Guest guest Posted December 2, 2004 Report Share Posted December 2, 2004 Hi Carolyn!! I'm sorry to hear that DH is acting badly....it is rough when things aren't going smoothly. DH and I had a pretty rough year, I'm sure most of it was related to the birth of DD and all the added new responsibilities (most of which fell on me!! GRR...) Things seem to be more smooth now, and I'm pretty sure that it is because she is getting older and some of the stressors are gone (and he is interacting more and in a better way with her....) I hope that you guys get through this rough patch quickly - it is so emotionally draining.....so I can understand the urge to pig out and veg out and not workout. But hang in there --- keep up the good work you've done...get back on the " wagon " and move on as best you can. Maybe it is just somjething that is bugging him and he needs to work through it. Either way -- here are some ((((((HUGS))))))) Donna > >thankyou kassia and donna for your encouraging words about my >DH. something is really wrong with him!! we had the same ridiculous, >yet insulting and hurtful, fight all over again this evening. i dont know >what is going on, if it is related to me finally losing weight or not, all >i know that he is acting quite strangely. and here i sit, not exericising >and pigging out on junk food. i am just so upset. thanks for >listening... i will definately work harder tomorrow morning to get my >workout done. i will try to combine today and tomorrows workout together >so that i dont fall behind in my rotation. i need to keep my focus and >not let things get to me so much :/ >*carolyn. > >At 03:26 PM 12/01/2004, Kassia wrote: > >i am sorry about your fight with hubby. dont let him get to you. there > >must someting wrong with his confiendence for him to be upset about you > >losing weight. as long as YOU feel good nothing should stop you. we are > >here for ya and we are proud of your progress > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted December 2, 2004 Report Share Posted December 2, 2004 thankyou donna! i dread the thought of him coming in this evening and us doing the fight thing all over again.... i so hope that he has gotten his thoughts/feelings together by then. while he is off doing that, im left to attend a parent-teacher interview with our sons, take them to a book sale, then a bake sale at school and set up all of the xmas decorations. i spent 3 hours yesterday doing the outside lights... by myself! he never helps me ::sigh:: i know what you mean about all of the added responsibility falling on you with your DD. all my husband has to do is go to work and i take care of everything else. and today he isnt even working... supposedly he has gone to a trade show in toronto (a couple of hours away). ::sigh again:: oh well, thanks for letting me vent. i am going to be working out shortly!! hopefully that will help me to clear my head and to get some of my frustrations out. thanks for being here and for being such a good friend. *carolyn. At 07:45 AM 12/02/2004, Donna M-P wrote: >I'm sorry to hear that DH is acting badly....it is rough when things aren't >going smoothly. DH and I had a pretty rough year, I'm sure most of it was >related to the birth of DD and all the added new responsibilities (most of >which fell on me!! GRR...) Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted December 2, 2004 Report Share Posted December 2, 2004 Carloyn - I wish I could give him a swift kick in the pants for you! Some men just aren't good at expressing themselves when they are frustrated, scared or worried...they just vent when they can't take it anymore - and unfortunately those closest to them are a "safe" target. I've been there, but DH has seen the light and now always gets it off his chest quickly (which can be a pain too - suck it up is just not in his vocabulary!) Enjoy that workout and get rid of that stress - a big glass of wine with dinner wouldn't be a bad idea either! Kathy -------------- Original message -------------- thankyou donna! i dread the thought of him coming in this evening and us doing the fight thing all over again.... i so hope that he has gotten his thoughts/feelings together by then.while he is off doing that, im left to attend a parent-teacher interview with our sons, take them to a book sale, then a bake sale at school and set up all of the xmas decorations. i spent 3 hours yesterday doing the outside lights... by myself! he never helps me ::sigh:: i know what you mean about all of the added responsibility falling on you with your DD. all my husband has to do is go to work and i take care of everything else. and today he isnt even working... supposedly he has gone to a trade show in toronto (a couple of hours away). ::sigh again:: oh well, thanks for letting me vent. i am going to be working out shortly!! hopefully that will help me to clear my head and to get some of my frustrations out. thanks for being here and for being such a good friend. *carolyn.At 07:45 AM 12/02/2004, Donna M-P wrote:>I'm sorry to hear that DH is acting badly....it is rough when things aren't>going smoothly. DH and I had a pretty rough year, I'm sure most of it was>related to the birth of DD and all the added new responsibilities (most of>which fell on me!! GRR...) Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted December 2, 2004 Report Share Posted December 2, 2004 Hi Carolyn, I hope this evening goes better for both of you!! Good for you on getting to your workout and no problem about venting...it is very good for us to vent!!! I do it all the time.. Sending good wishes.... Donna >thankyou donna! i dread the thought of him coming in this evening and us >doing the fight thing all over again.... i so hope that he has gotten his >thoughts/feelings together by then. >while he is off doing that, im left to attend a parent-teacher interview >with our sons, take them to a book sale, then a bake sale at school and set >up all of the xmas decorations. i spent 3 hours yesterday doing the >outside lights... by myself! he never helps me ::sigh:: i know what you >mean about all of the added responsibility falling on you with your >DD. all my husband has to do is go to work and i take care of everything >else. and today he isnt even working... supposedly he has gone to a trade >show in toronto (a couple of hours away). ::sigh again:: oh well, thanks >for letting me vent. i am going to be working out shortly!! hopefully >that will help me to clear my head and to get some of my frustrations >out. thanks for being here and for being such a good friend. >*carolyn. > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted December 2, 2004 Report Share Posted December 2, 2004 At 12:09 PM 12/02/2004, kvetro60@... wrote: > Enjoy that workout and get rid of that stress thankyou for your support kathy! i did workout!!! YAY!!! gilad's cardio for today turned out to be kickboxing so it was really great for getting out aggression/stress. *carolyn. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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