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Hey there and welcome.

Do you have MicroSoft Excel? If so I can e-mail you my workout/menu plan (I

put them on the same sheet) for this week. I asked to look it over

and she said it looked fine to her. There's a bit of repetition in there,

and references to recipes from the Eating for Life book. I also have one

Myoplex Lite shake per day.

I am currently 5'6 " , 160 lbs or so, probably about 24% body fat and had

great results last summer with this program. I got down to 17.5% body fat

and 151 lbs, size 8.

If you're interested, e-mail me at jenniferdupree@....

If you don't have excel let me know and I'll see what else I can do with

it...

in WI

Hello and Intro

> Well I figured I would introduce myself. I have been a member before but

> never went anywhere so I bailed.

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> Well I am praying and ask for prayers that I am here to stay. I have to do

> something.

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> I could use meals plan that will help me plan my meals. I am not going to

> use any shakes or bars though. I prefer real food. I do enjoy working out

so

> that is not what has kept this from happening. It is just getting and

> keeping the motivation and doing it. I would love to hear from others who

> may have experienced this and have some inspiration.

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> I am starting Monday and know that I can do this it is just doing it.

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> Just a little about me....I am going to be 30 Monday. I have been married

> for almost 6 yrs. I am a homeschool mom, Doula, and Midwifery student.

Cant

> wait to chat and learn from all of you!!!!!

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> Shanna Hinrichs

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> Wife to an awesome Husband; Jarret

>

> Mom and Teacher to 4 Dukes; Bradley (9), Tristen (5), Kaleb (4) and Dalton

> (18 months)

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>> I could use meals plan that will help me plan my meals. I am not

going to use any shakes or bars though. I prefer real food. I

Welcome Shanna. Here are some of my staple meals:

Oatmeal, cottage cheese

Cottage cheese, apple, cinnamon

Cottage cheese, 1/2 serving dannon fit and lively vanilla yogurt, 1/2

cup of berries

Chicken and brown rice or potatoes or barley

Extra lean ground turkey meatloaf with potatoes

1 egg, 4 egg whites and beans or 1/2 serving beans and 1 corn

tortilla with salsa

Also lots of veggies.

Colleen

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hi yolanda, i am also new to the group....but i have been doing candles, b & b and

herbs for a very long time now............my best advice is to start out small,

and do a lot of research and testing...this seems like a great place to learn

things, and everyone seems very knowledgable at different levels...good luck...i

know it's not the answer you wanted...it does take a lot to get started, but

word of mouth is key (in my opinion) for those just starting...so make up stuff,

and get it out to family, friends, co-workers, neighbors, etc...good luck!!

Yolanda wrote:

Hello everyone I am new to this group. I love to make different

tolietries...bath salts, soaps. lip balm ect. I am interested in

running a home business and selling my products. But have no clue how

to get started. Does anyone one have any advise to offer or have any

experience in sellling their own tolietries?

Thanks,

Yoly

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Hello and welcome!

You may want to start with craft fairs and local flea markets and farm markets.

I started with my candles, taking orders from my husbands freinds at work and

advanced into bath and body care products as well. The best advice I can give

you is to always use the finest ingredients you can, and talk to people,

everywhere. Print up some business cards and maybe a list of what you make, to

give to people. We started that way and now we have catalogs with pictures and

are doing home parties in our area. Always have them with you even if you are

only going to the gas station, We actually have an order coming from the woman

who did our taxes at H and R. Listen to your potential customers and try to

offer, or offer to create something just for them.

Yolanda wrote:

Hello everyone I am new to this group. I love to make different

tolietries...bath salts, soaps. lip balm ect. I am interested in

running a home business and selling my products. But have no clue how

to get started. Does anyone one have any advise to offer or have any

experience in sellling their own tolietries?

Thanks,

Yoly

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Thanks everyone for all the support!! Sounds like this is a great

group. I have been expermenting with different products for years and

have self studied use of herbs and essential oils ect. I do hunt

down finest ingredient organic and make natural products.

I feel like I really got some good recipes going. I give my

products out to friends and family. But am going to start marketing.

I made some home labels, but am still in search of finding different

size labels and different appearance to the product labels. It

deffinately helps to recieve opinions from the more experinced

business owners.

Thanks again,

Yolanda

>

> Hello everyone I am new to this group. I love to make different

> tolietries...bath salts, soaps. lip balm ect. I am interested in

> running a home business and selling my products. But have no clue

how

> to get started. Does anyone one have any advise to offer or have

any

> experience in sellling their own tolietries?

> Thanks,

> Yoly

>

>

>

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>

>

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Thanks everyone for all the support!! Sounds like this is a great

group. I have been expermenting with different products for years and

have self studied use of herbs and essential oils ect. I do hunt

down finest ingredient organic and make natural products.

I feel like I really got some good recipes going. I give my

products out to friends and family. But am going to start marketing.

I made some home labels, but am still in search of finding different

size labels and different appearance to the product labels. It

deffinately helps to recieve opinions from the more experinced

business owners.

Thanks again,

Yolanda

>

> Hello everyone I am new to this group. I love to make different

> tolietries...bath salts, soaps. lip balm ect. I am interested in

> running a home business and selling my products. But have no clue

how

> to get started. Does anyone one have any advise to offer or have

any

> experience in sellling their own tolietries?

> Thanks,

> Yoly

>

>

>

>

>

>

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Thanks everyone for all the support!! Sounds like this is a great

group. I have been expermenting with different products for years and

have self studied use of herbs and essential oils ect. I do hunt

down finest ingredient organic and make natural products.

I feel like I really got some good recipes going. I give my

products out to friends and family. But am going to start marketing.

I made some home labels, but am still in search of finding different

size labels and different appearance to the product labels. It

deffinately helps to recieve opinions from the more experinced

business owners.

Thanks again,

Yolanda

>

> Hello everyone I am new to this group. I love to make different

> tolietries...bath salts, soaps. lip balm ect. I am interested in

> running a home business and selling my products. But have no clue

how

> to get started. Does anyone one have any advise to offer or have

any

> experience in sellling their own tolietries?

> Thanks,

> Yoly

>

>

>

>

>

>

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-Hello,

My friend and I started the uricholine about a week ago. We both

have noticed that our 4 1/2 year old sons are talking more- repeating

movies, repeating words we say - but not really communicating better.

I am happy with any improvement because my son is not very verbal,

but my friend is not happy about her son repeating the movies so much.

Carol

-- In mb12 valtrex , Fraleigh <sfraleigh@...>

wrote:

>

> Hi my name is and I have a 9 1/2 year old boy on the spectrum

who is much improved because of SCD and vitamins and have just

started to dabble into RDA as well.

> I happened to hear Stan on autismone radio the other day and

thought it was so interesting that I wanted to join the list. I have

not used either B12 injections/nasal spray or anti virals other than

garlic but I am hoping to try the B12 injections now that I have a Dr

who might be willing to perscribe.

>

> I did notice reference being made to Dr. Megson's protocal and we

are at the moment priming with the CLO and will be using uricholine

anyday. I was wondering if anyone who has done this could maybe give

me a clearer picture of the dosing that you used.

>

> Any help would sure be appreciated!

>

> (mom to )

> sores

>

>

> hi all,

> we are starting week 3 and interesting weve had some rashes but

we

> know we have the cold sore virus and as of yet no outbreaks.

anyone

> know what this might mean or not mean? i thought we would see one

by

> now unless it is working on other herpes viruses and not cold

sore

> one!!!! any thoughts appreciated!!!

>

>

>

>

>

>

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-Hello,

My friend and I started the uricholine about a week ago. We both

have noticed that our 4 1/2 year old sons are talking more- repeating

movies, repeating words we say - but not really communicating better.

I am happy with any improvement because my son is not very verbal,

but my friend is not happy about her son repeating the movies so much.

Carol

-- In mb12 valtrex , Fraleigh <sfraleigh@...>

wrote:

>

> Hi my name is and I have a 9 1/2 year old boy on the spectrum

who is much improved because of SCD and vitamins and have just

started to dabble into RDA as well.

> I happened to hear Stan on autismone radio the other day and

thought it was so interesting that I wanted to join the list. I have

not used either B12 injections/nasal spray or anti virals other than

garlic but I am hoping to try the B12 injections now that I have a Dr

who might be willing to perscribe.

>

> I did notice reference being made to Dr. Megson's protocal and we

are at the moment priming with the CLO and will be using uricholine

anyday. I was wondering if anyone who has done this could maybe give

me a clearer picture of the dosing that you used.

>

> Any help would sure be appreciated!

>

> (mom to )

> sores

>

>

> hi all,

> we are starting week 3 and interesting weve had some rashes but

we

> know we have the cold sore virus and as of yet no outbreaks.

anyone

> know what this might mean or not mean? i thought we would see one

by

> now unless it is working on other herpes viruses and not cold

sore

> one!!!! any thoughts appreciated!!!

>

>

>

>

>

>

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Carol

Thank you for responding to my question so quickly. It sound like this is working for your son.

Do you mind if I ask

1) What dose you started with?

2) Did you increase the dose until you saw a reaction over time?

3) and how long do you expect your child to be on it?

susan

sores> > > hi all, > we are starting week 3 and interesting weve had some rashes but we > know we have the cold sore virus and as of yet no outbreaks. anyone > know what this might mean or not mean? i thought we would see one by > now unless it is working on other herpes viruses and not cold sore > one!!!! any thoughts appreciated!!!> > > > > >

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Carol

Thank you for responding to my question so quickly. It sound like this is working for your son.

Do you mind if I ask

1) What dose you started with?

2) Did you increase the dose until you saw a reaction over time?

3) and how long do you expect your child to be on it?

susan

sores> > > hi all, > we are starting week 3 and interesting weve had some rashes but we > know we have the cold sore virus and as of yet no outbreaks. anyone > know what this might mean or not mean? i thought we would see one by > now unless it is working on other herpes viruses and not cold sore > one!!!! any thoughts appreciated!!!> > > > > >

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Awwwww :( Some people are just so insensitive. I personally don't care if

you're in a wheelchair, as long as we can get along :) I'm , 23. I do

not have SMA but I joined the group like a year ago because i have friends

with it and wanted to learn more about it. My best friend is Radmila

Turanjanin, she's a member here although she hasn't posted on the group in

quite some time :(

Hope you find a lot of friends here :) I sure have :-d I am disabled in

another way tho - I'm deaf.

On 2/12/07, Delphine s <deliza05@...> wrote:

>

> Hello everyone,

> My name is Delphine and i just recently joined this group. i just

> wanted to do a quick intro of myself. i am 23 living in North Carolina

> with SMA II. I graduated from college a little over a year ago. I now

> work at a non-profit as an administrative assistant. I plan on going

> back and getting my MBA in a year or two and go into Marketing and

> logo branding.

> I am very excited about joining this group! I have a wonderful family

> and extremely close friends that I love dearly, but i feel like

> sometimes they just don't get it and really can't get it because they

> don't live with what i do day to day. i really haven't ever talked to

> many people who have been in my same position until now. i am getting

> to the point in my life where i am starting to question a lot of

> things and it has just left me feeling confused.

> One thing i did want to ask about was dating. how many of you out

> there are dating or are in a relationship? how did you meet your

> significant other?

> i am trying to push myself into the world of dating but am finding it

> extremely difficult. most people have no interest once they learn i am

> in a wheelchair. i have found a few that are interested but it just

> never seems to go very far. and i honestly had the worst date know to

> man this weekend. this guy made me feel like a piece of meat, saying

> derogatory comments the entire night. i could tell only one thing was

> on his mind and he wasn't afraid to show it. i ended up leaving, it

> was so bad. so i guess i am just extremely frustrated right now. I

> feel like i have hit so many brick walls. i feel like it is time for

> the universe to cut me a break!

> anyway, i really look forward to hearing from all of you and i have

> enjoyed reading the comments thus far.

>

> --

> Delphine s

>

> And the day came when the risk it took to remain tight in the bud was

> more painful than the risk it took to blossom.

> -Anais Nin

>

>

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Hi Delphine:

Hi - glad you joined! I'm a parent to a young boy

(Bryce) with SMA - and can't comment regarding the

dating scene - but have this to offer - that men, in

general, are stupid. I say this as a stupid man

myself.

We will occasionally watch the movie Poppins with

our two young kids - and I am always amused by one of

the songs (sung my the mother of the children) - which

goes something along the lines of " though we adore men

- individualy, as a group we must admit - they're

rather stupid. " (the song is in regards to women's

suffrage movement in UK in early 1900's).

Anyway, I would just add, hang in there, not all men

are complete jerks, all the time. I'm sure you will

find someone who loves you for you. Mitch

--- Delphine s <deliza05@...> wrote:

> Hello everyone,

> My name is Delphine and i just recently joined this

> group. i just

> wanted to do a quick intro of myself. i am 23 living

> in North Carolina

> with SMA II. I graduated from college a little over

> a year ago. I now

> work at a non-profit as an administrative assistant.

> I plan on going

> back and getting my MBA in a year or two and go into

> Marketing and

> logo branding.

> I am very excited about joining this group! I have a

> wonderful family

> and extremely close friends that I love dearly, but

> i feel like

> sometimes they just don't get it and really can't

> get it because they

> don't live with what i do day to day. i really

> haven't ever talked to

> many people who have been in my same position until

> now. i am getting

> to the point in my life where i am starting to

> question a lot of

> things and it has just left me feeling confused.

> One thing i did want to ask about was dating. how

> many of you out

> there are dating or are in a relationship? how did

> you meet your

> significant other?

> i am trying to push myself into the world of dating

> but am finding it

> extremely difficult. most people have no interest

> once they learn i am

> in a wheelchair. i have found a few that are

> interested but it just

> never seems to go very far. and i honestly had the

> worst date know to

> man this weekend. this guy made me feel like a piece

> of meat, saying

> derogatory comments the entire night. i could tell

> only one thing was

> on his mind and he wasn't afraid to show it. i ended

> up leaving, it

> was so bad. so i guess i am just extremely

> frustrated right now. I

> feel like i have hit so many brick walls. i feel

> like it is time for

> the universe to cut me a break!

> anyway, i really look forward to hearing from all of

> you and i have

> enjoyed reading the comments thus far.

>

> --

> Delphine s

>

> And the day came when the risk it took to remain

> tight in the bud was

> more painful than the risk it took to blossom.

> -Anais Nin

>

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hi jared,

thanks for replying. that was really sweet.

yea i have met a lot of insensitive people in my life and for the most part

i don't let it bother me. i just think i am in a weird place in my life

right now though. and i guess it is bothering me more than it used to. and i

also think i am a little in shock still and traumatized from my date last

friday. so i guess i am a little disenchanted with dating right now. i have

told my friends and they agreed it was the worst date they have every heard

of.

and it doesn't really help that i am confused about life in general right

now. i just don't know.

anyway, tell me some more about you. where do you live?

On 2/12/07, Buck <jared.buck@...> wrote:

>

> Awwwww :( Some people are just so insensitive. I personally don't care

> if

> you're in a wheelchair, as long as we can get along :) I'm , 23. I do

> not have SMA but I joined the group like a year ago because i have friends

> with it and wanted to learn more about it. My best friend is Radmila

> Turanjanin, she's a member here although she hasn't posted on the group in

> quite some time :(

>

> Hope you find a lot of friends here :) I sure have :-d I am disabled in

> another way tho - I'm deaf.

>

>

>

> On 2/12/07, Delphine s <deliza05@... <deliza05%40gmail.com>>

> wrote:

> >

> > Hello everyone,

> > My name is Delphine and i just recently joined this group. i just

> > wanted to do a quick intro of myself. i am 23 living in North Carolina

> > with SMA II. I graduated from college a little over a year ago. I now

> > work at a non-profit as an administrative assistant. I plan on going

> > back and getting my MBA in a year or two and go into Marketing and

> > logo branding.

> > I am very excited about joining this group! I have a wonderful family

> > and extremely close friends that I love dearly, but i feel like

> > sometimes they just don't get it and really can't get it because they

> > don't live with what i do day to day. i really haven't ever talked to

> > many people who have been in my same position until now. i am getting

> > to the point in my life where i am starting to question a lot of

> > things and it has just left me feeling confused.

> > One thing i did want to ask about was dating. how many of you out

> > there are dating or are in a relationship? how did you meet your

> > significant other?

> > i am trying to push myself into the world of dating but am finding it

> > extremely difficult. most people have no interest once they learn i am

> > in a wheelchair. i have found a few that are interested but it just

> > never seems to go very far. and i honestly had the worst date know to

> > man this weekend. this guy made me feel like a piece of meat, saying

> > derogatory comments the entire night. i could tell only one thing was

> > on his mind and he wasn't afraid to show it. i ended up leaving, it

> > was so bad. so i guess i am just extremely frustrated right now. I

> > feel like i have hit so many brick walls. i feel like it is time for

> > the universe to cut me a break!

> > anyway, i really look forward to hearing from all of you and i have

> > enjoyed reading the comments thus far.

> >

> > --

> > Delphine s

> >

> > And the day came when the risk it took to remain tight in the bud was

> > more painful than the risk it took to blossom.

> > -Anais Nin

> >

> >

>

>

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Hey Delphine, My name is Tammia and I have SMA 2 also.I have been through the

same thng you have when it came to dating. I used a dating chatline to find guys

to talk to and possibly date. Whenever I told a guys that I'm in a wheelchair

they would kinda freak out or they would say that they didnt mind, but when I

met them I soon would find out that the reason they didnt mind was because they

were only after one thing. I didnt really give up on finding someone , because I

knew in my heart that I would find someone and I did. Me and my guy have been

dating for a month now( I know thats not long to ya'll but to me it is lol). He

left me a messege in my mailbox on the dating line saying he liked my voice,

that I jus sound like a very sweet and down to earth person,and that also he

liked the description that I gave about myself, and he wanted to talk and get to

know me more. He left me his number, and I was skeptical about calling him

because I guess I figured he would turn out

to be like the other guys I've dated, but something told me to call him

anyway,and I did. we talked for a few then we had to hand up because my brother

had to use the phone. I later texted him to see if he had listen to my whole

entire ad on the date line because I wanted to see if he heard me say that I was

in a wheelchair. He said he listened to my ad. I texted him again and said, " so

you know that im in a wheelchair right? " , and he texted me back saying no he

didnt know that.I didnt have anything to say after that so I stoped texting him,

and I waited on someother kind of reply from him, but he didnt text me again, so

I begin to thing to myself " oh my goodness, he doesn't want to talk to me

anymore because he now knows im in a chair " , he texted me back telling me to

call him, and I did and I was so scared, because I didnt know what he was gonna

say about my little situation lol, so when I called he said to me " so what that

you're in a wheelchair, is that suppose to

scare me away or something? " , all I could say was " I guess not " lol. he said

that even though you're in a chair, you have feelings too, and I still like you

regaurdless. I didnt want to get all excited just yet until I meet him. When

that day came I was very nervous. When he called to get direction I couldn't

really tell him, like I just went blank and I had to get my step dad to tell

him, I was that nervous lol.so when he arrived he called to tell me to open the

door, so when my step dada opened the door my friggan heart was in my throat

lol. When he walked in I was in aww because he was so gorgeous to me. and when

he began to sit down I kinda snatched his sunglasses away from him playfully

like they were mine , and put them on, and told him I was keeping them lol, he

laughed and said I could keep them, I was trying to give them back to him, but

instead of him grabbing the glasses he grabed my hand and held it and jus stared

staring at me lol, I was like OH MY GOSH! he's

holding my hand lol, all I could do was giggle like a little school girl lol. I

asked him why was he staring at me so, and he said, because I was so beautiful

and that just made me melt lol. ever since then everything has been going well,

we argue about stupid things sometimes, but what couple doesn't lol. So don't be

skeptical about dating because you'll find someone who's gonna be very

interested in you and wouldn't mind that you have a disability..

Delphine s <deliza05@...> wrote: Hello everyone,

My name is Delphine and i just recently joined this group. i just

wanted to do a quick intro of myself. i am 23 living in North Carolina

with SMA II. I graduated from college a little over a year ago. I now

work at a non-profit as an administrative assistant. I plan on going

back and getting my MBA in a year or two and go into Marketing and

logo branding.

I am very excited about joining this group! I have a wonderful family

and extremely close friends that I love dearly, but i feel like

sometimes they just don't get it and really can't get it because they

don't live with what i do day to day. i really haven't ever talked to

many people who have been in my same position until now. i am getting

to the point in my life where i am starting to question a lot of

things and it has just left me feeling confused.

One thing i did want to ask about was dating. how many of you out

there are dating or are in a relationship? how did you meet your

significant other?

i am trying to push myself into the world of dating but am finding it

extremely difficult. most people have no interest once they learn i am

in a wheelchair. i have found a few that are interested but it just

never seems to go very far. and i honestly had the worst date know to

man this weekend. this guy made me feel like a piece of meat, saying

derogatory comments the entire night. i could tell only one thing was

on his mind and he wasn't afraid to show it. i ended up leaving, it

was so bad. so i guess i am just extremely frustrated right now. I

feel like i have hit so many brick walls. i feel like it is time for

the universe to cut me a break!

anyway, i really look forward to hearing from all of you and i have

enjoyed reading the comments thus far.

--

Delphine s

And the day came when the risk it took to remain tight in the bud was

more painful than the risk it took to blossom.

-Anais Nin

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I can totally relate to being disillusioned with dating. I am 29 and just now

started my first relationship. For many years I saw most of my friends date, get

married, etc. and thought " why not me too? " . It was a strange coincidence the

way my boyfriend and I met and he is very cool about my abilities as well as my

limitations. I don't know yet if he is " the one " but it sure is fun!! Many

friends and familiy members told me for a long time " you will find

someone.....blah, blah, blah " but I never believed them. Try to remain open to

the possibilities and enjoy being single too. You are not in a holding place!!

~a

Delphine s <deliza05@...> wrote:

Hello everyone,

My name is Delphine and i just recently joined this group. i just

wanted to do a quick intro of myself. i am 23 living in North Carolina

with SMA II. I graduated from college a little over a year ago. I now

work at a non-profit as an administrative assistant. I plan on going

back and getting my MBA in a year or two and go into Marketing and

logo branding.

I am very excited about joining this group! I have a wonderful family

and extremely close friends that I love dearly, but i feel like

sometimes they just don't get it and really can't get it because they

don't live with what i do day to day. i really haven't ever talked to

many people who have been in my same position until now. i am getting

to the point in my life where i am starting to question a lot of

things and it has just left me feeling confused.

One thing i did want to ask about was dating. how many of you out

there are dating or are in a relationship? how did you meet your

significant other?

i am trying to push myself into the world of dating but am finding it

extremely difficult. most people have no interest once they learn i am

in a wheelchair. i have found a few that are interested but it just

never seems to go very far. and i honestly had the worst date know to

man this weekend. this guy made me feel like a piece of meat, saying

derogatory comments the entire night. i could tell only one thing was

on his mind and he wasn't afraid to show it. i ended up leaving, it

was so bad. so i guess i am just extremely frustrated right now. I

feel like i have hit so many brick walls. i feel like it is time for

the universe to cut me a break!

anyway, i really look forward to hearing from all of you and i have

enjoyed reading the comments thus far.

--

Delphine s

And the day came when the risk it took to remain tight in the bud was

more painful than the risk it took to blossom.

-Anais Nin

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Welcome to the group!

I have been with my boyfriend for...well we don't know how long

because we never can remember. It's been almost 5 years-ish. I'm 23,

SMA II, and Joe and I are living in the San Francisco bay area in

California.

<3Kendra

>

> Hello everyone,

> My name is Delphine and i just recently joined this group. i just

> wanted to do a quick intro of myself. i am 23 living in North Carolina

> with SMA II. I graduated from college a little over a year ago. I now

> work at a non-profit as an administrative assistant. I plan on going

> back and getting my MBA in a year or two and go into Marketing and

> logo branding.

> I am very excited about joining this group! I have a wonderful family

> and extremely close friends that I love dearly, but i feel like

> sometimes they just don't get it and really can't get it because they

> don't live with what i do day to day. i really haven't ever talked to

> many people who have been in my same position until now. i am getting

> to the point in my life where i am starting to question a lot of

> things and it has just left me feeling confused.

> One thing i did want to ask about was dating. how many of you out

> there are dating or are in a relationship? how did you meet your

> significant other?

> i am trying to push myself into the world of dating but am finding it

> extremely difficult. most people have no interest once they learn i am

> in a wheelchair. i have found a few that are interested but it just

> never seems to go very far. and i honestly had the worst date know to

> man this weekend. this guy made me feel like a piece of meat, saying

> derogatory comments the entire night. i could tell only one thing was

> on his mind and he wasn't afraid to show it. i ended up leaving, it

> was so bad. so i guess i am just extremely frustrated right now. I

> feel like i have hit so many brick walls. i feel like it is time for

> the universe to cut me a break!

> anyway, i really look forward to hearing from all of you and i have

> enjoyed reading the comments thus far.

>

> --

> Delphine s

>

> And the day came when the risk it took to remain tight in the bud was

> more painful than the risk it took to blossom.

> -Anais Nin

>

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Hi Delphine

My name's Fionna, I have SMA Type II, am 38 yrs old and I live in Cape Town,

South Africa. I became seriously involved for the first time in my life with a

guy last year June. I knew he was married when we met, but he painted a picture

of unhappiness and I thought the relationship would progress in my favour (i.e.

him getting divorced etc.). Also when I met him I was a virgin. He tells me one

day (not long after we met) that he hasn't had sex with his wife since he met

me. I told myself he was bullshitting me because he's still living with his

wife, but being the kind person I am I thought why don't I give him the benefit

of the doubt. So, u can imagine what I did next! To make a long story

short...over the past 8 months he manipulated me into buying him clothes and

supporting him financially where his drinking habit was concerned (I'm pretty

sure he only used the money for that!)...during this time he made me think he

had moved out of his wife's house and into his mother's...he was a damn good

actor and lier rolled into one. Our situation was such that because he was

married our relationship was kept secret from my parents and immediate family.

My friends were the only one's who met him. Three weeks ago, through his neglect

with his mobile, his wife finds out about me. At least he had the decency not to

tell her the entire truth about us...BUT I also felt that he was a coward for

not telling her the truth if he was as unhappy as he claimed to be. He always

promised me the world! Last week Wednesday was the last time I spoke to him...he

just disappeared from my life!

Hello and intro

Hello everyone,

My name is Delphine and i just recently joined this group. i just

wanted to do a quick intro of myself. i am 23 living in North Carolina

with SMA II. I graduated from college a little over a year ago. I now

work at a non-profit as an administrative assistant. I plan on going

back and getting my MBA in a year or two and go into Marketing and

logo branding.

I am very excited about joining this group! I have a wonderful family

and extremely close friends that I love dearly, but i feel like

sometimes they just don't get it and really can't get it because they

don't live with what i do day to day. i really haven't ever talked to

many people who have been in my same position until now. i am getting

to the point in my life where i am starting to question a lot of

things and it has just left me feeling confused.

One thing i did want to ask about was dating. how many of you out

there are dating or are in a relationship? how did you meet your

significant other?

i am trying to push myself into the world of dating but am finding it

extremely difficult. most people have no interest once they learn i am

in a wheelchair. i have found a few that are interested but it just

never seems to go very far. and i honestly had the worst date know to

man this weekend. this guy made me feel like a piece of meat, saying

derogatory comments the entire night. i could tell only one thing was

on his mind and he wasn't afraid to show it. i ended up leaving, it

was so bad. so i guess i am just extremely frustrated right now. I

feel like i have hit so many brick walls. i feel like it is time for

the universe to cut me a break!

anyway, i really look forward to hearing from all of you and i have

enjoyed reading the comments thus far.

--

Delphine s

And the day came when the risk it took to remain tight in the bud was

more painful than the risk it took to blossom.

-Anais Nin

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Hi Delphine,

I (36, SMS II) completely know what you mean.

When reading what the other members wrote I think: Wow! Where are

all those wonderful guys? Surely I had some dates but in the end

there were only 2 situations: I did not like the men but they liked

me or the other way arround. Bad luck I guess.

An other important fact is - I think - what's in my mind. I am

always the funny budy, easy to talk to, I am a good listener and

always offer helpful advice. Many men come to me and talk about

their worries but I think they never see the woman in me, just the

pal who cheers them up.

So after a while I stopped seing the woman in me either and do not

act like a searching single woman. It is a kind of sending signals,

I think.

Once I was very much in love with a great guy years ago. He said I

am the woman of his dreams - if I was not in a chair and for that

reason not flexible concerning leisure activities. Ouch! We are

still close friends and he is the most unflexible daddy and husband

in the meantime. Yeah! But this does not help me after all.

The result of all that and from beeing single for so long (I never

had a relationship indeed) makes it not easier for me to regard

myself as very attractive to men. The more time goes by the more I

ask myself: what do I have to offer? A perfect and man appealing

body? Nope! Am I flexible? Nope! Am I still young and fresh? Not

really....

So if today a men would cross my way and would find me interesting

as a woman and possible partner, I think I even would not recognize

it as I would think this is not possible. If he would tell me, I

would laugh and think " what a crazy guy! "

When reading this, it sounds depressive - but I am not, I think I

like my life and adjusted to the situation as it is now. But if I

could turn back the time for 10 - 15 yrs. I would do one thing

different: I wished I had accepted the offers to have sex. I always

declined with thanks as I thought I will be in love with the man or

this one is not the right one.

So in the end I am the oldest virgin in the world, I guess. :-)

Sorry for this long and not very constructing posting.

I would be very interested in learning what other " old " single women

have to say to this topic - or am I the only one? Gosh! Please not.

Camilla

Germany

>

> Hello everyone,

> My name is Delphine and i just recently joined this group. i just

> wanted to do a quick intro of myself. i am 23 living in North

Carolina

> with SMA II. I graduated from college a little over a year ago. I

now

> work at a non-profit as an administrative assistant. I plan on

going

> back and getting my MBA in a year or two and go into Marketing and

> logo branding.

> I am very excited about joining this group! I have a wonderful

family

> and extremely close friends that I love dearly, but i feel like

> sometimes they just don't get it and really can't get it because

they

> don't live with what i do day to day. i really haven't ever talked

to

> many people who have been in my same position until now. i am

getting

> to the point in my life where i am starting to question a lot of

> things and it has just left me feeling confused.

> One thing i did want to ask about was dating. how many of you out

> there are dating or are in a relationship? how did you meet your

> significant other?

> i am trying to push myself into the world of dating but am finding

it

> extremely difficult. most people have no interest once they learn

i am

> in a wheelchair. i have found a few that are interested but it just

> never seems to go very far. and i honestly had the worst date know

to

> man this weekend. this guy made me feel like a piece of meat,

saying

> derogatory comments the entire night. i could tell only one thing

was

> on his mind and he wasn't afraid to show it. i ended up leaving, it

> was so bad. so i guess i am just extremely frustrated right now. I

> feel like i have hit so many brick walls. i feel like it is time

for

> the universe to cut me a break!

> anyway, i really look forward to hearing from all of you and i have

> enjoyed reading the comments thus far.

>

> --

> Delphine s

>

> And the day came when the risk it took to remain tight in the bud

was

> more painful than the risk it took to blossom.

> -Anais Nin

>

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For the single ladies in the group, please try not to despair. I didn't find

my true love until I was 54. I, too, have SMA and have been in a wheelchair

since I was 11. All my life, I searched for love. Every so-called

" relationship " I had was unsuccessful. So many times, I thought it best to give

up my

search, but deep inside I knew I couldn't. I wanted this more than anything in

the world. Do you know where I finally found him? Right here, on the SMA

posts. His deceased wife had SMA and he wrote posts on here. We began

communicating in September of 2005. In October, our telephone calls became a

nightly

routine. In January of 2006, he flew up to NY from Ga. and spent a week with

me.

In April, we were married. Here I am, a newlywed at 55! Don't give up!

If you would like to read about me, I wrote a book about my life. It can be

purchased online at publishamerica.com, amazon.com, or barnesandnobel.com.

It's called " Without Laughter and Music, Shoot Me, " by Napolitano. I met

my husband after my book was published.

Believe me, ladies, I know what you're going through. It's been a long

journey for me. Please feel free to talk anytime.

Manning

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I love your love story, ! :)

L

Aunt617@... wrote:

>

> For the single ladies in the group, please try not to despair. I

> didn't find

> my true love until I was 54. I, too, have SMA and have been in a

> wheelchair

> since I was 11. All my life, I searched for love. Every so-called

> " relationship " I had was unsuccessful. So many times, I thought it

> best to give up my

> search, but deep inside I knew I couldn't. I wanted this more than

> anything in

> the world. Do you know where I finally found him? Right here, on the SMA

> posts. His deceased wife had SMA and he wrote posts on here. We began

> communicating in September of 2005. In October, our telephone calls

> became a nightly

> routine. In January of 2006, he flew up to NY from Ga. and spent a

> week with me.

> In April, we were married. Here I am, a newlywed at 55! Don't give up!

>

> If you would like to read about me, I wrote a book about my life. It

> can be

> purchased online at publishamerica.com, amazon.com, or

> barnesandnobel.com.

> It's called " Without Laughter and Music, Shoot Me, " by

> Napolitano. I met

> my husband after my book was published.

>

> Believe me, ladies, I know what you're going through. It's been a long

> journey for me. Please feel free to talk anytime.

>

> Manning

>

>

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, love your " love story " too...See, it can happen!...ok, now dont

hide him, where is your man? Is he still on this list? :)

>

> For the single ladies in the group, please try not to despair. I

didn't find

> my true love until I was 54. I, too, have SMA and have been in a

wheelchair

> since I was 11. All my life, I searched for love. Every so-called

> " relationship " I had was unsuccessful. So many times, I thought it

best to give up my

> search, but deep inside I knew I couldn't. I wanted this more than

anything in

> the world. Do you know where I finally found him? Right here, on

the SMA

> posts. His deceased wife had SMA and he wrote posts on here. We began

> communicating in September of 2005. In October, our telephone calls

became a nightly

> routine. In January of 2006, he flew up to NY from Ga. and spent a

week with me.

> In April, we were married. Here I am, a newlywed at 55! Don't give up!

>

> If you would like to read about me, I wrote a book about my life. It

can be

> purchased online at publishamerica.com, amazon.com, or

barnesandnobel.com.

> It's called " Without Laughter and Music, Shoot Me, " by

Napolitano. I met

> my husband after my book was published.

>

> Believe me, ladies, I know what you're going through. It's been a long

> journey for me. Please feel free to talk anytime.

>

> Manning

>

>

>

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Hi,

I'm Jessie and I have a 6 month old baby boy called Adam.

I also have a dog called Loki who is 8 years old but thinks he is still 6

months. I hope when my son is older they will be able to wear each other out and

I may finally get some peace!

I live in London, England, and work in sales but am currently on maternity

leave.

I have not had my son vaccinated although my ex-husband would like him to be.

I look forward to getting to know you all.

Jessie

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