Guest guest Posted December 16, 2003 Report Share Posted December 16, 2003 Betty, I'm not sure who all the people you talk about are to you, but I'm sorry for yours and 's loss. Sometimes life really doesn't make a whole lot of sense In a message dated 12/16/2003 9:56:29 AM Eastern Standard Time, banthony@... writes: can hardly see for the tears but I thought I should go off line for awhileand also give an explanation. Please, pray for and the rest of hisfather's family. His not quite ex-wife just called me at 6 a.m. thismorning. The sheriff department just let her know that Jim was killed in aone vehicle collission sometime last night. He rolled his truck on a sharpcurve. Whether it was suicide, drinking, both or just a plain accident, wehave no clue. But I do know he has been wanting to die because he felt hehad nothing to live for. 's mental health worker told us that he wasafraid this would happen if Jim did not get help. Oh, how do I tell is father is dead. How do I tell that yet a second husband haskilled himself, either by accident or on purpose. If it was on purpose, atleast this time he did not try to hit another car head on like the lasttime. I loved that young man like a son and like my own son I feared forhis life and now it is gone.BETTY Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted December 16, 2003 Report Share Posted December 16, 2003 I can hardly see for the tears but I thought I should go off line for awhile and also give an explanation. Please, pray for and the rest of his father's family. His not quite ex-wife just called me at 6 a.m. this morning. The sheriff department just let her know that Jim was killed in a one vehicle collission sometime last night. He rolled his truck on a sharp curve. Whether it was suicide, drinking, both or just a plain accident, we have no clue. But I do know he has been wanting to die because he felt he had nothing to live for. 's mental health worker told us that he was afraid this would happen if Jim did not get help. Oh, how do I tell is father is dead. How do I tell that yet a second husband has killed himself, either by accident or on purpose. If it was on purpose, at least this time he did not try to hit another car head on like the last time. I loved that young man like a son and like my own son I feared for his life and now it is gone. BETTY Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted December 16, 2003 Report Share Posted December 16, 2003 The young man that is dead was my grandsons', and Evan, father. He was 's (my daughter) second husband and the second one to die. He had been staying with us off and on since his separation from his second wife. He had just found a new house to move into but was still sleeping at our house. It was not even two hours after that news that someone else appeared on our door step to tell the other grandson's father that one of his long time friends was murdered last night by her boyfriend. The murderer is still at large. is in bed in shock. BETTY ANN-61 yo, probably undx'd bipolargrandma and guardian to ANDREW - 12 yo-- Bipolar/ADHD, HomeschooledEVAN - 9 yo-- nonverbal autismDAVID 7 yo Bipolar/ADHD and mother to ANDREA -32 yo, their mom -Bipolar/ADHD wife to BOB - 72 yo, a very tired grandpa----- Original Message ----- From: Lake260@... Betty, I'm not sure who all the people you talk about are to you, but I'm sorry for yours and 's loss. Sometimes life really doesn't make a whole lot of sense Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted December 16, 2003 Report Share Posted December 16, 2003 Thank you, Lorna. I received another reply from the list where I added the second blow to my daughter and 's father. The murder was the 3rd or 4th in our small community in the past 3 days. My sil was probably on his way to our home when he was killed. He had keys to our home and slept here several nights since his separation from his second wife. ----- Original Message ----- From: LornaBerry@... Betty, I sure hope you get this...now is not the time to pull away from your e-buddies. You are under so much, and although we cant come over and have our arms around you...cant see our tears..know that we are here. I am going to say a special prayer for you and your family today.If you decide you just need to let off steam, write me privately. Lorna Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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