Guest guest Posted May 14, 2003 Report Share Posted May 14, 2003 BIG Hugs to ((((())))), (((((Ling))))), (((((Lee))))), (((((Helen))))), and everyone else that has lost thier mother, or thier children. I lost my mom 16 years ago, and it has been hard ever since, I go through the motions for my kids. And now they make it hard. Bridezilla sent me an email- I miss not having a mom. No dear mom, or happy mothers day, or love, ....... just the typical oh poor me, I dont get everything I deserve shit. When I cooled off the next day I wrote her a nice thank you note. I would like to remind her we live about 3 blocks away....but I just asked about the kids and mentioned I could sure use Sammys help in the garden- he loves it, the only time hes allowed to get dirty. Rich called Sat (in the Navy), said he might not get a chance Sun, and mentioned getting it over with? or something like that. I did my job, and listened to him complain with sympathy, and thanked him for thinking of me. Next son couldnt wait to go out to dinner with us, he went out to lunch with a girl. Understandable, hes 16. He mowed the lawn 1st. And he was very nice. The runaway dtr vacuumed the house for me, cause her father made her, and went back to bed. She didnt want to go out to eat, she didnt feel good. My oldest dtr that passed away, was the one that always made a big deal, always made a party of everything. So full of love & hugs. I miss her so much. It just wasnt mothers day without her. But I do think someone gave me that beautiful day in the yard- just what I wanted. Cant give up yet, Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted May 17, 2003 Report Share Posted May 17, 2003 Hi Anne! Now, how/why can someone alienate a kid against thier mother? I cannot understand that. I never badmouthed my ex, the girls never knew what a louse he was- simply because that would have been bad for them, it would have hurt them. So glad you had a good day! Hope yours come around. Its getting better here. Love, > No , never give up, my husband alienated the kids against me, but you > know one relative who is a niece went out of her way to invite me to a nice > dinner and I enjoyed that.The day was happy and I was with good company > Kids are notoriously callous on holidays, we know that, best thing is to > accept it and not let it tear us apart. Life continues no matter what. One > day they will all realize that my blood is their blood, that they can never > deny..Oh now I am getting dramatic, but tis true you know! > Anne Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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