Guest guest Posted August 17, 2011 Report Share Posted August 17, 2011 Dawn, Write a nice, positive Social Story about keeping our hands to ourselves and private parts means you don't touch anyone else's private parts. And mention that no one else is allowed to touch his private parts. Don't mention anything negative, just positive. Then read this story to him 2 or 3 times a day for a while, then decrease as needed. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted August 17, 2011 Report Share Posted August 17, 2011 Thanks ! Sent from my Verizon Wireless BlackBerry Re: Private Parts Dawn, Write a nice, positive Social Story about keeping our hands to ourselves and private parts means you don't touch anyone else's private parts. And mention that no one else is allowed to touch his private parts. Don't mention anything negative, just positive. Then read this story to him 2 or 3 times a day for a while, then decrease as needed. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted August 17, 2011 Report Share Posted August 17, 2011 I don't think it's a big deal. What kid w/ or wo/ds isn't curious? Clearly, he cannot touch other's private parts, just like no one can touch his. You might consider a visual to help reinforce that for him. Eleanor On Aug 17, 2011, at 9:21 AM, Dawn wrote: > Help! I am dealing with a situation that I am not prepared for and thought maybe some of you may be able to help me work through. This is a delicate subject for some so please feel free to delete if you are uncomfortable at all. I am uncomfortable asking about it but believe it will also be something others have or will have to deal with as well. > > My son (17) soon to be 18 is away at a special needs camp this week. He loves camp and has always had good reports on his behavior and never any problems. Of course that has all changed now. We received a call from the camp director yesterday that had touch another campers’ private parts (I believe it was a boy) not that it matters. The other child was not as far as I know upset at all. Now I do understand that he will be curious of others (boy or girl) and I am not taking this as a ‘gay’ thing at all just a curious thing. However, what do I do now? The director said he would speak to (personal space) has always been an issue with him and he has always engaged in attention seeking behaviors. He loves the reaction he gets which I believe is from others not including him in conversations, etc. They don’t realize they talk around him. He is on medication for ‘impulse control’ because he doesn’t always think before acting. > > IF I make a huge deal of this he will pounce on it and go looking for that reaction again and again. I have had the talk with him about not letting anyone touch you as well as keeping hands to oneself etc etc. > > Any thoughts, suggestions, ideas would really be appreciated. > > Dawn > Sent from my Verizon Wireless BlackBerry > > ------------------------------------ > > Click reply to all for messages to go to the list. Just hit reply for messages to go to the sender of the message. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted August 17, 2011 Report Share Posted August 17, 2011 So nice to hear someone 'say' that! Thanks for taking the time. I could actually feel that dread that's been hanging in my stomach lighten a little. Dawn Sent from my Verizon Wireless BlackBerry Re: Private Parts I don't think it's a big deal. What kid w/ or wo/ds isn't curious? Clearly, he cannot touch other's private parts, just like no one can touch his. You might consider a visual to help reinforce that for him. Eleanor On Aug 17, 2011, at 9:21 AM, Dawn wrote: > Help! I am dealing with a situation that I am not prepared for and thought maybe some of you may be able to help me work through. This is a delicate subject for some so please feel free to delete if you are uncomfortable at all. I am uncomfortable asking about it but believe it will also be something others have or will have to deal with as well. > > My son (17) soon to be 18 is away at a special needs camp this week. He loves camp and has always had good reports on his behavior and never any problems. Of course that has all changed now. We received a call from the camp director yesterday that had touch another campers’ private parts (I believe it was a boy) not that it matters. The other child was not as far as I know upset at all. Now I do understand that he will be curious of others (boy or girl) and I am not taking this as a ‘gay’ thing at all just a curious thing. However, what do I do now? The director said he would speak to (personal space) has always been an issue with him and he has always engaged in attention seeking behaviors. He loves the reaction he gets which I believe is from others not including him in conversations, etc. They don’t realize they talk around him. He is on medication for ‘impulse control’ because he doesn’t always think before acting. > > IF I make a huge deal of this he will pounce on it and go looking for that reaction again and again. I have had the talk with him about not letting anyone touch you as well as keeping hands to oneself etc etc. > > Any thoughts, suggestions, ideas would really be appreciated. > > Dawn > Sent from my Verizon Wireless BlackBerry > > ------------------------------------ > > Click reply to all for messages to go to the list. Just hit reply for messages to go to the sender of the message. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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