Need advice before going to doctor can anyone help?

July 29, 2009

Hi

At 01:36 PM 7/29/2009, you wrote:

>Well, my 2 year old is scheduled for a check up on Aug 4 my husband

>wants to vaccinate, I DO NOT, however, I need to get through to him

>and I want to bring paperwork with me to ask the right questions

>because I am assuming the Dr. is going to push these vaccines.

Would your husband take my online class along with you to get all the

info in a methodical way?

You will not be able to communicate with your doctor no matter what

you bring with you.

Don't even try.

>Can anyone tell me if there is a site that simplifies the vaccine

>issues, by telling what each one is for and why they are not necessary.

No, there is not one site

No vaccines give immunity

All give harm on some level

it takes educating yourself with each and every disease and each and

every vaccine to understand it all as well as the dangers of all

vaccines and why - ingredients, how they act, etc.

> I want to get through to my husband and be well prepared for the

> doctor. I am looking to find out if there is a site out there that

> will break down very simply what each vaccine is for and why they

> are not necessary. I am trying also to get my son out of a tetanus

> shot that is due. Any help would greatly be appreciated.

You will have to avoid the doctor's visit and start reading and

researching and getting your husband on board. There is no easy answer.

Will he read anything at all? If he won't how can he be part of the

decision making.

Sheri

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July 29, 2009

What I would do is not even go for the checkup unless I had a medical issue that

needed attention.

Some feel the checkups are important.

If you are one that feels this way, you do need to do one thing before you go.

You need to look your child/baby directly into their eyes. Then you need to

Promise him/her that you will not allow any vaccines today. You could also tell

him/her that you will research any info the doc says before you ever agree to

any vaccines. Once you look into your childs eyes and make this promise, it is

hard to back down nomatter what the doctor says.

You can always change your mind after researching what the doctor has to say.

Something tells me you wont do that anyway.

I hope this helps. You can also go to a family doc, chiro, or other doctor that

is not a pediatrician. I have heard from others that non-pediatricians arent as

pushy about vaccines.

April

>

> Well, my 2 year old is scheduled for a check up on Aug 4 my husband wants to

vaccinate, I DO NOT, however, I need to get through to him and I want to bring

paperwork with me to ask the right questions because I am assuming the Dr. is

going to push these vaccines.. Can anyone tell me if there is a site that

simplifies the vaccine issues, by telling what each one is for and why they are

not necessary. I want to get through to my husband and be well prepared for the

doctor. I am looking to

>

July 29, 2009

I think the simple solution is to ask your doctor who is accepting medical

liability for a procedure that carries the risk of disability and death?

Look at the first form for demanding the state or doctor administrating the

vaccines accept medical liability here -

http://www.vaclib.org/legal/accept.htm

I would act very matter-of-factly about it. " OH, before we move ahead,

could you please just sign this for me? " If they are willing to sign (since

vaccines are so low risk), then your husband should have comfort in it.

But, if he sees they are unwilling to sign for medical liability (and they

won't), then he should KNOW there is something wrong there. Maybe you could

agree with your husband that you willingness to vaccinate is based on the

doctor's willingness to accept medical liability. See if he will agree to

do that.

On Wed, Jul 29, 2009 at 3:36 PM, ejandls <ejandls@...> wrote:

>

> Well, my 2 year old is scheduled for a check up on Aug 4 my husband wants

> to vaccinate, I DO NOT, however, I need to get through to him and I want to

> bring paperwork with me to ask the right questions because I am assuming the

> Dr. is going to push these vaccines. Can anyone tell me if there is a site

> that simplifies the vaccine issues, by telling what each one is for and why

> they are not necessary. I want to get through to my husband and be well

> prepared for the doctor. I am looking to find out if there is a site out

> there that will break down very simply what each vaccine is for and why they

> are not necessary. I am trying also to get my son out of a tetanus shot that

> is due. Any help would greatly be appreciated.

> Thank you in advance,

>

July 29, 2009

Too bad you and your husband are not in agreement on this. I don't know how

firmly he wants to do this or what the dynamics are between you, so it's

difficult to help in that area. Is he interested in reading up on it? If so, I

would get Neil 's books--short, easy to read, packed full of info.

There are no right questions to ask the doctor, unless you want to hear how

wonderful and necessary vaccines are. You don't need to justify your decision to

the doctor, whom YOU hire--not the other way around. You don't have to convince

him/her of anything--and you won't. There are no papers, books or websites that