Guest guest Posted July 16, 2009 Report Share Posted July 16, 2009 Wonderful Wanda, Thanks for taking time to re-post this. I loved reading it again. There are good reminders for all of us. You are so great to take your time to help others the way you do. There is no one quite like you, Wanda. Be blessed, be healthy and take good care, Rashelle Harness the Power of Oxygen. It is Oxygen that burns fat. Age better, look better, feel better. www.oxygenlift.net Past Newsletter from Rashelle Hi everyone, I went thru my old emails and after re-reading this one I thought I would share it. Love, Wanda. ------------------------------------------------- Your History and your habits. Use them to be what you want to be After spending over 30 years working with people trying to lose weight it has become very clear to me that past programming plays a large role in how successful a person will be in not only losing unwanted pounds and inches, but also in their ability to maintain their losses. Do you spend a lot of your time trying to figure out why you can't seem to eliminate the pounds and inches that you really don't want? Do you blame your excess weight on your genes, high-calorie, processed convenience foods, your lack of exercise, or emotional eating? While these factors may play a major role in being overweight, you may also have your personal history to thank for that excess weight. The good news is that you can use this information to help you succeed in reaching your goals today. If you've been overweight since childhood or you think you have a genetic predisposition to obesity you may find that if you try to lose weight and it does not come off easily, you give up, thinking that it is hopeless since you believe you are destined to be overweight. By realizing that this is not true you can take control and become the person you really want to be. Read the paragraph below and you will understand why I truly believe that you can accomplish the goals you set for yourself if you are willing to let go of that old programming. Many who belong to the National Weight Control Registry, a register of Americans who have lost more than 30 pounds and kept it off for more than a year, admit to either having parents who are overweight or to being overweight themselves since childhood before taking control and finally reaching their goals. Allowing yourself to believe that you do not have control over the outcome can seriously harm your weight-loss efforts. Deciding to take control over your own body will allow you to reach for and achieve goals you previously may have thought were unattainable. Ask yourself these questions. Look closely at the answers. Your answer to successful weight loss may be hidden here: How long have you been overweight? What types of meals did you eat as a child? Were you raised on meat and potatoes, bacon and eggs? Do you think that skipping meals will help you lose weight? When you think of food, do you think of the word diet? Did your parents use food as a reward, or for comfort? Were your parents concerned about being overweight? Did they diet or did they want you to diet? Did you hear messages that indicated to you that your eating habits made a difference for the well being of the rest of the world ( " Clean your plate. Think of the starving children of the world? " ) These are some of the ways your past may have affected your perceptions about weight, some solutions that might facilitate your changing the way you now view food and lead to you losing that unwanted weight. Was food used as a reward or for consolation? When you were feeling bad about something did someone give you food to help you feel better? Did you hear messages like " If you clean your plate you can have dessert. " If you were taught to believe that you could be made to feel better by eating something sweet or that you should finish everything on your plate, you may still be carrying that old programming around inside your head. Go look at yourself in the mirror. Do you honestly believe that what you eat, or leave on your plate will change how hungry someone on the other side of the world feels? Today is the day to really look closely at your old programming and take control of the truth. Eating everything on that plate may be making you go well over healthy portions that could help you maintain the weight and health you desire. Those extra bites added to each meal can add up and create excess pounds and inches. If you really think about it what you eat can affect someone else. Those who love you. By over-eating you may be putting your health at risk and that could make a big difference to those who care about you. Extend your life and the quality of your life by taking control of what you put in your mouth. It is totally up to you now. Hold on to your chair! Did you know that those who eat breakfast, instead of skipping it tend to be thinner? Skipping meals can be one of the biggest culprits in your weight gain. Your body will go into what I call " stuff and hide " mode. Pretend you have a little man who lives inside your body. I call him " Freddy Fat BuilderT " His whole purpose is to keep you from starving to death. He is your built-in protector. He does not know what is going on outside of your body, only on the inside. If you go too long without eating he is given the signal to start storing fat in case you will be unable to eat again. He does not know if you will be starving tomorrow. Of course he doesn't want that to happen so he begins to stuff and hide the fat so you won't starve to death. It is up to you to give " Freddy " and your body the comfort of knowing it is going to have another meal tomorrow, so stuffing and hiding the fat is not necessary. Keep your body fueled with small snacks and a few good meals daily and it will be able to relax and allow the pounds to fall off, thinking there is no starvation coming. Remember to give " Freddy " a long vacation with nothing to do but sit around and smile, knowing that your body is safe and healthy. I do not believe in using the word " diet " for the way you eat. Diet makes me think of deprivation. Instead, think of your eating as fuel for your body. Use the food you eat to help you build your body to be the best it can be. I believe in what I call the PC theory. When I created the Victory Theory I thought it would be good to create a code for successful eating. I call it " Eating for SuccessT " The code is PC, " Personal ControlT " and it is a system for managing what you eat. Eating for success puts you in total control of what you eat. You are the driver of this masterpiece you call your body. You are in total control. You turn on all the keys that make it function properly. You have Personal Control over how often you breathe. Personal Control over how much water you drink daily. You have Personal Control over how much food you eat. PC is also for " Portion ControlT " . Portion Control can make all the difference in determining how successful you are in reaching your goals. For fun, try to count out 3 bites full of food on your plate and leave it for the birds. Imagine that you are feeding a hungry bird and he loves you for it. Each meal, count out your three bites of food and leave it. Smile at it and know that you have control. You have chosen to leave this behind. You are the winner. The food does not control you. You control it! The good news is that you can re-program your old thinking and take control of the way you eat today. By paying attention each day for just one month you can completely turn your body around to become the healthy one you actually desire. Your new, full proof plan is to re-train yourself to eat every few hours (try carrots, celery, fruit, things that are good for your body and that you enjoy) and leave a few bites on your plate, at each meal. By doing this every day for one month you should be able to see significant changes start to take place. Are you ready to take control and begin the rest of your life as a healthy, happy, fit person? It is after all up to you. You do deserve to reach your goals! 5 minutes of dedicated meditation can help you lose weight, reduce stress, pain and sleep better is also an option. It has been proven that by doing meditation with deep breathing while using the word " one " to clear out the clutter, you can sleep better, reduce pain and also lead to reduced weight. It really can do wonderful things for your body and mind. Try This: Close your eyes, take several deep cleansing breaths, imagine the word " ONE " with each breath in and again with each breath out. Put your hand on your stomach and feel the breath in and the breath out. Quiet your mind by clearing out the clutter. I often use the word " SPACE " in place of the word " ONE. " By clearing out the mental clutter you can allow your body to relax and release all the things it does not need like stress, toxins and fat. You will feel very powerful when you claim the peace that will allow your body to be the best it can be. By giving yourself that 5 minute break you will give yourself more energy to enjoy your day. ------------------------------------------------------------------------------ No virus found in this incoming message. Checked by AVG - www.avg.com Version: 8.5.387 / Virus Database: 270.13.15/2239 - Release Date: 07/15/09 06:07:00 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted July 16, 2009 Report Share Posted July 16, 2009 Thanks everyone so much for all the great suggestions. You are a great group of people. Rashelle, thanks for talking about the difference between LL and conventional exercise and also the reflexology. I've been working very hard to lose weight. I have about 20 pounds that I want to lose and it is going but very slowly with a lot of maintenance in between but that's ok. The only part I don't like is paying WW 12.00 a week, but I do enjoy the meetings and so want to get to Lifetime when I won't have to pay. Anyway, I am leaving shortly for my aunt's house. She is 91 and lives in a religious community. She fell and broke her wrist and pelvis in May and I've been going to her home to help out a few days a week. I am putting all the e-mails into a folder so I can really read them when I get home but I will be doing LL there every day. It's about a 45 minute drive so I may take the commuter cd and use that on the way. , how awesome about your son. He is in my prayers for safe travel. Have a wonderful, couple of days and I'll " see " you all when I get back. Chris ____________________________________________________________ Medical Coding & Billing Pursue a Career In the Healthcare Industry. Study Online with AIU. http://thirdpartyoffers.juno.com/TGL2141/c?cp=bp14c6pR5zIF6BklWa8Y8AAAJ1BARa6yTr\ vSrvK2gU-pk-w7AAUAAAAAAAAAAK1pHj9qEU3DxzMx094oqnYYprgLAAAAAA== Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted July 16, 2009 Report Share Posted July 16, 2009 Good job alot breathes in the drive when you are lifting or moving your aunt great way to breathe and hold position with your large muscles thanks for Jake know just wait to see him and hold him God's Blessings Rettig (Army Mom of 2) (Chaplain for Chapter 2 BSM SE WI) The opinions reflected above are strictly my own and in no way reflect the views of the Blue Star Mothers or the Proud Military Moms Re: Past Newsletter from Rashelle Thanks everyone so much for all the great suggestions. You are a great group of people. Rashelle, thanks for talking about the difference between LL and conventional exercise and also the reflexology. I've been working very hard to lose weight. I have about 20 pounds that I want to lose and it is going but very slowly with a lot of maintenance in between but that's ok. The only part I don't like is paying WW 12.00 a week, but I do enjoy the meetings and so want to get to Lifetime when I won't have to pay. Anyway, I am leaving shortly for my aunt's house. She is 91 and lives in a religious community. She fell and broke her wrist and pelvis in May and I've been going to her home to help out a few days a week. I am putting all the e-mails into a folder so I can really read them when I get home but I will be doing LL there every day. It's about a 45 minute drive so I may take the commuter cd and use that on the way. , how awesome about your son. He is in my prayers for safe travel. Have a wonderful, couple of days and I'll " see " you all when I get back. Chris __________________________________________________________ Medical Coding & Billing Pursue a Career In the Healthcare Industry. Study Online with AIU. http://thirdpartyoffers.juno.com/TGL2141/c?cp=bp14c6pR5zIF6BklWa8Y8AAAJ1BARa6yTr\ vSrvK2gU-pk-w7AAUAAAAAAAAAAK1pHj9qEU3DxzMx094oqnYYprgLAAAAAA== Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted July 16, 2009 Report Share Posted July 16, 2009 I really liked this newsletter. I usually go back to the newsletters on the website for inspiration. My hubby was looking over my shoulder when I was posting yesterday. I told him I didn't feel " supported " in my Lifelift and my EFT and so I did not want to share that with him. He told me he did support me as much as he could. I've never felt it...usually he makes fun...I'm a little too sensitive there. > > Wonderful Wanda, > > Thanks for taking time to re-post this. I loved reading it again. There are good reminders for all of us. You are so great to take your time to help others the way you do. There is no one quite like you, Wanda. > > Be blessed, be healthy and take good care, > > Rashelle > Harness the Power of Oxygen. > It is Oxygen that burns fat. Age better, look better, feel better. > www.oxygenlift.net > Past Newsletter from Rashelle > > > > > > Hi everyone, > > I went thru my old emails and after re-reading this one I thought I would share it. > > Love, Wanda. > > ------------------------------------------------- > > Your History and your habits. Use them to be what you want to be > > After spending over 30 years working with people trying to lose weight it has become very clear to me that past programming plays a large role in how successful a person will be in not only losing unwanted pounds and inches, but also in their ability to maintain their losses. > > Do you spend a lot of your time trying to figure out why you can't seem to eliminate the pounds and inches that you really don't want? Since Lifelift I quit doing this. > > Do you blame your excess weight on your genes, high-calorie, processed convenience foods, your lack of exercise, or emotional eating? > > While these factors may play a major role in being overweight, you may also have your personal history to thank for that excess weight. The good news is that you can use this information to help you succeed in reaching your goals today. > > If you've been overweight since childhood or you think you have a genetic predisposition to obesity you may find that if you try to lose weight and it does not come off easily, you give up, thinking that it is hopeless since you believe you are destined to be overweight. By realizing that this is not true you can take control and become the person you really want to be. > > Read the paragraph below and you will understand why I truly believe that you can accomplish the goals you set for yourself if you are willing to let go of that old programming. > > Many who belong to the National Weight Control Registry, a register of Americans who have lost more than 30 pounds and kept it off for more than a year, admit to either having parents who are overweight or to being overweight themselves since childhood before taking control and finally reaching their goals. Allowing yourself to believe that you do not have control over the outcome can seriously harm your weight-loss efforts. Deciding to take control over your own body will allow you to reach for and achieve goals you previously may have thought were unattainable. > > Ask yourself these questions. Look closely at the answers. > > Your answer to successful weight loss may be hidden here: > > How long have you been overweight? > > What types of meals did you eat as a child? > > Were you raised on meat and potatoes, bacon and eggs? > > Do you think that skipping meals will help you lose weight? > > When you think of food, do you think of the word diet? > > Did your parents use food as a reward, or for comfort? > > Were your parents concerned about being overweight? > > Did they diet or did they want you to diet? > > Did you hear messages that indicated to you that your eating habits made a difference for the well being of the rest of the world ( " Clean your plate. Think of the starving children of the world? " ) > > These are some of the ways your past may have affected your perceptions about weight, some solutions that might facilitate your changing the way you now view food and lead to you losing that unwanted weight. > > Was food used as a reward or for consolation? > > When you were feeling bad about something did someone give you food to help you feel better? > > Did you hear messages like " If you clean your plate you can have dessert. " > > If you were taught to believe that you could be made to feel better by eating something sweet or that you should finish everything on your plate, you may still be carrying that old programming around inside your head. Go look at yourself in the mirror. Do you honestly believe that what you eat, or leave on your plate will change how hungry someone on the other side of the world feels? > > Today is the day to really look closely at your old programming and take control of the truth. Eating everything on that plate may be making you go well over healthy portions that could help you maintain the weight and health you desire. Those extra bites added to each meal can add up and create excess pounds and inches. If you really think about it what you eat can affect someone else. Those who love you. By over-eating you may be putting your health at risk and that could make a big difference to those who care about you. Extend your life and the quality of your life by taking control of what you put in your mouth. It is totally up to you now. (I find this is the key. what is the truth...right now. Just having had breakfast...I realized I gravitate into the front of TV...very poor habit. so today that is what I am working on...no TV watching...I'll sit at my nice dining table and eat there....I am " choosing " new habits to " enjoy " rather than deprivation and worry about what I look like tomorrow. I won't be able to force my hubby to sit with me, but I think if the table is nicely set and everything ready when he comes in he may just join me. Wish me luck.) > > Hold on to your chair! Did you know that those who eat breakfast, instead of skipping it tend to be thinner? Skipping meals can be one of the biggest culprits in your weight gain. Your body will go into what I call " stuff and hide " mode. Pretend you have a little man who lives inside your body. I call him " Freddy Fat BuilderT " His whole purpose is to keep you from starving to death. He is your built-in protector. He does not know what is going on outside of your body, only on the inside. If you go too long without eating he is given the signal to start storing fat in case you will be unable to eat again. He does not know if you will be starving tomorrow. Of course he doesn't want that to happen so he begins to stuff and hide the fat so you won't starve to death. It is up to you to give " Freddy " and your body the comfort of knowing it is going to have another meal tomorrow, so stuffing and hiding the fat is not necessary. > > Keep your body fueled with small snacks and a few good meals daily and it will be able to relax and allow the pounds to fall off, thinking there is no starvation coming. Remember to give " Freddy " a long vacation with nothing to do but sit around and smile, knowing that your body is safe and healthy. (I will have to eat my " snack " at the dining table too....maybe make it a meditation time and light a candle...my mom will be getting a new pacemaker today...her 3rd..batteries die....I'll light that candle and have my snack and pray for my mom....a NEW habit to develop.) > > I do not believe in using the word " diet " for the way you eat. Diet makes me think of deprivation. Instead, think of your eating as fuel for your body. Use the food you eat to help you build your body to be the best it can be. I believe in what I call the PC theory. > > When I created the Victory Theory I thought it would be good to create a code for successful eating. > > I call it " Eating for SuccessT " The code is PC, " Personal ControlT " and it is a system for managing what you eat. Eating for success puts you in total control of what you eat. > > You are the driver of this masterpiece you call your body. > > You are in total control. > > You turn on all the keys that make it function properly. > > You have Personal Control over how often you breathe. > > Personal Control over how much water you drink daily. > > You have Personal Control over how much food you eat. > > PC is also for " Portion ControlT " . Portion Control can make all the difference in determining how successful you are in reaching your goals. > > For fun, try to count out 3 bites full of food on your plate and leave it for the birds. Imagine that you are feeding a hungry bird and he loves you for it. Each meal, count out your three bites of food and leave it. Smile at it and know that you have control. You have chosen to leave this behind. You are the winner. The food does not control you. You control it! > > The good news is that you can re-program your old thinking and take control of the way you eat today. By paying attention each day for just one month you can completely turn your body around to become the healthy one you actually desire. (I have decided to ENJOY this process; so much of it is a daily decision.) And the other thing... I'm sure looking at the lifelift posts, if you are depressed or down on yourself it may seem a tad too cheery or upbeat and you may feel that you just don't have the " makeup " to get that UP. Having suffered depression and chronic illness for years....All I can say.....Don't listen to me....LISTEN instead to that STILL SMALL VOICE inside that tells you are worth a HEALTHY and HAPPY body and SMILE.... Look yourself in the mirror and see that BEAUTY of God's creation....Then BREATHE and BELIEVE what HE Wants for you. My oldest daughter, the doctor, told me she really admired my spirit for NEVER QUITTING...she said it makes all the difference in my prognosis for my weight for my MS, for my future as I grow older. She says everyday she has people who are brought into the hospital and they just feel defeated and it is very hard to help them see a future in good health. It has to come from within. And advocates like our group here makes all the difference in daily successes. I Thank all of you for being here for me. I thank you for confirming my thoughts and ideas about Lifelift. I have a dream to start a support group with MS patients in this area...to talk about things that would heal us...and do lifelift. I don't know how it would come about, but wish me luck. It is one of those things that I have to be careful of. I may only be able to continue a support journey by just posting here. And that can be enough. Had an instance to see that my weight is at 218 this week. Now I wasn't happy with that " number " but it is ONLY a number. I actually look pretty good and my clothes are loosening up...My goodness....JULY is looking up...I think that NUMBER will come down eventually, I don't NEED the number to tell me I am successful. Again, thank you all, Rashelle, , Wanda....You bless me daily. I'm going to my 40 right now....and it is only 10 of 8AM... > > Your new, full proof plan is to re-train yourself to eat every few hours (try carrots, celery, fruit, things that are good for your body and that you enjoy) and leave a few bites on your plate, at each meal. By doing this every day for one month you should be able to see significant changes start to take place. > > Are you ready to take control and begin the rest of your life as a healthy, happy, fit person? It is after all up to you. > > You do deserve to reach your goals! > > 5 minutes of dedicated meditation can help you lose weight, reduce stress, pain and sleep better is also an option. It has been proven that by doing meditation with deep breathing while using the word " one " to clear out the clutter, you can sleep better, reduce pain and also lead to reduced weight. It really can do wonderful things for your body and mind. > > Try This: > > Close your eyes, take several deep cleansing breaths, imagine the word " ONE " with each breath in and again with each breath out. Put your hand on your stomach and feel the breath in and the breath out. > > Quiet your mind by clearing out the clutter. I often use the word " SPACE " in place of the word " ONE. " By clearing out the mental clutter you can allow your body to relax and release all the things it does not need like stress, toxins and fat. You will feel very powerful when you claim the peace that will allow your body to be the best it can be. By giving yourself that 5 minute break you will give yourself more energy to enjoy your day. > > > I hope you don't mind my tweaking of the newsletter....it was just all so good....and I wanted to put down what I thought when I read it. Have a wonderful day... > > > > ------------------------------------------------------------------------\ ------ > > > > No virus found in this incoming message. > Checked by AVG - www.avg.com > Version: 8.5.387 / Virus Database: 270.13.15/2239 - Release Date: 07/15/09 06:07:00 > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted July 16, 2009 Report Share Posted July 16, 2009 Hi , The more and more your husband see's your devotion to Lifelift and anything else; he just may start doing it himself. Wouldn't that be awesome? I love going back to the archives and re-reading Rashelle's newsletter. I always find something that I may have forgotten about and just needed it right then. : ) Enjoy your day! Love, Wanda > > > I really liked this newsletter. I usually go back to the newsletters on > the website for inspiration. > > My hubby was looking over my shoulder when I was posting yesterday. I > told him I didn't feel " supported " in my Lifelift and my EFT and so I > did not want to share that with him. He told me he did support me as > much as he could. I've never felt it...usually he makes fun...I'm a > little too sensitive there. > > > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted July 17, 2009 Report Share Posted July 17, 2009 GO for it anyway we care God's Blessings Rettig (Army Mom of 2) (Chaplain for Chapter 2 BSM SE WI) The opinions reflected above are strictly my own and in no way reflect the views of the Blue Star Mothers or the Proud Military Moms Past Newsletter from Rashelle > > > > > > Hi everyone, > > I went thru my old emails and after re-reading this one I thought I would share it. > > Love, Wanda. > > ------------------------------------------------- > > Your History and your habits. Use them to be what you want to be > > After spending over 30 years working with people trying to lose weight it has become very clear to me that past programming plays a large role in how successful a person will be in not only losing unwanted pounds and inches, but also in their ability to maintain their losses. > > Do you spend a lot of your time trying to figure out why you can't seem to eliminate the pounds and inches that you really don't want? Since Lifelift I quit doing this. > > Do you blame your excess weight on your genes, high-calorie, processed convenience foods, your lack of exercise, or emotional eating? > > While these factors may play a major role in being overweight, you may also have your personal history to thank for that excess weight. The good news is that you can use this information to help you succeed in reaching your goals today. > > If you've been overweight since childhood or you think you have a genetic predisposition to obesity you may find that if you try to lose weight and it does not come off easily, you give up, thinking that it is hopeless since you believe you are destined to be overweight. By realizing that this is not true you can take control and become the person you really want to be. > > Read the paragraph below and you will understand why I truly believe that you can accomplish the goals you set for yourself if you are willing to let go of that old programming. > > Many who belong to the National Weight Control Registry, a register of Americans who have lost more than 30 pounds and kept it off for more than a year, admit to either having parents who are overweight or to being overweight themselves since childhood before taking control and finally reaching their goals. Allowing yourself to believe that you do not have control over the outcome can seriously harm your weight-loss efforts. Deciding to take control over your own body will allow you to reach for and achieve goals you previously may have thought were unattainable. > > Ask yourself these questions. Look closely at the answers. > > Your answer to successful weight loss may be hidden here: > > How long have you been overweight? > > What types of meals did you eat as a child? > > Were you raised on meat and potatoes, bacon and eggs? > > Do you think that skipping meals will help you lose weight? > > When you think of food, do you think of the word diet? > > Did your parents use food as a reward, or for comfort? > > Were your parents concerned about being overweight? > > Did they diet or did they want you to diet? > > Did you hear messages that indicated to you that your eating habits made a difference for the well being of the rest of the world ( " Clean your plate. Think of the starving children of the world? " ) > > These are some of the ways your past may have affected your perceptions about weight, some solutions that might facilitate your changing the way you now view food and lead to you losing that unwanted weight. > > Was food used as a reward or for consolation? > > When you were feeling bad about something did someone give you food to help you feel better? > > Did you hear messages like " If you clean your plate you can have dessert. " > > If you were taught to believe that you could be made to feel better by eating something sweet or that you should finish everything on your plate, you may still be carrying that old programming around inside your head. Go look at yourself in the mirror. Do you honestly believe that what you eat, or leave on your plate will change how hungry someone on the other side of the world feels? > > Today is the day to really look closely at your old programming and take control of the truth. Eating everything on that plate may be making you go well over healthy portions that could help you maintain the weight and health you desire. Those extra bites added to each meal can add up and create excess pounds and inches. If you really think about it what you eat can affect someone else. Those who love you. By over-eating you may be putting your health at risk and that could make a big difference to those who care about you. Extend your life and the quality of your life by taking control of what you put in your mouth. It is totally up to you now. (I find this is the key. what is the truth...right now. Just having had breakfast...I realized I gravitate into the front of TV...very poor habit. so today that is what I am working on...no TV watching...I'll sit at my nice dining table and eat there....I am " choosing " new habits to " enjoy " rather than deprivation and worry about what I look like tomorrow. I won't be able to force my hubby to sit with me, but I think if the table is nicely set and everything ready when he comes in he may just join me. Wish me luck.) > > Hold on to your chair! Did you know that those who eat breakfast, instead of skipping it tend to be thinner? Skipping meals can be one of the biggest culprits in your weight gain. Your body will go into what I call " stuff and hide " mode. Pretend you have a little man who lives inside your body. I call him " Freddy Fat BuilderT " His whole purpose is to keep you from starving to death. He is your built-in protector. He does not know what is going on outside of your body, only on the inside. If you go too long without eating he is given the signal to start storing fat in case you will be unable to eat again. He does not know if you will be starving tomorrow. Of course he doesn't want that to happen so he begins to stuff and hide the fat so you won't starve to death. It is up to you to give " Freddy " and your body the comfort of knowing it is going to have another meal tomorrow, so stuffing and hiding the fat is not necessary. > > Keep your body fueled with small snacks and a few good meals daily and it will be able to relax and allow the pounds to fall off, thinking there is no starvation coming. Remember to give " Freddy " a long vacation with nothing to do but sit around and smile, knowing that your body is safe and healthy. (I will have to eat my " snack " at the dining table too....maybe make it a meditation time and light a candle...my mom will be getting a new pacemaker today...her 3rd..batteries die....I'll light that candle and have my snack and pray for my mom....a NEW habit to develop.) > > I do not believe in using the word " diet " for the way you eat. Diet makes me think of deprivation. Instead, think of your eating as fuel for your body. Use the food you eat to help you build your body to be the best it can be. I believe in what I call the PC theory. > > When I created the Victory Theory I thought it would be good to create a code for successful eating. > > I call it " Eating for SuccessT " The code is PC, " Personal ControlT " and it is a system for managing what you eat. Eating for success puts you in total control of what you eat. > > You are the driver of this masterpiece you call your body. > > You are in total control. > > You turn on all the keys that make it function properly. > > You have Personal Control over how often you breathe. > > Personal Control over how much water you drink daily. > > You have Personal Control over how much food you eat. > > PC is also for " Portion ControlT " . Portion Control can make all the difference in determining how successful you are in reaching your goals. > > For fun, try to count out 3 bites full of food on your plate and leave it for the birds. Imagine that you are feeding a hungry bird and he loves you for it. Each meal, count out your three bites of food and leave it. Smile at it and know that you have control. You have chosen to leave this behind. You are the winner. The food does not control you. You control it! > > The good news is that you can re-program your old thinking and take control of the way you eat today. By paying attention each day for just one month you can completely turn your body around to become the healthy one you actually desire. (I have decided to ENJOY this process; so much of it is a daily decision.) And the other thing... I'm sure looking at the lifelift posts, if you are depressed or down on yourself it may seem a tad too cheery or upbeat and you may feel that you just don't have the " makeup " to get that UP. Having suffered depression and chronic illness for years....All I can say.....Don't listen to me....LISTEN instead to that STILL SMALL VOICE inside that tells you are worth a HEALTHY and HAPPY body and SMILE.... Look yourself in the mirror and see that BEAUTY of God's creation....Then BREATHE and BELIEVE what HE Wants for you. My oldest daughter, the doctor, told me she really admired my spirit for NEVER QUITTING...she said it makes all the difference in my prognosis for my weight for my MS, for my future as I grow older. She says everyday she has people who are brought into the hospital and they just feel defeated and it is very hard to help them see a future in good health. It has to come from within. And advocates like our group here makes all the difference in daily successes. I Thank all of you for being here for me. I thank you for confirming my thoughts and ideas about Lifelift. I have a dream to start a support group with MS patients in this area...to talk about things that would heal us...and do lifelift. I don't know how it would come about, but wish me luck. It is one of those things that I have to be careful of. I may only be able to continue a support journey by just posting here. And that can be enough. Had an instance to see that my weight is at 218 this week. Now I wasn't happy with that " number " but it is ONLY a number. I actually look pretty good and my clothes are loosening up...My goodness....JULY is looking up...I think that NUMBER will come down eventually, I don't NEED the number to tell me I am successful. Again, thank you all, Rashelle, , Wanda....You bless me daily. I'm going to my 40 right now....and it is only 10 of 8AM... > > Your new, full proof plan is to re-train yourself to eat every few hours (try carrots, celery, fruit, things that are good for your body and that you enjoy) and leave a few bites on your plate, at each meal. By doing this every day for one month you should be able to see significant changes start to take place. > > Are you ready to take control and begin the rest of your life as a healthy, happy, fit person? It is after all up to you. > > You do deserve to reach your goals! > > 5 minutes of dedicated meditation can help you lose weight, reduce stress, pain and sleep better is also an option. It has been proven that by doing meditation with deep breathing while using the word " one " to clear out the clutter, you can sleep better, reduce pain and also lead to reduced weight. It really can do wonderful things for your body and mind. > > Try This: > > Close your eyes, take several deep cleansing breaths, imagine the word " ONE " with each breath in and again with each breath out. Put your hand on your stomach and feel the breath in and the breath out. > > Quiet your mind by clearing out the clutter. I often use the word " SPACE " in place of the word " ONE. " By clearing out the mental clutter you can allow your body to relax and release all the things it does not need like stress, toxins and fat. You will feel very powerful when you claim the peace that will allow your body to be the best it can be. By giving yourself that 5 minute break you will give yourself more energy to enjoy your day. > > > I hope you don't mind my tweaking of the newsletter....it was just all so good....and I wanted to put down what I thought when I read it. Have a wonderful day... > > > > ----------------------------------------------------------\ ------ > > > > No virus found in this incoming message. > Checked by AVG - www.avg.com > Version: 8.5.387 / Virus Database: 270.13.15/2239 - Release Date: 07/15/09 06:07:00 > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted July 17, 2009 Report Share Posted July 17, 2009 Oh , I love that 'GO for it anyway! We care.' You got that right. : ) Love, Wanda > > > > Wonderful Wanda, > > > > Thanks for taking time to re-post this. I loved reading it again. > There are good reminders for all of us. You are so great to take your > time to help others the way you do. There is no one quite like you, > Wanda. > > > > Be blessed, be healthy and take good care, > > > > Rashelle > > Harness the Power of Oxygen. > > It is Oxygen that burns fat. Age better, look better, feel better. > > www.oxygenlift.net > > Past Newsletter from Rashelle > > > > > > > > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted July 18, 2009 Report Share Posted July 18, 2009 Dear , I loved this " love Letter " . This is just the inspiration that I needed today. I have been so down since my job ended 3 years ago.....my husband retired early at age 55 and asked me to try to stay home with him.  I have but have lost all motivation to exercise and have been eating sugar like crazy....also my best friend and weight watcher buddy and walking buddy died.  I am going to try all suggestions from you and Rashelle's newsletter and start doing my LL again.   I always feel so much better and look better why did I stop. Reading all the posts from everyone else has motivated me too.  I am BACK!   Love to you and all Connie Past Newsletter from Rashelle > > > > > > Hi everyone, > > I went thru my old emails and after re-reading this one I thought I would share it. > > Love, Wanda. > > ------------------------------------------------- > > Your History and your habits. Use them to be what you want to be > > After spending over 30 years working with people trying to lose weight it has become very clear to me that past programming plays a large role in how successful a person will be in not only losing unwanted pounds and inches, but also in their ability to maintain their losses. > > Do you spend a lot of your time trying to figure out why you can't seem to eliminate the pounds and inches that you really don't want? Since Lifelift I quit doing this. > > Do you blame your excess weight on your genes, high-calorie, processed convenience foods, your lack of exercise, or emotional eating? > > While these factors may play a major role in being overweight, you may also have your personal history to thank for that excess weight. The good news is that you can use this information to help you succeed in reaching your goals today. > > If you've been overweight since childhood or you think you have a genetic predisposition to obesity you may find that if you try to lose weight and it does not come off easily, you give up, thinking that it is hopeless since you believe you are destined to be overweight. By realizing that this is not true you can take control and become the person you really want to be. > > Read the paragraph below and you will understand why I truly believe that you can accomplish the goals you set for yourself if you are willing to let go of that old programming. > > Many who belong to the National Weight Control Registry, a register of Americans who have lost more than 30 pounds and kept it off for more than a year, admit to either having parents who are overweight or to being overweight themselves since childhood before taking control and finally reaching their goals. Allowing yourself to believe that you do not have control over the outcome can seriously harm your weight-loss efforts. Deciding to take control over your own body will allow you to reach for and achieve goals you previously may have thought were unattainable. > > Ask yourself these questions. Look closely at the answers. > > Your answer to successful weight loss may be hidden here: > > How long have you been overweight? > > What types of meals did you eat as a child? > > Were you raised on meat and potatoes, bacon and eggs? > > Do you think that skipping meals will help you lose weight? > > When you think of food, do you think of the word diet? > > Did your parents use food as a reward, or for comfort? > > Were your parents concerned about being overweight? > > Did they diet or did they want you to diet? > > Did you hear messages that indicated to you that your eating habits made a difference for the well being of the rest of the world ( " Clean your plate. Think of the starving children of the world? " ) > > These are some of the ways your past may have affected your perceptions about weight, some solutions that might facilitate your changing the way you now view food and lead to you losing that unwanted weight. > > Was food used as a reward or for consolation? > > When you were feeling bad about something did someone give you food to help you feel better? > > Did you hear messages like " If you clean your plate you can have dessert. " > > If you were taught to believe that you could be made to feel better by eating something sweet or that you should finish everything on your plate, you may still be carrying that old programming around inside your head. Go look at yourself in the mirror. Do you honestly believe that what you eat, or leave on your plate will change how hungry someone on the other side of the world feels? > > Today is the day to really look closely at your old programming and take control of the truth. Eating everything on that plate may be making you go well over healthy portions that could help you maintain the weight and health you desire. Those extra bites added to each meal can add up and create excess pounds and inches. If you really think about it what you eat can affect someone else. Those who love you. By over-eating you may be putting your health at risk and that could make a big difference to those who care about you. Extend your life and the quality of your life by taking control of what you put in your mouth. It is totally up to you now. (I find this is the key. what is the truth...right now. Just having had breakfast...I realized I gravitate into the front of TV...very poor habit. so today that is what I am working on...no TV watching...I'll sit at my nice dining table and eat there....I am " choosing " new habits to " enjoy " rather than deprivation and worry about what I look like tomorrow. I won't be able to force my hubby to sit with me, but I think if the table is nicely set and everything ready when he comes in he may just join me. Wish me luck.) > > Hold on to your chair! Did you know that those who eat breakfast, instead of skipping it tend to be thinner? Skipping meals can be one of the biggest culprits in your weight gain. Your body will go into what I call " stuff and hide " mode. Pretend you have a little man who lives inside your body. I call him " Freddy Fat BuilderT " His whole purpose is to keep you from starving to death. He is your built-in protector. He does not know what is going on outside of your body, only on the inside. If you go too long without eating he is given the signal to start storing fat in case you will be unable to eat again. He does not know if you will be starving tomorrow. Of course he doesn't want that to happen so he begins to stuff and hide the fat so you won't starve to death. It is up to you to give " Freddy " and your body the comfort of knowing it is going to have another meal tomorrow, so stuffing and hiding the fat is not necessary. > > Keep your body fueled with small snacks and a few good meals daily and it will be able to relax and allow the pounds to fall off, thinking there is no starvation coming. Remember to give " Freddy " a long vacation with nothing to do but sit around and smile, knowing that your body is safe and healthy. (I will have to eat my " snack " at the dining table too....maybe make it a meditation time and light a candle...my mom will be getting a new pacemaker today...her 3rd..batteries die....I'll light that candle and have my snack and pray for my mom....a NEW habit to develop.) > > I do not believe in using the word " diet " for the way you eat. Diet makes me think of deprivation. Instead, think of your eating as fuel for your body. Use the food you eat to help you build your body to be the best it can be. I believe in what I call the PC theory. > > When I created the Victory Theory I thought it would be good to create a code for successful eating. > > I call it " Eating for SuccessT " The code is PC, " Personal ControlT " and it is a system for managing what you eat. Eating for success puts you in total control of what you eat. > > You are the driver of this masterpiece you call your body. > > You are in total control. > > You turn on all the keys that make it function properly. > > You have Personal Control over how often you breathe. > > Personal Control over how much water you drink daily. > > You have Personal Control over how much food you eat. > > PC is also for " Portion ControlT " . Portion Control can make all the difference in determining how successful you are in reaching your goals. > > For fun, try to count out 3 bites full of food on your plate and leave it for the birds. Imagine that you are feeding a hungry bird and he loves you for it. Each meal, count out your three bites of food and leave it. Smile at it and know that you have control. You have chosen to leave this behind. You are the winner. The food does not control you. You control it! > > The good news is that you can re-program your old thinking and take control of the way you eat today. By paying attention each day for just one month you can completely turn your body around to become the healthy one you actually desire. (I have decided to ENJOY this process; so much of it is a daily decision.) And the other thing... I'm sure looking at the lifelift posts, if you are depressed or down on yourself it may seem a tad too cheery or upbeat and you may feel that you just don't have the " makeup " to get that UP. Having suffered depression and chronic illness for years....All I can say.....Don't listen to me....LISTEN instead to that STILL SMALL VOICE inside that tells you are worth a HEALTHY and HAPPY body and SMILE.... Look yourself in the mirror and see that BEAUTY of God's creation....Then BREATHE and BELIEVE what HE Wants for you. My oldest daughter, the doctor, told me she really admired my spirit for NEVER QUITTING...she said it makes all the difference in my prognosis for my weight for my MS, for my future as I grow older. She says everyday she has people who are brought into the hospital and they just feel defeated and it is very hard to help them see a future in good health. It has to come from within. And advocates like our group here makes all the difference in daily successes. I Thank all of you for being here for me. I thank you for confirming my thoughts and ideas about Lifelift. I have a dream to start a support group with MS patients in this area...to talk about things that would heal us...and do lifelift. I don't know how it would come about, but wish me luck. It is one of those things that I have to be careful of. I may only be able to continue a support journey by just posting here. And that can be enough. Had an instance to see that my weight is at 218 this week. Now I wasn't happy with that " number " but it is ONLY a number. I actually look pretty good and my clothes are loosening up...My goodness....JULY is looking up...I think that NUMBER will come down eventually, I don't NEED the number to tell me I am successful. Again, thank you all, Rashelle, , Wanda....You bless me daily. I'm going to my 40 right now....and it is only 10 of 8AM... > > Your new, full proof plan is to re-train yourself to eat every few hours (try carrots, celery, fruit, things that are good for your body and that you enjoy) and leave a few bites on your plate, at each meal. By doing this every day for one month you should be able to see significant changes start to take place. > > Are you ready to take control and begin the rest of your life as a healthy, happy, fit person? It is after all up to you. > > You do deserve to reach your goals! > > 5 minutes of dedicated meditation can help you lose weight, reduce stress, pain and sleep better is also an option. It has been proven that by doing meditation with deep breathing while using the word " one " to clear out the clutter, you can sleep better, reduce pain and also lead to reduced weight. It really can do wonderful things for your body and mind. > > Try This: > > Close your eyes, take several deep cleansing breaths, imagine the word " ONE " with each breath in and again with each breath out. Put your hand on your stomach and feel the breath in and the breath out. > > Quiet your mind by clearing out the clutter. I often use the word " SPACE " in place of the word " ONE. " By clearing out the mental clutter you can allow your body to relax and release all the things it does not need like stress, toxins and fat. You will feel very powerful when you claim the peace that will allow your body to be the best it can be. By giving yourself that 5 minute break you will give yourself more energy to enjoy your day. > > > I hope you don't mind my tweaking of the newsletter....it was just all so good....and I wanted to put down what I thought when I read it. Have a wonderful day... > > > > ----------------------------------------------------------\ ------ > > > > No virus found in this incoming message. > Checked by AVG - www.avg.com > Version: 8.5.387 / Virus Database: 270.13.15/2239 - Release Date: 07/15/09 06:07:00 > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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