Guest guest Posted August 25, 2008 Report Share Posted August 25, 2008 Congradulations on the ped search. Sounds like you are off to a good start :-) As for the baby, one big question is did her mom have chicken pox? If so, she is probly still partially protected from her mother antibodies that are still in her system. That fever she ran may be the ONLY symptom that she gets. I am immune and never had a pox??? Maybe I was exposed soon after birth or while I was nursing??? Who nows. But when everyother child in the family had them I did not and in college I had to have the titer and came up immune. I would not worry. Hopfully she is now permanently immune :-) andrea > > Hello all, > > We are expecting our first child on September 25th and do not plan to > vax at all. Today I began the daunting task of interviewing > pediatricians and was pleasantly surprised with my very first visit. > I will admit that I have been very nervous about these upcoming > interviews as I expected some hardcore opposition to my position on > the matter. It didn't help that the information packet they gave me > to look over while I waited consisted of tons of information about > the importance of childhood vaccines, most of it authored by none > other than Dr. Offit (ugh). Although I did wait for almost 45 > minutes to see both of the Drs at the practice, I was pleased to hear > them both say that they would be willing to respect a parent's choice > to delay vaccinating or to not vaccinate altogether. Both of them > responded with " This is your child and you have to raise her, so we > will respect the choices that you make as a parent " . I was able to > interview them separately, and neither of them seemed pushy at all. > Both of them openly admitted they were not familiar with Dr. Sears > delayed schedule, so they could not give me an opinion one way or the > other (I decided to start with the question of a delayed schedule to > feel out how they would respond to not vaxing at all). The male Dr > in the practice asked if I was having a boy or girl, and when I said > girl he then openly admitted that he does not recommend the HPV > vaccine at all due to it being so new with the long term affects > being as yet unknown. He also mentioned some of the " possible " > adverse reactions to the shot. I just smiled knowingly and nodded my > head. He asked me if I was a nurse because I seemed very educated on > the subject and I told him no, but that I had done tons of research > on the subject and was very passionate about it. They are both > proponents of breastfeeding and agreed with me that it is by far one > of the best ways to develop natural immunities. > > Overall I was very pleased with this visit, given that I expected to > walk out of there with another closed-minded ped scratched off my > list. I do have four other consultations with different peds this > week, but these two are definitely the front runners so far. > Needless to say, I am VERY happy with this outcome! > > Now on to my question. My sister called me on the way home from the > dr to let me know that her two older boys (ages 3 and 4) have chicken > pox. BOTH of these children were vaccinated against chicken pox, so > I couldn't resist telling her " I told you so " . And of course I > pointed out that not only were the boys exposed to the dangers of the > vaccine, but that the vaccine didn't offer them protection anyway. > Fortunately, I think she is beginning to see the light. Anyway, her > daughter is just three months old and has not had any vaccinations at > all. She called me because she is afraid of how her daughter will be > affected if/when she contracts the pox. I told her not to worry > about the boys and that this was a blessing because natural pox will > most likely provide them with true immunity. I would assume the same > is true for her daughter, but was wondering how hard this is going to > be on her little system. She is formula fed, but again has not had > any vaccinations to harm her immune system. So far she has been a > totally healthy baby. My sister said she ran a slight fever last > night (101.4), but she took my advice on not giving her anything for > it and it was gone by this am. The baby does not yet have any of the > bumps but she says the boys are covered in them. I'm really not sure > what to tell her about this. Any ideas are much appreciated. > Thanks! > le in MS > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted August 26, 2008 Report Share Posted August 26, 2008 Hey le - I have a question- I thought in MS the only way to not vax was a (probably impossible to obtain) medical exemption?? How are you going to not vax? Have the laws changed there? > > Hello all, > > We are expecting our first child on September 25th and do not plan to > vax at all. > Thanks! > le in MS > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted August 26, 2008 Report Share Posted August 26, 2008 Sounds like you put the docs where you wanted them. Bear in mind though, that they were on their " best behavior " as they knew they were being interviewed. The real test will be when you're in front of one of them with your child in-hand and whether they resort to scare tactics to try to get you to vax when because they feel you are more vulnerable. Maybe I'm being too pessimistic, but perhaps after you choose a ped you should get something in writing from them stating they will respect your decision not to vax and/or give drugs freely and agree not to bully you about it later. Are you interviewing any natropaths or homeopaths in the mix? Also, I'd recommend a good chiropractor in addition to your regular doctor. My chiro is our " primary physician " , I don't use peds at all. In fact, chiropractic is a GOD SEND for pregnancy too, especially in the third trimester! They can work to ensure your hips are properly aligned for an easier birth experience. I had regular chiropractic treatments (once or twice a week, but I'm an addict) during the third trimesters of both of my pregnancies. I had VERY easy births, and I attribute a LOT of that to the care I received from my chiros (along with HypnoBirthing and birthing at home). My oldest son (2 1/2 yrs old now) had his first adjustment when he was four days old, and my younger son (now 4 months old) had his first adjustment at less than 24 hours old. Most babies are born with slight subluxions that are better dealt with early. For instance, my youngest would SCREAM... not cry... SCREAM at every diaper change the first day. My husband told my chiro this and he promptly came over to the house (since my midwife had forbade us from going anywhere in public for the first week) and very gently adjusted him. Alas, no more screaming at every diaper change! He was a new baby all over again! LOL I take both kids in for an adjustment at least once a month, but usually more like every two weeks. They love their adjustments almost as much as I love mine! Congratulations on the upcoming addition to your family. What a lucky child to have a caring parent that is willing to take the steps you are taking now to ensure a healthy life. Kudos to you, Mama! On Mon, Aug 25, 2008 at 4:04 PM, sphynxlover2 <AST42701@...> wrote: > Hello all, > > We are expecting our first child on September 25th and do not plan to > vax at all. Today I began the daunting task of interviewing > pediatricians and was pleasantly surprised with my very first visit. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted August 26, 2008 Report Share Posted August 26, 2008 Hi , As far as I know, the " requirement " to vax only applies to school age children. And you are right, MS only recognizes a medical exemption for children to enter school unvaxed. I have already discussed with my Midwife and the hospital staff that absolutely nothing (Heb B, Vitamin K, Erythromycin, etc) is to be given to my child at birth. No one has questioned that at all and I don't anticipate having a problem. She will not be taken from us AT ALL after birth. This has also been discussed with hospital staff (yes, we are going to be THOSE parents...LOL). We obviously have a few years before we have to worry about the school issue, but we do not plan to be living in MS when our little girl is school age. If by some chance we are, we will home school. My MIL is a retired teacher and she'd be more than happy to help us out with that. It's sad that a parent has to go to such extremes to protect their child, but we will do what we must. le in MS > Hey le - > I have a question- I thought in MS the only way to not vax was a > (probably impossible to obtain) medical exemption?? > How are you going to not vax? > Have the laws changed there? > > > > > > > > Hello all, > > > > We are expecting our first child on September 25th and do not plan to > > vax at all. > Thanks! > > le in MS > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted August 26, 2008 Report Share Posted August 26, 2008 Good for you le! Sounds like you've got things covered. Arianna Mojica -  (UCC 1-207/1-103) ~~~ " All rights not demanded are presumed waived " . ~ Thurston ~~~ " The only safe vaccine is a vaccine that is never used " -- Dr. A. , National Institutes of Health ~~~A truth¢s initial commotion is directly proportional to how deeply the lie was believed...When a well-packaged web of lies has been sold gradually to the masses over generations, the truth will seem utterly preposterous and its speaker, a raving lunatic. " Dresden www.vaclib.org www.909shot.com  http://www.vacinfo.org/ http://www.vran.org/ http://www.momtoanangel.net/ingred.htm  http://www.moorbows.com/ From: sphynxlover2 <AST42701@...> Subject: Re: Started interviewing Peds today, and a Chicken Pox question... Vaccinations Date: Tuesday, August 26, 2008, 11:23 AM Hi , As far as I know, the " requirement " to vax only applies to school age children. And you are right, MS only recognizes a medical exemption for children to enter school unvaxed. I have already discussed with my Midwife and the hospital staff that absolutely nothing (Heb B, Vitamin K, Erythromycin, etc) is to be given to my child at birth. No one has questioned that at all and I don't anticipate having a problem. She will not be taken from us AT ALL after birth. This has also been discussed with hospital staff (yes, we are going to be THOSE parents...LOL) . We obviously have a few years before we have to worry about the school issue, but we do not plan to be living in MS when our little girl is school age. If by some chance we are, we will home school. My MIL is a retired teacher and she'd be more than happy to help us out with that. It's sad that a parent has to go to such extremes to protect their child, but we will do what we must. le in MS > Hey le - > I have a question- I thought in MS the only way to not vax was a > (probably impossible to obtain) medical exemption?? > How are you going to not vax? > Have the laws changed there? > > > > > > > > Hello all, > > > > We are expecting our first child on September 25th and do not plan to > > vax at all. > Thanks! > > le in MS > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted August 26, 2008 Report Share Posted August 26, 2008 > As for the baby, one big question is did her mom have chicken pox? Yes, mom did have chicken pox. We had them at the same time as children. I believe we were around 6 and 7 years old at the time. So far, so good. She is currently doing fine and hopefully will aquire immunity from this! le Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted August 26, 2008 Report Share Posted August 26, 2008 The real test will be when you're in front of one > of them with your child in-hand and whether they resort to scare > tactics to try to get you to vax when because they feel you are more > vulnerable. I have considered this. I suspect that this *could* be an issue with the female dr in the practice, but felt that the male dr would respect my decisions without any bullying at all. That was what I gathered from my meeting with them, anyway. Trust me, scare tactics aren't going to work with me! I am FAR more fearful of potential vaccine reactions (I have 2 vaccine damaged nephews) than of most VPDs. No one is going to pressure me to do something to my child that I feel could harm her. My issue with the bullying is that I tend to get pi$$ed off and lose my cool so my argument kind of goes out the window. KWIM? > > Are you interviewing any natropaths or homeopaths in the mix? Unfortunately, I have not been able to find any Naturopaths or Homeopaths in my area. And the chiropractors in the area are more of the allopathic mindset (I have been to several of them myself) and don't actually see patients for anything other than skeletal problems. I would love to be able to see a chiro for prenatal visits, but the ones around here won't touch a pregnant woman. I am thinking I'll be hard pressed to find one that would adjust a baby as young as four days old. It's hard to find any kind of medical care that's " out of the ordinary " here on the coast now. Thank you for the inforamtion though, it is really appreciated. I will keep on with my search and hopefully I will stumble across the right doctor for us! le in MS Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted August 26, 2008 Report Share Posted August 26, 2008 le, Congrats on the upcoming arrival!! I just wanted to warn you though....It is not that hard to find a doctor who " accepts " your decision to not vaccinate. What is very difficult is finding a doctor who will not make you sign the AAP's Refusal to Vaccinate Form. So, during the interview, make sure you ask what their office's policy is regarding that form. Whatever you do - don't sign it!! (I have a 17 mo. old...and called every doctor's office in my state - only to find one practice that will not make me sign anything!!) > > Hello all, > > We are expecting our first child on September 25th and do not plan to > vax at all. Today I began the daunting task of interviewing > pediatricians and was pleasantly surprised with my very first visit. > I will admit that I have been very nervous about these upcoming > interviews as I expected some hardcore opposition to my position on > the matter. It didn't help that the information packet they gave me > to look over while I waited consisted of tons of information about > the importance of childhood vaccines, most of it authored by none > other than Dr. Offit (ugh). Although I did wait for almost 45 > minutes to see both of the Drs at the practice, I was pleased to hear > them both say that they would be willing to respect a parent's choice > to delay vaccinating or to not vaccinate altogether. Both of them > responded with " This is your child and you have to raise her, so we > will respect the choices that you make as a parent " . I was able to > interview them separately, and neither of them seemed pushy at all. > Both of them openly admitted they were not familiar with Dr. Sears > delayed schedule, so they could not give me an opinion one way or the > other (I decided to start with the question of a delayed schedule to > feel out how they would respond to not vaxing at all). The male Dr > in the practice asked if I was having a boy or girl, and when I said > girl he then openly admitted that he does not recommend the HPV > vaccine at all due to it being so new with the long term affects > being as yet unknown. He also mentioned some of the " possible " > adverse reactions to the shot. I just smiled knowingly and nodded my > head. He asked me if I was a nurse because I seemed very educated on > the subject and I told him no, but that I had done tons of research > on the subject and was very passionate about it. They are both > proponents of breastfeeding and agreed with me that it is by far one > of the best ways to develop natural immunities. > > Overall I was very pleased with this visit, given that I expected to > walk out of there with another closed-minded ped scratched off my > list. I do have four other consultations with different peds this > week, but these two are definitely the front runners so far. > Needless to say, I am VERY happy with this outcome! > > Now on to my question. My sister called me on the way home from the > dr to let me know that her two older boys (ages 3 and 4) have chicken > pox. BOTH of these children were vaccinated against chicken pox, so > I couldn't resist telling her " I told you so " . And of course I > pointed out that not only were the boys exposed to the dangers of the > vaccine, but that the vaccine didn't offer them protection anyway. > Fortunately, I think she is beginning to see the light. Anyway, her > daughter is just three months old and has not had any vaccinations at > all. She called me because she is afraid of how her daughter will be > affected if/when she contracts the pox. I told her not to worry > about the boys and that this was a blessing because natural pox will > most likely provide them with true immunity. I would assume the same > is true for her daughter, but was wondering how hard this is going to > be on her little system. She is formula fed, but again has not had > any vaccinations to harm her immune system. So far she has been a > totally healthy baby. My sister said she ran a slight fever last > night (101.4), but she took my advice on not giving her anything for > it and it was gone by this am. The baby does not yet have any of the > bumps but she says the boys are covered in them. I'm really not sure > what to tell her about this. Any ideas are much appreciated. > Thanks! > le in MS > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted August 26, 2008 Report Share Posted August 26, 2008 What is the AAP Refusal to Vaccinate Form? I have never heard of this before? From: Dawn <dawndanc@...> Subject: Re: Started interviewing Peds today, and a Chicken Pox question... Vaccinations Date: Wednesday, August 27, 2008, 1:09 AM le, Congrats on the upcoming arrival!! I just wanted to warn you though....It is not that hard to find a doctor who " accepts " your decision to not vaccinate. What is very difficult is finding a doctor who will not make you sign the AAP's Refusal to Vaccinate Form. So, during the interview, make sure you ask what their office's policy is regarding that form. Whatever you do - don't sign it!! (I have a 17 mo. old...and called every doctor's office in my state - only to find one practice that will not make me sign anything!!) > > Hello all, > > We are expecting our first child on September 25th and do not plan to > vax at all. Today I began the daunting task of interviewing > pediatricians and was pleasantly surprised with my very first visit. > I will admit that I have been very nervous about these upcoming > interviews as I expected some hardcore opposition to my position on > the matter. It didn't help that the information packet they gave me > to look over while I waited consisted of tons of information about > the importance of childhood vaccines, most of it authored by none > other than Dr. Offit (ugh). Although I did wait for almost 45 > minutes to see both of the Drs at the practice, I was pleased to hear > them both say that they would be willing to respect a parent's choice > to delay vaccinating or to not vaccinate altogether. Both of them > responded with " This is your child and you have to raise her, so we > will respect the choices that you make as a parent " . I was able to > interview them separately, and neither of them seemed pushy at all. > Both of them openly admitted they were not familiar with Dr. Sears > delayed schedule, so they could not give me an opinion one way or the > other (I decided to start with the question of a delayed schedule to > feel out how they would respond to not vaxing at all). The male Dr > in the practice asked if I was having a boy or girl, and when I said > girl he then openly admitted that he does not recommend the HPV > vaccine at all due to it being so new with the long term affects > being as yet unknown. He also mentioned some of the " possible " > adverse reactions to the shot. I just smiled knowingly and nodded my > head. He asked me if I was a nurse because I seemed very educated on > the subject and I told him no, but that I had done tons of research > on the subject and was very passionate about it. They are both > proponents of breastfeeding and agreed with me that it is by far one > of the best ways to develop natural immunities. > > Overall I was very pleased with this visit, given that I expected to > walk out of there with another closed-minded ped scratched off my > list. I do have four other consultations with different peds this > week, but these two are definitely the front runners so far. > Needless to say, I am VERY happy with this outcome! > > Now on to my question. My sister called me on the way home from the > dr to let me know that her two older boys (ages 3 and 4) have chicken > pox. BOTH of these children were vaccinated against chicken pox, so > I couldn't resist telling her " I told you so " . And of course I > pointed out that not only were the boys exposed to the dangers of the > vaccine, but that the vaccine didn't offer them protection anyway. > Fortunately, I think she is beginning to see the light. Anyway, her > daughter is just three months old and has not had any vaccinations at > all. She called me because she is afraid of how her daughter will be > affected if/when she contracts the pox. I told her not to worry > about the boys and that this was a blessing because natural pox will > most likely provide them with true immunity. I would assume the same > is true for her daughter, but was wondering how hard this is going to > be on her little system. She is formula fed, but again has not had > any vaccinations to harm her immune system. So far she has been a > totally healthy baby. My sister said she ran a slight fever last > night (101.4), but she took my advice on not giving her anything for > it and it was gone by this am. The baby does not yet have any of the > bumps but she says the boys are covered in them. I'm really not sure > what to tell her about this. Any ideas are much appreciated. > Thanks! > le in MS > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted August 26, 2008 Report Share Posted August 26, 2008 It is a form that the AAP put out for patients to sign stating that they refuse vaccinations even though not getting thier child vaccinated is a bad decision and makes you a neglectful parent. That vaccine will prevent your child from getting the disease and your child will die if they get them....blah.blah....blah Basically don't sign it. It implies that you a neglecting your child by NOT vaxing. I gave my ped an alternative form from the vaccination liberation site that states it in a more positive way. Like I know that vaxing had risks, I've done my research, the diseases were declining PRIOR to vax. Basically, I'm an informed parent who is refusing to vax and IF my child get the measles, I will not sue the DR. That last line was all the Dr wanted. He wanted a statement stating he is not lialbe if my child gets one of the diseases. andrea > > > > Hello all, > > > > We are expecting our first child on September 25th and do not plan > to > > vax at all. Today I began the daunting task of interviewing > > pediatricians and was pleasantly surprised with my very first > visit. > > I will admit that I have been very nervous about these upcoming > > interviews as I expected some hardcore opposition to my position on > > the matter. It didn't help that the information packet they gave > me > > to look over while I waited consisted of tons of information about > > the importance of childhood vaccines, most of it authored by none > > other than Dr. Offit (ugh). Although I did wait for almost 45 > > minutes to see both of the Drs at the practice, I was pleased to > hear > > them both say that they would be willing to respect a parent's > choice > > to delay vaccinating or to not vaccinate altogether. Both of them > > responded with " This is your child and you have to raise her, so we > > will respect the choices that you make as a parent " . I was able to > > interview them separately, and neither of them seemed pushy at > all. > > Both of them openly admitted they were not familiar with Dr. Sears > > delayed schedule, so they could not give me an opinion one way or > the > > other (I decided to start with the question of a delayed schedule > to > > feel out how they would respond to not vaxing at all). The male Dr > > in the practice asked if I was having a boy or girl, and when I > said > > girl he then openly admitted that he does not recommend the HPV > > vaccine at all due to it being so new with the long term affects > > being as yet unknown. He also mentioned some of the " possible " > > adverse reactions to the shot. I just smiled knowingly and nodded > my > > head. He asked me if I was a nurse because I seemed very educated > on > > the subject and I told him no, but that I had done tons of research > > on the subject and was very passionate about it. They are both > > proponents of breastfeeding and agreed with me that it is by far > one > > of the best ways to develop natural immunities. > > > > Overall I was very pleased with this visit, given that I expected > to > > walk out of there with another closed-minded ped scratched off my > > list. I do have four other consultations with different peds this > > week, but these two are definitely the front runners so far. > > Needless to say, I am VERY happy with this outcome! > > > > Now on to my question. My sister called me on the way home from > the > > dr to let me know that her two older boys (ages 3 and 4) have > chicken > > pox. BOTH of these children were vaccinated against chicken pox, > so > > I couldn't resist telling her " I told you so " . And of course I > > pointed out that not only were the boys exposed to the dangers of > the > > vaccine, but that the vaccine didn't offer them protection anyway. > > Fortunately, I think she is beginning to see the light. Anyway, > her > > daughter is just three months old and has not had any vaccinations > at > > all. She called me because she is afraid of how her daughter will > be > > affected if/when she contracts the pox. I told her not to worry > > about the boys and that this was a blessing because natural pox > will > > most likely provide them with true immunity. I would assume the > same > > is true for her daughter, but was wondering how hard this is going > to > > be on her little system. She is formula fed, but again has not had > > any vaccinations to harm her immune system. So far she has been a > > totally healthy baby. My sister said she ran a slight fever last > > night (101.4), but she took my advice on not giving her anything > for > > it and it was gone by this am. The baby does not yet have any of > the > > bumps but she says the boys are covered in them. I'm really not > sure > > what to tell her about this. Any ideas are much appreciated. > > Thanks! > > le in MS > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted September 2, 2008 Report Share Posted September 2, 2008 I have a question......does this AAP refusal form in certian states only? I am in Cali and so far have not had to sign that waiver for any doctor office and I have been through 5 peds offices. Â Rina Rina Barillas From: <carebearandrea@...> Subject: Re: Started interviewing Peds today, and a Chicken Pox question... Vaccinations Date: Tuesday, August 26, 2008, 6:53 PM It is a form that the AAP put out for patients to sign stating that they refuse vaccinations even though not getting thier child vaccinated is a bad decision and makes you a neglectful parent. That vaccine will prevent your child from getting the disease and your child will die if they get them....blah. blah....blah Basically don't sign it. It implies that you a neglecting your child by NOT vaxing. I gave my ped an alternative form from the vaccination liberation site that states it in a more positive way. Like I know that vaxing had risks, I've done my research, the diseases were declining PRIOR to vax. Basically, I'm an informed parent who is refusing to vax and IF my child get the measles, I will not sue the DR. That last line was all the Dr wanted. He wanted a statement stating he is not lialbe if my child gets one of the diseases. andrea > > > > Hello all, > > > > We are expecting our first child on September 25th and do not plan > to > > vax at all. Today I began the daunting task of interviewing > > pediatricians and was pleasantly surprised with my very first > visit. > > I will admit that I have been very nervous about these upcoming > > interviews as I expected some hardcore opposition to my position on > > the matter. It didn't help that the information packet they gave > me > > to look over while I waited consisted of tons of information about > > the importance of childhood vaccines, most of it authored by none > > other than Dr. Offit (ugh). Although I did wait for almost 45 > > minutes to see both of the Drs at the practice, I was pleased to > hear > > them both say that they would be willing to respect a parent's > choice > > to delay vaccinating or to not vaccinate altogether. Both of them > > responded with " This is your child and you have to raise her, so we > > will respect the choices that you make as a parent " . I was able to > > interview them separately, and neither of them seemed pushy at > all. > > Both of them openly admitted they were not familiar with Dr. Sears > > delayed schedule, so they could not give me an opinion one way or > the > > other (I decided to start with the question of a delayed schedule > to > > feel out how they would respond to not vaxing at all). The male Dr > > in the practice asked if I was having a boy or girl, and when I > said > > girl he then openly admitted that he does not recommend the HPV > > vaccine at all due to it being so new with the long term affects > > being as yet unknown. He also mentioned some of the " possible " > > adverse reactions to the shot. I just smiled knowingly and nodded > my > > head. He asked me if I was a nurse because I seemed very educated > on > > the subject and I told him no, but that I had done tons of research > > on the subject and was very passionate about it. They are both > > proponents of breastfeeding and agreed with me that it is by far > one > > of the best ways to develop natural immunities. > > > > Overall I was very pleased with this visit, given that I expected > to > > walk out of there with another closed-minded ped scratched off my > > list. I do have four other consultations with different peds this > > week, but these two are definitely the front runners so far. > > Needless to say, I am VERY happy with this outcome! > > > > Now on to my question. My sister called me on the way home from > the > > dr to let me know that her two older boys (ages 3 and 4) have > chicken > > pox. BOTH of these children were vaccinated against chicken pox, > so > > I couldn't resist telling her " I told you so " . And of course I > > pointed out that not only were the boys exposed to the dangers of > the > > vaccine, but that the vaccine didn't offer them protection anyway. > > Fortunately, I think she is beginning to see the light. Anyway, > her > > daughter is just three months old and has not had any vaccinations > at > > all. She called me because she is afraid of how her daughter will > be > > affected if/when she contracts the pox. I told her not to worry > > about the boys and that this was a blessing because natural pox > will > > most likely provide them with true immunity. I would assume the > same > > is true for her daughter, but was wondering how hard this is going > to > > be on her little system. She is formula fed, but again has not had > > any vaccinations to harm her immune system. So far she has been a > > totally healthy baby. My sister said she ran a slight fever last > > night (101.4), but she took my advice on not giving her anything > for > > it and it was gone by this am. The baby does not yet have any of > the > > bumps but she says the boys are covered in them. I'm really not > sure > > what to tell her about this. Any ideas are much appreciated. > > Thanks! > > le in MS > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted September 2, 2008 Report Share Posted September 2, 2008 The form is for all states but it is up to the doctor if they want to use it or not. andrea > > > > > > Hello all, > > > > > > We are expecting our first child on September 25th and do not > plan > > to > > > vax at all. Today I began the daunting task of interviewing > > > pediatricians and was pleasantly surprised with my very first > > visit. > > > I will admit that I have been very nervous about these upcoming > > > interviews as I expected some hardcore opposition to my position > on > > > the matter. It didn't help that the information packet they gave > > me > > > to look over while I waited consisted of tons of information > about > > > the importance of childhood vaccines, most of it authored by none > > > other than Dr. Offit (ugh). Although I did wait for almost > 45 > > > minutes to see both of the Drs at the practice, I was pleased to > > hear > > > them both say that they would be willing to respect a parent's > > choice > > > to delay vaccinating or to not vaccinate altogether. Both of them > > > responded with " This is your child and you have to raise her, so > we > > > will respect the choices that you make as a parent " . I was able > to > > > interview them separately, and neither of them seemed pushy at > > all. > > > Both of them openly admitted they were not familiar with Dr. > Sears > > > delayed schedule, so they could not give me an opinion one way or > > the > > > other (I decided to start with the question of a delayed schedule > > to > > > feel out how they would respond to not vaxing at all). The male > Dr > > > in the practice asked if I was having a boy or girl, and when I > > said > > > girl he then openly admitted that he does not recommend the HPV > > > vaccine at all due to it being so new with the long term affects > > > being as yet unknown. He also mentioned some of the " possible " > > > adverse reactions to the shot. I just smiled knowingly and nodded > > my > > > head. He asked me if I was a nurse because I seemed very educated > > on > > > the subject and I told him no, but that I had done tons of > research > > > on the subject and was very passionate about it. They are both > > > proponents of breastfeeding and agreed with me that it is by far > > one > > > of the best ways to develop natural immunities. > > > > > > Overall I was very pleased with this visit, given that I expected > > to > > > walk out of there with another closed-minded ped scratched off my > > > list. I do have four other consultations with different peds this > > > week, but these two are definitely the front runners so far. > > > Needless to say, I am VERY happy with this outcome! > > > > > > Now on to my question. My sister called me on the way home from > > the > > > dr to let me know that her two older boys (ages 3 and 4) have > > chicken > > > pox. BOTH of these children were vaccinated against chicken pox, > > so > > > I couldn't resist telling her " I told you so " . And of course I > > > pointed out that not only were the boys exposed to the dangers of > > the > > > vaccine, but that the vaccine didn't offer them protection > anyway. > > > Fortunately, I think she is beginning to see the light. Anyway, > > her > > > daughter is just three months old and has not had any > vaccinations > > at > > > all. She called me because she is afraid of how her daughter will > > be > > > affected if/when she contracts the pox. I told her not to worry > > > about the boys and that this was a blessing because natural pox > > will > > > most likely provide them with true immunity. I would assume the > > same > > > is true for her daughter, but was wondering how hard this is > going > > to > > > be on her little system. She is formula fed, but again has not > had > > > any vaccinations to harm her immune system. So far she has been a > > > totally healthy baby. My sister said she ran a slight fever last > > > night (101.4), but she took my advice on not giving her anything > > for > > > it and it was gone by this am. The baby does not yet have any of > > the > > > bumps but she says the boys are covered in them. I'm really not > > sure > > > what to tell her about this. Any ideas are much appreciated. > > > Thanks! > > > le in MS > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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