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Whoa there..this was just a thread about examples how bfl can change

your thinking in your life. something fun to talk about. it was all

in fuuuuuuun. but hey..thanks for choosing meeee..

Kathi

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<tjmiller88@s...> wrote:

> But if you used to think it was a compliment, maybe the person who

said it THOUGHT they were paying a compliment. Some people just say

the wrong things out of ignorance, not malice.

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> Re: new photo--Lynda

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> Stasia..I used to think somebody saying I was " skinny " was such a

> compliment..now..if someone will say that to me..I am offended! I

> don't want to be called skinny or be skinny any more. that word

to me

> now goes with the word unhealthy. when I think of the word

skinny..I

> now think that is just as bad as being called fat. I want to be

called

> buff or really in

shape..fit..muscular..hot...volumptous..curvy..baby

> got back..ya know..all the good stuff..lol. I can't believe I have

> started thinking this way..lol..it is sure a different way to

look at

> things. I like havin some meat on my bones..meat as in

muscle..but I

> prefer not being " skinny " . I hope I don't get the skinny comment

when

> I reach my goals..lol.

> Kathi

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> In , " S Bachrach "

> <s_bachrach@y...> wrote:

> > Once someone told me that if I kept losing weight I was going

to

> > waste away. Sorta ticked me off. I wanted to say, do I look

skinny to

> > you, lol. I just can't imagine someone looking at me and

saying " oh,

> > you're really skinny. " I'll never be really skinny.

> >

> > Stasia

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