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Hi list,

Here is the update from our share. A few weeks back, I mentioned about setting

up meetings with the teachers and the school on the 504 Plan. Fortunately, we

don't need all of that anymore. At least not with the current stubborn and

narrow minded school psychologist.

For the new members, would be a senior in his high school and had a

horrible junior year because the school refused to implement some of our

requested accomodations. His high SAT score was used to go against him for not

providing the accomodations. Because of the school's altitude, would not

have a happy year, if he returned to his school. He said that he would not

succeed for the coming year, if he returned. Therefore, I inquired about a few

med-sized colleges to see if they are willing to take a senior student.

Fortunately, there are such colleges! But, all of them require to have GED test

taken ( a test to qualify you as a high school graduate, when the high school

diploma is missing). The next GED will be in September and we would not have

time to take it before the school starts. I talked with Stocken College

in July. They were very interested in because of his SAT score. But,

lost his motives to a lot of things after the past year sufferings and was

not able to write the essay they needed. By the end of August, I was preparing

to go back to his high school. The Admission counselor called about

his essay and application on Aug30. Apparently, that gave the motivation

and he did the essay within two hours and went down to the college for

application (2 hours driving). The Dean was pleased with all his honor course

track, the SAT scroe and his computer tech support experiences. Since is

only missing the 12th grade English for his high school requirements, they were

willing to make exception for him to let him make up the GED later. Two days

later, we went down to register him into the college. That day, the Admission

Counselor was with us from 9:00am to 4:30pm to make sure everything is ok. We

were treated as VIP! got his long overdue respect back. At his high

school, he was treated as a bad student and a trouble maker. The most appealing

part is that the school appeared to be very coooperative in dealing with his

problem. Now, is taking the courses he likes and seems to be enjoying.

Of course, dealing with college is a totally different ball game and we'll learn

gradually. But, we are so happy that is now a freshman and is able to put

his high school behind. Thank you all for the support and advices you've been

given to us.

Take care.

TC

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TC,

What a wonderful story to share with us!! I am so

happy that things are working out so well for Chris.

Sometimes we just have to go around the normal routes

for our children who are so special. is very

lucky to have you as a parent!!

Take care,

in PA

--- tchao@... wrote:

> From: tchao@...

>

>

>

>

> Hi list,

>

> Here is the update from our share. A few weeks

> back, I mentioned about setting

> up meetings with the teachers and the school on the

> 504 Plan. Fortunately, we

> don't need all of that anymore. At least not with

> the current stubborn and

> narrow minded school psychologist.

>

> For the new members, would be a senior in his

> high school and had a

> horrible junior year because the school refused to

> implement some of our

> requested accomodations. His high SAT score was used

> to go against him for not

> providing the accomodations. Because of the school's

> altitude, would not

> have a happy year, if he returned to his school. He

> said that he would not

> succeed for the coming year, if he returned.

> Therefore, I inquired about a few

> med-sized colleges to see if they are willing to

> take a senior student.

> Fortunately, there are such colleges! But, all of

> them require to have GED test

> taken ( a test to qualify you as a high school

> graduate, when the high school

> diploma is missing). The next GED will be in

> September and we would not have

> time to take it before the school starts. I talked

> with Stocken College

> in July. They were very interested in

> because of his SAT score. But,

> lost his motives to a lot of things after the

> past year sufferings and was

> not able to write the essay they needed. By the end

> of August, I was preparing

> to go back to his high school. The Admission

> counselor called about

> his essay and application on Aug30. Apparently, that

> gave the motivation

> and he did the essay within two hours and went down

> to the college for

> application (2 hours driving). The Dean was pleased

> with all his honor course

> track, the SAT scroe and his computer tech support

> experiences. Since is

> only missing the 12th grade English for his high

> school requirements, they were

> willing to make exception for him to let him make up

> the GED later. Two days

> later, we went down to register him into the

> college. That day, the Admission

> Counselor was with us from 9:00am to 4:30pm to make

> sure everything is ok. We

> were treated as VIP! got his long overdue

> respect back. At his high

> school, he was treated as a bad student and a

> trouble maker. The most appealing

> part is that the school appeared to be very

> coooperative in dealing with his

> problem. Now, is taking the courses he likes

> and seems to be enjoying.

>

> Of course, dealing with college is a totally

> different ball game and we'll learn

> gradually. But, we are so happy that is now a

> freshman and is able to put

> his high school behind. Thank you all for the

> support and advices you've been

> given to us.

> Take care.

>

> TC

>

>

>

> ---------------------------

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TC,

I'm so glad that everything is working out for Chris!

Just for the record.... in case someone else is faced with

the same type of situation.... You could have gotten an

attorney or at least consulted with an advocate and threatened

legal action. I get soooo mad when schools play dumb about

504's and IDEA!

Take care and God Bless! Wish the best in college for me!

I bet this has already done a lot for his self esteem.

mary from La.

tchao@... wrote:

> From: tchao@...

>

> Hi list,

>

> Here is the update from our share. A few weeks back, I mentioned about

setting

> up meetings with the teachers and the school on the 504 Plan. Fortunately, we

> don't need all of that anymore. At least not with the current stubborn and

> narrow minded school psychologist.

>

> For the new members, would be a senior in his high school and had a

> horrible junior year because the school refused to implement some of our

> requested accomodations. His high SAT score was used to go against him for not

> providing the accomodations. Because of the school's altitude, would not

> have a happy year, if he returned to his school. He said that he would not

> succeed for the coming year, if he returned. Therefore, I inquired about a

few

> med-sized colleges to see if they are willing to take a senior student.

> Fortunately, there are such colleges! But, all of them require to have GED

test

> taken ( a test to qualify you as a high school graduate, when the high school

> diploma is missing). The next GED will be in September and we would not have

> time to take it before the school starts. I talked with Stocken

College

> in July. They were very interested in because of his SAT score. But,

> lost his motives to a lot of things after the past year sufferings and

was

> not able to write the essay they needed. By the end of August, I was

preparing

> to go back to his high school. The Admission counselor called Chris

about

> his essay and application on Aug30. Apparently, that gave the motivation

> and he did the essay within two hours and went down to the college for

> application (2 hours driving). The Dean was pleased with all his honor course

> track, the SAT scroe and his computer tech support experiences. Since Chris

is

> only missing the 12th grade English for his high school requirements, they

were

> willing to make exception for him to let him make up the GED later. Two

days

> later, we went down to register him into the college. That day, the Admission

> Counselor was with us from 9:00am to 4:30pm to make sure everything is ok. We

> were treated as VIP! got his long overdue respect back. At his high

> school, he was treated as a bad student and a trouble maker. The most

appealing

> part is that the school appeared to be very coooperative in dealing with his

> problem. Now, is taking the courses he likes and seems to be enjoying.

>

> Of course, dealing with college is a totally different ball game and we'll

learn

> gradually. But, we are so happy that is now a freshman and is able to

put

> his high school behind. Thank you all for the support and advices you've

been

> given to us.

> Take care.

>

> TC

>

> ---------------------------

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HI TC:

What wonderful news about Chris. He is finding the best place for him.

Today we had a very nice young man, only 14, in our office as he is here to

take 3rd year college classes. He is homeschooled and really enjoys taking

college classes. He is still young chronologically but getting the mental

stimulation he needs. Luckily he also has the personal maturity to make it

happen.

Please keep us posted about maybe he can find other accelerated kids

like himself to socialize with at his new college. Please tell him

congratulations and I am very proud of his achievements. Take care, aloha,

Kathy (Ha)

kathyh@...

At 03:11 PM 09/17/1999 -0400, you wrote:

>From: tchao@...

>

>

>

>

>Hi list,

>

>Here is the update from our share. A few weeks back, I mentioned about

setting

>up meetings with the teachers and the school on the 504 Plan.

Fortunately, we

>don't need all of that anymore. At least not with the current stubborn and

>narrow minded school psychologist.

>

>For the new members, would be a senior in his high school and had a

>horrible junior year because the school refused to implement some of our

>requested accomodations. His high SAT score was used to go against him for

not

>providing the accomodations. Because of the school's altitude, would

not

>have a happy year, if he returned to his school. He said that he would not

>succeed for the coming year, if he returned. Therefore, I inquired about

a few

>med-sized colleges to see if they are willing to take a senior student.

>Fortunately, there are such colleges! But, all of them require to have

GED test

>taken ( a test to qualify you as a high school graduate, when the high school

>diploma is missing). The next GED will be in September and we would not have

>time to take it before the school starts. I talked with Stocken

College

>in July. They were very interested in because of his SAT score. But,

>lost his motives to a lot of things after the past year sufferings

and was

>not able to write the essay they needed. By the end of August, I was

preparing

>to go back to his high school. The Admission counselor called Chris

about

>his essay and application on Aug30. Apparently, that gave the

motivation

>and he did the essay within two hours and went down to the college for

>application (2 hours driving). The Dean was pleased with all his honor

course

>track, the SAT scroe and his computer tech support experiences. Since

is

>only missing the 12th grade English for his high school requirements, they

were

>willing to make exception for him to let him make up the GED later. Two

days

>later, we went down to register him into the college. That day, the

Admission

>Counselor was with us from 9:00am to 4:30pm to make sure everything is ok.

We

>were treated as VIP! got his long overdue respect back. At his high

>school, he was treated as a bad student and a trouble maker. The most

appealing

>part is that the school appeared to be very coooperative in dealing with his

>problem. Now, is taking the courses he likes and seems to be

enjoying.

>

>Of course, dealing with college is a totally different ball game and we'll

learn

>gradually. But, we are so happy that is now a freshman and is able

to put

>his high school behind. Thank you all for the support and advices you've

been

>given to us.

>Take care.

>

>TC

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Hi list,

Thank you so much for the kind words and the generous blessings you gave us.

I'll keep you informed of Chris's progress.

, thanks for the advices. I realized our rights much too late. But, I

called our state (New Jersey) advocacy agency for our rights in the summer.

They instructed me what to do for this comming year. Fortunately, we don't

need this anymore.

Although this list should not be religious, but, I still like to share with you.

I prayed a lot on how we should move forward and where we should go. I had

thought that going back to high school was the answer for Chris. Therefore,

that magic phone call made from Stockton college's counselor a few days before

the school started really shocked me and it turned the whole thing around. It

was God's answer to my pray. Praise the Lord!

List, please DO NOT give up. Road seems to be frustrating and long for now.

But, hope always arrives to your surprise. Just look at so many good news,

small or big, happened to our list members lately. Take care.

TC

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TC,

Thanks for sharing with me and with the group.

I'm really glad that your prayers were answered!

Take care and keep us all posted.

mary from La.

tchao@... wrote:

> From: tchao@...

>

> Hi list,

>

> Thank you so much for the kind words and the generous blessings you gave us.

> I'll keep you informed of Chris's progress.

>

> , thanks for the advices. I realized our rights much too late. But, I

> called our state (New Jersey) advocacy agency for our rights in the summer.

> They instructed me what to do for this comming year. Fortunately, we don't

> need this anymore.

>

> Although this list should not be religious, but, I still like to share with

you.

> I prayed a lot on how we should move forward and where we should go. I had

> thought that going back to high school was the answer for Chris. Therefore,

> that magic phone call made from Stockton college's counselor a few days before

> the school started really shocked me and it turned the whole thing around.

It

> was God's answer to my pray. Praise the Lord!

>

> List, please DO NOT give up. Road seems to be frustrating and long for now.

> But, hope always arrives to your surprise. Just look at so many good news,

> small or big, happened to our list members lately. Take care.

>

> TC

>

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