Sorry

[Guest guest]

Hi ,

I'm so sorry about you being in the Hospital...I hope you are o.k. now! You

are in my thoughts and prayers!

Marcia

Mom to Sara (DS) and 5 and Lucas 9

[Guest guest]

,

Sorry to hear that you were not feeling well....

sounded like a very scary thing, glad you are

home & hope you feel tons better

Amber : )

[Guest guest]

,

I'm sorry to hear that you were ill. I hope you

have a speedy recovery. mom to Landon (Ds) and

Ashton 23 months

ol.com wrote:

> Hi all - I've been in the hospital for the last

> week and my mail is a

> little overwhelming. I will probably not get to it

> all so if anyone had

> written to me specifically please let me know. I

> went into respitory failure

> on 5/2 but am doing somewhat better. I came home

> yesterday and will be stuck

> here for a while so hopefully I'll be able to keep

> up. Love to you all.

> 1 mom to Rudy (ds) & 13

>

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[Guest guest]

Oh my gosh , that sounds very serious! What a shock. I hope that you

recover from this quickly.

Do you know why it happened? Just so curious!

Get plenty of rest and don't be tempted to get going again too fast now that

you are home.

Carolyn

Mum to on, , Emma (Ds) 4 and Nicki (Ds) 3

Sorry

> Hi all - I've been in the hospital for the last week and my mail is a

> little overwhelming. I will probably not get to it all so if anyone had

> written to me specifically please let me know. I went into respitory

failure

> on 5/2 but am doing somewhat better. I came home yesterday and will be

stuck

> here for a while so hopefully I'll be able to keep up. Love to you all.

> 1 mom to Rudy (ds) & 13

>

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[Guest guest]

, oh wow.. how are you feeling.. speedy recovery to you... Hope things

gey better.

Please Rest!!

mom to 6.5(DS) and Dayton 23months(DS)

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Sorry

> Hi all - I've been in the hospital for the last week and my mail is a

> little overwhelming. I will probably not get to it all so if anyone had

> written to me specifically please let me know. I went into respitory

failure

> on 5/2 but am doing somewhat better. I came home yesterday and will be

stuck

> here for a while so hopefully I'll be able to keep up. Love to you all.

> 1 mom to Rudy (ds) & 13

>

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> you see and manage all of your finances all in one place.

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> http://DSyndrome.com/Multiples

>

>

[Guest guest]

Hey 1

Sorry to hear about your hospital stay, hope your on the mend soon!

Gail.......Bobby 6, Jillian 3 1/2, and Tara{Ds} 13 months

>

> Hi ,

>

> I'm so sorry about you being in the Hospital...I hope you are o.k. now! You

> are in my thoughts and prayers!

>

> Marcia

> Mom to Sara (DS) and 5 and Lucas 9

>

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[Guest guest]

From: <lesfevr21@...>

> Hi all - I've been in the hospital for the last week and my mail is a

> little overwhelming

Dear 1,

The last thing you need to worry about is your mail! I wish I were closer

to help you out. Do you have someone there to take care of you?? Please

rest and know that you are in my thoughts and prayers. Get well SOON.

Love,

2

[Guest guest]

, please take care!

LOVE Kelli,(ds) and Tyler

Kelli....The old woman who lives in a shoe, she has so many kids,

they're doing her in! mom to , Greg, Twins...set A- April & Ash,

and set B- (ds) & Tyler (age 4).

[Guest guest]

OMG! ! Repiratory failure, how awful! What

caused it? So glad you are home now and I will keep

you in my thoughts and prayers for a speedy, complete

recovery!!

I've had terrible allergies lately and am on my second

sinus infection of the season with a bonus bout of

bronchitus too boot. While it's not respiratory

failure (some times with all the wheezing and coughing

I wonder), I can relate.

Hope your family is pampering you and taking good care

of you. If they're not, tell 'em Judi from Dallas

will drive up to Amarillo and kick their butt!!

Judi

--- lesfevr21@... wrote:

> Hi all - I've been in the hospital for the last

> week and my mail is a

> little overwhelming. I will probably not get to it

> all so if anyone had

> written to me specifically please let me know. I

> went into respitory failure

> on 5/2 but am doing somewhat better. I came home

> yesterday and will be stuck

> here for a while so hopefully I'll be able to keep

> up. Love to you all.

> 1 mom to Rudy (ds) & 13

>

__________________________________________________

[Guest guest]

Hi eslie, sorry hear about you been at the hospital I hope you are doing ok.

Take care and I will keep you in my prayers.

Mabel mom to Carolina, Cristian, a-ds 13.5 months old

>From: lesfevr21@...

>Reply-Multiples-DSegroups

>Multiples-DSegroups

>Subject: Sorry

>Date: Mon, 8 May 2000 11:31:39 EDT

>

>Hi all - I've been in the hospital for the last week and my mail is a

>little overwhelming. I will probably not get to it all so if anyone had

>written to me specifically please let me know. I went into respitory

>failure

>on 5/2 but am doing somewhat better. I came home yesterday and will be

>stuck

>here for a while so hopefully I'll be able to keep up. Love to you all.

> 1 mom to Rudy (ds) & 13

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[Guest guest]

Thanks for the chuckle!!! Youre great Judi!! Please be careful because

mine started with chronic bronchitis a month ago. I've been battling off and

on for about 5 months now and it just got the better of me. My hubby swears

its because he moved me out of the Valley and to the arid weather of

Amarillo. OH WELL ! Too late now huh? lol I still love it here though.

Thanks for watching my back!! lol

1

[Guest guest]

I'm sorry I haven't posted many messages lately. It's the end of the

semester and I'm still trying to get all my papers written and to study for

finals... let's see how that goes... it'll all be over in five days!

After finals I'm gonna go visit some relatives for a week and then I'll come

back for summer school. I have been really worried about that visit. My

relatives are as unhealthy as you can get. I mean, greasy food once a day

and lots of soda type of thing, or they eat out all the time --fast food,

mostly. They are severely overweight. I told them I was doing BFL, and they

said it was bad for me and that I am over-obsessed about my weight (I used

to be a yo-yo dieter before, and lost 20lbs last summer --which I gained

back after 6 months, BTW). Anyway, they think this is just another diet fad,

and though I explained to them what BFL was, I decided to just stop trying

to convince them because it didn't get me anywhere. So, the dilemma now is

doing BFL while I am there. I am gonna bring my shakes and myoplex bars, but

I don't know how I'm gonna do for the 3 other meals a day when I'm visiting

at their house. I don't wanna offend them if they cook for me or take me out

to eat. Plus, I'll be a guest, how do I go about telling them I need to go

buy wheat bread or cook brown rice, or whatever....????

Also, I was thinking of maybe finding a nearby gym and getting a free

one-week pass to work out over there, because can go running for cardio,

but what about the weights? I am really worried, I don't wanna offend them,

but at the same time, I have worked so hard to get to this, my 6th week, and

I don't wanna throw it all away just like that... any advice?? Please tell

me how to be tactful about this whole thing. Also, how do I convince them

BFL is good when they try to get me to stop doing it? They already think I

have bulimic tendencies (go figure!!!)

Thanks for the wise words I know I'll get from you!

Merced

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[Guest guest]

Hi Merced,

I don't know how wise my words might be , but there they are anyway! :-)

If you had diabetes, or some other disease that effected what you could &

couldn't eat, surely they would be flexible in preparing food for you? This

is something you 'have' to do to maintain your health & well being, just

like that; so maybe tell them you can't eat certain things 'for medical

reasons'.

Perhaps you could offer to cook a meal while you're there? Show them that

good food can taste nice too? If they take you out - that's great! Your get

to pick what to eat -maybe you could suggest a place that doesn't deep-fry &

crumb everything? Steak, baked potato & salad isn't a bad option I would

think? Oh, maybe bring a box of oatmeal with you for your breakfasts - then

it's only 2 meals a day to worry about! :-)

Other than that, just eat the good stuff that you can & maybe don't have a

free day that week to compensate?

Good luck with your papers & exams! :-)

Cheers,

Jill (Sydney, Australia)

----- Original Message -----

> After finals I'm gonna go visit some relatives for a week and then I'll

come

> back for summer school. I have been really worried about that visit. My

> relatives are as unhealthy as you can get. I mean, greasy food once a day

> and lots of soda type of thing, or they eat out all the time --fast food,

> mostly. They are severely overweight. I told them I was doing BFL, and

they

> said it was bad for me and that I am over-obsessed about my weight (I used

> to be a yo-yo dieter before, and lost 20lbs last summer --which I gained

> back after 6 months, BTW). Anyway, they think this is just another diet

fad,

> and though I explained to them what BFL was, I decided to just stop trying

> to convince them because it didn't get me anywhere. So, the dilemma now is

> doing BFL while I am there. I am gonna bring my shakes and myoplex bars,

but

> I don't know how I'm gonna do for the 3 other meals a day when I'm

visiting

> at their house. I don't wanna offend them if they cook for me or take me

out

> to eat. Plus, I'll be a guest, how do I go about telling them I need to go

> buy wheat bread or cook brown rice, or whatever....????

>

> Also, I was thinking of maybe finding a nearby gym and getting a free

> one-week pass to work out over there, because can go running for cardio,

> but what about the weights? I am really worried, I don't wanna offend

them,

> but at the same time, I have worked so hard to get to this, my 6th week,

and

> I don't wanna throw it all away just like that... any advice?? Please tell

> me how to be tactful about this whole thing. Also, how do I convince them

> BFL is good when they try to get me to stop doing it? They already think I

> have bulimic tendencies (go figure!!!)

>

> Thanks for the wise words I know I'll get from you!

>

> Merced

[Guest guest]

Tell them this is a doctor ordered nutritonal program you are on. Maybe your

relatives will abide by your wishes then.

~Laury

[Guest guest]

Tell them this is a doctor ordered nutritonal program you are on. Maybe your

relatives will abide by your wishes then.

~Laury

[Guest guest]

Its never funny to impersonate someone. It can also be considered a crime.

Identity theft and I am not kidding.

[Guest guest]

In a message dated 1/19/01 11:12:06 AM Eastern Standard Time,

jk-harding@... writes:

<< Hi Gail. It was actually me, ('s mom) who wrote about

the boys. The funerals were both this week and there is a memorial

at the elementary school today. The kids in the two classes wrote

letters to the boys and are going to attatch them to balloons and set

them free. I think it'll bring nice closer to all of this. We have

a very tight, close knit community and this has been hard on all of

us. But, so wonderful to see the amount of support!

Thanks for thinking of us.

>>

,

Sorry, I remembered it was you after I sent the post. I think that's great

that the community is so close and helping each other through this rough

time. You and your friends are still in my prayers.

Gail

[Guest guest]

Lynn hon,

No need to be sorry...it happens to most of us once in awhile.

....as far as losing your mind..everyone in this

group is perfectly *sane!* hehehehehehehe....

Love you, tricia

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-- Sorry

Sorry I keep sending private posts to the group, must have lost my mind.

Lynn Dudenhoefer

ldudette@...

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[Guest guest]

Kimi

Flaming is " to deliberately provoke a fight on a newsgroup or channel " - in

other words to fan the flames of argument. Someone who just jumps on

someones statement and starting having a go at them for no good reason is

flaming... in my eyes the difference between flaming, constructive

critisism and speaking your mind are a very fine line.

Equally someone who pops into a group and posts controversial information or

abuses someone is known as a " troll " . " Do not feed the troll " is the old

line I remember reading... ie. if someone trolls, dont give them the

satisfaction of arguing back... its what they want!

In the recent events, I would say the only people flaming where those

repeatedly posting abusive name calling emails, but hey, of course I believe

my actions were right

To kick someone from their group for something they said defending

themselves from a personal attack in a completely different group smacks of

childish revenge, but hey, its his group he can do what he likes. Of

course, if you really want to rejoin, make yourself another id and

request re-admission... lets face it, with that sort of moderation, why

would you rejoin?

Did you flame him... in my eyes no. You stated an opinion and then defended

it despite name calling. To me perfectly acceptable. I do not hold with

the " nothing nice to say, dont say it " school of thought because I believe

you have the right to defend yourself, and your territory, ie. this group.

I don't know the constitution (cos Im a Brit) but I understand freedom of

speech!

Kev

sorry

yes i hate to bring this up, but i feel since all of you were witness to

what

i said in regards to chris only allowing what he wants posted in his so

called intimacy group. is what i said flaming?? if i was then i eat my

words and

admit i was wrong. but for my own information what exactly does flaming

mean.

i never heard of it til i joined . i was under the impression

flaming was like harassment or behavior which was out of hand towards

another

member. i didnt think flaming was having an opinion or stating my feelings

about a certain subject. he discontinued my membership into his group

without

even saying anything to me. his reasoning is his group has zero tolereance

to

flaming? did i truely do this??

Concerned,

kimi

[Guest guest]

Kimi,

I'm not sure " flaming " has a dictionary definition but to me and most it's

name calling and other hurtful things that are made public. Having different

opinions is not flaming. Many disagree on MDA, using the word gimp along with

many other issues. Like Lori and I disagree on MDA but we don't call each

other names and we probably agree on other subjects. I don't see calling

someone

a liar on the list as a disagreement on a topic. If you have issues with a

member go to that member directly or come to me.

You were not the only one who acted a bit poorly and even flamed back.

Is there really a need to call someone a liar on the list who posted one

post? I understand you and a few others don't paretically like but not

everyone eon the list likes everyone else but 99% of us try to be respectful

even if we don't all click. What if a new member joined who didn't like you came

on and posted you are mean or selfish and that you should be removed from the

list? It wouldn't feel good. It isn't respectful.

I just felt was attacked for no reason at all or for reasons not

related to this list. Maybe you are right and he is a liar but I have no proof

of

that on the list and he hasn't acted poorly on this list. I have no reason to

remove him so far.

I hate to resort to removing a member over one incident. I give people

warnings. I can block posting privileges for a month. I feel we are like a

family

and sometimes family members say hurtful things in the heat of the moment or

disagree on issues.

[Guest guest]

In a message dated 6/24/04 4:31:03 PM Eastern Daylight Time, esma1999@...

writes:

> Is there really a need to call someone a liar on the list who posted one

> post? I understand you and a few others don't paretically like but not

>

> everyone eon the list likes everyone else but 99% of us try to be respectful

>

> even if we don't all click.

i re read your post rebecca and i wanted to add i never had a problem w/chris

until he accused me of lying. and i do feel i was respectful enough to him

after he acused I and others of lying. and he had posted more than once before

i posted anything in regards to his advertising. just trying to set the

posts straight.

kimi

[Guest guest]

I just have to say Kimi never called him a liar. I read the messages on that

topic again, and I didn't see anyone call him a liar. They were really just

stating their opinions. He was the only one calling people liars. And then

others were just defending themselves.

Re: sorry

Kimi,

I'm not sure " flaming " has a dictionary definition but to me and most it's

name calling and other hurtful things that are made public. Having different

opinions is not flaming. Many disagree on MDA, using the word gimp along with

many other issues. Like Lori and I disagree on MDA but we don't call each

other names and we probably agree on other subjects. I don't see calling

someone

a liar on the list as a disagreement on a topic. If you have issues with a

member go to that member directly or come to me.

You were not the only one who acted a bit poorly and even flamed back.

Is there really a need to call someone a liar on the list who posted one

post? I understand you and a few others don't paretically like but not

everyone eon the list likes everyone else but 99% of us try to be respectful

even if we don't all click. What if a new member joined who didn't like you

came

on and posted you are mean or selfish and that you should be removed from the

list? It wouldn't feel good. It isn't respectful.

I just felt was attacked for no reason at all or for reasons not

related to this list. Maybe you are right and he is a liar but I have no proof

of

that on the list and he hasn't acted poorly on this list. I have no reason to

remove him so far.

I hate to resort to removing a member over one incident. I give people

warnings. I can block posting privileges for a month. I feel we are like a

family

and sometimes family members say hurtful things in the heat of the moment or

disagree on issues.

[Guest guest]

> Kimi,

>

> I'm not sure " flaming " has a dictionary definition but to me and

most it's

> name calling and other hurtful things that are made public. Having

different

> opinions is not flaming. Many disagree on MDA, using the word gimp

along with

> many other issues. Like Lori and I disagree on MDA but we don't

call each

> other names and we probably agree on other subjects. I don't see

calling someone

> a liar on the list as a disagreement on a topic. If you have

issues with a

> member go to that member directly or come to me.

>

> You were not the only one who acted a bit poorly and even Chris

flamed back.

> Is there really a need to call someone a liar on the list who

posted one

> post? I understand you and a few others don't paretically like

but not

> everyone eon the list likes everyone else but 99% of us try to be

respectful

> even if we don't all click. What if a new member joined who didn't

like you came

> on and posted you are mean or selfish and that you should be

removed from the

> list? It wouldn't feel good. It isn't respectful.

>

> I just felt was attacked for no reason at all or for reasons

not

> related to this list. Maybe you are right and he is a liar but I

have no proof of

> that on the list and he hasn't acted poorly on this list. I have no

reason to

> remove him so far.

>

> I hate to resort to removing a member over one incident. I give

people

> warnings. I can block posting privileges for a month. I feel we are

like a family

> and sometimes family members say hurtful things in the heat of the

moment or

> disagree on issues.

>

>

>

[Guest guest]

In a message dated 6/24/2004 4:38:57 PM Central Standard Time,

eric@... writes:

I just have to say Kimi never called him a liar. I read the messages on that

topic again, and I didn't see anyone call him a liar.

Different viewpoints on subjects are fine but this was a case of different

opinions on a persons character, a person that is a member of the list. I see

no good in telling the whole list you dislike someone. You can tell that

member directly you don't like them if you wish.

We have many who could be called " lurkers " should we remove because the

don't post monthly?

Others promote their chat rooms, websites and books. It's really only

bothersome if it's done often. I don't see others jumping over those members.

Nobody seemed to notice the Water quality post that was clearly Spam (and that

member has been banned) only posted one blurp about his group and he

probably would have disappeared ifnot for others accusing him of spam and

gossiping about his actions on other lists. I'd hope others would not go by

gossip

about me but rather my actions. That's why I didn't pull him off. I guess we

could vote if he can stay or not.

Yes, he called people liars. Others called him a lurker, abusive,

hypocritical and other things. Others publicly on the list said he should leave.

Some

accused him of spamming. If someone called you a spammer, abusive and a lurker

wouldn't you speak up for yourself? It provokes a fight to brew. He only

posted that people were liars AFTER a few people sent negative posts about him

but I hardly blame him. Maybe he does get his jollys from stirring up fights

but I don't see that he started it.

If you think a member should leave come to me. Maybe it wasn't flaming but

it was gossipy. He just suggested one time on her to join his disability group

and that's not wrong. If he does it again he will be blocked.

[Guest guest]

Ok I have to do this..... RELIGION!!!! RELIGION!!!!!! whew!! ok thanks for hittin the delete key NOT REPLY.......

d suzie <suzieandsandy@...> wrote:

Deb,

I know, I broke the "no religion" rule but I just couldn't let what Danny said go unanswered. That will be the last time for me. I promise I will never again mention religion in group.

SuZie

Next time I'm coming back as a cat

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