Guest guest Posted July 3, 2006 Report Share Posted July 3, 2006 Hi! Boy, I've been there! It gets easier when you have 3 adults for every kid! ha! Just kidding... it really does get easier, but there are no moms in any store anywhere who can't relate to that! Hang in there... you are someone's superwoman! Connie In a message dated 7/3/2006 2:10:25 P.M. Eastern Standard Time, mlsnewsgroups@... writes: I thought this might make some of you chuckle since I'm sure most of you have been in my shoes. I decided to take all 4 of my kids (ages 8, 6-tomorrow, my 4th of July baby, 4-DS, and 11 months) shoe shopping. Now this is a recipe for disaster to begin with, but we're leaving for vacation on Friday and 3 of them really needed new sandals. I've had worse experiences, but it wasn't going well - the baby was crying and I was trying to try sandals on our 4 year old. She of course is an angel for anyone but me so she was yelling and trying to sit down when I needed her to stand up (what is it about kids that allows them to triple their weight when they don't want to be picked up!). A well meaning woman walked by and helpfully remarked " Oh, don't worry - it gets much easier when they turn 3 " . I decided not to tell her that was already 4 since that would just make me look like an inept parent. When does it get easier? 20 years old maybe? Clearly 3 is not the magic age for . At least no one had to go to the bathroom this trip... mom to (8), (5), (4-DS), & Tyler (11 months) Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted July 3, 2006 Report Share Posted July 3, 2006 It never gets easier......just " different! " LOL. Hang in there! Jackie, Mom to 18ds, 15, and Bradley 12 -------------- Original message -------------- From: " " <mlsnewsgroups@...> I thought this might make some of you chuckle since I'm sure most of you have been in my shoes. I decided to take all 4 of my kids (ages 8, 6-tomorrow, my 4th of July baby, 4-DS, and 11 months) shoe shopping. Now this is a recipe for disaster to begin with, but we're leaving for vacation on Friday and 3 of them really needed new sandals. I've had worse experiences, but it wasn't going well - the baby was crying and I was trying to try sandals on our 4 year old. She of course is an angel for anyone but me so she was yelling and trying to sit down when I needed her to stand up (what is it about kids that allows them to triple their weight when they don't want to be picked up!). A well meaning woman walked by and helpfully remarked " Oh, don't worry - it gets much easier when they turn 3 " . I decided not to tell her that was already 4 since that would just make me look like an inept parent. When does it get easier? 20 years old maybe? Clearly 3 is not the magic age for . At least no one had to go to the bathroom this trip... mom to (8), (5), (4-DS), & Tyler (11 months) Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted July 3, 2006 Report Share Posted July 3, 2006 IMOH, the only time it gets better - is when they are asleep!!!!! Keep smiling Jan, mother of Trent 21yo (22on Friday) w/DS from the LandDownUnder Big Brother has started his trek home leaving the UK on Sunday and now making his way around Europe. shopping with the kids story... I thought this might make some of you chuckle since I'm sure most of you have been in my shoes. I decided to take all 4 of my kids (ages 8, 6-tomorrow, my 4th of July baby, 4-DS, and 11 months) shoe shopping. Now this is a recipe for disaster to begin with, but we're leaving for vacation on Friday and 3 of them really needed new sandals. I've had worse experiences, but it wasn't going well - the baby was crying and I was trying to try sandals on our 4 year old. She of course is an angel for anyone but me so she was yelling and trying to sit down when I needed her to stand up (what is it about kids that allows them to triple their weight when they don't want to be picked up!). A well meaning woman walked by and helpfully remarked " Oh, don't worry - it gets much easier when they turn 3 " . I decided not to tell her that was already 4 since that would just make me look like an inept parent. When does it get easier? 20 years old maybe? Clearly 3 is not the magic age for . At least no one had to go to the bathroom this trip... mom to (8), (5), (4-DS), & Tyler (11 months) Click reply to all for messages to go to the list. Just hit reply for messages to go to the sender of the message. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted July 3, 2006 Report Share Posted July 3, 2006 You poor dear! And I have read the other posts-nothing too encouraging. I was hoping for something. Myah is 5.5 and shopping without a stroller (and her strapped into it) is impossible! I feel for you-and TOTALLY understand! , mom to Myah 5.5 (DS) and Shianne-the Diva of the house (almost 2!!!) shopping with the kids story... I thought this might make some of you chuckle since I'm sure most of you have been in my shoes. I decided to take all 4 of my kids (ages 8, 6-tomorrow, my 4th of July baby, 4-DS, and 11 months) shoe shopping. Now this is a recipe for disaster to begin with, but we're leaving for vacation on Friday and 3 of them really needed new sandals. I've had worse experiences, but it wasn't going well - the baby was crying and I was trying to try sandals on our 4 year old. She of course is an angel for anyone but me so she was yelling and trying to sit down when I needed her to stand up (what is it about kids that allows them to triple their weight when they don't want to be picked up!). A well meaning woman walked by and helpfully remarked " Oh, don't worry - it gets much easier when they turn 3 " . I decided not to tell her that was already 4 since that would just make me look like an inept parent. When does it get easier? 20 years old maybe? Clearly 3 is not the magic age for . At least no one had to go to the bathroom this trip... mom to (8), (5), (4-DS), & Tyler (11 months) Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted July 3, 2006 Report Share Posted July 3, 2006 Sorry , nothing really changes as Jackie said things just become different - that stubborn independent gene will always shine through regardless of age. I can remember saying things like - I just can't wait until Trent can do/grow out of whatever, only to be confronted with yet another challenge. Must admit I do enjoy shopping these days when I see a mother challenged by a strongly independent child or with a child exploring and being inquisitive - but not the spoilt obnoxious type. Keep smiling Jan, mother of Trent 21yo (22 on Friday) from the LandDownUnder You poor dear! And I have read the other posts-nothing too encouraging. I was hoping for something. Myah is 5.5 and shopping without a stroller (and her strapped into it) is impossible! I feel for you-and TOTALLY understand! , mom to Myah 5.5 (DS) and Shianne-the Diva of the house (almost 2!!!) shopping with the kids story... I thought this might make some of you chuckle since I'm sure most of you have been in my shoes. I decided to take all 4 of my kids (ages 8, 6-tomorrow, my 4th of July baby, 4-DS, and 11 months) shoe shopping. Now this is a recipe for disaster to begin with, but we're leaving for vacation on Friday and 3 of them really needed new sandals. I've had worse experiences, but it wasn't going well - the baby was crying and I was trying to try sandals on our 4 year old. She of course is an angel for anyone but me so she was yelling and trying to sit down when I needed her to stand up (what is it about kids that allows them to triple their weight when they don't want to be picked up!). A well meaning woman walked by and helpfully remarked " Oh, don't worry - it gets much easier when they turn 3 " . I decided not to tell her that was already 4 since that would just make me look like an inept parent. When does it get easier? 20 years old maybe? Clearly 3 is not the magic age for . At least no one had to go to the bathroom this trip... mom to (8), (5), (4-DS), & Tyler (11 months) Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted July 3, 2006 Report Share Posted July 3, 2006 And then they are 14, and they don't like ANYTHING in the store, at least anything you pick out. And their mother in a dressing room with them, please................never. And cost, well, who worries about that?! And that shirt, well it looks like a shirt a girl would wear (newsflash, you are a girl). And I don't like blue (you did this morning). Sharon H. Mom to , (14, DS) and , (10) South Carolina shopping with the kids story... I thought this might make some of you chuckle since I'm sure most of you have been in my shoes. I decided to take all 4 of my kids (ages 8, 6-tomorrow, my 4th of July baby, 4-DS, and 11 months) shoe shopping. Now this is a recipe for disaster to begin with, but we're leaving for vacation on Friday and 3 of them really needed new sandals. I've had worse experiences, but it wasn't going well - the baby was crying and I was trying to try sandals on our 4 year old. She of course is an angel for anyone but me so she was yelling and trying to sit down when I needed her to stand up (what is it about kids that allows them to triple their weight when they don't want to be picked up!). A well meaning woman walked by and helpfully remarked " Oh, don't worry - it gets much easier when they turn 3 " . I decided not to tell her that was already 4 since that would just make me look like an inept parent. When does it get easier? 20 years old maybe? Clearly 3 is not the magic age for . At least no one had to go to the bathroom this trip... mom to (8), (5), (4-DS), & Tyler (11 months) Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted July 3, 2006 Report Share Posted July 3, 2006 Oh me, Oh my, Sharon. Now I met -I don’t hardly believe what you are saying!! Lol AND I have the almost 2 year old whose choice reading tonight while “potty training” was the Avon catalog so that she could see the make-up and point out all of the shoes. Man am I in trouble!!!! Re: shopping with the kids story... And then they are 14, and they don't like ANYTHING in the store, at least anything you pick out. And their mother in a dressing room with them, please................never. And cost, well, who worries about that?! And that shirt, well it looks like a shirt a girl would wear (newsflash, you are a girl). And I don't like blue (you did this morning). Sharon H. Mom to , (14, DS) and , (10) South Carolina shopping with the kids story... I thought this might make some of you chuckle since I'm sure most of you have been in my shoes. I decided to take all 4 of my kids (ages 8, 6-tomorrow, my 4th of July baby, 4-DS, and 11 months) shoe shopping. Now this is a recipe for disaster to begin with, but we're leaving for vacation on Friday and 3 of them really needed new sandals. I've had worse experiences, but it wasn't going well - the baby was crying and I was trying to try sandals on our 4 year old. She of course is an angel for anyone but me so she was yelling and trying to sit down when I needed her to stand up (what is it about kids that allows them to triple their weight when they don't want to be picked up!). A well meaning woman walked by and helpfully remarked " Oh, don't worry - it gets much easier when they turn 3 " . I decided not to tell her that was already 4 since that would just make me look like an inept parent. When does it get easier? 20 years old maybe? Clearly 3 is not the magic age for . At least no one had to go to the bathroom this trip... mom to (8), (5), (4-DS), & Tyler (11 months) Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted July 3, 2006 Report Share Posted July 3, 2006 LOL - at least she will try things on! Trent has an 'one size fits all' attitude to shopping, just pick out a style/colour that you like and that is it, shoes that is even more interesting, find a pair that you like put them on the floor either side of your shoed feet look down, 'yep' they will fit. Get him to try things on when we are home - first all shop tags must come off and the best way is to just yank them off. Then you have to be real quick to see if they fit okay and no way am I allowed to touch him/clothes to see what adjustments if any or whether a smaller size would be better. Smiled to myself earlier this year, Trent Shannen and I went on a shopping expedition to Melbourne for the sales. Melbourne is around 100k's away from our home and not our usual place to shop. Shannen had bought a couple of items, Trent purchased a shirt of his liking - bright, we had purchased a shirt for at this stage nothing for me. Without saying anything Trent wandered off, I suggested to Shannen as he had been really good clothes shopping with us we would have to follow him to where he wanted to go. We were in a large department store, with several floors which spread over a roadway, and a shop I don't normally go to let alone shopping with Trent. He took us to the ladies department and picked out a t-shirt for me to buy - forget the fact it was a colour and style I would never choice and way to large. Keep smiling Jan, mother of Trent 21yo (22 on Friday) from the LandDownUnder And then they are 14, and they don't like ANYTHING in the store, at least anything you pick out. And their mother in a dressing room with them, please................never. And cost, well, who worries about that?! And that shirt, well it looks like a shirt a girl would wear (newsflash, you are a girl). And I don't like blue (you did this morning). Sharon H. Mom to , (14, DS) and , (10) South Carolina shopping with the kids story... I thought this might make some of you chuckle since I'm sure most of you have been in my shoes. I decided to take all 4 of my kids (ages 8, 6-tomorrow, my 4th of July baby, 4-DS, and 11 months) shoe shopping. Now this is a recipe for disaster to begin with, but we're leaving for vacation on Friday and 3 of them really needed new sandals. I've had worse experiences, but it wasn't going well - the baby was crying and I was trying to try sandals on our 4 year old. She of course is an angel for anyone but me so she was yelling and trying to sit down when I needed her to stand up (what is it about kids that allows them to triple their weight when they don't want to be picked up!). A well meaning woman walked by and helpfully remarked " Oh, don't worry - it gets much easier when they turn 3 " . I decided not to tell her that was already 4 since that would just make me look like an inept parent. When does it get easier? 20 years old maybe? Clearly 3 is not the magic age for . At least no one had to go to the bathroom this trip... mom to (8), (5), (4-DS), & Tyler (11 months) Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted July 5, 2006 Report Share Posted July 5, 2006 LOL, I hate to tell you this (remember all kids are different) but Nic is 9 and just taking him alone shopping is a nightmare! hehehe He didn't inherit my shopping gene, obviously. Di shopping with the kids story... >I thought this might make some of you chuckle since I'm sure most of > you have been in my shoes. I decided to take all 4 of my kids (ages > 8, 6-tomorrow, my 4th of July baby, 4-DS, and 11 months) shoe > shopping. Now this is a recipe for disaster to begin with, but we're > leaving for vacation on Friday and 3 of them really needed new > sandals. I've had worse experiences, but it wasn't going well - the > baby was crying and I was trying to try sandals on our 4 year > old. She of course is an angel for anyone but me so she was > yelling and trying to sit down when I needed her to stand up (what is > it about kids that allows them to triple their weight when they don't > want to be picked up!). A well meaning woman walked by and helpfully > remarked " Oh, don't worry - it gets much easier when they turn 3 " . I > decided not to tell her that was already 4 since that would > just make me look like an inept parent. When does it get easier? 20 > years old maybe? Clearly 3 is not the magic age for . > > At least no one had to go to the bathroom this trip... > > > mom to (8), (5), (4-DS), & Tyler (11 months) > > > > > > > Click reply to all for messages to go to the list. Just hit reply for > messages to go to the sender of the message. > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted July 5, 2006 Report Share Posted July 5, 2006 awww, how sweeet! Di shopping with the kids story... > > I thought this might make some of you chuckle since I'm sure most of > you have been in my shoes. I decided to take all 4 of my kids (ages > 8, 6-tomorrow, my 4th of July baby, 4-DS, and 11 months) shoe > shopping. Now this is a recipe for disaster to begin with, but we're > leaving for vacation on Friday and 3 of them really needed new > sandals. I've had worse experiences, but it wasn't going well - the > baby was crying and I was trying to try sandals on our 4 year > old. She of course is an angel for anyone but me so she was > yelling and trying to sit down when I needed her to stand up (what is > it about kids that allows them to triple their weight when they don't > want to be picked up!). A well meaning woman walked by and helpfully > remarked " Oh, don't worry - it gets much easier when they turn 3 " . I > decided not to tell her that was already 4 since that would > just make me look like an inept parent. When does it get easier? 20 > years old maybe? Clearly 3 is not the magic age for . > > At least no one had to go to the bathroom this trip... > > > mom to (8), (5), (4-DS), & Tyler (11 months) > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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