Guest guest Posted March 21, 2005 Report Share Posted March 21, 2005 Dear All, Ill probably start waffling so sorry if i do, but I'm so mad at the moment and need to blow off steam somewhere. Well someone on here was on about grandparents last week, not excepting that there's anything wrong with their grandchild. Well my kids and i experienced the worst possible thing i can think of.Their own grandfather (in-laws i might add) kicked us out of his house on saturday afternoon. Due to the fact his grandson (my son) BJ is not welcome in his house anymore because he doesn't talk to him or his grandmother. And has said there is nothing wrong with BJ even though his been diagnosed has having semantic pragmatic disorder and mild aspergers. It's because i've poisoned his mind against them, and thats why he doesnt talk. So he said to me. The girls talk to him though so thats ok. Has i said if i'd done something like that the girls wouldnt talk either. I am so upset and mad all together, i can't explain how i feel, so i dread to think how the kids feel. Who the hell does he think he is saying there's nothing wrong with my son. He doesn't live with him. At the moment i will never take the kids back to the house to see him, if thats the attitude he has. But i know where its come from BJ's father, he refuses point blank to acknowledge his son has a problem, and thinks it's because he left when BJ was almost 4. But BJ was under a phycitrist b4 he was 2 yrs of age, and i was still with his dad then. I tried defending BJ to his grandfather but he wasn't interested in anything i had to say, and then proceeded in squareing up to me as though he was going to hit me, and told me to get out of his house. Im so sorry to rant and rave about this, but i hurt so much on what his said about BJ, i know ill never be able to forgive him, ever. No one says that about my son, especially family. It's certainly true what they say, you can pick your friends but not your family. BJ hasn't really said alot about it at all. I dont even know what his thinking. Going to try and sit with all the kids later tonight and see how they feel about it all. His gone through enough with out having this put on his shoulders, that his not allowed to go to see his grandparents, because he doesnt talk to anyone there. And that's the reason i got kicked out because i was defending my own son. So so so sorry to keep going on. Wish me luck plse.lol. Netty Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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