Re: relationships, pregnancy, etc.

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First of all hon..I give you all the credit in the world..I was 27 when I had

Jerika and it was no piece of cake the first year after diagnosis then. I can

only imagine being that young how I would have reacted. And AMEN to the kid

thing. Of course Jerika is young but she goofs around saying she is pregnant as

my friend is right now and I don't for a second think of telling her she cannot

have a child. Look at Amy M for cryin out loud...And I think that is the

coolest that you would be the the oven for h's bun...I realize these issues

are very individual but I totally agree with you on this one. Nothing should be

unconquerable..I know that isn't a word..anyway..you got my point!

Jenifer Woody <mom2armybratz@...> wrote:Ok, I realize that I'm probably so

far " out of the loop " on this one that I should just keep my mouth shut... but I

can't!

First, I fully expect to pay for TWO weddings when my girls are at that age. I

don't see any reason why h would not date/ get married when the right guys

come along. She will get the same *special talk* about sex when I feel she's old

enough to handle it.

As for pregnancy...... Right now h says she doesn't want to have her own

because " it looks like it would hurt " (she's watched a few episodes of a baby

story) but she's never considered having SMA a reason NOT to have kids. She's

asked how she will take care of them and I've told her that between her husband,

her PCAs and if necessary me, she'll have all the help she needs.

I am in a unique situation in that I had h so young (I was 16 when she was

born). I've already told her that as long as my health remains good I'll be

perfectly able to be a surrogate for her. The child would be hers biologically,

I'd just be a big old human incubator *LOL*

Love and Hugs

Jeni

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> Ok, I realize that I'm probably so far " out of the loop " on this

one that I should just keep my mouth shut... but I can't!

> First, I fully expect to pay for TWO weddings when my girls are at

that age. I don't see any reason why h would not date/ get

married when the right guys come along. She will get the same

*special talk* about sex when I feel she's old enough to handle it.

> As for pregnancy...... Right now h says she doesn't want to

have her own because " it looks like it would hurt " (she's watched a

few episodes of a baby story) but she's never considered having SMA

a reason NOT to have kids. She's asked how she will take care of

them and I've told her that between her husband, her PCAs and if

necessary me, she'll have all the help she needs.

> I am in a unique situation in that I had h so young (I was 16

when she was born). I've already told her that as long as my health

remains good I'll be perfectly able to be a surrogate for her. The

child would be hers biologically, I'd just be a big old human

incubator *LOL*

>

>

> Love and Hugs

> Jeni

I just want to say you are a great mom! I talked about surrogacy

with my sister but aside from how terribly expensive it is, she has

many emotional problems (she is a recovering alcoholic and has

suffered with depression for many yrs) and I wouldn't want to put

her under any stress. We have considered paying someone but like I

said, it is terribly expensive. - na

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na-

Are the costs that much with a willing surrogate? Have you asked anyone else?

alexvan1234 <alexvan2001@...> wrote:

> Ok, I realize that I'm probably so far " out of the loop " on this

one that I should just keep my mouth shut... but I can't!

> First, I fully expect to pay for TWO weddings when my girls are at

that age. I don't see any reason why h would not date/ get

married when the right guys come along. She will get the same

*special talk* about sex when I feel she's old enough to handle it.

> As for pregnancy...... Right now h says she doesn't want to

have her own because " it looks like it would hurt " (she's watched a

few episodes of a baby story) but she's never considered having SMA

a reason NOT to have kids. She's asked how she will take care of

them and I've told her that between her husband, her PCAs and if

necessary me, she'll have all the help she needs.

> I am in a unique situation in that I had h so young (I was 16

when she was born). I've already told her that as long as my health

remains good I'll be perfectly able to be a surrogate for her. The

child would be hers biologically, I'd just be a big old human

incubator *LOL*

>

>

> Love and Hugs

> Jeni

I just want to say you are a great mom! I talked about surrogacy

with my sister but aside from how terribly expensive it is, she has

many emotional problems (she is a recovering alcoholic and has

suffered with depression for many yrs) and I wouldn't want to put

her under any stress. We have considered paying someone but like I

said, it is terribly expensive. - na

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I talked about surrogacy with my sister but aside from how terribly

expensive it is, she has many emotional problems (she is a recovering

alcoholic and has suffered with depression for many yrs) and I

wouldn't want to put her under any stress. We have considered paying

someone but like I said, it is terribly expensive. - na

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I love this post Jeni! LOL!

> Ok, I realize that I'm probably so far " out of the loop " on this

one that I should just keep my mouth shut... but I can't!

> First, I fully expect to pay for TWO weddings when my girls are at

that age. I don't see any reason why h would not date/ get

married when the right guys come along. She will get the same

*special talk* about sex when I feel she's old enough to handle it.

> As for pregnancy...... Right now h says she doesn't want to

have her own because " it looks like it would hurt " (she's watched a

few episodes of a baby story) but she's never considered having SMA a

reason NOT to have kids. She's asked how she will take care of them

and I've told her that between her husband, her PCAs and if necessary

me, she'll have all the help she needs.

> I am in a unique situation in that I had h so young (I was 16

when she was born). I've already told her that as long as my health

remains good I'll be perfectly able to be a surrogate for her. The

child would be hers biologically, I'd just be a big old human

incubator *LOL*

>

>

> Love and Hugs

> Jeni

>

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>

>

[Guest guest]

Surrogacy is out of the price range for many people. There's also

sometimes scams involved. To me it's almost as big of a gamble as

the sma medical situation.

> > Ok, I realize that I'm probably so far " out of the loop " on this

> one that I should just keep my mouth shut... but I can't!

> > First, I fully expect to pay for TWO weddings when my girls are

at

> that age. I don't see any reason why h would not date/ get

> married when the right guys come along. She will get the same

> *special talk* about sex when I feel she's old enough to handle it.

> > As for pregnancy...... Right now h says she doesn't want to

> have her own because " it looks like it would hurt " (she's watched a

> few episodes of a baby story) but she's never considered having SMA

> a reason NOT to have kids. She's asked how she will take care of

> them and I've told her that between her husband, her PCAs and if

> necessary me, she'll have all the help she needs.

> > I am in a unique situation in that I had h so young (I was 16

> when she was born). I've already told her that as long as my health

> remains good I'll be perfectly able to be a surrogate for her. The

> child would be hers biologically, I'd just be a big old human

> incubator *LOL*

> >

> >

> > Love and Hugs

> > Jeni

>

> I just want to say you are a great mom! I talked about surrogacy

> with my sister but aside from how terribly expensive it is, she has

> many emotional problems (she is a recovering alcoholic and has

> suffered with depression for many yrs) and I wouldn't want to put

> her under any stress. We have considered paying someone but like I

> said, it is terribly expensive. - na

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My mother has always told me she'd be a willing surrogate if I ever

decided to have a baby and not physically risk it. Unfortunately she

is now disabled herself and that is out of the question. My sisters

have offered their wombs for nothing in return, as has my aunt. I

guess that's love.

-Kendra

> > > Ok, I realize that I'm probably so far " out of the loop " on this

> > one that I should just keep my mouth shut... but I can't!

> > > First, I fully expect to pay for TWO weddings when my girls are

> at

> > that age. I don't see any reason why h would not date/ get

> > married when the right guys come along. She will get the same

> > *special talk* about sex when I feel she's old enough to handle it.

> > > As for pregnancy...... Right now h says she doesn't want to

> > have her own because " it looks like it would hurt " (she's watched a

> > few episodes of a baby story) but she's never considered having SMA

> > a reason NOT to have kids. She's asked how she will take care of

> > them and I've told her that between her husband, her PCAs and if

> > necessary me, she'll have all the help she needs.

> > > I am in a unique situation in that I had h so young (I was 16

> > when she was born). I've already told her that as long as my health

> > remains good I'll be perfectly able to be a surrogate for her. The

> > child would be hers biologically, I'd just be a big old human

> > incubator *LOL*

> > >

> > >

> > > Love and Hugs

> > > Jeni

> >

> > I just want to say you are a great mom! I talked about surrogacy

> > with my sister but aside from how terribly expensive it is, she has

> > many emotional problems (she is a recovering alcoholic and has

> > suffered with depression for many yrs) and I wouldn't want to put

> > her under any stress. We have considered paying someone but like I

> > said, it is terribly expensive. - na

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Kendra,

You are truly fortunate to have their support.

-na

> > > > Ok, I realize that I'm probably so far " out of the loop " on

this

> > > one that I should just keep my mouth shut... but I can't!

> > > > First, I fully expect to pay for TWO weddings when my girls

are

> > at

> > > that age. I don't see any reason why h would not date/ get

> > > married when the right guys come along. She will get the same

> > > *special talk* about sex when I feel she's old enough to

handle it.

> > > > As for pregnancy...... Right now h says she doesn't want

to

> > > have her own because " it looks like it would hurt " (she's

watched a

> > > few episodes of a baby story) but she's never considered

having SMA

> > > a reason NOT to have kids. She's asked how she will take care

of

> > > them and I've told her that between her husband, her PCAs and

if

> > > necessary me, she'll have all the help she needs.

> > > > I am in a unique situation in that I had h so young (I

was 16

> > > when she was born). I've already told her that as long as my

health

> > > remains good I'll be perfectly able to be a surrogate for her.

The

> > > child would be hers biologically, I'd just be a big old human

> > > incubator *LOL*

> > > >

> > > >

> > > > Love and Hugs

> > > > Jeni

> > >

> > > I just want to say you are a great mom! I talked about

surrogacy

> > > with my sister but aside from how terribly expensive it is,

she has

> > > many emotional problems (she is a recovering alcoholic and has

> > > suffered with depression for many yrs) and I wouldn't want to

put

> > > her under any stress. We have considered paying someone but

like I

> > > said, it is terribly expensive. - na

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[Guest guest]

wow! That's great!

Having supportive family is great whether it be surrogacy,

babysitting, car pooling, [all of the above and more].

My best wishes and prayers to you all!

charmedcripchic

> > > > > Ok, I realize that I'm probably so far " out of the loop " on

> this

> > > > one that I should just keep my mouth shut... but I can't!

> > > > > First, I fully expect to pay for TWO weddings when my girls

> are

> > > at

> > > > that age. I don't see any reason why h would not date/

get

> > > > married when the right guys come along. She will get the same

> > > > *special talk* about sex when I feel she's old enough to

> handle it.

> > > > > As for pregnancy...... Right now h says she doesn't

want

> to

> > > > have her own because " it looks like it would hurt " (she's

> watched a

> > > > few episodes of a baby story) but she's never considered

> having SMA

> > > > a reason NOT to have kids. She's asked how she will take care

> of

> > > > them and I've told her that between her husband, her PCAs and

> if

> > > > necessary me, she'll have all the help she needs.

> > > > > I am in a unique situation in that I had h so young (I

> was 16

> > > > when she was born). I've already told her that as long as my

> health

> > > > remains good I'll be perfectly able to be a surrogate for

her.

> The

> > > > child would be hers biologically, I'd just be a big old human

> > > > incubator *LOL*

> > > > >

> > > > >

> > > > > Love and Hugs

> > > > > Jeni

> > > >

> > > > I just want to say you are a great mom! I talked about

> surrogacy

> > > > with my sister but aside from how terribly expensive it is,

> she has

> > > > many emotional problems (she is a recovering alcoholic and

has

> > > > suffered with depression for many yrs) and I wouldn't want to

> put

> > > > her under any stress. We have considered paying someone but

> like I

> > > > said, it is terribly expensive. - na

> > > >

> > > >

> > > >

> > > >

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