I have learned from this.....

[Guest guest]

One more thought...I have learned from this....it would have been nice if you, Sharon, had said, "I don't want any help" -- "we have done all we know to do and I only need to vent" "give me a few months of venting and then maybe I'll want some help, or not" -- and then it would be your call as to when someone gave unsolicited advice to tell them to look at your record LOL -- that you just need to vent and don't want any suggestions...that you are overwhelmed.--- I will take away some thoughts from this for sure....When I need to vent and don't want any of your opinions...I will speak it loud and clear LOL...

My friend would crack up that I wrote this, as she's been the brunt of my, "don't give me any suggestions, I just want to scream" moments..... I start it by telling my friends (the ones who are quick to give answers) that I just need to hurt, to vent, to feel sorry for myself, and that I can get over it without there precious input.......I am blessed with ladies who know me --- and like me anyway

Ok, this is the last I'll speak to this.....I'm sad when anyone leaves the group --- but no one pushes anyone out...the choice is always our own......

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