: too old, too fat, uneducated...etc. Many women do have relationhsip with fat people, as well as thin, uneducated as well as educated...in fact women tend to accept whatever. there are even thousands of books written about women picking guys they should not. There is one called 'smart women, no smart choices', or somehting like that. ( I am not saying you would be a no smart choice....just pointing that some women pick guys that can be bad for them in many ways, and being fat or uneducated is not a big deal.) My first boyfriend was indeed handsome, rich, had gone to best schools, etc...but I was really in love with the second one, who was not handsome, was poor, I was smarter than him...but he had such a firm and great charater...he was noble in so many ways...he was ir-re-sis-ta-ble! So, just stop being so picky on yourself... But I promise this is the last post on the subject...do not mean to push you! Good luck! Marilia Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted August 2, 2005 Report Share Posted August 2, 2005 Marilia, I tend to do the same thing. But I think this is one example of the person just wanting to vent a little, not actually asking for advice. (Just wish I could remember that and keep my own mouth shut.) ;-) Inger Re: Re: Aspie babes - to OJ Well, OJ, I think we all started to encourage you and hoping you find your babe because of your first posts on this subject. They made us believe you wanted to find someone, either to have your babe, or so you could have sex with her, or be touched by her. At least I did. You said things like: "I'm still trying to find my very own Aspie babe, eh... girlfriend". "I don't know if I really want a relationship at all, just the sex". "And another thing -- I really miss being touched! I'm sensitive to touch too, that's why I want to be touched and be close to another person". Then you started to point all the reasons not to even try to have her: too old, too fat, uneducated...etc. Many women do have relationhsip with fat people, as well as thin, uneducated as well as educated...in fact women tend to accept whatever. there are even thousands of books written about women picking guys they should not. There is one called 'smart women, no smart choices', or somehting like that. ( I am not saying you would be a no smart choice....just pointing that some women pick guys that can be bad for them in many ways, and being fat or uneducated is not a big deal.) My first boyfriend was indeed handsome, rich, had gone to best schools, etc...but I was really in love with the second one, who was not handsome, was poor, I was smarter than him...but he had such a firm and great charater...he was noble in so many ways...he was ir-re-sis-ta-ble! So, just stop being so picky on yourself... But I promise this is the last post on the subject...do not mean to push you! Good luck! Marilia Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted August 2, 2005 Report Share Posted August 2, 2005 The " Aspie babe " thing was irony. I totally lack social skills. > Well, OJ, I think we all started to encourage you and hoping you find your babe because of your first posts on this subject. They made us believe you wanted to find someone, either to have your babe, or so you could have sex with her, or be touched by her. At least I did. You said things like: > > " I'm still trying to find my very own Aspie babe, eh... girlfriend " . > > " I don't know if I really want a relationship at all, just the sex " . > > " And another thing -- I really miss being touched! I'm sensitive to > touch too, that's why I want to be touched and be close to another > person " . > > Then you started to point all the reasons not to even try to have her: too old, too fat, uneducated...etc. > > Many women do have relationhsip with fat people, as well as thin, uneducated as well as educated...in fact women tend to accept whatever. there are even thousands of books written about women picking guys they should not. There is one called 'smart women, no smart choices', or somehting like that. ( I am not saying you would be a no smart choice....just pointing that some women pick guys that can be bad for them in many ways, and being fat or uneducated is not a big deal.) > My first boyfriend was indeed handsome, rich, had gone to best schools, etc...but I was really in love with the second one, who was not handsome, was poor, I was smarter than him...but he had such a firm and great charater...he was noble in so many ways...he was ir-re- sis-ta-ble! > > So, just stop being so picky on yourself... > > But I promise this is the last post on the subject...do not mean to push you! > > Good luck! > Marilia Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted August 2, 2005 Report Share Posted August 2, 2005 The " Aspie babe " thing was irony. I totally lack social skills. > Well, OJ, I think we all started to encourage you and hoping you find your babe because of your first posts on this subject. They made us believe you wanted to find someone, either to have your babe, or so you could have sex with her, or be touched by her. At least I did. You said things like: > > " I'm still trying to find my very own Aspie babe, eh... girlfriend " . > > " I don't know if I really want a relationship at all, just the sex " . > > " And another thing -- I really miss being touched! I'm sensitive to > touch too, that's why I want to be touched and be close to another > person " . > > Then you started to point all the reasons not to even try to have her: too old, too fat, uneducated...etc. > > Many women do have relationhsip with fat people, as well as thin, uneducated as well as educated...in fact women tend to accept whatever. there are even thousands of books written about women picking guys they should not. There is one called 'smart women, no smart choices', or somehting like that. ( I am not saying you would be a no smart choice....just pointing that some women pick guys that can be bad for them in many ways, and being fat or uneducated is not a big deal.) > My first boyfriend was indeed handsome, rich, had gone to best schools, etc...but I was really in love with the second one, who was not handsome, was poor, I was smarter than him...but he had such a firm and great charater...he was noble in so many ways...he was ir-re- sis-ta-ble! > > So, just stop being so picky on yourself... > > But I promise this is the last post on the subject...do not mean to push you! > > Good luck! > Marilia Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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