Re: Jackie/Janet Everyone Read !!

[Guest guest]

Jackie,

IMHO, Janet is right-on with the steps...moderate mail, etc. She laid

it out very well. was being a jerk today, but otherwise he's

been ok. Kinda sad to kick someone off for having a bad day.

IMHO, moderators should follow the owner's lead...not tell the owner

what to do.

Take care,

Jane

Re: Everyone Read !!

kick him out,, if you dont, I WILL,,

this is obscene,, sounds like one of the former members coming back

to make trouble,,

lets end this quickly,,

We love you Janet, this is crap,, dont worry,

jax

janet <doc_jade@...> wrote:

I am very upset. And it is not good to upset Janet. As many of the

older members here will attest to.

This is a group that has for a long time existed with the intention

of being a support group, a place to gather information,education.

We do not have flame wars here!! Understand. We do not put a person

down because of their nationality,place of residence,economical

situation,or their gender or lifestyle.

Now I think I have covered it all. But reserve the right to add a

addenum to my statement at any time.

The Owners and moderators will not allow any type of insults,flames

etc to be directed at or to another member here.

You will get one warning, then the next step will to be to put you

on moderated messages. After which if you continue then you will be

removed from the group.

Once again I will state reasons for this group, support,information,

education.

Janet

Owner

Janet

I am a rock, I am island...and a rock feels no pain, and a island

never cries...- Simon

[Guest guest]

Hi Jane

I know, and you are probably right, but billy was sending posts TO ME with

obscenities on them TO ME... that I will not allow... I dont send obsenities to

anyone else,, and I wont allow it to someone else either.. IF Janet wants to let

him back in,, Im sure she will, but until that happens, I have removed him from

this list... he can appologize to all of us here first....its one thing to be a

jerk, its another to pummel others with foul language..

jax

Jane <seyrek@...> wrote:

Jackie,

IMHO, Janet is right-on with the steps...moderate mail, etc. She laid

it out very well. was being a jerk today, but otherwise he's

been ok. Kinda sad to kick someone off for having a bad day.

IMHO, moderators should follow the owner's lead...not tell the owner

what to do.

Take care,

Jane

Re: Everyone Read !!

kick him out,, if you dont, I WILL,,

this is obscene,, sounds like one of the former members coming back

to make trouble,,

lets end this quickly,,

We love you Janet, this is crap,, dont worry,

jax

janet <doc_jade@...> wrote:

I am very upset. And it is not good to upset Janet. As many of the

older members here will attest to.

This is a group that has for a long time existed with the intention

of being a support group, a place to gather information,education.

We do not have flame wars here!! Understand. We do not put a person

down because of their nationality,place of residence,economical

situation,or their gender or lifestyle.

Now I think I have covered it all. But reserve the right to add a

addenum to my statement at any time.

The Owners and moderators will not allow any type of insults,flames

etc to be directed at or to another member here.

You will get one warning, then the next step will to be to put you

on moderated messages. After which if you continue then you will be

removed from the group.

Once again I will state reasons for this group, support,information,

education.

Janet

Owner

Janet

I am a rock, I am island...and a rock feels no pain, and a island

never cries...- Simon

[Guest guest]

I really doubt that " billy " has HCV, knows what HCV is, or anything about

it. He came in looking to get a response. He got one, the only one

appropriate for the behavior he displayed.

If I start talking like that please, kick me off!

Sal

Re: Jackie/Janet Everyone Read !!

Hi Jane

I know, and you are probably right, but billy was sending posts TO ME with

obscenities on them TO ME... that I will not allow... I dont send obsenities

to anyone else,, and I wont allow it to someone else either.. IF Janet wants

to let him back in,, Im sure she will, but until that happens, I have

removed him from this list... he can appologize to all of us here

first....its one thing to be a jerk, its another to pummel others with foul

language..

jax

Jane <seyrek@...> wrote:

Jackie,

IMHO, Janet is right-on with the steps...moderate mail, etc. She laid it

out very well. was being a jerk today, but otherwise he's been ok.

Kinda sad to kick someone off for having a bad day.

IMHO, moderators should follow the owner's lead...not tell the owner what to

do.

Take care,

Jane

Re: Everyone Read !!

kick him out,, if you dont, I WILL,,

this is obscene,, sounds like one of the former members coming back to

make trouble,,

lets end this quickly,,

We love you Janet, this is crap,, dont worry,

jax

janet <doc_jade@...> wrote:

I am very upset. And it is not good to upset Janet. As many of the older

members here will attest to.

This is a group that has for a long time existed with the intention of

being a support group, a place to gather information,education.

We do not have flame wars here!! Understand. We do not put a person down

because of their nationality,place of residence,economical situation,or

their gender or lifestyle.

Now I think I have covered it all. But reserve the right to add a addenum

to my statement at any time.

The Owners and moderators will not allow any type of insults,flames etc to

be directed at or to another member here.

You will get one warning, then the next step will to be to put you on

moderated messages. After which if you continue then you will be removed

from the group.

Once again I will state reasons for this group, support,information,

education.

Janet

Owner

Janet

I am a rock, I am island...and a rock feels no pain, and a island never

cries...- Simon

[Guest guest]

Hi Jax,

When I read his gazillion emails today, I kinda got the impression he

was drunk, or something. Sending tons of email, each one getting more

and more beligerent. I certainly won't miss him

Take care,

Jane

Re: Everyone Read !!

kick him out,, if you dont, I WILL,,

this is obscene,, sounds like one of the former members coming

back

to make trouble,,

lets end this quickly,,

We love you Janet, this is crap,, dont worry,

jax

janet <doc_jade@...> wrote:

I am very upset. And it is not good to upset Janet. As many of the

older members here will attest to.

This is a group that has for a long time existed with the

intention

of being a support group, a place to gather information,education.

We do not have flame wars here!! Understand. We do not put a

person

down because of their nationality,place of residence,economical

situation,or their gender or lifestyle.

Now I think I have covered it all. But reserve the right to add a

addenum to my statement at any time.

The Owners and moderators will not allow any type of

insults,flames

etc to be directed at or to another member here.

You will get one warning, then the next step will to be to put you

on moderated messages. After which if you continue then you will be

removed from the group.

Once again I will state reasons for this group,

support,information,

education.

Janet

Owner

Janet

I am a rock, I am island...and a rock feels no pain, and a island

never cries...- Simon

[Guest guest]

Hi Jane

Well Im glad you understand, I mean, its one thing to have a bad day, we all

have those but we do not abuse each other here and that will never be tolerated

by anyone.. Perhaps he was drinking, I dont know and dont really want to

speculate,, however, there is NEVER a reason for abusing the members of this

forum for ANY reason...

jax

Jane <seyrek@...> wrote:

Hi Jax,

When I read his gazillion emails today, I kinda got the impression he

was drunk, or something. Sending tons of email, each one getting more

and more beligerent. I certainly won't miss him

Take care,

Jane

Re: Everyone Read !!

kick him out,, if you dont, I WILL,,

this is obscene,, sounds like one of the former members coming

back

to make trouble,,

lets end this quickly,,

We love you Janet, this is crap,, dont worry,

jax

janet <doc_jade@...> wrote:

I am very upset. And it is not good to upset Janet. As many of the

older members here will attest to.

This is a group that has for a long time existed with the

intention

of being a support group, a place to gather information,education.

We do not have flame wars here!! Understand. We do not put a

person

down because of their nationality,place of residence,economical

situation,or their gender or lifestyle.

Now I think I have covered it all. But reserve the right to add a

addenum to my statement at any time.

The Owners and moderators will not allow any type of

insults,flames

etc to be directed at or to another member here.

You will get one warning, then the next step will to be to put you

on moderated messages. After which if you continue then you will be

removed from the group.

Once again I will state reasons for this group,

support,information,

education.

Janet

Owner

Janet

I am a rock, I am island...and a rock feels no pain, and a island

never cries...- Simon

[Guest guest]

Hi Jane

Janet wrote this

The Owners and moderators will not allow any type of insults,flames

etc to be directed at or to another member here.

You will get one warning, then the next step will to be to put you

on moderated messages. After which if you continue then you will be

removed from the group.

Once again I will state reasons for this group, support,information,

education.

HE was warned, but refused to stop, so he was removed all following the steps

lined out by Janet the forum owner.. I followed the rules,

jax

Jane <seyrek@...> wrote:

Jackie,

IMHO, Janet is right-on with the steps...moderate mail, etc. She laid

it out very well. was being a jerk today, but otherwise he's

been ok. Kinda sad to kick someone off for having a bad day.

IMHO, moderators should follow the owner's lead...not tell the owner

what to do.

Take care,

Jane

Re: Everyone Read !!

kick him out,, if you dont, I WILL,,

this is obscene,, sounds like one of the former members coming back

to make trouble,,

lets end this quickly,,

We love you Janet, this is crap,, dont worry,

jax

janet <doc_jade@...> wrote:

I am very upset. And it is not good to upset Janet. As many of the

older members here will attest to.

This is a group that has for a long time existed with the intention

of being a support group, a place to gather information,education.

We do not have flame wars here!! Understand. We do not put a person

down because of their nationality,place of residence,economical

situation,or their gender or lifestyle.

Now I think I have covered it all. But reserve the right to add a

addenum to my statement at any time.

The Owners and moderators will not allow any type of insults,flames

etc to be directed at or to another member here.

You will get one warning, then the next step will to be to put you

on moderated messages. After which if you continue then you will be

removed from the group.

Once again I will state reasons for this group, support,information,

education.

Janet

Owner

Janet

I am a rock, I am island...and a rock feels no pain, and a island

never cries...- Simon

[Guest guest]

If as Jane says he's been drinking (which we don't really know but he

did sound strange), then he's in trouble...and you don't kick your

members out when they're in trouble. Just like you don't throw your

kids away when they don't behave.

Read my previous post. He really misunderstood what I was saying.

I hate being called a " KNOW IT ALL " alot more than being called

a " liberal " ......but that's just me.

Sivia

> I am very upset. And it is not good to upset Janet. As many of

the

> older members here will attest to.

> This is a group that has for a long time existed with the

> intention

> of being a support group, a place to gather information,education.

> We do not have flame wars here!! Understand. We do not put a

> person

> down because of their nationality,place of residence,economical

> situation,or their gender or lifestyle.

> Now I think I have covered it all. But reserve the right to add

a

> addenum to my statement at any time.

> The Owners and moderators will not allow any type of

> insults,flames

> etc to be directed at or to another member here.

> You will get one warning, then the next step will to be to put

you

> on moderated messages. After which if you continue then you will

be

> removed from the group.

>

> Once again I will state reasons for this group,

> support,information,

> education.

>

> Janet

> Owner

>

> Janet

>

>

>

>

>

> I am a rock, I am island...and a rock feels no pain, and a

island

> never cries...- Simon

>

>

>

[Guest guest]

Hey Guys,

He what you didn't see (I put him on moderated messages)is that he started

abusing me. As a Owner. I have to keep the peace in this group. He was making

racial comments, foul language and so forth. If he apologizes to me and the

other moderators then he will be allow back in. But this was the decision of One

Owner and two moderators to remove him from the group till he finds it in him to

settle down.

Sorry folks, but this has to be a place of healing. One that people can come to

and find real support. Since most member recieve their messages via email, they

get subject to these episodes. Call it Tough Love if you have to .

Love

Janet

silvianursey <Bhprice425@...> wrote:

If as Jane says he's been drinking (which we don't really know but he

did sound strange), then he's in trouble...and you don't kick your

members out when they're in trouble. Just like you don't throw your

kids away when they don't behave.

Read my previous post. He really misunderstood what I was saying.

I hate being called a " KNOW IT ALL " alot more than being called

a " liberal " ......but that's just me.

Sivia

> I am very upset. And it is not good to upset Janet. As many of

the

> older members here will attest to.

> This is a group that has for a long time existed with the

> intention

> of being a support group, a place to gather information,education.

> We do not have flame wars here!! Understand. We do not put a

> person

> down because of their nationality,place of residence,economical

> situation,or their gender or lifestyle.

> Now I think I have covered it all. But reserve the right to add

a

> addenum to my statement at any time.

> The Owners and moderators will not allow any type of

> insults,flames

> etc to be directed at or to another member here.

> You will get one warning, then the next step will to be to put

you

> on moderated messages. After which if you continue then you will

be

> removed from the group.

>

> Once again I will state reasons for this group,

> support,information,

> education.

>

> Janet

> Owner

>

> Janet

>

>

>

>

>

> I am a rock, I am island...and a rock feels no pain, and a

island

> never cries...- Simon

>

>

>

[Guest guest]

Silvia

Im sure you have heard this already but he was emailing me privately and telling

me to F-off, calling me nasty names,, etc,, its not about booting a member out

when he is in trouble,, and there is NO comparison to our own children... if my

kids talked to me like that, they would get their mouth washed out with soap...

the ONLY thing we can do is to remove him..

I have written him a private email asking him what the heck is going on,, so

far, no answer, but if he comes back and has an appology to ME, to JANET and the

OTHERs, then THAT is a different story...

silvianursey <Bhprice425@...> wrote:

If as Jane says he's been drinking (which we don't really know but he

did sound strange), then he's in trouble...and you don't kick your

members out when they're in trouble. Just like you don't throw your

kids away when they don't behave.

Read my previous post. He really misunderstood what I was saying.

I hate being called a " KNOW IT ALL " alot more than being called

a " liberal " ......but that's just me.

Sivia

> I am very upset. And it is not good to upset Janet. As many of

the

> older members here will attest to.

> This is a group that has for a long time existed with the

> intention

> of being a support group, a place to gather information,education.

> We do not have flame wars here!! Understand. We do not put a

> person

> down because of their nationality,place of residence,economical

> situation,or their gender or lifestyle.

> Now I think I have covered it all. But reserve the right to add

a

> addenum to my statement at any time.

> The Owners and moderators will not allow any type of

> insults,flames

> etc to be directed at or to another member here.

> You will get one warning, then the next step will to be to put

you

> on moderated messages. After which if you continue then you will

be

> removed from the group.

>

> Once again I will state reasons for this group,

> support,information,

> education.

>

> Janet

> Owner

>

> Janet

>

>

>

>

>

> I am a rock, I am island...and a rock feels no pain, and a

island

> never cries...- Simon

>

>

>

[Guest guest]

Sal honey

IF you started talking like that, I WOULD email you privately and ask you what

was going on,, I would not just boot you out without attempting to talk with

you...

hugs

jax

Sally Hines <shines@...> wrote:

I really doubt that " billy " has HCV, knows what HCV is, or anything about

it. He came in looking to get a response. He got one, the only one

appropriate for the behavior he displayed.

If I start talking like that please, kick me off!

Sal

Re: Jackie/Janet Everyone Read !!

Hi Jane

I know, and you are probably right, but billy was sending posts TO ME with

obscenities on them TO ME... that I will not allow... I dont send obsenities

to anyone else,, and I wont allow it to someone else either.. IF Janet wants

to let him back in,, Im sure she will, but until that happens, I have

removed him from this list... he can appologize to all of us here

first....its one thing to be a jerk, its another to pummel others with foul

language..

jax

Jane <seyrek@...> wrote:

Jackie,

IMHO, Janet is right-on with the steps...moderate mail, etc. She laid it

out very well. was being a jerk today, but otherwise he's been ok.

Kinda sad to kick someone off for having a bad day.

IMHO, moderators should follow the owner's lead...not tell the owner what to

do.

Take care,

Jane

Re: Everyone Read !!

kick him out,, if you dont, I WILL,,

this is obscene,, sounds like one of the former members coming back to

make trouble,,

lets end this quickly,,

We love you Janet, this is crap,, dont worry,

jax

janet <doc_jade@...> wrote:

I am very upset. And it is not good to upset Janet. As many of the older

members here will attest to.

This is a group that has for a long time existed with the intention of

being a support group, a place to gather information,education.

We do not have flame wars here!! Understand. We do not put a person down

because of their nationality,place of residence,economical situation,or

their gender or lifestyle.

Now I think I have covered it all. But reserve the right to add a addenum

to my statement at any time.

The Owners and moderators will not allow any type of insults,flames etc to

be directed at or to another member here.

You will get one warning, then the next step will to be to put you on

moderated messages. After which if you continue then you will be removed

from the group.

Once again I will state reasons for this group, support,information,

education.

Janet

Owner

Janet

I am a rock, I am island...and a rock feels no pain, and a island never

cries...- Simon