Guest guest Posted August 3, 2005 Report Share Posted August 3, 2005 Ooh! How exciting! I'm envious. I'm still demoing the Permobil right now. All around, it's not for me. I've actually lost more independence than have gained from the seat functions and I feel extremely unsafe riding in the thing outside. I'm in touch now with a vendor who will let me test drive the Bounder H-Plus!!! This is the one I want so much so I hope I'm comfy and free in the thing! <3 Kendra > Tomorrow at 11:30 h is trying out two different powerchairs. The two we're considering at this point are the TDX 5 and the new Quantum 600. The wheelchair guy is also bringing a few different types of seating for her to try out. The honeycomb (can't remember what the heck it's called) and one other. She's really excited so y'all cross your fingers that one of them is exactly what she wants! > We already know that the chair she gets is going to have the power elevation, tilt, recline and elevating leg rests. The debate now is whether 1mph difference in speed (the quantum only does 6.5 and the TDX does 7.5) would override the fact that the quantum is rated for 4 inch curbs right now and they are testing them on higher curbs. > Cross your fingers for us!!!!!!!! > > > > Love and Hugs > Jeni > > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted August 4, 2005 Report Share Posted August 4, 2005 In a message dated 8/3/2005 10:14:11 P.M. Central Standard Time, mom2armybratz@... writes: quantum only does 6.5 and the TDX does 7.5) would override the fact that the quantum is rated for 4 inch curbs right now and they are testing them on higher curbs. I have a TDX for about a year. I'm not sure how strong h is but I can say I don't think I'd like to go up/down four inches. I go over 1 inch and get bounced around. My head falls. I might bite my tongue. If I did go down four inches I would do it slow and with someone near by. A kid might go full blast alone..... Will a kid know not to go down an 8 inch drop? I drove in the lake when I was 4! lol Most curbs (in my area) have curb cuts and most steps are more than 4inches. Unless you go camping or travel to a country will less accessibility I'm not sure climbing 4 inches is so great. If you have good upper body control yes maybe it is. I just got two fold up portable ramps. One is 3 ft for curbs and 1-2 steps and one 8 ft for 4 steps. I can keep the small one in my mini van all the time if I need to get up something on the spur of the moment. (oh, all my friends/pa say my mini van drives like a car) If I go to a friends with 3 steps I put the 8 ft in. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted August 4, 2005 Report Share Posted August 4, 2005 Thanks for your input! h tried them both out today and liked the way the quantum felt much better than the TDX. In our area there aren't a lot of sidewalks and in some places you might have to walk an additional several hundred feet to get to a cut out where there are sidewalks. Anytime she went down a curb there would obviously be an adult with her to ensure her safety and I'm not sure that she'd even attempt it without an adult there to hold her head. She's actually pretty cautious for a 9 year old so I don't worry too much about that. Some of our family/friends have asked why she isn't getting that new i-bot chair (that climbs steps) and the safety issue is the reason. Maybe when she's older and understands the risks involved, but not now. The best news of the day is that her vendor thinks he can have the chair to her before Christmas! That would be one heck of a gift!!!!!! Hugs Jeni esma1999@... wrote: In a message dated 8/3/2005 10:14:11 P.M. Central Standard Time, mom2armybratz@... writes: quantum only does 6.5 and the TDX does 7.5) would override the fact that the quantum is rated for 4 inch curbs right now and they are testing them on higher curbs. I have a TDX for about a year. I'm not sure how strong h is but I can say I don't think I'd like to go up/down four inches. I go over 1 inch and get bounced around. My head falls. I might bite my tongue. If I did go down four inches I would do it slow and with someone near by. A kid might go full blast alone..... Will a kid know not to go down an 8 inch drop? I drove in the lake when I was 4! lol Most curbs (in my area) have curb cuts and most steps are more than 4inches. Unless you go camping or travel to a country will less accessibility I'm not sure climbing 4 inches is so great. If you have good upper body control yes maybe it is. I just got two fold up portable ramps. One is 3 ft for curbs and 1-2 steps and one 8 ft for 4 steps. I can keep the small one in my mini van all the time if I need to get up something on the spur of the moment. (oh, all my friends/pa say my mini van drives like a car) If I go to a friends with 3 steps I put the 8 ft in. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted August 4, 2005 Report Share Posted August 4, 2005 I did have a sound system on mine in jr. high lol That was coooooool! Jenifer Woody <mom2armybratz@...> wrote: The demo went great and we are going with the quantum 6000 (the 600 was a typo). h loves the way the 600 (closest thing available to try since the 6000 isn't out yet) feels and we can get all of the features she needs on it. Glenn (or vendor) thinks he can have it to her by Christmas!!!!!!!! I have told her that she better pick one she really likes cuz this is IT for about 5 years. No more using the " she outgrew it " excuse. We may have a custom paint job done on it as well since the frame is all painted instead of a shroud. You know that paint that changes colors in the sun? We're considering have that put on it! Then we're getting the ground effect lights and lighted anti-tip wheels for her. All that will be missing is a sound system! *LOL* Hope your chair comes through soon!!! Hugs Jeni Kendra wrote: Ooh! How exciting! I'm envious. I'm still demoing the Permobil right now. All around, it's not for me. I've actually lost more independence than have gained from the seat functions and I feel extremely unsafe riding in the thing outside. I'm in touch now with a vendor who will let me test drive the Bounder H-Plus!!! This is the one I want so much so I hope I'm comfy and free in the thing! <3 Kendra > Tomorrow at 11:30 h is trying out two different powerchairs. The two we're considering at this point are the TDX 5 and the new Quantum 600. The wheelchair guy is also bringing a few different types of seating for her to try out. The honeycomb (can't remember what the heck it's called) and one other. She's really excited so y'all cross your fingers that one of them is exactly what she wants! > We already know that the chair she gets is going to have the power elevation, tilt, recline and elevating leg rests. The debate now is whether 1mph difference in speed (the quantum only does 6.5 and the TDX does 7.5) would override the fact that the quantum is rated for 4 inch curbs right now and they are testing them on higher curbs. > Cross your fingers for us!!!!!!!! > > > > Love and Hugs > Jeni > > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted August 4, 2005 Report Share Posted August 4, 2005 Ok... you've gotta spill! How on earth did you put a sound system on it? If it can be done we will get it done! As much as h loves her music and runs around singing constantly it would be worth it! Hugs Jeni Joy <j0yeuxx@...> wrote: I did have a sound system on mine in jr. high lol That was coooooool! Jenifer Woody <mom2armybratz@...> wrote: The demo went great and we are going with the quantum 6000 (the 600 was a typo). h loves the way the 600 (closest thing available to try since the 6000 isn't out yet) feels and we can get all of the features she needs on it. Glenn (or vendor) thinks he can have it to her by Christmas!!!!!!!! I have told her that she better pick one she really likes cuz this is IT for about 5 years. No more using the " she outgrew it " excuse. We may have a custom paint job done on it as well since the frame is all painted instead of a shroud. You know that paint that changes colors in the sun? We're considering have that put on it! Then we're getting the ground effect lights and lighted anti-tip wheels for her. All that will be missing is a sound system! *LOL* Hope your chair comes through soon!!! Hugs Jeni Kendra wrote: Ooh! How exciting! I'm envious. I'm still demoing the Permobil right now. All around, it's not for me. I've actually lost more independence than have gained from the seat functions and I feel extremely unsafe riding in the thing outside. I'm in touch now with a vendor who will let me test drive the Bounder H-Plus!!! This is the one I want so much so I hope I'm comfy and free in the thing! <3 Kendra > Tomorrow at 11:30 h is trying out two different powerchairs. The two we're considering at this point are the TDX 5 and the new Quantum 600. The wheelchair guy is also bringing a few different types of seating for her to try out. The honeycomb (can't remember what the heck it's called) and one other. She's really excited so y'all cross your fingers that one of them is exactly what she wants! > We already know that the chair she gets is going to have the power elevation, tilt, recline and elevating leg rests. The debate now is whether 1mph difference in speed (the quantum only does 6.5 and the TDX does 7.5) would override the fact that the quantum is rated for 4 inch curbs right now and they are testing them on higher curbs. > Cross your fingers for us!!!!!!!! > > > > Love and Hugs > Jeni > > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted August 4, 2005 Report Share Posted August 4, 2005 I went to MDA camp with a guy that put a system on his chair! No idea how he did it, but he had speakers on the back and everything! --- Jenifer Woody <mom2armybratz@...> wrote: > Ok... you've gotta spill! How on earth did you put a > sound system on it? If it can be done we will get it > done! As much as h loves her music and runs > around singing constantly it would be worth it! > Hugs > Jeni > > Joy <j0yeuxx@...> wrote: > I did have a sound system on mine in jr. high lol > That was coooooool! > > > > > Jenifer Woody <mom2armybratz@...> wrote: > The demo went great and we are going with the > quantum 6000 (the 600 was a typo). h loves the > way the 600 (closest thing available to try since > the 6000 isn't out yet) feels and we can get all of > the features she needs on it. Glenn (or vendor) > thinks he can have it to her by Christmas!!!!!!!! > I have told her that she better pick one she really > likes cuz this is IT for about 5 years. No more > using the " she outgrew it " excuse. We may have a > custom paint job done on it as well since the frame > is all painted instead of a shroud. You know that > paint that changes colors in the sun? We're > considering have that put on it! Then we're getting > the ground effect lights and lighted anti-tip wheels > for her. All that will be missing is a sound system! > *LOL* > Hope your chair comes through soon!!! > Hugs > Jeni > > Kendra wrote: > Ooh! How exciting! I'm envious. I'm still demoing > the Permobil right > now. All around, it's not for me. I've actually lost > more independence > than have gained from the seat functions and I feel > extremely unsafe > riding in the thing outside. I'm in touch now with a > vendor who will > let me test drive the Bounder H-Plus!!! This is the > one I want so much > so I hope I'm comfy and free in the thing! > > <3 Kendra > > > > > Tomorrow at 11:30 h is trying out two > different powerchairs. The > two we're considering at this point are the TDX 5 > and the new Quantum > 600. The wheelchair guy is also bringing a few > different types of > seating for her to try out. The honeycomb (can't > remember what the > heck it's called) and one other. She's really > excited so y'all cross > your fingers that one of them is exactly what she > wants! > > We already know that the chair she gets is going > to have the power > elevation, tilt, recline and elevating leg rests. > The debate now is > whether 1mph difference in speed (the quantum only > does 6.5 and the > TDX does 7.5) would override the fact that the > quantum is rated for 4 > inch curbs right now and they are testing them on > higher curbs. > > Cross your fingers for us!!!!!!!! > > > > > > > > Love and Hugs > > Jeni > > > > > > > > [Non-text portions of this message have been > removed] > > > > > > A FEW RULES > > * The list members come from many backgrounds, ages > and beliefs So all > members most be tolerant and respectful to all > members. > > * Some adult language and topics (like sexual > health, swearing..) may > occur occasionally in emails. Over use of > inappropriate language will > not be allowed. If your under 16 ask your > parents/gaurdian before you > join the list. > > * No SPAMMING or sending numerous emails unrelated > to the topics of > spinal muscular atrophy, health, and the daily > issues of the disabled. > > Post message: > Subscribe: -subscribe > Unsubscribe: -unsubscribe > > List manager: (Sexy Mature Artist) Email: > Esma1999@... > > > > > oogroups.com > > List manager: (Sexy Mature Artist) Email: > Esma1999@... > > > > > > > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted August 5, 2005 Report Share Posted August 5, 2005 I second Kendra's comments! My brothers and I were little terrors in our chairs sometimes. We got hurt on occassion. But no regrets! We both lived, just like every other kid that sometimes fell off their bike. -e In a message dated 8/5/2005 10:24:29 AM Mountain Daylight Time, kendranicole@... writes: > I absolutely disagree. Yes, children can get wild and out of hand. > This is something they will have to learn to control, as any child. > It's about respect and responsibility. There are consequences for poor > choices and bad behavior. > > I loved having a wheelchair at full speed when I was younger. It gave > me more freedom - I could " run " with the other kids and play games. I > could tag along while they took out their bikes. I was able to become > a kid with them and it allowed me to more fully interact with my > peers. Yes, I was a little devil with my wheelchair. I took that > sucker down hills you'd never walk, through the woods, and even over > cliffs. I've fallen. I've dropped. I've skidded. I was hurt a few > times, but there were punishments for my reckless behavior beyond > physical wounds. > > You cannot make up for a personal lack of involvement or control as a > parent by taking away a child's essential right to be just that - a > child, mistakes and all. Children are very responsible when they're > taught with proper authority and privileges. They are not stupid, > irresponsible, little brats incapable of making a decision so > important to their own personal growth and life experience. > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted August 5, 2005 Report Share Posted August 5, 2005 As far as I can tell, my parents' view was basically like Kendra's saying. They wanted me to have a wheelchair that gave me as much freedom as possible. Then I had to learn how to use it responsibly. When I got my first power chair at 6 years old, I could only use it to play in the backyard while I was learning how to drive it. After getting used to it, it quickly became my full-time chair. I remember the vendors always asking my parents when we got new chairs if they should set the speed down, even temporarily. My parents always laughed and said no, they knew how much we'd hate that! My brother and I loved to push the limits a little with our chairs, but we knew just how far they could be pushed. Our parents trusted us not to do anything really dangerous. -e In a message dated 8/5/2005 11:01:37 AM Mountain Daylight Time, angie@... writes: > I'd like to know what you're parent's view was at that time? > > My parent's told me later on, say around 16yrs of age, that they curbed my > choices and so when I thought I had the best-of-the-best, I chose the > best-of-their-best and just drove it like a demon too. > > When it became my ultimate decision/choice, I researched every make and > model > for optimal speed and durance. I was an outdorsey girl into horses, hockey, > cars, camping and road trips that my w/c always had spunk. > > I am by no means, a woman who would stiffle a kids spirit or endorse > idealisms > that SMA kids shouldn't be allowed to " run " . All I said to a parent to do > what makes them comfy by echoing back to them some of their concerms in ways > > that will satisfy both Mommy & Daddy and the kids. > > I am sure, no parent would buy their kid an offroad dirt bike if they never > rode even a tricycle? Assuring that the w/c can grow with the child's > physical side is top priority for the parent's. What the chair is capable of > > is also their domain, but how the kid uses it is all up to them. > > Angie > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted August 5, 2005 Report Share Posted August 5, 2005 My wife had a CB radio on hers when she was a senior in high school in the early 70's. Her handle was " Lady on Wheels " . Bob C. Manning, Jr PO Box 1248 Decatur GA 30031-1248 Re: Re: h's wheelchair demo tomorrow morning I went to MDA camp with a guy that put a system on his chair! No idea how he did it, but he had speakers on the back and everything! --- Jenifer Woody <mom2armybratz@...> wrote: > Ok... you've gotta spill! How on earth did you put a > sound system on it? If it can be done we will get it > done! As much as h loves her music and runs > around singing constantly it would be worth it! > Hugs > Jeni > > Joy <j0yeuxx@...> wrote: > I did have a sound system on mine in jr. high lol > That was coooooool! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted August 5, 2005 Report Share Posted August 5, 2005 On ebay? I gotta check that out! And I hate that 'wider' problem. I wish I could shrink, not expand. Jenn Jenifer Woody wrote: >You can get the lights and stuff on e-bay for under $50 if you're interested. >BTW -- that getting wider thing....... gotta hate it but it's a fact of life. I swear by butt gets bigger by the day *LOL* >Hugs >Jeni > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted August 5, 2005 Report Share Posted August 5, 2005 I would not want any child, say between 3 and 13yrs, to have an electric wheelchair capable of " Evil Conevil maneuvers! " either. I was 11 yrs old when I got my 1st E & J 3P power wheelchair and I actually ran away from home and returned because the church was closed and I got a flat tire! I ran because I had a fight with my sister .... she ate my potato chips! LOL! Kids, eh? wink! Seriously, unless h knows the realism about how vunerable she can be to gravity and the laws of physics then you may want to get her a chair that doesn't have too much torque/guts or speed until she is older. Even if you're of the belief that one learns by their mistakes it wouldn't be a good enough validation for such a chair. As a SMA2 kid, some of these " mistake lessons " almost killed me. A bump or scape is more like a break or gash! Such powerful chairs maybe easy to maneuver, joystick-wise, but how kids see their world (as an open field) may not be something they can control. Use extreme, over-protective, parental care when deciding which chair to take. Angie On 2005.08.04 16:31, esma1999@... wrote: > In a message dated 8/3/2005 10:14:11 P.M. Central Standard Time, > mom2armybratz@... writes: > > quantum only does 6.5 and the TDX does 7.5) would override the fact that > the quantum is rated for 4 inch curbs right now and they are testing them > on higher curbs. > > > > I have a TDX for about a year. I'm not sure how strong h is but I can > say I don't think I'd like to go up/down four inches. I go over 1 inch and > get bounced around. My head falls. I might bite my tongue. If I did go down > four inches I would do it slow and with someone near by. A kid might go > full blast alone..... Will a kid know not to go down an 8 inch drop? I > drove in the lake when I was 4! lol > > Most curbs (in my area) have curb cuts and most steps are more than > 4inches. Unless you go camping or travel to a country will less > accessibility I'm not sure climbing 4 inches is so great. If you have good > upper body control yes maybe it is. > > I just got two fold up portable ramps. One is 3 ft for curbs and 1-2 steps > and one 8 ft for 4 steps. I can keep the small one in my mini van all the > time if I need to get up something on the spur of the moment. (oh, all my > friends/pa say my mini van drives like a car) If I go to a friends with 3 > steps I put the 8 ft in. > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted August 5, 2005 Report Share Posted August 5, 2005 Me too! I had my walkman plugged into an amp that wired into my chair's batteries and I had two Minima 8 speakers mounted behind me; one on each side. In college, I'd be having a music war with the other Boom boxes! I'd win every time! I had a 100W to burn! Now it sits in a box downstairs, sigh! No place to mount my gear on this junk chair, BOO! Angie On 2005.08.04 21:12, Joy wrote: > I did have a sound system on mine in jr. high lol > That was coooooool! > > > > > Jenifer Woody <mom2armybratz@...> wrote: > The demo went great and we are going with the quantum 6000 (the 600 was a > typo). h loves the way the 600 (closest thing available to try since > the 6000 isn't out yet) feels and we can get all of the features she needs > on it. Glenn (or vendor) thinks he can have it to her by Christmas!!!!!!!! > I have told her that she better pick one she really likes cuz this is IT > for about 5 years. No more using the " she outgrew it " excuse. We may have a > custom paint job done on it as well since the frame is all painted instead > of a shroud. You know that paint that changes colors in the sun? We're > considering have that put on it! Then we're getting the ground effect > lights and lighted anti-tip wheels for her. All that will be missing is a > sound system! *LOL* Hope your chair comes through soon!!! > Hugs > Jeni > > Kendra wrote: > Ooh! How exciting! I'm envious. I'm still demoing the Permobil right > now. All around, it's not for me. I've actually lost more independence > than have gained from the seat functions and I feel extremely unsafe > riding in the thing outside. I'm in touch now with a vendor who will > let me test drive the Bounder H-Plus!!! This is the one I want so much > so I hope I'm comfy and free in the thing! > > <3 Kendra > > > > > Tomorrow at 11:30 h is trying out two different powerchairs. The > > two we're considering at this point are the TDX 5 and the new Quantum > 600. The wheelchair guy is also bringing a few different types of > seating for her to try out. The honeycomb (can't remember what the > heck it's called) and one other. She's really excited so y'all cross > your fingers that one of them is exactly what she wants! > > > We already know that the chair she gets is going to have the power > > elevation, tilt, recline and elevating leg rests. The debate now is > whether 1mph difference in speed (the quantum only does 6.5 and the > TDX does 7.5) would override the fact that the quantum is rated for 4 > inch curbs right now and they are testing them on higher curbs. > > > Cross your fingers for us!!!!!!!! > > > > > > > > Love and Hugs > > Jeni > > > > > > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted August 5, 2005 Report Share Posted August 5, 2005 I absolutely disagree. Yes, children can get wild and out of hand. This is something they will have to learn to control, as any child. It's about respect and responsibility. There are consequences for poor choices and bad behavior. I loved having a wheelchair at full speed when I was younger. It gave me more freedom - I could " run " with the other kids and play games. I could tag along while they took out their bikes. I was able to become a kid with them and it allowed me to more fully interact with my peers. Yes, I was a little devil with my wheelchair. I took that sucker down hills you'd never walk, through the woods, and even over cliffs. I've fallen. I've dropped. I've skidded. I was hurt a few times, but there were punishments for my reckless behavior beyond physical wounds. You cannot make up for a personal lack of involvement or control as a parent by taking away a child's essential right to be just that - a child, mistakes and all. Children are very responsible when they're taught with proper authority and privileges. They are not stupid, irresponsible, little brats incapable of making a decision so important to their own personal growth and life experience. <3 Kendra > I would not want any child, say between 3 and 13yrs, to have an electric > wheelchair capable of " Evil Conevil maneuvers! " either. > > I was 11 yrs old when I got my 1st E & J 3P power wheelchair and I actually ran > away from home and returned because the church was closed and I got a flat > tire! I ran because I had a fight with my sister .... she ate my potato > chips! LOL! Kids, eh? wink! > > Seriously, unless h knows the realism about how vunerable she can be to > gravity and the laws of physics then you may want to get her a chair that > doesn't have too much torque/guts or speed until she is older. > > Even if you're of the belief that one learns by their mistakes it wouldn't be > a good enough validation for such a chair. As a SMA2 kid, some of these > " mistake lessons " almost killed me. A bump or scape is more like a break or > gash! Such powerful chairs maybe easy to maneuver, joystick-wise, but how > kids see their world (as an open field) may not be something they can > control. > > Use extreme, over-protective, parental care when deciding which chair to take. > > Angie > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted August 5, 2005 Report Share Posted August 5, 2005 Holy crap! I believe you mistook my words Kendra! Sure, kids will be kids and even I was a " dare devil " , but then maybe's that's because I had more physical proweress to handle it. It's my understanding that h can be sometimes timid. No one should push a child into something they might not want to do. All I said was to be " a parent " and maybe over emphazied to be " extremely, over-protective " in a " parental " way because most parents are by default and I didn't think it would hurt to let her know it's okay to be that way. What you've said is great too, from a kid's perspective which I have similar recollections of too, so not too worry. Even now I am in an electric wheelchair by Invacare which runs at 8mph only because I am a light weight rider. I adore speed and sturdiness myself. Maybe I felt the age range was good because all any of us have to draw upon are our own experiences and for me, I was 11yrs old. I think h is 9, and read she is a cautious child anyhow. Neither you, me or anyone can tell h how to " run " . Offering a few words of caution won't kill her either. Besides, I was referring to the wheelchair, not h. So maybe now I have cleared this whole misunderstanding? It's the chair that may need some " limits " applied just to minimize the potential exposure to serious injury. This will enable h to grow into her comfort zone better with her wheelchair's abilities and her personal desires/wishes. Her chair will be her " legs " and she will figure out how far she wants to " run " . Angie On 2005.08.05 12:23, Kendra wrote: > I absolutely disagree. Yes, children can get wild and out of hand. > This is something they will have to learn to control, as any child. > It's about respect and responsibility. There are consequences for poor > choices and bad behavior. > > I loved having a wheelchair at full speed when I was younger. It gave > me more freedom - I could " run " with the other kids and play games. I > could tag along while they took out their bikes. I was able to become > a kid with them and it allowed me to more fully interact with my > peers. Yes, I was a little devil with my wheelchair. I took that > sucker down hills you'd never walk, through the woods, and even over > cliffs. I've fallen. I've dropped. I've skidded. I was hurt a few > times, but there were punishments for my reckless behavior beyond > physical wounds. > > You cannot make up for a personal lack of involvement or control as a > parent by taking away a child's essential right to be just that - a > child, mistakes and all. Children are very responsible when they're > taught with proper authority and privileges. They are not stupid, > irresponsible, little brats incapable of making a decision so > important to their own personal growth and life experience. > > <3 Kendra > > > > I would not want any child, say between 3 and 13yrs, to have an > > electric > > > wheelchair capable of " Evil Conevil maneuvers! " either. > > > > I was 11 yrs old when I got my 1st E & J 3P power wheelchair and I > > actually ran > > > away from home and returned because the church was closed and I got > > a flat > > > tire! I ran because I had a fight with my sister .... she ate my potato > > chips! LOL! Kids, eh? wink! > > > > Seriously, unless h knows the realism about how vunerable she > > can be to > > > gravity and the laws of physics then you may want to get her a chair > > that > > > doesn't have too much torque/guts or speed until she is older. > > > > Even if you're of the belief that one learns by their mistakes it > > wouldn't be > > > a good enough validation for such a chair. As a SMA2 kid, some of these > > " mistake lessons " almost killed me. A bump or scape is more like a > > break or > > > gash! Such powerful chairs maybe easy to maneuver, joystick-wise, > > but how > > > kids see their world (as an open field) may not be something they can > > control. > > > > Use extreme, over-protective, parental care when deciding which > > chair to take. > > > Angie > > > A FEW RULES > > * The list members come from many backgrounds, ages and beliefs So all > members most be tolerant and respectful to all members. > > * Some adult language and topics (like sexual health, swearing..) may > occur occasionally in emails. Over use of inappropriate language will > not be allowed. If your under 16 ask your parents/gaurdian before you > join the list. > > * No SPAMMING or sending numerous emails unrelated to the topics of > spinal muscular atrophy, health, and the daily issues of the disabled. > > Post message: > Subscribe: -subscribe > Unsubscribe: -unsubscribe > > List manager: (Sexy Mature Artist) Email: Esma1999@... > > > > > oogroups.com > > List manager: (Sexy Mature Artist) Email: Esma1999@... > > > > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted August 5, 2005 Report Share Posted August 5, 2005 I'd like to know what you're parent's view was at that time? My parent's told me later on, say around 16yrs of age, that they curbed my choices and so when I thought I had the best-of-the-best, I chose the best-of-their-best and just drove it like a demon too. When it became my ultimate decision/choice, I researched every make and model for optimal speed and durance. I was an outdorsey girl into horses, hockey, cars, camping and road trips that my w/c always had spunk. I am by no means, a woman who would stiffle a kids spirit or endorse idealisms that SMA kids shouldn't be allowed to " run " . All I said to a parent to do what makes them comfy by echoing back to them some of their concerms in ways that will satisfy both Mommy & Daddy and the kids. I am sure, no parent would buy their kid an offroad dirt bike if they never rode even a tricycle? Assuring that the w/c can grow with the child's physical side is top priority for the parent's. What the chair is capable of is also their domain, but how the kid uses it is all up to them. Angie On 2005.08.05 12:31, PurplGurl3@... wrote: > I second Kendra's comments! My brothers and I were little terrors in our > chairs sometimes. We got hurt on occassion. But no regrets! We both lived, > just like every other kid that sometimes fell off their bike. > > -e > > In a message dated 8/5/2005 10:24:29 AM Mountain Daylight Time, > > kendranicole@... writes: > > I absolutely disagree. Yes, children can get wild and out of hand. > > This is something they will have to learn to control, as any child. > > It's about respect and responsibility. There are consequences for poor > > choices and bad behavior. > > > > I loved having a wheelchair at full speed when I was younger. It gave > > me more freedom - I could " run " with the other kids and play games. I > > could tag along while they took out their bikes. I was able to become > > a kid with them and it allowed me to more fully interact with my > > peers. Yes, I was a little devil with my wheelchair. I took that > > sucker down hills you'd never walk, through the woods, and even over > > cliffs. I've fallen. I've dropped. I've skidded. I was hurt a few > > times, but there were punishments for my reckless behavior beyond > > physical wounds. > > > > You cannot make up for a personal lack of involvement or control as a > > parent by taking away a child's essential right to be just that - a > > child, mistakes and all. Children are very responsible when they're > > taught with proper authority and privileges. They are not stupid, > > irresponsible, little brats incapable of making a decision so > > important to their own personal growth and life experience. > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted August 5, 2005 Report Share Posted August 5, 2005 yep it can be done. I had a speaker mounted by each handle bar. I don't remember how everything was hooked up, but i did have the walkman kinda behind by bottom where I could reach back and grab it to change tapes or radio....no cds back then! lol Jenifer Woody <mom2armybratz@...> wrote: Ok... you've gotta spill! How on earth did you put a sound system on it? If it can be done we will get it done! As much as h loves her music and runs around singing constantly it would be worth it! Hugs Jeni Joy wrote: I did have a sound system on mine in jr. high lol That was coooooool! Jenifer Woody wrote: The demo went great and we are going with the quantum 6000 (the 600 was a typo). h loves the way the 600 (closest thing available to try since the 6000 isn't out yet) feels and we can get all of the features she needs on it. Glenn (or vendor) thinks he can have it to her by Christmas!!!!!!!! I have told her that she better pick one she really likes cuz this is IT for about 5 years. No more using the " she outgrew it " excuse. We may have a custom paint job done on it as well since the frame is all painted instead of a shroud. You know that paint that changes colors in the sun? We're considering have that put on it! Then we're getting the ground effect lights and lighted anti-tip wheels for her. All that will be missing is a sound system! *LOL* Hope your chair comes through soon!!! Hugs Jeni Kendra wrote: Ooh! How exciting! I'm envious. I'm still demoing the Permobil right now. All around, it's not for me. I've actually lost more independence than have gained from the seat functions and I feel extremely unsafe riding in the thing outside. I'm in touch now with a vendor who will let me test drive the Bounder H-Plus!!! This is the one I want so much so I hope I'm comfy and free in the thing! <3 Kendra > Tomorrow at 11:30 h is trying out two different powerchairs. The two we're considering at this point are the TDX 5 and the new Quantum 600. The wheelchair guy is also bringing a few different types of seating for her to try out. The honeycomb (can't remember what the heck it's called) and one other. She's really excited so y'all cross your fingers that one of them is exactly what she wants! > We already know that the chair she gets is going to have the power elevation, tilt, recline and elevating leg rests. The debate now is whether 1mph difference in speed (the quantum only does 6.5 and the TDX does 7.5) would override the fact that the quantum is rated for 4 inch curbs right now and they are testing them on higher curbs. > Cross your fingers for us!!!!!!!! > > > > Love and Hugs > Jeni > > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted August 5, 2005 Report Share Posted August 5, 2005 In a message dated 8/4/2005 4:49:03 P.M. Central Standard Time, mom2armybratz@... writes: In our area there aren't a lot of sidewalks and in some places you might have to walk an additional several hundred feet to get to a cut out where there are sidewalks. Anytime she went down a curb there would obviously be an adult with her to ensure her safety and I'm not sure that she'd even attempt it without an adult there to hold her head. She's actually pretty cautious for a 9 year old so I don't worry too much about that. That's cool. Sounds like it will work for her. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted August 5, 2005 Report Share Posted August 5, 2005 I don't believe a chair should have limits. It's not up to a parent to limit their child's freedom when it comes to something such as mobility. All chairs, by default, have safety features she needs to be taught to use properly such as seatbelts, speed controls and footrests. Limiting the speed of a wheelchair at manufacture because a parent does not want to have to worry about their child running away or being reckless is not right. There are ways to control a child and make her safe without actually taking away or limiting what little power they have. You set rules and boundaries over your child's behavior by influencing them and giving them choices - some with benefits and others with consequences - NOT by offering them only one thing and saying oh well with it. Children need to be able to make their own choices with guidance. It's part of growing up. Give her speed and set rules. She will grow into it, yes. This is when you expand THE RULES and HER RIGHTS. She'll loathe her chair and her life if you don't get one with speed to accommodate being a child (or human) until she's older. Being OVER-protective is not good for children's personal or social growth. <3 Kendra > > > I would not want any child, say between 3 and 13yrs, to have an > > > > electric > > > > > wheelchair capable of " Evil Conevil maneuvers! " either. > > > > > > I was 11 yrs old when I got my 1st E & J 3P power wheelchair and I > > > > actually ran > > > > > away from home and returned because the church was closed and I got > > > > a flat > > > > > tire! I ran because I had a fight with my sister .... she ate my potato > > > chips! LOL! Kids, eh? wink! > > > > > > Seriously, unless h knows the realism about how vunerable she > > > > can be to > > > > > gravity and the laws of physics then you may want to get her a chair > > > > that > > > > > doesn't have too much torque/guts or speed until she is older. > > > > > > Even if you're of the belief that one learns by their mistakes it > > > > wouldn't be > > > > > a good enough validation for such a chair. As a SMA2 kid, some of these > > > " mistake lessons " almost killed me. A bump or scape is more like a > > > > break or > > > > > gash! Such powerful chairs maybe easy to maneuver, joystick-wise, > > > > but how > > > > > kids see their world (as an open field) may not be something they can > > > control. > > > > > > Use extreme, over-protective, parental care when deciding which > > > > chair to take. > > > > > Angie > > > > > > A FEW RULES > > > > * The list members come from many backgrounds, ages and beliefs So all > > members most be tolerant and respectful to all members. > > > > * Some adult language and topics (like sexual health, swearing..) may > > occur occasionally in emails. Over use of inappropriate language will > > not be allowed. If your under 16 ask your parents/gaurdian before you > > join the list. > > > > * No SPAMMING or sending numerous emails unrelated to the topics of > > spinal muscular atrophy, health, and the daily issues of the disabled. > > > > Post message: > > Subscribe: -subscribe > > Unsubscribe: -unsubscribe > > > > List manager: (Sexy Mature Artist) Email: Esma1999@a... > > > > > > > > > > oogroups.com > > > > List manager: (Sexy Mature Artist) Email: Esma1999@a... > > > > > > > > > > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted August 5, 2005 Report Share Posted August 5, 2005 I have to agree with you here. I was always asked if I wanted a chair that could climb curbs or one that was fast... mine was always the fast one because I wanted to be able to run and keep up with my friends when they were playing... not the one sitting 'on the bench' watching everyone else have fun. I did stupid things and I learned my lesson... but for the most part I knew that if I did something tooo stupid it could hurt me really bad... and I knew that at a young age. I think it all just depends on the maturity of your kid. --- Kendra <kendranicole@...> wrote: > I absolutely disagree. Yes, children can get wild > and out of hand. > This is something they will have to learn to > control, as any child. > It's about respect and responsibility. There are > consequences for poor > choices and bad behavior. > > I loved having a wheelchair at full speed when I was > younger. It gave > me more freedom - I could " run " with the other kids > and play games. I > could tag along while they took out their bikes. I > was able to become > a kid with them and it allowed me to more fully > interact with my > peers. Yes, I was a little devil with my wheelchair. > I took that > sucker down hills you'd never walk, through the > woods, and even over > cliffs. I've fallen. I've dropped. I've skidded. I > was hurt a few > times, but there were punishments for my reckless > behavior beyond > physical wounds. > > You cannot make up for a personal lack of > involvement or control as a > parent by taking away a child's essential right to > be just that - a > child, mistakes and all. Children are very > responsible when they're > taught with proper authority and privileges. They > are not stupid, > irresponsible, little brats incapable of making a > decision so > important to their own personal growth and life > experience. > > <3 Kendra > > > > > I would not want any child, say between 3 and > 13yrs, to have an > electric > > wheelchair capable of " Evil Conevil maneuvers! " > either. > > > > I was 11 yrs old when I got my 1st E & J 3P power > wheelchair and I > actually ran > > away from home and returned because the church was > closed and I got > a flat > > tire! I ran because I had a fight with my sister > .... she ate my potato > > chips! LOL! Kids, eh? wink! > > > > Seriously, unless h knows the realism about > how vunerable she > can be to > > gravity and the laws of physics then you may want > to get her a chair > that > > doesn't have too much torque/guts or speed until > she is older. > > > > Even if you're of the belief that one learns by > their mistakes it > wouldn't be > > a good enough validation for such a chair. As a > SMA2 kid, some of these > > " mistake lessons " almost killed me. A bump or > scape is more like a > break or > > gash! Such powerful chairs maybe easy to maneuver, > joystick-wise, > but how > > kids see their world (as an open field) may not be > something they can > > control. > > > > Use extreme, over-protective, parental care when > deciding which > chair to take. > > > > Angie > > > > > > ____________________________________________________ Start your day with - make it your home page http://www./r/hs Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted August 5, 2005 Report Share Posted August 5, 2005 yeah...i jumped little 2 " ramps with the neighborhood boys on their bmx bicycles, played tag and hide-n-seek, ran through sprinklers, played dodge ball (always got nailed first...lol), trekked around the perimeter of a cornfield to get to the shopping mall, and towed my younger sister and brother around on roller skates and skateboards. what a blast! during those moments i felt like a " normal " kid with a cool toy. when i banged my knees, scraped elbows and very rarely tipped, i learned to be careful and bragged about my wounds with the other kids. when i ran their toes over they got pissed amd ribbed me for being a sucky driver, so i paid more attention. i've worked with a lot of disabled adults who came from over-protective environments. they often don't do so well living independently, lacking confidence and being afraid to make mistakes. I second Kendra's comments! My brothers and I were little terrors in our chairs sometimes. We got hurt on occassion. But no regrets! We both lived, just like every other kid that sometimes fell off their bike. -e Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted August 5, 2005 Report Share Posted August 5, 2005 Well that is interesting. I've lived 24yrs with parents who showed their protectiveness in such ways that you despise ... hm? Their RULEs led me to learn just how to make and set my own RULES ... and as a child, I was oblivious to how my parents " worked " . To me, it was love. By example my parents set RULES which shaped me. Never once did it stop me from being who I am. That inner part of child rearing manifested itself as creativeness, imagination, curiousity and a wee bit of retaliation and rambunctiousness. Parents should set limits for their children that are age approbriate ... Dr. Phil says so, wink! Parents are a child's safeguard until their own minds can make the " calls " themselves. The trick is knowing when that time is right. I don't view the w/c components as safety features. It's the overall sturdiness or ruggedness of the w/c and how it handles that should be safety-tested better. For example, the motors on my w/c will automatically kick in more torque/power when faced with inclines or rough terrain without throwing my joystick any further ahead; like when they were more mechanical if on rough ground a bump meant I had to push my joystick ahead more (to give it more gas) and back off when I felt the chair's frame lunge forward. In this w/c, I am over compensating all the time no matter how it's programmed! I suppose if I was a car driver, I'd want my standard versus an automatic transmission. I've unknowingly ran over purses, shoes, feet, hanger-posts because I'd be slightly moving the joystick, at a creepy, crawly speed and the frame, not flexing, with the motors silently " kicking " in makes me lose my balance, hear someone say OW, scared by a snap! or dumped on by a clothes rack! All because this w/c's safety feature suck! It's not safe to have " intelligent " motors ..... I'd say let the driver drive the chair, not the chair drive the driver. Angie On 2005.08.05 13:19, Kendra wrote: > I don't believe a chair should have limits. It's not up to a parent to > limit their child's freedom when it comes to something such as > mobility. All chairs, by default, have safety features she needs to be > taught to use properly such as seatbelts, speed controls and footrests. > > Limiting the speed of a wheelchair at manufacture because a parent > does not want to have to worry about their child running away or being > reckless is not right. There are ways to control a child and make her > safe without actually taking away or limiting what little power they > have. You set rules and boundaries over your child's behavior by > influencing them and giving them choices - some with benefits and > others with consequences - NOT by offering them only one thing and > saying oh well with it. Children need to be able to make their own > choices with guidance. It's part of growing up. Give her speed and set > rules. She will grow into it, yes. This is when you expand THE RULES > and HER RIGHTS. She'll loathe her chair and her life if you don't get > one with speed to accommodate being a child (or human) until she's older. > > Being OVER-protective is not good for children's personal or social > growth. > > <3 Kendra > > > > > > I would not want any child, say between 3 and 13yrs, to have an > > > > > > electric > > > > > > > wheelchair capable of " Evil Conevil maneuvers! " either. > > > > > > > > I was 11 yrs old when I got my 1st E & J 3P power wheelchair and I > > > > > > actually ran > > > > > > > away from home and returned because the church was closed and I got > > > > > > a flat > > > > > > > tire! I ran because I had a fight with my sister .... she ate my > > potato > > > > > chips! LOL! Kids, eh? wink! > > > > > > > > Seriously, unless h knows the realism about how vunerable she > > > > > > can be to > > > > > > > gravity and the laws of physics then you may want to get her a chair > > > > > > that > > > > > > > doesn't have too much torque/guts or speed until she is older. > > > > > > > > Even if you're of the belief that one learns by their mistakes it > > > > > > wouldn't be > > > > > > > a good enough validation for such a chair. As a SMA2 kid, some > > of these > > > > > " mistake lessons " almost killed me. A bump or scape is more like a > > > > > > break or > > > > > > > gash! Such powerful chairs maybe easy to maneuver, joystick-wise, > > > > > > but how > > > > > > > kids see their world (as an open field) may not be something > > they can > > > > > control. > > > > > > > > Use extreme, over-protective, parental care when deciding which > > > > > > chair to take. > > > > > > > Angie > > > > > > A FEW RULES > > > > > > * The list members come from many backgrounds, ages and beliefs So all > > > members most be tolerant and respectful to all members. > > > > > > * Some adult language and topics (like sexual health, swearing..) may > > > occur occasionally in emails. Over use of inappropriate language will > > > not be allowed. 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Guest guest Posted August 5, 2005 Report Share Posted August 5, 2005 Bingo! , I agree - " I think it all just depends on the maturity of your kid. " Had I come to that point first then the chair limits I would have avoided this whole mess. Angie On 2005.08.05 13:35, *~~* wrote: > I have to agree with you here. I was always asked if I > wanted a chair that could climb curbs or one that was > fast... mine was always the fast one because I wanted > to be able to run and keep up with my friends when > they were playing... not the one sitting 'on the > bench' watching everyone else have fun. I did stupid > things and I learned my lesson... but for the most > part I knew that if I did something tooo stupid it > could hurt me really bad... and I knew that at a young > age. I think it all just depends on the maturity of > your kid. > > --- Kendra <kendranicole@...> > > wrote: > > I absolutely disagree. Yes, children can get wild > > and out of hand. > > This is something they will have to learn to > > control, as any child. > > It's about respect and responsibility. There are > > consequences for poor > > choices and bad behavior. > > > > I loved having a wheelchair at full speed when I was > > younger. It gave > > me more freedom - I could " run " with the other kids > > and play games. I > > could tag along while they took out their bikes. I > > was able to become > > a kid with them and it allowed me to more fully > > interact with my > > peers. Yes, I was a little devil with my wheelchair. > > I took that > > sucker down hills you'd never walk, through the > > woods, and even over > > cliffs. I've fallen. I've dropped. I've skidded. I > > was hurt a few > > times, but there were punishments for my reckless > > behavior beyond > > physical wounds. > > > > You cannot make up for a personal lack of > > involvement or control as a > > parent by taking away a child's essential right to > > be just that - a > > child, mistakes and all. Children are very > > responsible when they're > > taught with proper authority and privileges. They > > are not stupid, > > irresponsible, little brats incapable of making a > > decision so > > important to their own personal growth and life > > experience. > > > > <3 Kendra > > > > > > > > > I would not want any child, say between 3 and > > > > 13yrs, to have an > > electric > > > > > wheelchair capable of " Evil Conevil maneuvers! " > > > > either. > > > > > I was 11 yrs old when I got my 1st E & J 3P power > > > > wheelchair and I > > actually ran > > > > > away from home and returned because the church was > > > > closed and I got > > a flat > > > > > tire! I ran because I had a fight with my sister > > > > .... she ate my potato > > > > > chips! LOL! Kids, eh? wink! > > > > > > Seriously, unless h knows the realism about > > > > how vunerable she > > can be to > > > > > gravity and the laws of physics then you may want > > > > to get her a chair > > that > > > > > doesn't have too much torque/guts or speed until > > > > she is older. > > > > > Even if you're of the belief that one learns by > > > > their mistakes it > > wouldn't be > > > > > a good enough validation for such a chair. As a > > > > SMA2 kid, some of these > > > > > " mistake lessons " almost killed me. A bump or > > > > scape is more like a > > break or > > > > > gash! Such powerful chairs maybe easy to maneuver, > > > > joystick-wise, > > but how > > > > > kids see their world (as an open field) may not be > > > > something they can > > > > > control. > > > > > > Use extreme, over-protective, parental care when > > > > deciding which > > chair to take. > > > > > Angie > > ____________________________________________________ > Start your day with - make it your home page > http://www./r/hs > > > > > A FEW RULES > > * The list members come from many backgrounds, ages and beliefs So all > members most be tolerant and respectful to all members. > > * Some adult language and topics (like sexual health, swearing..) may > occur occasionally in emails. Over use of inappropriate language will > not be allowed. If your under 16 ask your parents/gaurdian before you > join the list. > > * No SPAMMING or sending numerous emails unrelated to the topics of > spinal muscular atrophy, health, and the daily issues of the disabled. > > Post message: > Subscribe: -subscribe > Unsubscribe: -unsubscribe > > List manager: (Sexy Mature Artist) Email: Esma1999@... > > > > > oogroups.com > > List manager: (Sexy Mature Artist) Email: Esma1999@... > > > > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted August 5, 2005 Report Share Posted August 5, 2005 Maybe too, if you all knew that my 1st power w/c was 1975 you'd understand why my parents were cautious, hm? The first electric w/c, in Canada, was in 1968. Today's stuff is far more advanced and they're shaping them to fit kids better. Now my cautious approach may not be necessary anymore, eh? Angie On 2005.08.05 13:40, PurplGurl3@... wrote: > As far as I can tell, my parents' view was basically like Kendra's saying. > They wanted me to have a wheelchair that gave me as much freedom as > possible. Then I had to learn how to use it responsibly. When I got my > first power chair at 6 years old, I could only use it to play in the > backyard while I was learning how to drive it. After getting used to it, it > quickly became my full-time chair. I remember the vendors always asking my > parents when we got new chairs if they should set the speed down, even > temporarily. My parents always laughed and said no, they knew how much we'd > hate that! My brother and I loved to push the limits a little with our > chairs, but we knew just how far they could be pushed. Our parents trusted > us not to do anything really dangerous. > > -e > > In a message dated 8/5/2005 11:01:37 AM Mountain Daylight Time, > > angie@... writes: > > I'd like to know what you're parent's view was at that time? > > > > My parent's told me later on, say around 16yrs of age, that they curbed > > my choices and so when I thought I had the best-of-the-best, I chose the > > best-of-their-best and just drove it like a demon too. > > > > When it became my ultimate decision/choice, I researched every make and > > model > > for optimal speed and durance. I was an outdorsey girl into horses, > > hockey, cars, camping and road trips that my w/c always had spunk. > > > > I am by no means, a woman who would stiffle a kids spirit or endorse > > idealisms > > that SMA kids shouldn't be allowed to " run " . All I said to a parent to do > > what makes them comfy by echoing back to them some of their concerms in > > ways > > > > that will satisfy both Mommy & Daddy and the kids. > > > > I am sure, no parent would buy their kid an offroad dirt bike if they > > never rode even a tricycle? Assuring that the w/c can grow with the > > child's physical side is top priority for the parent's. What the chair is > > capable of > > > > is also their domain, but how the kid uses it is all up to them. > > > > Angie > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted August 5, 2005 Report Share Posted August 5, 2005 Rules are good, Angie. I've been saying that all along. I just think you need to TELL your kid the rules and enforce them. Limiting the chair, whether they know it or not, it's going to let a child grow and learn completely. Cars are made to go extremely fast - well beyond what is necessary or legal. But we have laws and they're enforced. When you're caught breaking them, you have consequences. If you never give kids a chance to break the rules, they aren't going to learn boundaries very quickly. A wheelchair should not be used as a semi-babysitter or something to hold a kid back from the limit you want them to go. They're not going to understand where the limit is if it's top speed if you've turned it down and aren't really letting them go top speed. They're also going to associate the wheelchair with immobility or lack of mobile control. Really now, how's she going to ever win a game of tag? <3 Kendra > Maybe too, if you all knew that my 1st power w/c was 1975 you'd understand why > my parents were cautious, hm? The first electric w/c, in Canada, was in 1968. > > Today's stuff is far more advanced and they're shaping them to fit kids > better. Now my cautious approach may not be necessary anymore, eh? > > Angie Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted August 5, 2005 Report Share Posted August 5, 2005 *LOL* Isn't it crazy how badly e-mails can be misunderstood? Anyway, Angie I know you have h's best interest in mind so don't worry there. When I say she is a cautious child I mean that she is great about staying away from curbs, hills she knows she can't handle, big bumps etc. She LOVES speed though. Her only regret about this chair is that it won't do 12 mph *LOL* I love that she knows her physical limits and understands how her body works. I wish I'd been that aware of myself at 9 (or 13 or 16!). Hugs Jeni Angie <angie@...> wrote: Holy crap! I believe you mistook my words Kendra! Sure, kids will be kids and even I was a " dare devil " , but then maybe's that's because I had more physical proweress to handle it. It's my understanding that h can be sometimes timid. No one should push a child into something they might not want to do. All I said was to be " a parent " and maybe over emphazied to be " extremely, over-protective " in a " parental " way because most parents are by default and I didn't think it would hurt to let her know it's okay to be that way. What you've said is great too, from a kid's perspective which I have similar recollections of too, so not too worry. Even now I am in an electric wheelchair by Invacare which runs at 8mph only because I am a light weight rider. I adore speed and sturdiness myself. Maybe I felt the age range was good because all any of us have to draw upon are our own experiences and for me, I was 11yrs old. I think h is 9, and read she is a cautious child anyhow. Neither you, me or anyone can tell h how to " run " . Offering a few words of caution won't kill her either. Besides, I was referring to the wheelchair, not h. So maybe now I have cleared this whole misunderstanding? It's the chair that may need some " limits " applied just to minimize the potential exposure to serious injury. This will enable h to grow into her comfort zone better with her wheelchair's abilities and her personal desires/wishes. Her chair will be her " legs " and she will figure out how far she wants to " run " . Angie On 2005.08.05 12:23, Kendra wrote: > I absolutely disagree. Yes, children can get wild and out of hand. > This is something they will have to learn to control, as any child. > It's about respect and responsibility. There are consequences for poor > choices and bad behavior. > > I loved having a wheelchair at full speed when I was younger. It gave > me more freedom - I could " run " with the other kids and play games. I > could tag along while they took out their bikes. I was able to become > a kid with them and it allowed me to more fully interact with my > peers. Yes, I was a little devil with my wheelchair. I took that > sucker down hills you'd never walk, through the woods, and even over > cliffs. I've fallen. I've dropped. I've skidded. I was hurt a few > times, but there were punishments for my reckless behavior beyond > physical wounds. > > You cannot make up for a personal lack of involvement or control as a > parent by taking away a child's essential right to be just that - a > child, mistakes and all. Children are very responsible when they're > taught with proper authority and privileges. They are not stupid, > irresponsible, little brats incapable of making a decision so > important to their own personal growth and life experience. > > <3 Kendra > > > > I would not want any child, say between 3 and 13yrs, to have an > > electric > > > wheelchair capable of " Evil Conevil maneuvers! " either. > > > > I was 11 yrs old when I got my 1st E & J 3P power wheelchair and I > > actually ran > > > away from home and returned because the church was closed and I got > > a flat > > > tire! I ran because I had a fight with my sister .... she ate my potato > > chips! LOL! Kids, eh? wink! > > > > Seriously, unless h knows the realism about how vunerable she > > can be to > > > gravity and the laws of physics then you may want to get her a chair > > that > > > doesn't have too much torque/guts or speed until she is older. > > > > Even if you're of the belief that one learns by their mistakes it > > wouldn't be > > > a good enough validation for such a chair. As a SMA2 kid, some of these > > " mistake lessons " almost killed me. A bump or scape is more like a > > break or > > > gash! Such powerful chairs maybe easy to maneuver, joystick-wise, > > but how > > > kids see their world (as an open field) may not be something they can > > control. > > > > Use extreme, over-protective, parental care when deciding which > > chair to take. > > > Angie > > > A FEW RULES > > * The list members come from many backgrounds, ages and beliefs So all > members most be tolerant and respectful to all members. > > * Some adult language and topics (like sexual health, swearing..) may > occur occasionally in emails. Over use of inappropriate language will > not be allowed. If your under 16 ask your parents/gaurdian before you > join the list. > > * No SPAMMING or sending numerous emails unrelated to the topics of > spinal muscular atrophy, health, and the daily issues of the disabled. > > Post message: > Subscribe: -subscribe > Unsubscribe: -unsubscribe > > List manager: (Sexy Mature Artist) Email: Esma1999@... > > > > > oogroups.com > > List manager: (Sexy Mature Artist) Email: Esma1999@... > > > > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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