Guest guest Posted March 5, 2004 Report Share Posted March 5, 2004 Hey there and welcome. Do you have MicroSoft Excel? If so I can e-mail you my workout/menu plan (I put them on the same sheet) for this week. I asked to look it over and she said it looked fine to her. There's a bit of repetition in there, and references to recipes from the Eating for Life book. I also have one Myoplex Lite shake per day. I am currently 5'6 " , 160 lbs or so, probably about 24% body fat and had great results last summer with this program. I got down to 17.5% body fat and 151 lbs, size 8. If you're interested, e-mail me at jenniferdupree@.... If you don't have excel let me know and I'll see what else I can do with it... in WI Hello and Intro > Well I figured I would introduce myself. I have been a member before but > never went anywhere so I bailed. > > > > Well I am praying and ask for prayers that I am here to stay. I have to do > something. > > > > I could use meals plan that will help me plan my meals. I am not going to > use any shakes or bars though. I prefer real food. I do enjoy working out so > that is not what has kept this from happening. It is just getting and > keeping the motivation and doing it. I would love to hear from others who > may have experienced this and have some inspiration. > > > > I am starting Monday and know that I can do this it is just doing it. > > > > Just a little about me....I am going to be 30 Monday. I have been married > for almost 6 yrs. I am a homeschool mom, Doula, and Midwifery student. Cant > wait to chat and learn from all of you!!!!! > > > > Shanna Hinrichs > > Wife to an awesome Husband; Jarret > > Mom and Teacher to 4 Dukes; Bradley (9), Tristen (5), Kaleb (4) and Dalton > (18 months) > > > > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted March 5, 2004 Report Share Posted March 5, 2004 >> I could use meals plan that will help me plan my meals. I am not going to use any shakes or bars though. I prefer real food. I Welcome Shanna. Here are some of my staple meals: Oatmeal, cottage cheese Cottage cheese, apple, cinnamon Cottage cheese, 1/2 serving dannon fit and lively vanilla yogurt, 1/2 cup of berries Chicken and brown rice or potatoes or barley Extra lean ground turkey meatloaf with potatoes 1 egg, 4 egg whites and beans or 1/2 serving beans and 1 corn tortilla with salsa Also lots of veggies. Colleen Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted February 7, 2005 Report Share Posted February 7, 2005 hi yolanda, i am also new to the group....but i have been doing candles, b & b and herbs for a very long time now............my best advice is to start out small, and do a lot of research and testing...this seems like a great place to learn things, and everyone seems very knowledgable at different levels...good luck...i know it's not the answer you wanted...it does take a lot to get started, but word of mouth is key (in my opinion) for those just starting...so make up stuff, and get it out to family, friends, co-workers, neighbors, etc...good luck!! Yolanda wrote: Hello everyone I am new to this group. I love to make different tolietries...bath salts, soaps. lip balm ect. I am interested in running a home business and selling my products. But have no clue how to get started. Does anyone one have any advise to offer or have any experience in sellling their own tolietries? Thanks, Yoly Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted February 7, 2005 Report Share Posted February 7, 2005 Hello and welcome! You may want to start with craft fairs and local flea markets and farm markets. I started with my candles, taking orders from my husbands freinds at work and advanced into bath and body care products as well. The best advice I can give you is to always use the finest ingredients you can, and talk to people, everywhere. Print up some business cards and maybe a list of what you make, to give to people. We started that way and now we have catalogs with pictures and are doing home parties in our area. Always have them with you even if you are only going to the gas station, We actually have an order coming from the woman who did our taxes at H and R. Listen to your potential customers and try to offer, or offer to create something just for them. Yolanda wrote: Hello everyone I am new to this group. I love to make different tolietries...bath salts, soaps. lip balm ect. I am interested in running a home business and selling my products. But have no clue how to get started. Does anyone one have any advise to offer or have any experience in sellling their own tolietries? Thanks, Yoly Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted February 7, 2005 Report Share Posted February 7, 2005 Thanks everyone for all the support!! Sounds like this is a great group. I have been expermenting with different products for years and have self studied use of herbs and essential oils ect. I do hunt down finest ingredient organic and make natural products. I feel like I really got some good recipes going. I give my products out to friends and family. But am going to start marketing. I made some home labels, but am still in search of finding different size labels and different appearance to the product labels. It deffinately helps to recieve opinions from the more experinced business owners. Thanks again, Yolanda > > Hello everyone I am new to this group. I love to make different > tolietries...bath salts, soaps. lip balm ect. I am interested in > running a home business and selling my products. But have no clue how > to get started. Does anyone one have any advise to offer or have any > experience in sellling their own tolietries? > Thanks, > Yoly > > > > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted February 7, 2005 Report Share Posted February 7, 2005 Thanks everyone for all the support!! Sounds like this is a great group. I have been expermenting with different products for years and have self studied use of herbs and essential oils ect. I do hunt down finest ingredient organic and make natural products. I feel like I really got some good recipes going. I give my products out to friends and family. But am going to start marketing. I made some home labels, but am still in search of finding different size labels and different appearance to the product labels. It deffinately helps to recieve opinions from the more experinced business owners. Thanks again, Yolanda > > Hello everyone I am new to this group. I love to make different > tolietries...bath salts, soaps. lip balm ect. I am interested in > running a home business and selling my products. But have no clue how > to get started. Does anyone one have any advise to offer or have any > experience in sellling their own tolietries? > Thanks, > Yoly > > > > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted February 7, 2005 Report Share Posted February 7, 2005 Thanks everyone for all the support!! Sounds like this is a great group. I have been expermenting with different products for years and have self studied use of herbs and essential oils ect. I do hunt down finest ingredient organic and make natural products. I feel like I really got some good recipes going. I give my products out to friends and family. But am going to start marketing. I made some home labels, but am still in search of finding different size labels and different appearance to the product labels. It deffinately helps to recieve opinions from the more experinced business owners. Thanks again, Yolanda > > Hello everyone I am new to this group. I love to make different > tolietries...bath salts, soaps. lip balm ect. I am interested in > running a home business and selling my products. But have no clue how > to get started. Does anyone one have any advise to offer or have any > experience in sellling their own tolietries? > Thanks, > Yoly > > > > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted May 1, 2006 Report Share Posted May 1, 2006 -Hello, My friend and I started the uricholine about a week ago. We both have noticed that our 4 1/2 year old sons are talking more- repeating movies, repeating words we say - but not really communicating better. I am happy with any improvement because my son is not very verbal, but my friend is not happy about her son repeating the movies so much. Carol -- In mb12 valtrex , Fraleigh <sfraleigh@...> wrote: > > Hi my name is and I have a 9 1/2 year old boy on the spectrum who is much improved because of SCD and vitamins and have just started to dabble into RDA as well. > I happened to hear Stan on autismone radio the other day and thought it was so interesting that I wanted to join the list. I have not used either B12 injections/nasal spray or anti virals other than garlic but I am hoping to try the B12 injections now that I have a Dr who might be willing to perscribe. > > I did notice reference being made to Dr. Megson's protocal and we are at the moment priming with the CLO and will be using uricholine anyday. I was wondering if anyone who has done this could maybe give me a clearer picture of the dosing that you used. > > Any help would sure be appreciated! > > (mom to ) > sores > > > hi all, > we are starting week 3 and interesting weve had some rashes but we > know we have the cold sore virus and as of yet no outbreaks. anyone > know what this might mean or not mean? i thought we would see one by > now unless it is working on other herpes viruses and not cold sore > one!!!! any thoughts appreciated!!! > > > > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted May 1, 2006 Report Share Posted May 1, 2006 -Hello, My friend and I started the uricholine about a week ago. We both have noticed that our 4 1/2 year old sons are talking more- repeating movies, repeating words we say - but not really communicating better. I am happy with any improvement because my son is not very verbal, but my friend is not happy about her son repeating the movies so much. Carol -- In mb12 valtrex , Fraleigh <sfraleigh@...> wrote: > > Hi my name is and I have a 9 1/2 year old boy on the spectrum who is much improved because of SCD and vitamins and have just started to dabble into RDA as well. > I happened to hear Stan on autismone radio the other day and thought it was so interesting that I wanted to join the list. I have not used either B12 injections/nasal spray or anti virals other than garlic but I am hoping to try the B12 injections now that I have a Dr who might be willing to perscribe. > > I did notice reference being made to Dr. Megson's protocal and we are at the moment priming with the CLO and will be using uricholine anyday. I was wondering if anyone who has done this could maybe give me a clearer picture of the dosing that you used. > > Any help would sure be appreciated! > > (mom to ) > sores > > > hi all, > we are starting week 3 and interesting weve had some rashes but we > know we have the cold sore virus and as of yet no outbreaks. anyone > know what this might mean or not mean? i thought we would see one by > now unless it is working on other herpes viruses and not cold sore > one!!!! any thoughts appreciated!!! > > > > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted May 1, 2006 Report Share Posted May 1, 2006 Carol Thank you for responding to my question so quickly. It sound like this is working for your son. Do you mind if I ask 1) What dose you started with? 2) Did you increase the dose until you saw a reaction over time? 3) and how long do you expect your child to be on it? susan sores> > > hi all, > we are starting week 3 and interesting weve had some rashes but we > know we have the cold sore virus and as of yet no outbreaks. anyone > know what this might mean or not mean? i thought we would see one by > now unless it is working on other herpes viruses and not cold sore > one!!!! any thoughts appreciated!!!> > > > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted May 1, 2006 Report Share Posted May 1, 2006 Carol Thank you for responding to my question so quickly. It sound like this is working for your son. Do you mind if I ask 1) What dose you started with? 2) Did you increase the dose until you saw a reaction over time? 3) and how long do you expect your child to be on it? susan sores> > > hi all, > we are starting week 3 and interesting weve had some rashes but we > know we have the cold sore virus and as of yet no outbreaks. anyone > know what this might mean or not mean? i thought we would see one by > now unless it is working on other herpes viruses and not cold sore > one!!!! any thoughts appreciated!!!> > > > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted February 12, 2007 Report Share Posted February 12, 2007 Awwwww Some people are just so insensitive. I personally don't care if you're in a wheelchair, as long as we can get along I'm , 23. I do not have SMA but I joined the group like a year ago because i have friends with it and wanted to learn more about it. My best friend is Radmila Turanjanin, she's a member here although she hasn't posted on the group in quite some time Hope you find a lot of friends here I sure have :-d I am disabled in another way tho - I'm deaf. On 2/12/07, Delphine s <deliza05@...> wrote: > > Hello everyone, > My name is Delphine and i just recently joined this group. i just > wanted to do a quick intro of myself. i am 23 living in North Carolina > with SMA II. I graduated from college a little over a year ago. I now > work at a non-profit as an administrative assistant. I plan on going > back and getting my MBA in a year or two and go into Marketing and > logo branding. > I am very excited about joining this group! I have a wonderful family > and extremely close friends that I love dearly, but i feel like > sometimes they just don't get it and really can't get it because they > don't live with what i do day to day. i really haven't ever talked to > many people who have been in my same position until now. i am getting > to the point in my life where i am starting to question a lot of > things and it has just left me feeling confused. > One thing i did want to ask about was dating. how many of you out > there are dating or are in a relationship? how did you meet your > significant other? > i am trying to push myself into the world of dating but am finding it > extremely difficult. most people have no interest once they learn i am > in a wheelchair. i have found a few that are interested but it just > never seems to go very far. and i honestly had the worst date know to > man this weekend. this guy made me feel like a piece of meat, saying > derogatory comments the entire night. i could tell only one thing was > on his mind and he wasn't afraid to show it. i ended up leaving, it > was so bad. so i guess i am just extremely frustrated right now. I > feel like i have hit so many brick walls. i feel like it is time for > the universe to cut me a break! > anyway, i really look forward to hearing from all of you and i have > enjoyed reading the comments thus far. > > -- > Delphine s > > And the day came when the risk it took to remain tight in the bud was > more painful than the risk it took to blossom. > -Anais Nin > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted February 12, 2007 Report Share Posted February 12, 2007 Hi Delphine: Hi - glad you joined! I'm a parent to a young boy (Bryce) with SMA - and can't comment regarding the dating scene - but have this to offer - that men, in general, are stupid. I say this as a stupid man myself. We will occasionally watch the movie Poppins with our two young kids - and I am always amused by one of the songs (sung my the mother of the children) - which goes something along the lines of " though we adore men - individualy, as a group we must admit - they're rather stupid. " (the song is in regards to women's suffrage movement in UK in early 1900's). Anyway, I would just add, hang in there, not all men are complete jerks, all the time. I'm sure you will find someone who loves you for you. Mitch --- Delphine s <deliza05@...> wrote: > Hello everyone, > My name is Delphine and i just recently joined this > group. i just > wanted to do a quick intro of myself. i am 23 living > in North Carolina > with SMA II. I graduated from college a little over > a year ago. I now > work at a non-profit as an administrative assistant. > I plan on going > back and getting my MBA in a year or two and go into > Marketing and > logo branding. > I am very excited about joining this group! I have a > wonderful family > and extremely close friends that I love dearly, but > i feel like > sometimes they just don't get it and really can't > get it because they > don't live with what i do day to day. i really > haven't ever talked to > many people who have been in my same position until > now. i am getting > to the point in my life where i am starting to > question a lot of > things and it has just left me feeling confused. > One thing i did want to ask about was dating. how > many of you out > there are dating or are in a relationship? how did > you meet your > significant other? > i am trying to push myself into the world of dating > but am finding it > extremely difficult. most people have no interest > once they learn i am > in a wheelchair. i have found a few that are > interested but it just > never seems to go very far. and i honestly had the > worst date know to > man this weekend. this guy made me feel like a piece > of meat, saying > derogatory comments the entire night. i could tell > only one thing was > on his mind and he wasn't afraid to show it. i ended > up leaving, it > was so bad. so i guess i am just extremely > frustrated right now. I > feel like i have hit so many brick walls. i feel > like it is time for > the universe to cut me a break! > anyway, i really look forward to hearing from all of > you and i have > enjoyed reading the comments thus far. > > -- > Delphine s > > And the day came when the risk it took to remain > tight in the bud was > more painful than the risk it took to blossom. > -Anais Nin > ________________________________________________________________________________\ ____ 8:00? 8:25? 8:40? Find a flick in no time with the Search movie showtime shortcut. http://tools.search./shortcuts/#news Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted February 12, 2007 Report Share Posted February 12, 2007 hi jared, thanks for replying. that was really sweet. yea i have met a lot of insensitive people in my life and for the most part i don't let it bother me. i just think i am in a weird place in my life right now though. and i guess it is bothering me more than it used to. and i also think i am a little in shock still and traumatized from my date last friday. so i guess i am a little disenchanted with dating right now. i have told my friends and they agreed it was the worst date they have every heard of. and it doesn't really help that i am confused about life in general right now. i just don't know. anyway, tell me some more about you. where do you live? On 2/12/07, Buck <jared.buck@...> wrote: > > Awwwww Some people are just so insensitive. I personally don't care > if > you're in a wheelchair, as long as we can get along I'm , 23. I do > not have SMA but I joined the group like a year ago because i have friends > with it and wanted to learn more about it. My best friend is Radmila > Turanjanin, she's a member here although she hasn't posted on the group in > quite some time > > Hope you find a lot of friends here I sure have :-d I am disabled in > another way tho - I'm deaf. > > > > On 2/12/07, Delphine s <deliza05@... <deliza05%40gmail.com>> > wrote: > > > > Hello everyone, > > My name is Delphine and i just recently joined this group. i just > > wanted to do a quick intro of myself. i am 23 living in North Carolina > > with SMA II. I graduated from college a little over a year ago. I now > > work at a non-profit as an administrative assistant. I plan on going > > back and getting my MBA in a year or two and go into Marketing and > > logo branding. > > I am very excited about joining this group! I have a wonderful family > > and extremely close friends that I love dearly, but i feel like > > sometimes they just don't get it and really can't get it because they > > don't live with what i do day to day. i really haven't ever talked to > > many people who have been in my same position until now. i am getting > > to the point in my life where i am starting to question a lot of > > things and it has just left me feeling confused. > > One thing i did want to ask about was dating. how many of you out > > there are dating or are in a relationship? how did you meet your > > significant other? > > i am trying to push myself into the world of dating but am finding it > > extremely difficult. most people have no interest once they learn i am > > in a wheelchair. i have found a few that are interested but it just > > never seems to go very far. and i honestly had the worst date know to > > man this weekend. this guy made me feel like a piece of meat, saying > > derogatory comments the entire night. i could tell only one thing was > > on his mind and he wasn't afraid to show it. i ended up leaving, it > > was so bad. so i guess i am just extremely frustrated right now. I > > feel like i have hit so many brick walls. i feel like it is time for > > the universe to cut me a break! > > anyway, i really look forward to hearing from all of you and i have > > enjoyed reading the comments thus far. > > > > -- > > Delphine s > > > > And the day came when the risk it took to remain tight in the bud was > > more painful than the risk it took to blossom. > > -Anais Nin > > > > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted February 12, 2007 Report Share Posted February 12, 2007 Hey Delphine, My name is Tammia and I have SMA 2 also.I have been through the same thng you have when it came to dating. I used a dating chatline to find guys to talk to and possibly date. Whenever I told a guys that I'm in a wheelchair they would kinda freak out or they would say that they didnt mind, but when I met them I soon would find out that the reason they didnt mind was because they were only after one thing. I didnt really give up on finding someone , because I knew in my heart that I would find someone and I did. Me and my guy have been dating for a month now( I know thats not long to ya'll but to me it is lol). He left me a messege in my mailbox on the dating line saying he liked my voice, that I jus sound like a very sweet and down to earth person,and that also he liked the description that I gave about myself, and he wanted to talk and get to know me more. He left me his number, and I was skeptical about calling him because I guess I figured he would turn out to be like the other guys I've dated, but something told me to call him anyway,and I did. we talked for a few then we had to hand up because my brother had to use the phone. I later texted him to see if he had listen to my whole entire ad on the date line because I wanted to see if he heard me say that I was in a wheelchair. He said he listened to my ad. I texted him again and said, " so you know that im in a wheelchair right? " , and he texted me back saying no he didnt know that.I didnt have anything to say after that so I stoped texting him, and I waited on someother kind of reply from him, but he didnt text me again, so I begin to thing to myself " oh my goodness, he doesn't want to talk to me anymore because he now knows im in a chair " , he texted me back telling me to call him, and I did and I was so scared, because I didnt know what he was gonna say about my little situation lol, so when I called he said to me " so what that you're in a wheelchair, is that suppose to scare me away or something? " , all I could say was " I guess not " lol. he said that even though you're in a chair, you have feelings too, and I still like you regaurdless. I didnt want to get all excited just yet until I meet him. When that day came I was very nervous. When he called to get direction I couldn't really tell him, like I just went blank and I had to get my step dad to tell him, I was that nervous lol.so when he arrived he called to tell me to open the door, so when my step dada opened the door my friggan heart was in my throat lol. When he walked in I was in aww because he was so gorgeous to me. and when he began to sit down I kinda snatched his sunglasses away from him playfully like they were mine , and put them on, and told him I was keeping them lol, he laughed and said I could keep them, I was trying to give them back to him, but instead of him grabbing the glasses he grabed my hand and held it and jus stared staring at me lol, I was like OH MY GOSH! he's holding my hand lol, all I could do was giggle like a little school girl lol. I asked him why was he staring at me so, and he said, because I was so beautiful and that just made me melt lol. ever since then everything has been going well, we argue about stupid things sometimes, but what couple doesn't lol. So don't be skeptical about dating because you'll find someone who's gonna be very interested in you and wouldn't mind that you have a disability.. Delphine s <deliza05@...> wrote: Hello everyone, My name is Delphine and i just recently joined this group. i just wanted to do a quick intro of myself. i am 23 living in North Carolina with SMA II. I graduated from college a little over a year ago. I now work at a non-profit as an administrative assistant. I plan on going back and getting my MBA in a year or two and go into Marketing and logo branding. I am very excited about joining this group! I have a wonderful family and extremely close friends that I love dearly, but i feel like sometimes they just don't get it and really can't get it because they don't live with what i do day to day. i really haven't ever talked to many people who have been in my same position until now. i am getting to the point in my life where i am starting to question a lot of things and it has just left me feeling confused. One thing i did want to ask about was dating. how many of you out there are dating or are in a relationship? how did you meet your significant other? i am trying to push myself into the world of dating but am finding it extremely difficult. most people have no interest once they learn i am in a wheelchair. i have found a few that are interested but it just never seems to go very far. and i honestly had the worst date know to man this weekend. this guy made me feel like a piece of meat, saying derogatory comments the entire night. i could tell only one thing was on his mind and he wasn't afraid to show it. i ended up leaving, it was so bad. so i guess i am just extremely frustrated right now. I feel like i have hit so many brick walls. i feel like it is time for the universe to cut me a break! anyway, i really look forward to hearing from all of you and i have enjoyed reading the comments thus far. -- Delphine s And the day came when the risk it took to remain tight in the bud was more painful than the risk it took to blossom. -Anais Nin --------------------------------- TV dinner still cooling? Check out " Tonight's Picks " on TV. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted February 12, 2007 Report Share Posted February 12, 2007 I can totally relate to being disillusioned with dating. I am 29 and just now started my first relationship. For many years I saw most of my friends date, get married, etc. and thought " why not me too? " . It was a strange coincidence the way my boyfriend and I met and he is very cool about my abilities as well as my limitations. I don't know yet if he is " the one " but it sure is fun!! Many friends and familiy members told me for a long time " you will find someone.....blah, blah, blah " but I never believed them. Try to remain open to the possibilities and enjoy being single too. You are not in a holding place!! ~a Delphine s <deliza05@...> wrote: Hello everyone, My name is Delphine and i just recently joined this group. i just wanted to do a quick intro of myself. i am 23 living in North Carolina with SMA II. I graduated from college a little over a year ago. I now work at a non-profit as an administrative assistant. I plan on going back and getting my MBA in a year or two and go into Marketing and logo branding. I am very excited about joining this group! I have a wonderful family and extremely close friends that I love dearly, but i feel like sometimes they just don't get it and really can't get it because they don't live with what i do day to day. i really haven't ever talked to many people who have been in my same position until now. i am getting to the point in my life where i am starting to question a lot of things and it has just left me feeling confused. One thing i did want to ask about was dating. how many of you out there are dating or are in a relationship? how did you meet your significant other? i am trying to push myself into the world of dating but am finding it extremely difficult. most people have no interest once they learn i am in a wheelchair. i have found a few that are interested but it just never seems to go very far. and i honestly had the worst date know to man this weekend. this guy made me feel like a piece of meat, saying derogatory comments the entire night. i could tell only one thing was on his mind and he wasn't afraid to show it. i ended up leaving, it was so bad. so i guess i am just extremely frustrated right now. I feel like i have hit so many brick walls. i feel like it is time for the universe to cut me a break! anyway, i really look forward to hearing from all of you and i have enjoyed reading the comments thus far. -- Delphine s And the day came when the risk it took to remain tight in the bud was more painful than the risk it took to blossom. -Anais Nin --------------------------------- Don't be flakey. Get for Mobile and always stay connected to friends. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted February 13, 2007 Report Share Posted February 13, 2007 Welcome to the group! I have been with my boyfriend for...well we don't know how long because we never can remember. It's been almost 5 years-ish. I'm 23, SMA II, and Joe and I are living in the San Francisco bay area in California. <3Kendra > > Hello everyone, > My name is Delphine and i just recently joined this group. i just > wanted to do a quick intro of myself. i am 23 living in North Carolina > with SMA II. I graduated from college a little over a year ago. I now > work at a non-profit as an administrative assistant. I plan on going > back and getting my MBA in a year or two and go into Marketing and > logo branding. > I am very excited about joining this group! I have a wonderful family > and extremely close friends that I love dearly, but i feel like > sometimes they just don't get it and really can't get it because they > don't live with what i do day to day. i really haven't ever talked to > many people who have been in my same position until now. i am getting > to the point in my life where i am starting to question a lot of > things and it has just left me feeling confused. > One thing i did want to ask about was dating. how many of you out > there are dating or are in a relationship? how did you meet your > significant other? > i am trying to push myself into the world of dating but am finding it > extremely difficult. most people have no interest once they learn i am > in a wheelchair. i have found a few that are interested but it just > never seems to go very far. and i honestly had the worst date know to > man this weekend. this guy made me feel like a piece of meat, saying > derogatory comments the entire night. i could tell only one thing was > on his mind and he wasn't afraid to show it. i ended up leaving, it > was so bad. so i guess i am just extremely frustrated right now. I > feel like i have hit so many brick walls. i feel like it is time for > the universe to cut me a break! > anyway, i really look forward to hearing from all of you and i have > enjoyed reading the comments thus far. > > -- > Delphine s > > And the day came when the risk it took to remain tight in the bud was > more painful than the risk it took to blossom. > -Anais Nin > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted February 13, 2007 Report Share Posted February 13, 2007 Hi Delphine My name's Fionna, I have SMA Type II, am 38 yrs old and I live in Cape Town, South Africa. I became seriously involved for the first time in my life with a guy last year June. I knew he was married when we met, but he painted a picture of unhappiness and I thought the relationship would progress in my favour (i.e. him getting divorced etc.). Also when I met him I was a virgin. He tells me one day (not long after we met) that he hasn't had sex with his wife since he met me. I told myself he was bullshitting me because he's still living with his wife, but being the kind person I am I thought why don't I give him the benefit of the doubt. So, u can imagine what I did next! To make a long story short...over the past 8 months he manipulated me into buying him clothes and supporting him financially where his drinking habit was concerned (I'm pretty sure he only used the money for that!)...during this time he made me think he had moved out of his wife's house and into his mother's...he was a damn good actor and lier rolled into one. Our situation was such that because he was married our relationship was kept secret from my parents and immediate family. My friends were the only one's who met him. Three weeks ago, through his neglect with his mobile, his wife finds out about me. At least he had the decency not to tell her the entire truth about us...BUT I also felt that he was a coward for not telling her the truth if he was as unhappy as he claimed to be. He always promised me the world! Last week Wednesday was the last time I spoke to him...he just disappeared from my life! Hello and intro Hello everyone, My name is Delphine and i just recently joined this group. i just wanted to do a quick intro of myself. i am 23 living in North Carolina with SMA II. I graduated from college a little over a year ago. I now work at a non-profit as an administrative assistant. I plan on going back and getting my MBA in a year or two and go into Marketing and logo branding. I am very excited about joining this group! I have a wonderful family and extremely close friends that I love dearly, but i feel like sometimes they just don't get it and really can't get it because they don't live with what i do day to day. i really haven't ever talked to many people who have been in my same position until now. i am getting to the point in my life where i am starting to question a lot of things and it has just left me feeling confused. One thing i did want to ask about was dating. how many of you out there are dating or are in a relationship? how did you meet your significant other? i am trying to push myself into the world of dating but am finding it extremely difficult. most people have no interest once they learn i am in a wheelchair. i have found a few that are interested but it just never seems to go very far. and i honestly had the worst date know to man this weekend. this guy made me feel like a piece of meat, saying derogatory comments the entire night. i could tell only one thing was on his mind and he wasn't afraid to show it. i ended up leaving, it was so bad. so i guess i am just extremely frustrated right now. I feel like i have hit so many brick walls. i feel like it is time for the universe to cut me a break! anyway, i really look forward to hearing from all of you and i have enjoyed reading the comments thus far. -- Delphine s And the day came when the risk it took to remain tight in the bud was more painful than the risk it took to blossom. -Anais Nin Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted February 16, 2007 Report Share Posted February 16, 2007 Hi Delphine, I (36, SMS II) completely know what you mean. When reading what the other members wrote I think: Wow! Where are all those wonderful guys? Surely I had some dates but in the end there were only 2 situations: I did not like the men but they liked me or the other way arround. Bad luck I guess. An other important fact is - I think - what's in my mind. I am always the funny budy, easy to talk to, I am a good listener and always offer helpful advice. Many men come to me and talk about their worries but I think they never see the woman in me, just the pal who cheers them up. So after a while I stopped seing the woman in me either and do not act like a searching single woman. It is a kind of sending signals, I think. Once I was very much in love with a great guy years ago. He said I am the woman of his dreams - if I was not in a chair and for that reason not flexible concerning leisure activities. Ouch! We are still close friends and he is the most unflexible daddy and husband in the meantime. Yeah! But this does not help me after all. The result of all that and from beeing single for so long (I never had a relationship indeed) makes it not easier for me to regard myself as very attractive to men. The more time goes by the more I ask myself: what do I have to offer? A perfect and man appealing body? Nope! Am I flexible? Nope! Am I still young and fresh? Not really.... So if today a men would cross my way and would find me interesting as a woman and possible partner, I think I even would not recognize it as I would think this is not possible. If he would tell me, I would laugh and think " what a crazy guy! " When reading this, it sounds depressive - but I am not, I think I like my life and adjusted to the situation as it is now. But if I could turn back the time for 10 - 15 yrs. I would do one thing different: I wished I had accepted the offers to have sex. I always declined with thanks as I thought I will be in love with the man or this one is not the right one. So in the end I am the oldest virgin in the world, I guess. :-) Sorry for this long and not very constructing posting. I would be very interested in learning what other " old " single women have to say to this topic - or am I the only one? Gosh! Please not. Camilla Germany > > Hello everyone, > My name is Delphine and i just recently joined this group. i just > wanted to do a quick intro of myself. i am 23 living in North Carolina > with SMA II. I graduated from college a little over a year ago. I now > work at a non-profit as an administrative assistant. I plan on going > back and getting my MBA in a year or two and go into Marketing and > logo branding. > I am very excited about joining this group! I have a wonderful family > and extremely close friends that I love dearly, but i feel like > sometimes they just don't get it and really can't get it because they > don't live with what i do day to day. i really haven't ever talked to > many people who have been in my same position until now. i am getting > to the point in my life where i am starting to question a lot of > things and it has just left me feeling confused. > One thing i did want to ask about was dating. how many of you out > there are dating or are in a relationship? how did you meet your > significant other? > i am trying to push myself into the world of dating but am finding it > extremely difficult. most people have no interest once they learn i am > in a wheelchair. i have found a few that are interested but it just > never seems to go very far. and i honestly had the worst date know to > man this weekend. this guy made me feel like a piece of meat, saying > derogatory comments the entire night. i could tell only one thing was > on his mind and he wasn't afraid to show it. i ended up leaving, it > was so bad. so i guess i am just extremely frustrated right now. I > feel like i have hit so many brick walls. i feel like it is time for > the universe to cut me a break! > anyway, i really look forward to hearing from all of you and i have > enjoyed reading the comments thus far. > > -- > Delphine s > > And the day came when the risk it took to remain tight in the bud was > more painful than the risk it took to blossom. > -Anais Nin > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted February 17, 2007 Report Share Posted February 17, 2007 For the single ladies in the group, please try not to despair. I didn't find my true love until I was 54. I, too, have SMA and have been in a wheelchair since I was 11. All my life, I searched for love. Every so-called " relationship " I had was unsuccessful. So many times, I thought it best to give up my search, but deep inside I knew I couldn't. I wanted this more than anything in the world. Do you know where I finally found him? Right here, on the SMA posts. His deceased wife had SMA and he wrote posts on here. We began communicating in September of 2005. In October, our telephone calls became a nightly routine. In January of 2006, he flew up to NY from Ga. and spent a week with me. In April, we were married. Here I am, a newlywed at 55! Don't give up! If you would like to read about me, I wrote a book about my life. It can be purchased online at publishamerica.com, amazon.com, or barnesandnobel.com. It's called " Without Laughter and Music, Shoot Me, " by Napolitano. I met my husband after my book was published. Believe me, ladies, I know what you're going through. It's been a long journey for me. Please feel free to talk anytime. Manning Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted February 17, 2007 Report Share Posted February 17, 2007 I love your love story, ! L Aunt617@... wrote: > > For the single ladies in the group, please try not to despair. I > didn't find > my true love until I was 54. I, too, have SMA and have been in a > wheelchair > since I was 11. All my life, I searched for love. Every so-called > " relationship " I had was unsuccessful. So many times, I thought it > best to give up my > search, but deep inside I knew I couldn't. I wanted this more than > anything in > the world. Do you know where I finally found him? Right here, on the SMA > posts. His deceased wife had SMA and he wrote posts on here. We began > communicating in September of 2005. In October, our telephone calls > became a nightly > routine. In January of 2006, he flew up to NY from Ga. and spent a > week with me. > In April, we were married. Here I am, a newlywed at 55! Don't give up! > > If you would like to read about me, I wrote a book about my life. It > can be > purchased online at publishamerica.com, amazon.com, or > barnesandnobel.com. > It's called " Without Laughter and Music, Shoot Me, " by > Napolitano. I met > my husband after my book was published. > > Believe me, ladies, I know what you're going through. It's been a long > journey for me. Please feel free to talk anytime. > > Manning > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted February 17, 2007 Report Share Posted February 17, 2007 , love your " love story " too...See, it can happen!...ok, now dont hide him, where is your man? Is he still on this list? > > For the single ladies in the group, please try not to despair. I didn't find > my true love until I was 54. I, too, have SMA and have been in a wheelchair > since I was 11. All my life, I searched for love. Every so-called > " relationship " I had was unsuccessful. So many times, I thought it best to give up my > search, but deep inside I knew I couldn't. I wanted this more than anything in > the world. Do you know where I finally found him? Right here, on the SMA > posts. His deceased wife had SMA and he wrote posts on here. We began > communicating in September of 2005. In October, our telephone calls became a nightly > routine. In January of 2006, he flew up to NY from Ga. and spent a week with me. > In April, we were married. Here I am, a newlywed at 55! Don't give up! > > If you would like to read about me, I wrote a book about my life. It can be > purchased online at publishamerica.com, amazon.com, or barnesandnobel.com. > It's called " Without Laughter and Music, Shoot Me, " by Napolitano. I met > my husband after my book was published. > > Believe me, ladies, I know what you're going through. It's been a long > journey for me. Please feel free to talk anytime. > > Manning > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted February 18, 2007 Report Share Posted February 18, 2007 No, I'm not hiding my man, . He's not on the list anymore. His name is Bob Manning. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted February 18, 2007 Report Share Posted February 18, 2007 Congratulations , and Bob! I had spoken to Bob when he joined to tell us about losing his wife. I'm glad that both of you found each other!! -- Later, Mike Briggs Photo Gallery: http://www.pbase.com/photogrif/ " Fish Gotta Swim, I Gotta Dive " Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted April 25, 2009 Report Share Posted April 25, 2009 Hi, I'm Jessie and I have a 6 month old baby boy called Adam. I also have a dog called Loki who is 8 years old but thinks he is still 6 months. I hope when my son is older they will be able to wear each other out and I may finally get some peace! I live in London, England, and work in sales but am currently on maternity leave. I have not had my son vaccinated although my ex-husband would like him to be. I look forward to getting to know you all. Jessie Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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