Re: not much today :(

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Does your DH forget your anniversary often? JenFestival City Concrete <pvisser@...> wrote: well, i had a crappy day today.... slept in and felt groggy and grumpy all day. didnt get much of anything accomplished, except a bunch of tv watching ::sigh:: the kids werent bad for me today, but it was our wedding anniversary and my dh either forgot or chose to

ignore it. my MIL even sent us an email msg about it and im pretty sure that dh saw it yet still didnt say anything. i felt a bit bummed that my MIL remembered but my dh didnt :/ although to be fair, she writes these things down on a calendar and my dh doesnt. oh well. i decided to just forget about it, but then around 9pm dh let my little doggie outside without tying him up and the pup ran away, across the countryside. dh says that he didnt do it, blames the kids, yet i know for a fact that the kids did not go outside while the dog was in the house. im hoping so much that my little fur-baby (he is not quite 9 months old) will be ok out all night by himself and that he will return to me tomorrow. im quite upset with the dh tonight and took my frustrations out on 2 bowls of ice cream... ack! not good. i also missed my workout... the first one in 11 days! i was on such a good roll, too. tomorrow i have to take our

son to his baseball tournament but when i get back, i will be marching myself upstairs to my workout room. so i blew the august challenge today, but will redeem myself by not messing it up again!:*carolyn. __________________________________________________

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What a bummer Carolyn, I'm so sorry about dh. But like you've said before it's not surprising, right? He doesn't normally celebrate those things??Anyway, I really hope today is better, I would vent to dh about how you feel. Maye he will somehow make you feel better. I sure hope your pup comes back too. Hang in there. Stay postive...

HUGS..DarcyOn 8/12/06, from Michigan <volleyjen0416@...> wrote:

Does your DH forget your ur panniversary often? JenFestival City Concrete <

pvisser@...> wrote: well, i had a crappy day today.... slept in and felt groggy and grumpy all day. didnt get much of anything accomplished, except a bunch of tv watching ::sigh:: the kids werent bad for me today, but it was our wedding anniversary and my dh either forgot or chose to

ignore it. my MIL even sent us an email msg about it and im pretty sure that dh saw it yet still didnt say anything. i felt a bit bummed that my MIL remembered but my dh didnt :/ although to be fair, she writes these things down on a calendar and my dh doesnt. oh well. i decided to just forget about it, but then around 9pm dh let my little doggie outside without tying him up and the pup ran away, across the countryside. dh says that he didnt do it, blames the kids, yet i know for a fact that the kids did not go outside while the dog was in the house. im hoping so much that my little fur-baby (he is not quite 9 months old) will be ok out all night by himself and that he will return to me tomorrow. im quite upset with the dh tonight and took my frustrations out on 2 bowls of ice cream... ack! not good. i also missed my workout... the first one in 11 days! i was on such a good roll, too. tomorrow i have to take our

son to his baseball tournament but when i get back, i will be marching myself upstairs to my workout room. so i blew the august challenge today, but will redeem myself by not messing it up again!:*carolyn.

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Hi Carolyn,

So sorry to hear about the crappy day....ugh! I hope

your dog is okay - keep us posted. My dog is an

escape artist and even though we spent quite a bit of

money to fence our yard she still gets out. I tie her

on a rope if I'm not there to watch her, DH just lets

her go and always " forgets " about how she can get

out.. GRR!!

I think I may have missed my workout opportunity for

today, so I also stumbled on the challenge, but we'll

pick ourselves up and start over!

((HUGS))

Donna

--- Festival City Concrete <pvisser@...> wrote:

> well, i had a crappy day today.... slept in and

> felt groggy and

> grumpy all day. didnt get much of anything

> accomplished, except a

> bunch of tv watching ::sigh:: the kids werent bad

> for me today, but

> it was our wedding anniversary and my dh either

> forgot or chose to

> ignore it. my MIL even sent us an email msg about

> it and im pretty

> sure that dh saw it yet still didnt say anything. i

> felt a bit

> bummed that my MIL remembered but my dh didnt :/

> although to be

> fair, she writes these things down on a calendar and

> my dh doesnt.

> oh well. i decided to just forget about it, but

> then around 9pm dh

> let my little doggie outside without tying him up

> and the pup ran

> away, across the countryside. dh says that he

> didnt do it, blames

> the kids, yet i know for a fact that the kids did

> not go outside

> while the dog was in the house. im hoping so much

> that my little

> fur-baby (he is not quite 9 months old) will be ok

> out all night by

> himself and that he will return to me tomorrow. im

> quite upset with

> the dh tonight and took my frustrations out on 2

> bowls of ice

> cream... ack! not good. i also missed my

> workout... the first

> one in 11 days! i was on such a good roll, too.

> tomorrow i have to

> take our son to his baseball tournament but when i

> get back, i will

> be marching myself upstairs to my workout room. so

> i blew the

> august challenge today, but will redeem myself by

> not messing it up

> again!

> :*carolyn.

>

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Carolyn,

I'm sorry to hear about your dog and your dh forgetting your anniversary, that alone has to hurt. I'm hoping by the time you read this he will have remembered your anniversary and your little dog has came back home.

My day has been horrible too. Our daughter got a new job and we had to take her about 50 or so miles from where we live for orientation. and we ended up having to wait on her for 3 hours in a hot car. Frustrations built up and me and dh got into and are still into it. It seems like once I get in a bad mood it takes a lot to get me back to normal, I hate that feeling.

I haven't worked out yet today, but plan to this evening.

Hang in there.

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Oh my gosh , 3 hours in a hot car? That's horrible.... Didn't you have the keys so you could at least get some air conditioning once in awhile? I would have died. I am so impatient when it comes to waiting on people.

DarcyOn 8/13/06, fitgrl222@... <fitgrl222@...> wrote:

Carolyn,

I'm sorry to hear about your dog and your dh forgetting your anniversary, that alone has to hurt. I'm hoping by the time you read this he will have remembered your anniversary and your little dog has came back home.

My day has been horrible too. Our daughter got a new job and we had to take her about 50 or so miles from where we live for orientation. and we ended up having to wait on her for 3 hours in a hot car. Frustrations built up and me and dh got into and are still into it. It seems like once I get in a bad mood it takes a lot to get me back to normal, I hate that feeling.

I haven't worked out yet today, but plan to this evening.

Hang in there.

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In a message dated 8/13/2006 4:59:35 P.M. US Eastern Standard Time, pvisser@... writes:

looking forward to your report.

Well, my report is nothing lol ....well we did walk 2 1/2 miles with our dogs today, if that counts. That was before the long wait in the car.

We had so much to do today that I figured I'd take my one and only 2 straight days off for the month. I'm trying to pick 2 days each month and do no workouts, but do this just once a month of course lol

I was sort of forced into taking today off too with all that we've had to do. So I came home and done a few chores and took a nice hot shower and now I'm looking forward to my workout tomorrow. Things did eventually cool down and DH came in and said "can we start the day over?" I was like "YES!!"

I'm glad you can laugh about your anniversary. I am still so sorry that he missed it. Anniversary's mean a lot to women and I don't think men really realize that. I know they mean a lot to me. Men, what can you do?

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Donna M-P wrote:

>

> DH just lets

> her go and always " forgets " about how she can get

> out.. GRR!!

>

hi donna! im glad im not alone in this one!! geesh! WTF??

my doggie came back! i am so glad that he seems to know where he lives

at such a young age, and for not living here for very long. my dh is

lucky, i tell ya!

>

> I think I may have missed my workout opportunity for

> today, so I also stumbled on the challenge, but we'll

> pick ourselves up and start over!

>

ah well... that is the way that it goes. no challenge is 100% perfect,

it seems. i got back on track, so im happy now :-)

im sure that you have as well.

:*carolyn.

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fitgrl222@... wrote:

>

> I'm sorry to hear about your dog and your dh forgetting your

> anniversary, that alone has to hurt. I'm hoping by the time you read

> this he will have remembered your anniversary and your little dog has

> came back home.

thankyou michelle! you are so nice :-)

doggie came back, but when i finally reminded dh about the anniversary,

he said 'what? has the 10th come already?'. and well, yes, it did,

but our date was on the 11th! LOL i can only put on a laugh and

shake my head at him... cant do much else about it! being mad doesnt

help :-\

> Frustrations built up and me and dh got into and are still into it.

> It seems like once I get in a bad mood it takes a lot to get me back

> to normal, I hate that feeling.

oh my, im sorry to hear that you had such a spat... it does happen

easily when everyone's tempers are already simmering. and yes, i hate

that 'bad mood' feeling too. i was still feeling peeved this morning

so i got up and did some cardio. that helped quite a bit!

> I haven't worked out yet today, but plan to this evening.

and you will! looking forward to your report.

> Hang in there.

thanks! i will and hope that you will too.

:*carolyn.

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Yay about Carolyn's dog coming back!! Great to hear, and I'm also so glad to hear that you and dh are made-up :)DarcyOn 8/13/06,

fitgrl222@... <fitgrl222@...> wrote:

In a message dated 8/13/2006 4:59:35 P.M. US Eastern Standard Time, pvisser@... writes:

looking forward to your report.

Well, my report is nothing lol ....well we did walk 2 1/2 miles with our dogs today, if that counts. That was before the long wait in the car.

We had so much to do today that I figured I'd take my one and only 2 straight days off for the month. I'm trying to pick 2 days each month and do no workouts, but do this just once a month of course lol

I was sort of forced into taking today off too with all that we've had to do. So I came home and done a few chores and took a nice hot shower and now I'm looking forward to my workout tomorrow. Things did eventually cool down and DH came in and said " can we start the day over? " I was like " YES!! "

I'm glad you can laugh about your anniversary. I am still so sorry that he missed it. Anniversary's mean a lot to women and I don't think men really realize that. I know they mean a lot to me. Men, what can you do?

~M

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