Guest guest Posted August 1, 2007 Report Share Posted August 1, 2007 http://www.cnn.com/2007/HEALTH/08/01/wheres.molly/index.html By Cohen CNN SEASIDE, Oregon (CNN) -- One day in 1957, when Jeff Daly was 6 years old, his little sister, Molly, disappeared. Jeff Daly's efforts to find his sister, Molly, led to a new Oregon law about records for institutions for the disabled. Every night at dinner, he would ask his parents the same question, " Where's Molly? " Every night, he says, he received the same answer: " Stop asking about Molly. " Decades later, Daly learned that his parents had sent Molly to a state institution nine days before her third birthday. Nearly 50 years later, Daly found his sister and made a documentary about his search. " Since the movie, literally hundreds of people have come up to us and said, 'I had a [relative] that I remember my family talking about that was sent away. Do you know how we can find out about that person?' " says Daly. Interactive: Watch Jeff Daly tell more about his and Molly's story » An increasing number of people are trying to reconnect with family members sent to live in institutions decades ago, advocates for the disabled say. ARC, a national advocacy organization for people with intellectual and developmental disabilities, has created a new online family registry and search service, the FindFamily Registry, to help with such reunions. Through the registry, the ArcLink, a family services venture associated with the ARC, is compiling a database of information from family members seeking loved ones, as well as from caregivers hoping to find relatives of the people they're caring for. From that database, ArcLink staff will work to make connections. To prevent abuse, the ArcLink will carefully screen people seeking information. When a match is found, both parties will be notified. It's unknown exactly how many children were institutionalized in the last century. In 1967, at the height of institutionalization, as many as 100,000 children were housed in 162 state facilities across the U.S., according to Charlie Lakin, a professor at the University of Minnesota who studies the history of institutionalization. Other experts put the number of institutions as high as 200. Most of the people sent to institutions had some sort of developmental disability -- Down syndrome, retardation, cerebral palsy or autism, for example. Some also were sent to institutions because they were viewed as " slow. " Many had other kinds of secondary disabilities, such as being in a wheelchair. In a few cases, able- bodied people also ended up in state facilities because their families could not support them financially. Watch a clip from Jeff Daly's documentary " Where's Molly? " » Conditions could be horrific, Lakin said. Residents were sometimes restrained in leather cuffs or straitjackets, overly sedated, isolated for long periods of time, and in many cases, sterilized. Many had little or no contact with their families. Read the first- person story of a mom's love for her disabled son. Such treatment was considered appropriate. Over the 19th centuries and 20th centuries, society's treatment of people with intellectual disabilities changed. From an early mission of training " productive workers " who would return to their communities, state schools for the disabled evolved into often overcrowded permanent homes, as fear and stigma colored public attitudes about people who were different. Many parents also didn't have the means or support system to keep a child with a disability at home. There was no " mainstreaming " of children with disabilities in schools. Interactive: How attitudes toward people with intellectual disabilities have changed » In the 1960s, under President F. Kennedy, who himself had an intellectually handicapped sister, new federal laws boosted funding for resources and research on intellectual disabilities. In the 1970s, after a series of lawsuits in federal courts led to a push toward independent living for people with intellectual disabilities, the institutions began closing. Most residents were sent to smaller group homes. As difficult as it is for modern-day parents to fathom, parents sent children away under the advice of their doctors, historians say. " Back then, the standard physician message to parents with a disabled infant was, 'You can't handle this. Give the baby to the state, and don't worry about it,' " says Elbert s, president of ArcLink, which provides information about services and service providers and technology resources to families of the developmentally disabled. FIND A LOST LOVED ONE If you've lost touch with a loved one who was sent to live in a state institution for the developmentally disabled, the FindFamily Registry, a free new online service from the advocacy and support groups ARC and ArcLink, may be able to help you reconnect. www.FindFamilyRegistry.org Bill Lynch, executive director of the Oregon Council on Developmental Disabilities, says it's hard to appreciate the culture of decades ago. " There was a lot of shame on the part of these families, " he said. " There was such a huge stigma to disability. We're still getting over that. " Many who try to reconnect do so against the wishes of the parents of the disabled child, who still feel that shame, s says. " There was once a motivation on the part of families to dump and forget, " s says. " The parents made a major life decision decades ago, and now somebody's questioning that. " But he said when people do reach out, " that reconnection is pretty precious. " Molly's medical records indicate that she was born with a club foot and a lazy eye, which was left blind after surgery. When she was around 2, records show, doctors amended her diagnosis to " profoundly retarded, " a characterization that Daly doubts but has no proof to contradict. Daly says his father tried to stay connected to Molly and visited her at Fairview, the Oregon state institution where she had gone to live. But because Molly became so upset each time he left, the staff asked him to stop coming, Daly says. Daly says his own search for Molly, which he recounts in the documentary " Where's Molly? " was relatively easy. Even though his parents wouldn't talk about Molly after she left, his father kept meticulous records. In 2004, after his parents had died, Daly found the phone number for the group home where Molly was sent after Fairview closed in 2000. " He left clues for us. He left us little bits of information that gave us the ability to find Molly, " he says. " I know he wanted me to find Molly. " Cohen is a correspondent with CNN Medical News. Senior producer Pifer contributed to this report. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted August 1, 2007 Report Share Posted August 1, 2007 These are not the Hidden Horde. They are not hidden because they are already counted. The numbers of those disabled from things other than autism has remained constant, despite the decade plus increase in the rate of autism. The hidden horde lie outside of those already counted with disabilities. Lenny > > http://www.cnn.com/2007/HEALTH/08/01/wheres.molly/index.html > > By Cohen > CNN > > SEASIDE, Oregon (CNN) -- One day in 1957, when Jeff Daly was 6 years > old, his little sister, Molly, disappeared. > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted August 1, 2007 Report Share Posted August 1, 2007 Lenny, Hidden from their families. This guy didn't know what happened to his little sister until his parents died. Maybe as the neuro-diverse would like us to believe, there are hundred's of thousands of people that have been locked up in institutions away from their families. Look hundreds of people have already contacted this man since he did this documentary about finding his siter. Now, if we can all believe most of these missing families members have autism (even if they had a different diagnosis) it can help support the ND claim that these people have always been here and as they claim in many cases locked away in institutions. Come on Lenny work with me here. > > > > http://www.cnn.com/2007/HEALTH/08/01/wheres.molly/index.html > > > > By Cohen > > CNN > > > > SEASIDE, Oregon (CNN) -- One day in 1957, when Jeff Daly was 6 years > > old, his little sister, Molly, disappeared. > > > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted August 1, 2007 Report Share Posted August 1, 2007 > Come on Lenny work with me here. Hi , I'm all for diplomatically correcting the innocent errors of others, but in this case ** RUDE BUZZAR SOUND - WRONG! ** (wink) The ND argument (and other mercury apologists) that the horde is hidden because of diagnostic substitution is not true based on the relative constant rates of the non-autistic disabled. When the autism rate skyrocketed, the other categories should have tanked respectively if it were diagnostic substitution. They haven't. Which is what I said in my previous post. The hidden horde, from Blaxill's Hidden Horde theory, is not hidden from their families. They do not exist. And CNN cannot find them, unless of course, they get a whole bunch more advertising from Pharma. Did you know that " ND " is slang for mosquitoes? SLAP!* Lenny * Metaphoric. > > > > > > http://www.cnn.com/2007/HEALTH/08/01/wheres.molly/index.html > > > > > > By Cohen > > > CNN > > > > > > SEASIDE, Oregon (CNN) -- One day in 1957, when Jeff Daly was 6 > years > > > old, his little sister, Molly, disappeared. > > > > > > > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted August 1, 2007 Report Share Posted August 1, 2007 I agree . I watched the little 2 minute preview on CNN about the documentary. " Where's Molly " and bawled like a baby listening to this gentleman talk about his sister and looking at the pictures of them together since they reunited. All those lost years. I can't help but look at someone like her and wonder what possible abuse or neglect she may have suffered over the years at the hands of her caregivers. I know it is so cyncial to think that I'm sure she encountered loving ones too (at least I hope).And as you said the loneliness and isolation. I'll be watching the documentray tonight, with my box of tissues feeling thankful that is not how things are today. Oh I don't for one minute think that the increase in autism is not real- I hope my post did not come across that way. > > > > > > http://www.cnn. > <http://www.cnn.com/2007/HEALTH/08/01/wheres.molly/index.html> > com/2007/HEALTH/08/01/wheres.molly/index.html > > > > > > By Cohen > > > CNN > > > > > > SEASIDE, Oregon (CNN) -- One day in 1957, when Jeff Daly was 6 > years > > > old, his little sister, Molly, disappeared. > > > > > > > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted August 1, 2007 Report Share Posted August 1, 2007 We used to have a woman attend our local support group meeting and she wanted information about how to help her 57 year old brother with autism with dietary changes, supplemetns etc... Because he had been in the " system " she had no say so or luck in trying to get any of these things implemented for him. He was on a bunch of high powered psycho-tropics that she really wanted them to cut back on, but the doctor would not work with her and the red tape was unbelieveable. She still attended the meetings seeking information and kept trying to change the " system " for her brother. I've moved, so I don't know what happened with that situation but, my heart used to break for her because she wanted so badly to help him, but she had no power or say so in what was done with him. I'll be thinking of you as I watch tonight and I thank you for sharing your experiences. You and your parents should take comfort in knowing that you helped more than a few people in need and your kindness probably went much further than you know. But I understand it is still so depressing and sad. PS. I am glad we are always on the same page. I wish my husband would get with the program! LOL > > Oh no, I totally get you realize the increase is there!! I am always on the > same page as everything you write. I just thought I would state my > experience. Although, I don't like talking about it often because it was a > really heartbreaking time and it hurts even more now having a son with ASD. > I will fight till my dying day not to have him go through what I saw then. > Things have changed and I am grateful, but not enough. I wish I could take > the biomedical tools I have now back in time to help some of those very > special, loving people from those hospitals and group homes. Thank goodness > I have them now to try and help my son and I won't stop until I find the > whole picture for him. The past is the past but it would be a crime if we > didn't learn anything from it. > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted August 2, 2007 Report Share Posted August 2, 2007 I read about this family a while back in Readers Digest: http://www.rd.com/ > > > > > > > > http://www.cnn. > > <http://www.cnn.com/2007/HEALTH/08/01/wheres.molly/index.html> > > com/2007/HEALTH/08/01/wheres.molly/index.html > > > > > > > > By Cohen > > > > CNN > > > > > > > > SEASIDE, Oregon (CNN) -- One day in 1957, when Jeff Daly was 6 > > years > > > > old, his little sister, Molly, disappeared. > > > > > > > > > > > > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted August 2, 2007 Report Share Posted August 2, 2007 OK, here is what I don't understand... The number of people with MR has indeed remained rather constant, although the overall trend has been a very slight upward creep. Autism has skyrocketed. But according to some " experts " , autism has grown because of diagnostic substitution, so really autism is merely better recognized. But wait, autism used to be called MR by many, and yet the number of people with MR has not gone down proportionally to the rise in autism. And here is where I really get confused... One of the leading cause of MR has been childhood diseases, most especially pertussis, measles and rubella. So our national vaccination campaign has successfully greatly reduced MR as a result of controlling these diseases. But the number of kids with MR has not gone down, and in fact is very slightly creeping up. This is all so bewildering. Good thing we have all those PhD's to tell us what to think. Re: ALERT: CNN found the Hidden Horde Posted by: " schaferatsprynet " schafer@... schaferatsprynet Wed Aug 1, 2007 12:46 pm (PST) These are not the Hidden Horde. They are not hidden because they are already counted. The numbers of those disabled from things other than autism has remained constant, despite the decade plus increase in the rate of autism. The hidden horde lie outside of those already counted with disabilities. Lenny ________________________________________________________________________________\ ____ Park yourself in front of a world of choices in alternative vehicles. Visit the Auto Green Center. http://autos./green_center/ Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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