Re: cottage cheese bummmmm .....lol.....- a

[Guest guest]

LOL Sorry a

Isn't the EFL book only four servings? I assume you just double everything

for your family? So the EFL book would be a good investment? How is it

going for you? I could use some inspiration from someone who has as many or

more kids as I do. I have four and I just turned 42 on the 28th of Feb. I

never would have guessed I'd be fat and over forty. My husband is so turned

off by the way I look that our relationship is going down hill fast.

Colleen

[Guest guest]

Yes He has actually said that. I am unhappy that our sex life is so bad

and I told him so. He told me to start exercising and lose the weight and I

would get all I want. I said fine. I'll exercise and lose the weight but

don't bother coming around cause I'm going to reject him like he's rejected me.

He then said fine...better to have a slim wife and not get any then to have

a heavy one.

Colleen

In a message dated 3/2/2006 1:10:02 P.M. Eastern Standard Time,

snoopie212@... writes:

Colleen-

Has he actually SAID that to you? Or are you assuming that?

I know I worried when I gained weight that my husband was less

attracted to me, but the truth was I wasn't happy with me. SO i

wouldn't imitate as much or wear clothes that were sexy b/c I felt so

unsexy. But that my hang up - not his. When we finally talked about

it, he made it very clear that he loves me any size. I think it was

the granny panties he wasn't so fond of.

If your husband has said that to you, I'd really caution you to think

about your relationship and to talk to someone b/c a comment like that

could really affect your self esteem.

> My husband is so turned

> off by the way I look that our relationship is going down hill

fast.

>

> Colleen

>

>

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[Guest guest]

In a message dated 3/2/2006 1:10:02 P.M. Eastern Standard Time,

snoopie212@... writes:

Colleen-

Has he actually SAID that to you? Or are you assuming that?

I know I worried when I gained weight that my husband was less

attracted to me, but the truth was I wasn't happy with me. SO i

wouldn't iniitate as much or wear clothes that were sexy b/c I felt so

unsexy. But that my hang up - not his. When we finally talked about

it, he made it very clear that he loves me any size. I think it was

the granny panties he wasn't so fond of.

If your husband has said that to you, I'd really caution you to think

about your relationship and to talk to someone b/c a comment like that

could really affect your self esteem.

> My husband is so turned

> off by the way I look that our relationship is going down hill

fast.

>

> Colleen

>

>

> [Non-text portions of this message have been removed]

>

Links

[Guest guest]

What is " I started following BFL 1/1 " mean? Thanks I may take you up

on it.

Colleen

[Guest guest]

Colleen-

Has he actually SAID that to you? Or are you assuming that?

I know I worried when I gained weight that my husband was less

attracted to me, but the truth was I wasn't happy with me. SO i

wouldn't iniitate as much or wear clothes that were sexy b/c I felt so

unsexy. But that my hang up - not his. When we finally talked about

it, he made it very clear that he loves me any size. I think it was

the granny panties he wasn't so fond of.

If your husband has said that to you, I'd really caution you to think

about your relationship and to talk to someone b/c a comment like that

could really affect your self esteem.

> My husband is so turned

> off by the way I look that our relationship is going down hill

fast.

>

> Colleen

>

>

>

[Guest guest]

<<<So the EFL book would be a good investment? How is it

going for you?>>>

Colleen,

I really enjoy the cookbook. On an average the recipes do serve four, but the

servings are HUGE! My three oldest are teenage girls and usually one serving is

enough for two of them....so I guess you have to adjust it to suit your family

and their appetite sizes.

<<< I could use some inspiration from someone who has as many or

more kids as I do. I have four and I just turned 42 on the 28th of Feb.>>>

I'll be 39 yrs old in Sept. I started dieting 5 months ago needing to lose 78

lbs and lost 39 lbs. I started following BFL 1/1 and so far have lost another

16 lbs. There is hope, if you want to chat privately you can email me anytime.

I'm no expert, but I certainly will cheer you any way I can.

a

[Guest guest]

<<<I think it was the granny panties he wasn't so fond of.>>>

You gals are just cracking me up today!!!

I don't feel to sexy in my " one size fits all " maternity panties that finally

fit me. lol Do you think it's time to thumb through the 's Secret

catalog and see if the sizes are big enough to cover my backside but yet make

feel girly?

a

[Guest guest]

Hey, you know how Bill says you gotta do stuff for others?

Buying a thong and wearing it for hubby counts! ;-)

's Secret? Go get something comfortable from Walmart! haha.

unless you want the added pleasure of knowing it is a 4-oz pc of fabric that

cost $20!

And yes, sometimes that is important too.

Jami

Message: 25

Date: Thu, 2 Mar 2006 13:39:41 -0500

From: " Littlestthings " <LittlestThings@...>

Subject: Re: cottage cheese bummmmm .....lol.....- a

<<<I think it was the granny panties he wasn't so fond of.>>>

You gals are just cracking me up today!!!

I don't feel to sexy in my " one size fits all " maternity panties that

finally fit me. lol Do you think it's time to thumb through the

's Secret catalog and see if the sizes are big enough to cover my

backside but yet make feel girly?

a

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[Guest guest]

Colleen , please tell me you told him to kiss your heavy Bummmmm ..... but baby,

if you do this make sure you do it for yourself , not so that he could have a

skinny wife ......don't do this , but me being who i am would probably gain

weight just to make him mad ...... lol...... but don't do that .... you need to

get your self esteam up , and work on you ....... but not for HIM....... keep

it up this bfl works ..... have a great day, Ang......

CzMarie04@... wrote:

Yes He has actually said that. I am unhappy that our sex life is so bad

and I told him so. He told me to start exercising and lose the weight and I

would get all I want. I said fine. I'll exercise and lose the weight but

don't bother coming around cause I'm going to reject him like he's rejected me.

He then said fine...better to have a slim wife and not get any then to have

a heavy one.

Colleen

In a message dated 3/2/2006 1:10:02 P.M. Eastern Standard Time,

snoopie212@... writes:

Colleen-

Has he actually SAID that to you? Or are you assuming that?

I know I worried when I gained weight that my husband was less

attracted to me, but the truth was I wasn't happy with me. SO i

wouldn't imitate as much or wear clothes that were sexy b/c I felt so

unsexy. But that my hang up - not his. When we finally talked about

it, he made it very clear that he loves me any size. I think it was

the granny panties he wasn't so fond of.

If your husband has said that to you, I'd really caution you to think

about your relationship and to talk to someone b/c a comment like that

could really affect your self esteem.

> My husband is so turned

> off by the way I look that our relationship is going down hill

fast.

>

> Colleen

>

>

> [Non-text portions of this message have been removed]

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Links

[Guest guest]

Sounds to me like hubby is part of the problem, not part of the solution.

>>> shaynsethsmom@... 3/2/2006 3:04 pm >>>

Colleen , please tell me you told him to kiss your heavy Bummmmm ..... but baby,

if you do this make sure you do it for yourself , not so that he could have a

skinny wife ......don't do this , but me being who i am would probably gain

weight just to make him mad ...... lol...... but don't do that .... you need to

get your self esteam up , and work on you ....... but not for HIM....... keep

it up this bfl works ..... have a great day, Ang......

CzMarie04@... wrote:

Yes He has actually said that. I am unhappy that our sex life is so bad

and I told him so. He told me to start exercising and lose the weight and I

would get all I want. I said fine. I'll exercise and lose the weight but

don't bother coming around cause I'm going to reject him like he's rejected me.

He then said fine...better to have a slim wife and not get any then to have

a heavy one.

Colleen

In a message dated 3/2/2006 1:10:02 P.M. Eastern Standard Time,

snoopie212@... writes:

Colleen-

Has he actually SAID that to you? Or are you assuming that?

I know I worried when I gained weight that my husband was less

attracted to me, but the truth was I wasn't happy with me. SO i

wouldn't imitate as much or wear clothes that were sexy b/c I felt so

unsexy. But that my hang up - not his. When we finally talked about

it, he made it very clear that he loves me any size. I think it was

the granny panties he wasn't so fond of.

If your husband has said that to you, I'd really caution you to think

about your relationship and to talk to someone b/c a comment like that

could really affect your self esteem.

> My husband is so turned

> off by the way I look that our relationship is going down hill

fast.

>

> Colleen

>

>

> [Non-text portions of this message have been removed]

>

Links

[Guest guest]

Colleen,

Just a quick note to let you know that you are not alone. I have 4 kiddos

too and the same problems with dh. Where are you in your challenge? If you

ever want to chat, feel free to contact me at plyweed@...

-- Re: cottage cheese bummmmm .....lol...

..- a

LOL Sorry a

Isn't the EFL book only four servings? I assume you just double

everything

for your family? So the EFL book would be a good investment? How is it

going for you? I could use some inspiration from someone who has as many

or

more kids as I do. I have four and I just turned 42 on the 28th of Feb.

I

never would have guessed I'd be fat and over forty. My husband is so

turned

off by the way I look that our relationship is going down hill fast.

Colleen

[Guest guest]

Oh, Colleen, I am so sorry. Go out there and show him what he is missing.

-- Re: cottage cheese bummmmm .....lol...

..- a

Yes He has actually said that. I am unhappy that our sex life is so bad

and I told him so. He told me to start exercising and lose the weight and

I

would get all I want. I said fine. I'll exercise and lose the weight but

don't bother coming around cause I'm going to reject him like he's rejected

me.

He then said fine...better to have a slim wife and not get any then to have

a heavy one.

Colleen

In a message dated 3/2/2006 1:10:02 P.M. Eastern Standard Time,

snoopie212@... writes:

Colleen-

Has he actually SAID that to you? Or are you assuming that?

I know I worried when I gained weight that my husband was less

attracted to me, but the truth was I wasn't happy with me. SO i

wouldn't imitate as much or wear clothes that were sexy b/c I felt so

unsexy. But that my hang up - not his. When we finally talked about

it, he made it very clear that he loves me any size. I think it was

the granny panties he wasn't so fond of.

If your husband has said that to you, I'd really caution you to think

about your relationship and to talk to someone b/c a comment like that

could really affect your self esteem.

> My husband is so turned

> off by the way I look that our relationship is going down hill

fast.

>

> Colleen

>

>

> [Non-text portions of this message have been removed]

>

Links