Guest guest Posted November 9, 2004 Report Share Posted November 9, 2004 I really, really hate to admit this here, but since I started NT, I gained 15 lbs. Coincidentally, I started at about the same time doing daily neurodevelopmental therapy with my 9 yos. It fell entirely on my shoulders, and takes hours every day. We also homeschool (I have a 16 yod, and 5 yos - my preemie). A good friend of mine who is also doing the therapy with her 2 yos said our lives are like Groundhog Day - - the same every single day. Very true. Also during this time, I found out my aunt is dying of cancer (they're about to call in hospice), and another aunt and uncle were in a very major car accident and are recovering slowly after spending a long time in ICU. All that to say, I've been very stressed, and I'm not sure what to attribute to my NT eating, and what to attribute to stress. I'm being very transparent here. It's not easy, but I hope it helps someone else, I really do. Melinda ) LL and NT and weight loss Hi All, Guess I've been sort of in a funk all day -- after reading Jenni's note, my efforts at losing weight seem really very, very unimportant. Wish there was something that I could do for her, some way that I could help her -- she seems such a sweet, nice sort of person.... However, not focusing on my weight issue isn't going to help, so ... I've been " doing " NT -- basically low-carb (with some extra good carbs, such as apples, whole-wheat bread added) for about a week now -- and I've gained 4 pounds. I doubt that I can actually gain that much that fast, so I think that it's the carbs holding water -- I sincerely hope this is as far as the weight gain goes! I am eating whenever I think about food -- but it seems that eating more throughout the day simply reduces my appetite in the evening. So I'm not sure if there is much of a caloric increase, just the extra carbs.... I would like to permanently add back some of the good carbs -- I LIKE EATING THEM! My husband is out of town this week -- that will make it easier for me to only eat what I want in the evening -- he is ALWAYS hungry, and he likes a good supper. (hmmm, maybe he's always been an NT follower -- he is very slender and has never cut back on food -- just the empty carbs). I frequently have to force myself to eat a respectable serving of the meat in the evening, and will leave the supper table feeling overfull.... Maybe I just need a light salad at that time???? So how are the rest of you eating? What is a typical day's food intake? Melinda, just how much did you initially gain before you started losing? My clothes are already snugger than I like : ( Bonnie Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted November 9, 2004 Report Share Posted November 9, 2004 Hi Bonnie, Yesterday I was not very good!! breakfast: apple and peanut butter lunch: pumpkin pie cappuccino---mmmmmgood supper: arby's fresh deli sandwich--roasted ham and swiss cheese + curly fries (medium) and cheese + chocolate milk snack: cake and ice-cream about 1970 calories---NOW to actually lose weight I should not eat more than 1200 --- when I went to the nutritionist my DR sent me to for my cholesterol she said it doesn't matter what " diet you use " it is simply a matter of less calories than you burn or if you want to maintain the same amount of calories and activities. She said ALL diets are just what is easy for you to achieve that formula. I was NEVER good at math! LOL! Hugs~ Connie LL and NT and weight loss Hi All, Guess I've been sort of in a funk all day -- after reading Jenni's note, my efforts at losing weight seem really very, very unimportant. Wish there was something that I could do for her, some way that I could help her -- she seems such a sweet, nice sort of person.... However, not focusing on my weight issue isn't going to help, so ... I've been " doing " NT -- basically low-carb (with some extra good carbs, such as apples, whole-wheat bread added) for about a week now -- and I've gained 4 pounds. I doubt that I can actually gain that much that fast, so I think that it's the carbs holding water -- I sincerely hope this is as far as the weight gain goes! I am eating whenever I think about food -- but it seems that eating more throughout the day simply reduces my appetite in the evening. So I'm not sure if there is much of a caloric increase, just the extra carbs.... I would like to permanently add back some of the good carbs -- I LIKE EATING THEM! My husband is out of town this week -- that will make it easier for me to only eat what I want in the evening -- he is ALWAYS hungry, and he likes a good supper. (hmmm, maybe he's always been an NT follower -- he is very slender and has never cut back on food -- just the empty carbs). I frequently have to force myself to eat a respectable serving of the meat in the evening, and will leave the supper table feeling overfull.... Maybe I just need a light salad at that time???? So how are the rest of you eating? What is a typical day's food intake? Melinda, just how much did you initially gain before you started losing? My clothes are already snugger than I like : ( Bonnie Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted November 9, 2004 Report Share Posted November 9, 2004 I really don't buy into the theory that weight is 100% dependent on caloric intake. If that were so, then people like my husband (who eats a LOT of food, yet maintains a very trim 142# at 5'6 " , with only moderate exercise) would be heavier, and those who consistently ate less would be light -- doesn't seem to work that way. The chemistry of the body has got to be very complex, and so much of what we eat is affected by various chemical reactions. A calorie is simply the amount of energy produced by burning a certain amount of food -- and the ash that's left is the carb count (I think this is what the basic definition is). By that reasoning, 100 calories of white refined sugar would have the same impact on body weight as 100 calories of pure protein -- yet the protein goes into building/repairing muscle, etc., and the sugar finds its way into our fat cells (particularly my belly!). Then again, maybe I'm just too lazy to calculate my daily caloric intake.... I very much think that the type of diet you choose is important -- I think that the healthier we eat, the healthier our bodies will be. Can you just imagine the extreme of a person maintaining a tight 1200 calories/day with only foods like doughnuts, full-sugared cokes, potato chips, etc., etc.? I think the biggest (individual) issue we have is determining just what we think is a healthy way of eating -- for me, it's meant eliminating refined sugars and flours, no white rice or regular pasta or white potatoes -- others go the route of reducing fats -- some tend to vegetables only. I think determining our eating pattern is individual, and I don't think that science has fully analyzed just what's " best " for us -- and perhaps each of us has somewhat different requirements. I know that my husband is very happy with a huge steak, and could cheerfully eat one several times a week -- whereas I get very tired, very quickly, of slabs of meat.... I sort of " force " the salads and vegetables onto Harry but I enjoy them (much more than the meat!). Guess I'm just rambling.... Bonnie LL and NT and weight loss Hi All, Guess I've been sort of in a funk all day -- after reading Jenni's note, my efforts at losing weight seem really very, very unimportant. Wish there was something that I could do for her, some way that I could help her -- she seems such a sweet, nice sort of person.... However, not focusing on my weight issue isn't going to help, so ... I've been " doing " NT -- basically low-carb (with some extra good carbs, such as apples, whole-wheat bread added) for about a week now -- and I've gained 4 pounds. I doubt that I can actually gain that much that fast, so I think that it's the carbs holding water -- I sincerely hope this is as far as the weight gain goes! I am eating whenever I think about food -- but it seems that eating more throughout the day simply reduces my appetite in the evening. So I'm not sure if there is much of a caloric increase, just the extra carbs.... I would like to permanently add back some of the good carbs -- I LIKE EATING THEM! My husband is out of town this week -- that will make it easier for me to only eat what I want in the evening -- he is ALWAYS hungry, and he likes a good supper. (hmmm, maybe he's always been an NT follower -- he is very slender and has never cut back on food -- just the empty carbs). I frequently have to force myself to eat a respectable serving of the meat in the evening, and will leave the supper table feeling overfull.... Maybe I just need a light salad at that time???? So how are the rest of you eating? What is a typical day's food intake? Melinda, just how much did you initially gain before you started losing? My clothes are already snugger than I like : ( Bonnie Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted November 9, 2004 Report Share Posted November 9, 2004 Hi Bonnie, I totally 100% agree about eating foods that are good for you, I just have a problem doing it! :-) I don't really like fruits veggies and DEFINITELY not meat ( except Ham and bacon). I do like cheese. My husband is 5'8 " and is about 150#'s and LOVES good food and eats 3 times what I do (and that is no exaggeration) but he works at a factory everyday and I sit on my fannie at a computer, I always figured those 2 things were the difference!. When I was Human Resource Manager at K-Mart I walked all over the store several times a day and ate the same way I do now--maybe even a little more--and never had to worry about my weight--so for me it is not moving enough:-) Hugs Connie LL and NT and weight loss Hi All, Guess I've been sort of in a funk all day -- after reading Jenni's note, my efforts at losing weight seem really very, very unimportant. Wish there was something that I could do for her, some way that I could help her -- she seems such a sweet, nice sort of person.... However, not focusing on my weight issue isn't going to help, so ... I've been " doing " NT -- basically low-carb (with some extra good carbs, such as apples, whole-wheat bread added) for about a week now -- and I've gained 4 pounds. I doubt that I can actually gain that much that fast, so I think that it's the carbs holding water -- I sincerely hope this is as far as the weight gain goes! I am eating whenever I think about food -- but it seems that eating more throughout the day simply reduces my appetite in the evening. So I'm not sure if there is much of a caloric increase, just the extra carbs.... I would like to permanently add back some of the good carbs -- I LIKE EATING THEM! My husband is out of town this week -- that will make it easier for me to only eat what I want in the evening -- he is ALWAYS hungry, and he likes a good supper. (hmmm, maybe he's always been an NT follower -- he is very slender and has never cut back on food -- just the empty carbs). I frequently have to force myself to eat a respectable serving of the meat in the evening, and will leave the supper table feeling overfull.... Maybe I just need a light salad at that time???? So how are the rest of you eating? What is a typical day's food intake? Melinda, just how much did you initially gain before you started losing? My clothes are already snugger than I like : ( Bonnie Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted November 9, 2004 Report Share Posted November 9, 2004 Hello Sweet Melinda, You are so special. I can't tell you how touched I was when I read your last line. Here you are going through all of this and you are still reaching out hoping to help someone else through your sharing. I have always believed that when you are hurting the best way to heal yourself is to reach out to try to help heal someone else. You live in the spirit of that every day. For that I know you will always be blessed. You are all in my prayers. Take good care, Rashelle Re: LL and NT and weight loss I really, really hate to admit this here, but since I started NT, I gained 15 lbs. Coincidentally, I started at about the same time doing daily neurodevelopmental therapy with my 9 yos. It fell entirely on my shoulders, and takes hours every day. We also homeschool (I have a 16 yod, and 5 yos - my preemie). A good friend of mine who is also doing the therapy with her 2 yos said our lives are like Groundhog Day - - the same every single day. Very true. Also during this time, I found out my aunt is dying of cancer (they're about to call in hospice), and another aunt and uncle were in a very major car accident and are recovering slowly after spending a long time in ICU. All that to say, I've been very stressed, and I'm not sure what to attribute to my NT eating, and what to attribute to stress. I'm being very transparent here. It's not easy, but I hope it helps someone else, I really do. Melinda ) - Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted November 9, 2004 Report Share Posted November 9, 2004 Hi Connie, My husband sits at a computer all day, just like I do -- we both go for lunch hour walks, then walk a couple miles in the evening with our dogs -- and we take long (about 5 miles) hikes on the weekends. Our biking, golfing, roller blading is always done together... However, I add my LL exercises each morning, about 40 minutes -- so far, Harry's commitment to them is " I really ought to start doing them with you.... " . We are both very much type A personalities, seldom sit down at home -- only " difference " is I'm female and have had 6 babies (I really think that makes a difference with weight control) and Harry has a male metabolism. However, like your husband, mine easily trebles my eating! But still, he does eat a LOT and he eats OFTEN. I pack him a bag of nuts (about 4 ounces almonds and 2 ounces of cashews) for snacking on at work everyday -- no way could I get away with eating that many nuts! And he's always snacking on cheese, salami, a glass of red wine every evening, low-carb candies and ice creams, etc., etc. -- I don't touch the stuff... : ( Bonnie LL and NT and weight loss Hi All, Guess I've been sort of in a funk all day -- after reading Jenni's note, my efforts at losing weight seem really very, very unimportant. Wish there was something that I could do for her, some way that I could help her -- she seems such a sweet, nice sort of person.... However, not focusing on my weight issue isn't going to help, so ... I've been " doing " NT -- basically low-carb (with some extra good carbs, such as apples, whole-wheat bread added) for about a week now -- and I've gained 4 pounds. I doubt that I can actually gain that much that fast, so I think that it's the carbs holding water -- I sincerely hope this is as far as the weight gain goes! I am eating whenever I think about food -- but it seems that eating more throughout the day simply reduces my appetite in the evening. So I'm not sure if there is much of a caloric increase, just the extra carbs.... I would like to permanently add back some of the good carbs -- I LIKE EATING THEM! My husband is out of town this week -- that will make it easier for me to only eat what I want in the evening -- he is ALWAYS hungry, and he likes a good supper. (hmmm, maybe he's always been an NT follower -- he is very slender and has never cut back on food -- just the empty carbs). I frequently have to force myself to eat a respectable serving of the meat in the evening, and will leave the supper table feeling overfull.... Maybe I just need a light salad at that time???? So how are the rest of you eating? What is a typical day's food intake? Melinda, just how much did you initially gain before you started losing? My clothes are already snugger than I like : ( Bonnie Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted November 9, 2004 Report Share Posted November 9, 2004 Doesn't seem fair does it? Well there goes my sitting on my but theory out the window. I do do my LL while I am here. Hugs~Connie LL and NT and weight loss Hi All, Guess I've been sort of in a funk all day -- after reading Jenni's note, my efforts at losing weight seem really very, very unimportant. Wish there was something that I could do for her, some way that I could help her -- she seems such a sweet, nice sort of person.... However, not focusing on my weight issue isn't going to help, so ... I've been " doing " NT -- basically low-carb (with some extra good carbs, such as apples, whole-wheat bread added) for about a week now -- and I've gained 4 pounds. I doubt that I can actually gain that much that fast, so I think that it's the carbs holding water -- I sincerely hope this is as far as the weight gain goes! I am eating whenever I think about food -- but it seems that eating more throughout the day simply reduces my appetite in the evening. So I'm not sure if there is much of a caloric increase, just the extra carbs.... I would like to permanently add back some of the good carbs -- I LIKE EATING THEM! My husband is out of town this week -- that will make it easier for me to only eat what I want in the evening -- he is ALWAYS hungry, and he likes a good supper. (hmmm, maybe he's always been an NT follower -- he is very slender and has never cut back on food -- just the empty carbs). I frequently have to force myself to eat a respectable serving of the meat in the evening, and will leave the supper table feeling overfull.... Maybe I just need a light salad at that time???? So how are the rest of you eating? What is a typical day's food intake? Melinda, just how much did you initially gain before you started losing? My clothes are already snugger than I like : ( Bonnie Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted November 11, 2004 Report Share Posted November 11, 2004 Rashelle, Thank you so very much for the encouragement. I appreciate it more than you know. I, too, believe that the road to healing is paved with the little things we do to help others. I know for me, it takes the focus off me and my situation, and onto the possibility of me being able to do something practical or productive for someone else . . . as self-focused as I can get during difficult times, this is essential for my well-being. Love and prayers for you all, Melinda ) Re: LL and NT and weight loss I really, really hate to admit this here, but since I started NT, I gained 15 lbs. Coincidentally, I started at about the same time doing daily neurodevelopmental therapy with my 9 yos. It fell entirely on my shoulders, and takes hours every day. We also homeschool (I have a 16 yod, and 5 yos - my preemie). A good friend of mine who is also doing the therapy with her 2 yos said our lives are like Groundhog Day - - the same every single day. Very true. Also during this time, I found out my aunt is dying of cancer (they're about to call in hospice), and another aunt and uncle were in a very major car accident and are recovering slowly after spending a long time in ICU. All that to say, I've been very stressed, and I'm not sure what to attribute to my NT eating, and what to attribute to stress. I'm being very transparent here. It's not easy, but I hope it helps someone else, I really do. Melinda ) - Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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