Working 16 Hours and Working out

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My daughter works from 6pm-10pm Mon, Tues and 10pm-6am and 7am-2pm(two

different jobs) Wed thru Sun. She attends the gym 4-5pm mon, tues and

from 8pm-9pm Wed thru Thurs. She averages 3-5 hours of sleep. She took

off two semesters from college to save money, and plans to follow this

schedule for 8 months.

I'm divorced, without financial assistance, and can't afford to help

pay my daughters bills and extra expenses. If she just worked the one

job she has had for a few years, she could afford her bills, but it

would take longer to pay them off. Maybe two years. I pay the rent,

utilities, food, ect. She only has to work to pay her bills: cell

phone, car payment($8000 left to pay off), clothing, department store

cards, ect.

Of course I've nagged about the dangers of not getting enough sleep,

was against her buying a new FIRST time car, and other things. But she

just says if she works, she can pay her bills, and if I can't help

her, to stop making it worse by nagging. She is very responsible, and

pays all her bills on time.

She recently had a physical/blood work(which I begged her to take),

and the doctor said she just needs sleep and a multivitamin. I'm

worried that she will have a car accident, hurt herself at work(works

around hot foods/assembly machine), or get physically sick. She either

has a headache, irritated stomach, or looks tired. After paying bills,

she puts the rest in savings(she showed me her recent bank statement).

Can anyone recommend a website that lists the symptoms of sleep

deprivation? I've came across a few, but they just mention the basics

such as irritability, moodiness, ect. There has to be more. I don't

know how to convince her to let the second job go. Or am I overacting?

Should I just stay out of her business? She plans to move out next

year, so I won't know what she's doing then. I know people who work at

both of her jobs, and they all say she looks tired. I'm worried about

her. Cath