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Maybe. Maybe not. My 3 autistic boys who are slowly recovering LOCKED ME

OUT OF THE HOUSE ON PURPOSE!!! They thought they were real funny. They

even locked the bar lock up on top which we used to have for THEM!!! I had

my cell phone with me; stuck my head through the crack, told them to open up

now I'm calling their father they are in so much trouble etc. etc.

I will never tell them, but this is a huge developmental milestone. They

had to conspire together to do this and agree to (giggle, giggle) not answer

my cries. Then the eldest finally came and said, " Oh, we forgot you were

outside. " Talk about " exiting nirvana " . Forget problems with theory of

mind. He LIED. Hooray!!!!

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>Date: Wed, 25 Jul 2007 21:40:26 EDT

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>Maybe the world would be a better place if we were autistic; in believing

>and trusting everyone at face value.

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>_http://scienceblogs.com/cortex/2007/07/the_honesty_of_autism.php_

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A friend was telling me today that she felt so guilty the first time

she told her previously non-verbal daughter to hush. Autism has really

shown me appreciation of things we so readily can take for granted.

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LOL. The other day at chelation I actually said this phrase to my son:

" we are not having this conversation anymore " .

He kept saying how we were going to be done in 10 minutes and I was trying to

explain to

him it wasn't timed, but whenever the bag was done- he was done. We've been

doing it

for almost a year, but recently added a new bag- which I think threw him off a

little.

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> A friend was telling me today that she felt so guilty the first time

> she told her previously non-verbal daughter to hush. Autism has really

> shown me appreciation of things we so readily can take for granted.

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> Debi

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Awesome ;)

Following OT story...

One day when I was taking my daughter to preschool, my middle son

decided to pitch a fit about something... Screaming, yelling, etc...

So, I get out of the car to drag his butt into the school when he

locks me out of the car (of course the keys are sitting in the front

seat). After a few minutes of trying to coerce him into letting me

in... he wasn't budging. Of course I had the baby sitting in his

car seat who starts screaming as well. In an effort to try to

convince my middle guy to open the door, I point at the baby and try

to explain to him (through the window) how sad the baby was without

mommy. Instead of letting me in, he unbuckles the baby and lifts

him out of his seat and plops (and I mean plops) him on the back

seat. Baby rolls of the backseat and onto the floor of the

backseat - face down (screaming like a madman). Thankfully

(although I did fear being arrested), there was a police officer

directing traffic nearby. I called him over. As soon as the middle

guy sees the officer, he unlocks the door... Poor officer, he

couldn't have been much older than 21. I'm sure he didn't have

kids. He had no clue what was going on. All he asked me

was... " Was that baby in his car seat when you were driving " ? To

which, I start crying and said... " Yes, of course " ... To which, he

said, " Ok, have a great day Ma'am " ....

That sucked...

>

> Maybe. Maybe not. My 3 autistic boys who are slowly recovering

LOCKED ME

> OUT OF THE HOUSE ON PURPOSE!!! They thought they were real

funny. They

> even locked the bar lock up on top which we used to have for

THEM!!! I had

> my cell phone with me; stuck my head through the crack, told them

to open up

> now I'm calling their father they are in so much trouble etc. etc.

>

> I will never tell them, but this is a huge developmental

milestone. They

> had to conspire together to do this and agree to (giggle, giggle)

not answer

> my cries. Then the eldest finally came and said, " Oh, we forgot

you were

> outside. " Talk about " exiting nirvana " . Forget problems with

theory of

> mind. He LIED. Hooray!!!!

>

>

> >From: blessingsx10@...

> >Reply-EOHarm

> >EOHarm

> >Subject: Re: The Honesty of Autism

> >Date: Wed, 25 Jul 2007 21:40:26 EDT

> >

> >Maybe the world would be a better place if we were autistic; in

believing

> >and trusting everyone at face value.

> >

> >_http://scienceblogs.com/cortex/2007/07/the_honesty_of_autism.php_

> >(http://scienceblogs.com/cortex/2007/07/the_honesty_of_autism.php)

> >

> >

> >

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all-new AOL

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I love these stories! These are things that all NT kids do, but often,

ASD kids cannot. When they finally show such behaviors that would get

their peers in trouble, we find ourselves rejoicing...and why not,

it's what we have been working for!

Since beginning Actos and oxytocin nasal spray, my 6 yo grandson went

from little interest in joining group acyivities, to participatng in a

community play, T-ball, swim lessons & swim team (even though he

walked across the pool at his first meet...lol). He watched his sibs

as one tried to teach the other to dive, and he tried it too. He asks

his brother to shoot hoops with him, and even asked me to take him

golfing! Now he wants to join the cross country team with his older

brother in the fall.

He still cannot " lie " successfully and I suppose that's a good thing,

but he can now tell little fibs such as " I didn't do it " or " It's

MacKenzie's fault " . He is even beginning to " tease " appropriately. The

other day, he snuck his sister's shorts from under her towel and

tossed them into the pool, giggling devilishly. He did the same a few

days later, with her goggles.

Crazy, but I have found myself becoming irritated with his brother for

doing the same things, just a few years go. Now we are ALL cheering

him on, because it is another step forward. It's sad in a way, that it

takes diet, supplements, chelation, etc., to help our kids to fib,

tease and manipulate. But then, it was lies, deceit and manipulation

by our trusted pharma guys, gov't puppets and misinformed Doctors that

caused most of these kids to become autistc in the fist place!

......Gee, is my bitterness coming out again????

-Trish

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> Maybe the world would be a better place if we were autistic; in

believing

> and trusting everyone at face value.

>

> _http://scienceblogs.com/cortex/2007/07/the_honesty_of_autism.php_

> (http://scienceblogs.com/cortex/2007/07/the_honesty_of_autism.php)

>

>

>

> ************************************** Get a sneak peek of the all-

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