Guest guest Posted May 26, 2009 Report Share Posted May 26, 2009 The issues we were told to be sensitive to included: 1. Surgeons don't like operating when the child has a fever, so try to time it if the child has a routine schedule to the fevers 2. Bleeding is a universal concern with all children, not just - that's what makes the surgery so dangerous. The surgeon should have a test taken to determine whether your child has a higher risk of bleeding. If that's the case, the surgeon will likely opt out of performing the surgery. 3. Don't have any guidance on whole or partial removal of the tonsils. We had them all taken out as well as the adenoids. Good luck. Regards, Nick Handrinos Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted May 27, 2009 Report Share Posted May 27, 2009 Hi Karin To answer your questions: 1) I don't think it matters that your ENT surgeon has no experience with kids as the T & A performed is the same as he would do on any other kid. The recovery is also the same with the same risks etc. Definitely have the entire tonsil removed - if it doesn't cure the fevers you don't want to wonder afterwards if you should have had a complete removal. Most doctors won't perform the op if the child is running a temperature so try and schedule it before or after an episode, if they are regular. 2) Because no one really knows why T & A works I can not explain to you why it is important to take the adenoids out as well but again, you don't want to wonder afterwards if results would have been different if you had taken the adenoids out as well. I would recommend to have both out while she's in theatre anyway. Hope that helps Regards Inga Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted May 27, 2009 Report Share Posted May 27, 2009 Our surgeon at Children's took extra caution with Sami also because he had never had a child with . He kept her in the hospital for 4 or 5 days and wanted to keep her longer(she refused to drink till she went home), he wanted to make sure she was drinking well. His main concern that she would fever (she was due for an episode right after) and since she had very high fevers would dehydrate. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted May 27, 2009 Report Share Posted May 27, 2009 Hi Karin, Our surgeon had performed the surgery on other patients prior to Landon. Landon had his surgery two days after a fever had started. We gave him the steriod right away which prevented a full blown episode. We were allowed to give steriods before surgery. Our surgeon gave Landon a " cocktail " (his words) of drugs I believe either right before the surgery or right after to prevent a fever from starting from the stress of the surgery. I believe it was steriods that Landon was given. I am not sure if this is common practice or not with T & A 's. Best of luck to you and your son! Jackie Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted May 27, 2009 Report Share Posted May 27, 2009 Make sure you are comfortable with your Dr. If not go to another who is not ignorant with children. Ask on this board for a Dr. in your area that has had dealings with children. Good Luck Leanne Coldwell Banker Residential 1585 Hwy 77 N. Ste. A Waxahachie, TX 75165 214-914-6851 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted May 28, 2009 Report Share Posted May 28, 2009 I'm just curious- did the surgery work? I'm new to this group and I was wondering when do you get to the point that you or the doctor decide surgery is the way to go? How do you go about it from an insurance standpoint? What's the reason for the surgery? I hope that's not too many questions. We go see the specialist at CCMC again today. At this point I'm not even sure what I have to say anymore- I feel like he hasn't said much to me in our proir viist. I'm so frustrated! Thanks Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted May 28, 2009 Report Share Posted May 28, 2009 Hi , I suspect that you have not had the chance to search the archives. Many of us on this board have gone the T & A route resulting in a 100% cure or near 100% cure. For a handful of people it did not work. Personally we came to the conclusion based on few studies that had overwheming results. Our son's results are consistent with the studies. These studies have been posted to the files section. Our ped encouraged us to go the T & A route because she had a few patients that it worked on (they have been patients of hers for years, and she has never seen the fevers return). We chose an ENT who is well known in the DC metro area and who had a decent amount of patients and also saw positive results. We too were frustrated with doctors, as long term meds were really not an option for us and most of them wanted to go this route. I'm really not satisfied with a 20% success rate, so once i read the research on T & A, and hearing first hand success stories here, I was lined up right away. It was a great choice for us because we just celebrated my son's first full year fever free. I suspect that I had as a child, as my mom ALWAYS talks about the scary fevers I had as a small child and how i was always sick. Clearly I outgrew it, but had terrible tonsil problems all through high school and remeber getting a fever 2 or so times a year that was terribly high. I believe most of these kids will eventually outgrow it (as I suppose I did), but we were too impatient to wait it out. When reading these messages I would get terrified seeing parents dealing with this problem on and off for years and years, so we were desparate to try the T & A and so far there are no regrets. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted May 28, 2009 Report Share Posted May 28, 2009 Hi , I suspect that you have not had the chance to search the archives. Many of us on this board have gone the T & A route resulting in a 100% cure or near 100% cure. For a handful of people it did not work. Personally we came to the conclusion based on few studies that had overwheming results. Our son's results are consistent with the studies. These studies have been posted to the files section. Our ped encouraged us to go the T & A route because she had a few patients that it worked on (they have been patients of hers for years, and she has never seen the fevers return). We chose an ENT who is well known in the DC metro area and who had a decent amount of patients and also saw positive results. We too were frustrated with doctors, as long term meds were really not an option for us and most of them wanted to go this route. I'm really not satisfied with a 20% success rate, so once i read the research on T & A, and hearing first hand success stories here, I was lined up right away. It was a great choice for us because we just celebrated my son's first full year fever free. I suspect that I had as a child, as my mom ALWAYS talks about the scary fevers I had as a small child and how i was always sick. Clearly I outgrew it, but had terrible tonsil problems all through high school and remeber getting a fever 2 or so times a year that was terribly high. I believe most of these kids will eventually outgrow it (as I suppose I did), but we were too impatient to wait it out. When reading these messages I would get terrified seeing parents dealing with this problem on and off for years and years, so we were desparate to try the T & A and so far there are no regrets. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted May 28, 2009 Report Share Posted May 28, 2009 Hi , I suspect that you have not had the chance to search the archives. Many of us on this board have gone the T & A route resulting in a 100% cure or near 100% cure. For a handful of people it did not work. Personally we came to the conclusion based on few studies that had overwheming results. Our son's results are consistent with the studies. These studies have been posted to the files section. Our ped encouraged us to go the T & A route because she had a few patients that it worked on (they have been patients of hers for years, and she has never seen the fevers return). We chose an ENT who is well known in the DC metro area and who had a decent amount of patients and also saw positive results. We too were frustrated with doctors, as long term meds were really not an option for us and most of them wanted to go this route. I'm really not satisfied with a 20% success rate, so once i read the research on T & A, and hearing first hand success stories here, I was lined up right away. It was a great choice for us because we just celebrated my son's first full year fever free. I suspect that I had as a child, as my mom ALWAYS talks about the scary fevers I had as a small child and how i was always sick. Clearly I outgrew it, but had terrible tonsil problems all through high school and remeber getting a fever 2 or so times a year that was terribly high. I believe most of these kids will eventually outgrow it (as I suppose I did), but we were too impatient to wait it out. When reading these messages I would get terrified seeing parents dealing with this problem on and off for years and years, so we were desparate to try the T & A and so far there are no regrets. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted May 29, 2009 Report Share Posted May 29, 2009 Hi You're correct, I just joined this group and haven't had a chance to look through everything. I thank you for you story. When my daughter was diagnosed the pediatrician gave me some info immediately regarding t & A as an option. I will be speaking to him today. As I understand the " average " is 35 to 59 episodes before they grow out of it. Since my daughter was diagnosed she's had 12- I'm not sure I want her to go through this for much longer. The specialist agreed that the t & a resulted in near 100% success rate but he was pretty reluctant . I'll keep you posted and thank you! It's so hard to make a decision like this for my baby girl !! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted May 29, 2009 Report Share Posted May 29, 2009 Hi You're correct, I just joined this group and haven't had a chance to look through everything. I thank you for you story. When my daughter was diagnosed the pediatrician gave me some info immediately regarding t & A as an option. I will be speaking to him today. As I understand the " average " is 35 to 59 episodes before they grow out of it. Since my daughter was diagnosed she's had 12- I'm not sure I want her to go through this for much longer. The specialist agreed that the t & a resulted in near 100% success rate but he was pretty reluctant . I'll keep you posted and thank you! It's so hard to make a decision like this for my baby girl !! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted May 29, 2009 Report Share Posted May 29, 2009 Hi You're correct, I just joined this group and haven't had a chance to look through everything. I thank you for you story. When my daughter was diagnosed the pediatrician gave me some info immediately regarding t & A as an option. I will be speaking to him today. As I understand the " average " is 35 to 59 episodes before they grow out of it. Since my daughter was diagnosed she's had 12- I'm not sure I want her to go through this for much longer. The specialist agreed that the t & a resulted in near 100% success rate but he was pretty reluctant . I'll keep you posted and thank you! It's so hard to make a decision like this for my baby girl !! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted May 29, 2009 Report Share Posted May 29, 2009 , we also chose the T & A route after I read as many studies as possible. Calder is now 6 months fever free. I am cautiously optimistic that he will not have anymore fevers. He has also grown and developed so much in the last six months. His preschool teacher noted that he has really " come into his own " in the last 6 months! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted May 29, 2009 Report Share Posted May 29, 2009 , we also chose the T & A route after I read as many studies as possible. Calder is now 6 months fever free. I am cautiously optimistic that he will not have anymore fevers. He has also grown and developed so much in the last six months. His preschool teacher noted that he has really " come into his own " in the last 6 months! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted May 29, 2009 Report Share Posted May 29, 2009 , we also chose the T & A route after I read as many studies as possible. Calder is now 6 months fever free. I am cautiously optimistic that he will not have anymore fevers. He has also grown and developed so much in the last six months. His preschool teacher noted that he has really " come into his own " in the last 6 months! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted May 29, 2009 Report Share Posted May 29, 2009 , For us the surgery worked, so far, I don't want to jinx it. Landon has been fever free since September. He has gained 7lbs. he actually is getting a little belly! He is a different child since his surgery. If the fevers do come back this break was worth it. We got to the point where it was just taking a toll on his quality of life. The prednisone made the fevers come every week. I hated that we were pumping so many drugs into this tiny body and came to the conclusion that the risk of surgery out weighed the risks of the long term effects of the drugs. Landon was almost 5 at the time of his surgery and it did not appear he was outgrowing any time soon. We struggled with the decision of surgery or not. I was terrified, it was very difficult. Our ped. was against the surgery which made it even more difficult. Our hematologist was totally on board and extremely helpful in finding a surgeon familiar with . Insurance was not a problem for us, it was completely covered. Good luck to you. It is a hard decision, do your research and follow your heart, you know what is best as a mom. Jackie Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted May 29, 2009 Report Share Posted May 29, 2009 , For us the surgery worked, so far, I don't want to jinx it. Landon has been fever free since September. He has gained 7lbs. he actually is getting a little belly! He is a different child since his surgery. If the fevers do come back this break was worth it. We got to the point where it was just taking a toll on his quality of life. The prednisone made the fevers come every week. I hated that we were pumping so many drugs into this tiny body and came to the conclusion that the risk of surgery out weighed the risks of the long term effects of the drugs. Landon was almost 5 at the time of his surgery and it did not appear he was outgrowing any time soon. We struggled with the decision of surgery or not. I was terrified, it was very difficult. Our ped. was against the surgery which made it even more difficult. Our hematologist was totally on board and extremely helpful in finding a surgeon familiar with . Insurance was not a problem for us, it was completely covered. Good luck to you. It is a hard decision, do your research and follow your heart, you know what is best as a mom. Jackie Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted May 29, 2009 Report Share Posted May 29, 2009 , For us the surgery worked, so far, I don't want to jinx it. Landon has been fever free since September. He has gained 7lbs. he actually is getting a little belly! He is a different child since his surgery. If the fevers do come back this break was worth it. We got to the point where it was just taking a toll on his quality of life. The prednisone made the fevers come every week. I hated that we were pumping so many drugs into this tiny body and came to the conclusion that the risk of surgery out weighed the risks of the long term effects of the drugs. Landon was almost 5 at the time of his surgery and it did not appear he was outgrowing any time soon. We struggled with the decision of surgery or not. I was terrified, it was very difficult. Our ped. was against the surgery which made it even more difficult. Our hematologist was totally on board and extremely helpful in finding a surgeon familiar with . Insurance was not a problem for us, it was completely covered. Good luck to you. It is a hard decision, do your research and follow your heart, you know what is best as a mom. Jackie Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted May 29, 2009 Report Share Posted May 29, 2009 I'm new here too. Is there a method to the archives by topic? I took a quick glance and read a few. Gramma Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted May 29, 2009 Report Share Posted May 29, 2009 I'm new here too. Is there a method to the archives by topic? I took a quick glance and read a few. Gramma Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted May 29, 2009 Report Share Posted May 29, 2009 I'm new here too. Is there a method to the archives by topic? I took a quick glance and read a few. Gramma Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted May 29, 2009 Report Share Posted May 29, 2009 Jackie, glad to hear Landon is doing so well:) Sorry I don't post much all, I read and keep up. Just don't want to jinx our good luck either:) Aiden also had his tonsels out (adenoids out the year prior) and has been fever free since september. He was 3 at the time he had his surgery. At that point he was on the prednisone which got rid of the fevers after the first dose, but were coming back about once a week. He has gained 8 pounds and several inches since september. He is like a whole different kid! Eats and sleeps like I never thought he would and just so much happier and sillier. Keeping our fingers crossed that this is our permanent solution, but just happy for now that things are going so well. Definately don't regret the decision for surgery although the immunologist was against it. I still really believe that for some kids there is a link to the fevers and the tonsels and andenoids. Aiden never had tonselitis or strep throat either. Good luck to all of you! Laurie Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted May 29, 2009 Report Share Posted May 29, 2009 Jackie, glad to hear Landon is doing so well:) Sorry I don't post much all, I read and keep up. Just don't want to jinx our good luck either:) Aiden also had his tonsels out (adenoids out the year prior) and has been fever free since september. He was 3 at the time he had his surgery. At that point he was on the prednisone which got rid of the fevers after the first dose, but were coming back about once a week. He has gained 8 pounds and several inches since september. He is like a whole different kid! Eats and sleeps like I never thought he would and just so much happier and sillier. Keeping our fingers crossed that this is our permanent solution, but just happy for now that things are going so well. Definately don't regret the decision for surgery although the immunologist was against it. I still really believe that for some kids there is a link to the fevers and the tonsels and andenoids. Aiden never had tonselitis or strep throat either. Good luck to all of you! Laurie Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted May 29, 2009 Report Share Posted May 29, 2009 Jackie, glad to hear Landon is doing so well:) Sorry I don't post much all, I read and keep up. Just don't want to jinx our good luck either:) Aiden also had his tonsels out (adenoids out the year prior) and has been fever free since september. He was 3 at the time he had his surgery. At that point he was on the prednisone which got rid of the fevers after the first dose, but were coming back about once a week. He has gained 8 pounds and several inches since september. He is like a whole different kid! Eats and sleeps like I never thought he would and just so much happier and sillier. Keeping our fingers crossed that this is our permanent solution, but just happy for now that things are going so well. Definately don't regret the decision for surgery although the immunologist was against it. I still really believe that for some kids there is a link to the fevers and the tonsels and andenoids. Aiden never had tonselitis or strep throat either. Good luck to all of you! Laurie Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted June 3, 2009 Report Share Posted June 3, 2009 Laurie, I remember, Aiden had his surgery around the same time as Landon. I am so happy it worked for him. Our story is the same, Landon is a different person. Life is so good! I never realized how the fevers affected our whole family until they were gone. Best of luck to you, hopefully this will last forever!! Jackie Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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