Guest guest Posted August 30, 2010 Report Share Posted August 30, 2010 ADDICTION Monday, 30 August 2010 Where do addictions comes from? Well, I can only talk about my own addiction right now and tell you where I think it came from. At a very early age, I became addicted...to food. (Betcha saw that one coming, huh?) Back in the 40's when I was born, people didn't think so much about what to feed their children. (Not the way they do now.) My parents gave my brother and I the foods they loved so we'd end up loving the same foods. And boy...did I! My parents loved to cook. And I have to tell you, they'd talk about food all day long. My mother, as she pondered what to make for dinner that evening, might say to herself: "Hmmm, I'll butterfly some pork chops and fill them with my delicious cornbread stuffing. Let's see, what else? I've got it, I'll make some asparagus with a rich hollandaise sauce. I'll make some rice pilaf, too. It'll go perfect with everything else. And while we're having dinner, I'll have some chocolate chip cookies baking in the oven." When my parents went grocery shopping, they'd take my brother and I with them. When we got home and one of them was in the kitchen cooking, I'd be right there watching the whole time. I'm telling you, I learned how to make eggs benedict even before I could pronounce eggs benedict! LOL. My addiction to food continued through my high school and college years. And the older I got, the harder it got for me to break the food addictions I'd grown up with. They'd become such a part of my life. And as my food addiction grew, well, so did my body. Thankfully, later in life, there were things I had to do to help break my addiction to food. For instance, every time I found myself thinking about eating, (often when I wasn't even really hungry), I'd find something else to do and distract myself from that urge to eat. I would pick up a book and read. Or sometimes I would simply lay across my bed, think about things I wanted to do or even take a nap. Better, sometimes I would take a long walk, just anything to take my mind off that food. When I was tempted to eat, I might also have an ice-cold glass of water instead. But the point is, by doing something else, other than eating, I was able to put my food temptations behind me. And in time, I was able to control my addiction to food. Of course you know and, (in case you don't), I'll admit, I'm still addicted to food. Oh, I can close my eyes and see my parents preparing a pot of gumbo or frying up a skillet of chicken. Hey, if I really concentrate, seems like I can actually even smell the food as they're cooking up a storm back on St. Louis Street in New Orleans! Are you addicted to food...like me? And besides the food, do you have other addictions? Well, I want you to know this...You can be in charge of your addictions, whether it's food or something else. I've met thousands of people who were addicted to alcohol, drugs, even credit cards and of course...food. And they all had to learn to control those addictions, no matter what they were. And may I say one more thing? If you're addicted to something and you just can't seem to get it together and take control of that addiction on your own, please don't be afraid to seek some professional help. Love, Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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