*URGENT* UPDATE ON LEIGH & BRYAN

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may i ask what happened to Leigh?? Car accident??

Why does have so many surgeries??

I hope she gets better real soon!

Hugs to you

Tasha

Aisha Elderwyn wrote:

*URGENT* UPDATE

ON LEIGH & BRYAN Please keep sending supportive

email. Please post it to Leighs email address at country_desire@... Here

is a letter from . Unfortunately Leigh is still in a coma :-( I

will keep you informed. Love Aisha. ~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~ It

is feels great being able to email you again.

Hello!

I have had my last surgery on my arm until a few

months from now. I can now move all my fingers, but

my fingers still do not have much strength. That is

due to all the surgeries and from the injuries too.

In a few months I'll have another surgery and if my

fingers do not regain their strength afterwards then

I'll have to have another type of surgery. Saturday I

left the hospital. A cousin from Leigh's side had a

wedding. I told the doctors that I am leaving and am

going to the wedding. I did. They wanted me to stay

another two days because of the surgery. I left the

hospital early in the morning and went to her parent's

house. I found out that their house was flooded

again. They had a flash flood behind the house and

water came into four rooms. Her parent's had been up

for 24 hours trying to get the water out in time. I

felt so sorry for them. After sending 24 hours of

hard labor, stress, and no sleep for over 24 hours,

they got ready and attended to the wedding. They did

not just attend, they stayed afterwards to help clean

up. They did not come back home until 3 in the

morning. Leigh is so lucky to have such a strong

family. The wedding was beautiful. Most of the time

I was remembering my own. I did not even hear their

vows because I was remembering Leigh and my vows. I

can still feel the feeling that I had on my wedding

day. A feeling that can not be expressed in words.

Her cousin was the bride and her cousin looked

beautiful, but Leigh looked more beautiful. The

reception was wonderful too. Her family sees me as

part of the family and we got along as if I have known

them for ages. I had fun. That night, her family

taught me that it is okay to worry, but you can still

have fun and be with your friends and family as you

worry. All of us were worried about Leigh. A few of

her aunts, uncles, and cousins almost cried, but all

of them still had fun. She has such a big family! I

have been told that she has 26 cousins and 16 second

cousins. She has cousins that are older then her

father. I stayed at the wedding until almost every

one was gone. I spent the next day at her parent's.

I rested the next day and almost locked the doors, so

my mother would not stop by every few hours to check

on me! Yesterday, I had a surprise and the hospital

did too. I was about to leave Leigh to go back home

to rest when a nurse rushed in. She said that there

was at least forty people in the waiting room. All

forty were claiming that they were here to see Leigh.

It was her old school. The school she graduated from

in June.

Her school is a small school of fifty students and

about ten staff members. The principal had allowed

all the student's to drive their selves to the

hospital to see Leigh. The principal considered it an

important field trip. They spent hours with Leigh. I

met some of her closer friends and they are just like

Leigh. Pain in the ***. Most of her friends are male

and every one of them are very protective of Leigh.

At our wedding we had a private conversation about

what would happen to me if I harmed her in any way.

One of them had been in boot camp and just got back,

so he was unable to attend the wedding. So all of

them, around twenty, had to redo the conversation. I

just shook their hands. After that, they acted as if

the conversation never happened. It was very strange

having that many people there at once. For hours,

they told me stories about what Leigh and they had

done. Stories that made me laugh and even be shocked.

The babies are in the same hospital with Leigh, so I

allowed them to see the babies. I only let her close

friends see them face to face though (i did this

without letting the others know). They started

telling the babies about hunting and fishing. They

said that they will have to get Alaria a pink knife to

skin the fish. After they left I realized that all of

my children are going to be country kids. My girls

are going to be tomboys. I was about ten years old

the first time I set foot in the country. My kids are

going to know how to ride horses by the time they know

how to walk! I can just see the kids walking in the

house after cleaning the horse stables with straw and

mud all over their cloths. Good news, the babies are

doing very good. They might be able to leave the

hospital in a few weeks. Leigh has not waken up. She

still moves like she did the first time. She smiled a

lot when her friends were here. Her sugar is normal,

but her blood pressure is still low. I know for sure

that she can hear every word that someone speaks to

her! She had signed up and payed for her college

classes before the accident. I called the college and

cancelled everything. I called them at the hospital.

When I was finished, I planned to get some rest so I

gave her a kiss. I next thing I knew, she smacked me.

When I looked at her, she had an angry look. I

laughed so hard. I knew she was angry because I

cancelled her college. She did not smack me hard, she

does not have the strength for that, but I was still

amazed and shocked from it. I missed emailing that I

do not think I left any small detail out. Sorry I had

not emailed sooner. I have been trying to get a lot

of rest.

My family hopes all of you are doing good. Keep a

smile on your face. We miss you.

Love,

, Leigh, Xavier, Blaize, and Alaira

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[Guest guest]

*URGENT* UPDATE ON LEIGH & BRYAN

Please keep sending supportive email. Please note that Leigh and have a new email address blmcknight@...

Here is a letter from . Unfortunately Leigh is still in a coma :-(

I will keep you informed.

Love Aisha.

~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~

Good day,The babies will be able to come home within a fewweeks. My arm is healing nicely. I still can notgrip anything though. Leigh had surgery. She has acist and they were afraid that it would rupture. Thedoctor said that they should not wait any longer. Shehas a few cists inside and one outside. The doctorssaid that if it ruptures it could cause problems inthe future on her having more children. The surgerywent fine. There still is a chance that it may ofaffected her so she can not have any more children. I hope that all of you are doing wonderful. Thankyou.Love,