Re: Re: broken bones / Sex

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I've been interested in this, but it's very private and secretive. How did

you get involved?

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Behalf Of Amy

Sent: Sunday, November 02, 2008 5:21 PM

Subject: Re: Re: broken bones / Sex

Importance: High

Totally serious!

On Nov 2, 2008, at 8:17 PM, wrote:

> Swingers weekend? Serious?

>

> Kemp

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> From: <mailto:%40>

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> On

> Behalf Of Amy

> Sent: Sunday, November 02, 2008 2:33 PM

> <mailto:%40>

> Subject: Re: Re: broken bones / Sex

>

> Actually, I'd have no problem with that. LOL! My secret sadness about

> this whole cough bullshit is it's keeping us from going to our

> swingers weekend!

> On Nov 2, 2008, at 5:30 PM, Lori G wrote:

>

> > Pictures or a short video would be helpful. Ok, thanks!

> >

> > Just kidding!

> >

> > L

>

>

[Guest guest]

Yeah, I think I need the How-To video. :-)

On 11/2/08 4:08 PM, " Amy " <blueyedaze@...> wrote:

> Very well? LOL! Or were you looking more for a description of the

> hows? hehe Either way, ask away.

>

> On Nov 2, 2008, at 5:05 PM, wrote:

>

>> > How does that work???? :-)

>> >

>> > On 11/2/08 3:48 PM, " Amy " <blueyedaze@... <mailto:blueyedaze%40aol.com>

>> > wrote:

>> >

>>> > > I REALLY like being on top or straddling him in a chair. *purrs*

>>> > >

>>> > > On Nov 2, 2008, at 4:00 PM, Amy wrote:

>>> > >

>>>>> > >> >

>>>>> > >> > Try the spoon position {both on your side curved together like

>> > spoons

>>>>> > >> > do in a drawer hence the name}

>>>>> > >> >

>>>>> > >> > A variation a dr advised me of is- the woman's on her back

>> > while the

>>>>> > >> > guy curls up on his side around you. This works great if you

>> > have a

>>>>> > >> > tipped lower back curve. And if you have leg contractures you put

>>>>> > >> > your legs over the guys thighs while he's on his side.

>>>>> > >> >

>>>>> > >> > The guy needs to be abled to move his hips in the right motions

>>>>> > >> > though so this position dosen't work for everyone it also is

>> > not a

>>>>> > >> > good position if the guy has a very large belly cause you'll

>>>>> > >> > get 'belly bucked' around the bed.

>>>>> > >> >

>>>>> > >> >

>>>>>>>>> > >>>> > > >

>>>>>>>>> > >>>> > > >

>>>>>>>>> > >>>> > > > my hip ALWAYS pops. its so annoying

>>>>>>>>> > >>>> > > >

>>>>>>>>> > >>>> > > >

>>>>>>>>> > >>>> > > >

>>>>>>>>> > >>>> > > >

>>>>>>>>> > >>>> > > >

>>>>>>>>> > >>>> > > > Jade

>>>>>>>>> > >>>> > > >

>>>>>>> > >>> > >

>>>>>>> > >>> > > Hi all,

>>>>>>> > >>> > >

>>>>>>> > >>> > > sorry for beeing indiscreet but that's just between us ;-)

>>>>>>> > >>> > >

>>>>>>> > >>> > > How do you have sex? When I read about broken bones and

>> > popping

>>>>> > >> > hips I

>>>>>>> > >>> > > get scared. :-) Something like that never happened to me.

>> > (Yes, I

>>>>> > >> > know

>>>>>>> > >>> > > what you think: " Not until now " . LOL)

>>>>>>> > >>> > >

>>>>>>> > >>> > > As far as I recall there was a group about SMA and sex. Does

>> > it

>>>>> > >> > still

>>>>>>> > >>> > > exist?

>>>>>>> > >>> > >

>>>>>>> > >>> > > Have a nice day,

>>>>>>> > >>> > > Camilla

>>>>>>> > >>> > >

>>>>>>> > >>> > >

>>>>>>> > >>> > >

>>>>>>> > >>> > >

>>>>>>> > >>> > >

>>>>>>> > >>> > >

>>>>>>> > >>> > >

[Guest guest]

I agree. You just have to teach him and experiment to find out what is

comfortable for your body during sex. The ³getting to know² your body can

be part of the fun! :-)

On 11/2/08 5:08 PM, " VickiLJurney@... " <VickiLJurney@...> wrote:

> Don't worry about breaking bones during sex. I never have, and I'm in between

> a Type I & II. If you have a loving, caring, gentle partner, it will work out

> fine. Trust and good communication is a must.

>

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[Guest guest]

I'm hearing a lot of concern about broken bones and sex on here. Those

that are worried about brittle bones should remember that love and

sexuality is much, much more broad than the intercourse positions

discussed on here. That is making it too narrow.

For me, it's about loving and helping and giving good feelings to my

girlfriend/fiance. A lot of happiness can come from words, songs,

poems, touching and kissing and making one another feel good. We're

doing all we can to love and support each other and our needs, and are

really happy together. That we aren't doing the stuff described on-list

(we need to get an apartment) typically doesn't even occur to us,

because just love and touch is more and more fulfilling every week.

So don't worry about the more " athletic " moves or breaking bones.

Love and sexuality is much, much more.

Best,

Nick

[Guest guest]

I agree, to some extent... but connect sexually AND emotionally is

just indescribable.

On Nov 4, 2008, at 2:48 PM, Amy wrote:

>

> That is so true.

>

> At another group about sex and the disabled there aren't many

> who understand and get it that it's what's between your ears and in

> your heart that count not what's between the legs.

>

>

> >

> > I'm hearing a lot of concern about broken bones and sex on here.

> Those

> > that are worried about brittle bones should remember that love and

> > sexuality is much, much more broad than the intercourse positions

> > discussed on here. That is making it too narrow.

> >

> > For me, it's about loving and helping and giving good feelings to

> my

> > girlfriend/fiance. A lot of happiness can come from words, songs,

> > poems, touching and kissing and making one another feel good.

> We're

> > doing all we can to love and support each other and our needs, and

> are

> > really happy together. That we aren't doing the stuff described on-

> list

> > (we need to get an apartment) typically doesn't even occur to us,

> > because just love and touch is more and more fulfilling every week.

> >

> > So don't worry about the more " athletic " moves or breaking bones.

> >

> > Love and sexuality is much, much more.

> >

> > Best,

> >

> > Nick

> >

>

>

>

[Guest guest]

Love and pleasure is way deeper than physical acts (not that they don't

matter, they do, but to forget the emotional and spiritual depth of it

all is MISSING THE POINT, I think).

That much pleasure, it's just a special, sacred thing in my world view.

Nick

Camilla wrote:

>

> That is exactly my point of view. Body and mind - wonderful!

>

> Have a nice day,

> Camilla

>

>

> > > >

> > > > I'm hearing a lot of concern about broken bones and sex on here.

> > > Those

> > > > that are worried about brittle bones should remember that love and

> > > > sexuality is much, much more broad than the intercourse positions

> > > > discussed on here. That is making it too narrow.

> > > >

> > > > For me, it's about loving and helping and giving good feelings to

> > > my

> > > > girlfriend/fiance. A lot of happiness can come from words, songs,

> > > > poems, touching and kissing and making one another feel good.

> > > We're

> > > > doing all we can to love and support each other and our needs, and

> > > are

> > > > really happy together. That we aren't doing the stuff described on-

> > > list

> > > > (we need to get an apartment) typically doesn't even occur to us,

> > > > because just love and touch is more and more fulfilling every week.

> > > >

> > > > So don't worry about the more " athletic " moves or breaking bones.

> > > >

> > > > Love and sexuality is much, much more.

> > > >

> > > > Best,

> > > >

> > > > Nick

> > > >

> > >

> > >

> > >

> >

> >

> >

> >

[Guest guest]

I don't think anyone is disagreeing with you.  Even if they are, it's all a

matter of personal opinion/beliefs.

L 

 

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From: Nick Dupree <nick@...>

Sent: Wednesday, November 5, 2008 5:16:49 PM

Subject: Re: Re: broken bones / Sex

Love and pleasure is way deeper than physical acts (not that they don't

matter, they do, but to forget the emotional and spiritual depth of it

all is MISSING THE POINT, I think).

That much pleasure, it's just a special, sacred thing in my world view.

Nick

Camilla wrote:

>

> That is exactly my point of view. Body and mind - wonderful!

>

> Have a nice day,

> Camilla

>

>

> > > >

> > > > I'm hearing a lot of concern about broken bones and sex on here.

> > > Those

> > > > that are worried about brittle bones should remember that love and

> > > > sexuality is much, much more broad than the intercourse positions

> > > > discussed on here. That is making it too narrow.

> > > >

> > > > For me, it's about loving and helping and giving good feelings to

> > > my

> > > > girlfriend/fiance. A lot of happiness can come from words, songs,

> > > > poems, touching and kissing and making one another feel good.

> > > We're

> > > > doing all we can to love and support each other and our needs, and

> > > are

> > > > really happy together. That we aren't doing the stuff described on-

> > > list

> > > > (we need to get an apartment) typically doesn't even occur to us,

> > > > because just love and touch is more and more fulfilling every week.

> > > >

> > > > So don't worry about the more " athletic " moves or breaking bones.

> > > >

> > > > Love and sexuality is much, much more.

> > > >

> > > > Best,

> > > >

> > > > Nick

> > > >

> > >

> > >

> > >

> >

> >

> >

> >