Re: handling musclehead men......

December 28, 2002

Hi , You know I decided that I will do what I want to do and

not talk to him about it. If he wants to ask me fine. I have been

working out but not totally bfl either. I was wearing a tank top

around the house today and he stared at me then he went over and

picked up the set of powerblocks I got him for christmas and just

smiled. So I feel better now, I can definitely see some definition

in my arms, it helps that I have a 2 and a 1 year old to pick up

constantly.lol. Now my tummy that's a different story! He hasn't

bothered me about it all he said is, I don't like skinny women. He

thinks I will get too skinny or muscular. He seems to prefer the

60's curvy body. I guess I am lucky in that regard.

-- In , " sfshadow

<sfshadow@c...> " <sfshadow@c...> wrote:

> There is really no reason to argue. My take on this is that they

> feel like they have spent so much time working out that they have

> qualified themselves as an expert. Also, men seem to feel like

they

> have to fix everything - THEIR WAY. At any rate, what I say

> is " Honey, I have to do SOMETHING " And then of course you could

do

> what I did in the beginning and just not let him see the book - I

> just went to the gym by myself. With food if they recognize the

> little plates as bodybuilder method, simply tell them that that is

> true and is a know method to increase metabolism and cut

calories.

>

> But try not to fight about it just be right about it.

>

> kelly

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