Guest guest Posted September 3, 2011 Report Share Posted September 3, 2011 On 9/3/2011 7:04 AM, wrote: > But to her surprise, 's husband didn't give her the accolades she'd definitely earned for a job well done. You'd expect her husband to be happy and proud of her, right? But oh no, that's when the sabotage began! He got into the habit of bringing home some of the foods he knew it was hard for her to say no to. But still, mustered up the courage to say...NO. When his bring-home-the-temptations strategy didn't work, 's husband would invite her out to one of those all-you-can-eat dinner buffets. Coincidentally, the same subject is broached today in this daily meditations book I read on-line: Friends and Enemies Sometimes our friends or members of our family urge us to eat food that is not part of our plan. If we allow ourselves to be manipulated into eating something to please someone else, we are in danger of losing the most important thing in our life - abstinence. Anyone who tries to make us feel uncomfortable because of our illness is acting as an enemy, rather than a friend. To some people close to us, an explanation of our food plan may be helpful. Repeated discussions, however, are usually unnecessary and unproductive. We alone are responsible for what we put in our mouths. If those around us cannot or will not understand, then that is their problem, not ours. When confronted with food which we know is harmful to us, the simplest response is a firm “No, thank you.” When we ourselves are determined to maintain abstinence, no one else, whether friend or enemy, can prevent us from following our plan. Protect me, Lord, from my friends and enemies. Food For Thought - Daily Meditations for Dieters and Overeaters Hazelden Meditation Series, 1980 http://www.hazelden.org/web/public/thought.view?catId=1903 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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