Guest guest Posted October 11, 2005 Report Share Posted October 11, 2005 In a message dated 10/11/2005 7:47:15 A.M. Central Standard Time, alison73@... writes: What about substituting the vit K shot for the oral vit K? CAn I ORDER this myself??? They said they cnt get it. I am not comfortable with a home birth being a VBAC. THANKS so much. My best friend is an attorney- I am having her help me with my birth plan so they KNOW I mean business. Amy Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted October 11, 2005 Report Share Posted October 11, 2005 In a message dated 10/11/2005 8:19:57 A.M. Central Standard Time, mlam@... writes: Although I can't help you with your question I was wondering if you considered a birthing center? Midwives are illegal in my state...there IS a birthing center about 30 min from me in another state and I called them but they are supported by a hospital and as much as they hate it they are not allowed to accept VBACS b/c of the hospital. Amy Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted October 11, 2005 Report Share Posted October 11, 2005 In a message dated 10/11/2005 8:25:08 A.M. Central Standard Time, alison73@... writes: I could be wrong, but I just figured the oral K was a lesser evil than the vaccine one. I'm due in December... and if that's wrong, someone enlighten me so that I put no vit K at all in this baby! we had a girl last year and we refused the Vit K all together. Amy Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted October 11, 2005 Report Share Posted October 11, 2005 What about substituting the vit K shot for the oral vit K? (there's no mercury in that is there?) And as for the eye ointment... tell them you know why they put it in the newborn's eyes and tell them you don't have gonahrea (sp?) - of course, only if you really don't have it... Maybe tell them you'll sign whatever waivers they put before you to relieve them of responsibility from the things you refuse. For my births, I just signed stuff like that... I also had a CNM that helped me have the birth I wanted. Is there a way for you to have a homebirth if neither works? Alison, extended breastfeeding, co-sleeping, baby-wearing, non-vaccinating sahm to 2 wonderful girls: Calista (2-13-99) and Ursula (12-22-02) and pregnant for a boy! (EDD: 12-27-05) help please with refusing Vit K and eye ointment I am due in less than 2 months. I am birthing at a new hospital 1 1/2 hours out of town (b/c it is the closest one that will allow me to VBAC). I called there today and was informed by a nurse in the nursery that since I am from out of town one of the neonatologists on call would be the baby dr. to come see our baby boy in the hospital...and that any of them would insist on the Vit K injection, the eye ointment, the PKU testing, etc. . She said they ALL follow the " standards " of care and will refuse to see our baby or even deal with us if we dont follow them b/c its the law. What do I do? Can they really make me do that- what does the law say and what are my rights? I am so frustrated. AS terrible as my birth was last time, the hospital at least respected my wishes as far as all of this goes and let us refuse everything- I just put it in my birth plan and it was followed no questions asked. I am in Alabama and here is a site about exemption but I cant tell what my rights are _Alabama Exemption Information_ (http://www.vaclib.org/exempt/alabama.htm) CAn anyone help me decipher what all that info means? Thanks, Amy Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted October 11, 2005 Report Share Posted October 11, 2005 Amy, Although I can't help you with your question I was wondering if you considered a birthing center? I wish I had known about them when I had my son 20 months ago. They work with VBAC's and many have a high success rate (one I contacted had a 90% success rate). Some have water birth option, transport to the hosp. in case of emergency, and leniency regarding how the baby is cared for after! Much more open to natural birth/parenting and the parent child bond. Good luck and congratulations!! Lori Norse Mewsic Norwegian Forest Cats Natural cats reared naturally! " I do not have to take a journey to find a shaman. I have a sage sitting on my windowsill. " - Deborah Wood, " The Tao of Meow " Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted October 11, 2005 Report Share Posted October 11, 2005 They can't get the oral vitamin K??? I live in a smallish city... more rural than urban and I gave birth in a birthing tub in the local hospital and they gave my baby oral vitamin K and didn't do the eye ointment... what I mean is that if a small town can get oral K, why couldn't other places? I don't know how big your hospital's city is... but, I don't see why they can't get it... esp. if you are giving them 2 mths' notice!!! Also, vitamin K was introduced to keep infant boys from bleeding to death due to circumcisms... so, really, if you have a girl, she probably doesn't even need it. I know, there are rare cases of babies that have internal bleeding the brain or something like that that vitamin K helps with... but... I could be wrong, but I just figured the oral K was a lesser evil than the vaccine one. I'm due in December... and if that's wrong, someone enlighten me so that I put no vit K at all in this baby! Anyways, that's good that you have a lawyer friend helping you! For me, I went over my birth plan with my CNM and she signed it and really helped in the delivery room for things I had to sign or waive. And as far as a hospital birth, I think things went really well Of course, I've been wanting a home birth for over 7 yrs... lol Maybe this one will be an 'oops' and be born at home since my 2nd baby came so fast... hehe Alison, extended breastfeeding, co-sleeping, baby-wearing, non-vaccinating sahm to 2 wonderful girls: Calista (2-13-99) and Ursula (12-22-02) and pregnant for a boy! (EDD: 12-27-05) ----- Original Message ----- CAn I ORDER this myself??? They said they cnt get it. I am not comfortable with a home birth being a VBAC. THANKS so much. My best friend is an attorney- I am having her help me with my birth plan so they KNOW I mean business. Amy Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted October 11, 2005 Report Share Posted October 11, 2005 Amy, I realise that vaccines are mandated in the US but are Vit K and the eye ointment also mandated? From the link you have posted below, this seems appropriate: " For those who are planning a hospital birth but want to evade invasive routine post natal procedures such as a Hep B shot, vitamin K injection, newborn screening, or the application of silver nitrate in the newborn's eyes, a very specific birthing plan must be submitted to the hospital in advance of the birth. Hospital staff must be informed, in advance, of your needs, wants and desires where your baby and birthing experience are concerned. The same applies to midwives. " If you have a lawyer to help you with your birth plan, I'm sure you'll be fine. Love, light and peace, Sue > > > >I am due in less than 2 months. I am birthing at a new > >hospital 1 1/2 hours > >out of town (b/c it is the closest one that will allow me to VBAC). I > >called there today and was informed by a nurse in the nursery > >that since I am > >from out of town one of the neonatologists on call would be the > >baby dr. to come > >see our baby boy in the hospital...and that any of them would > >insist on the > >Vit K injection, the eye ointment, the PKU testing, etc. . She > >said they ALL > >follow the " standards " of care and will refuse to see our baby > >or even deal > >with us if we dont follow them b/c its the law. What do I do? > >Can they > >really make me do that- what does the law say and what are my > >rights? I am so > >frustrated. AS terrible as my birth was last time, the > >hospital at least > >respected my wishes as far as all of this goes and let us > >refuse everything- I > >just put it in my birth plan and it was followed no questions asked. > >I am in Alabama and here is a site about exemption but I cant > >tell what my > >rights are > >_Alabama Exemption Information_ > >(http://www.vaclib.org/exempt/alabama.htm) > >CAn anyone help me decipher what all that info means? > >Thanks, > >Amy > > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted October 11, 2005 Report Share Posted October 11, 2005 Vaccines are not mandate in the US. Every single state allows for some type of exemption... Some states allow for only religious reasons but others allow for personal or medical reasons. Even if you have a signed birth plan, you must be on constant watch. I've found the nurses are the worst. They are actually brainwashed, they think they know best and they will often try to sneak in the Hep B shot and Vit. K, thinking they are doing what's best for your child. Most women who have strong objections often choose home birthing. ~Annette M. Hall http://ReliableAnswers.com/med/ http://GloPops.com Thou shalt not answer questionnaires Or quizzes upon world affairs, Nor with compliance Take any test. Thou shalt not sit with statisticians nor commit A social science. -- Wystan Hugh Auden ___________________________ -----Original Message----- Amy, I realise that vaccines are mandated in the US but are Vit K and the eye ointment also mandated? From the link you have posted below, this seems appropriate: " For those who are planning a hospital birth but want to evade invasive routine post natal procedures such as a Hep B shot, vitamin K injection, newborn screening, or the application of silver nitrate in the newborn's eyes, a very specific birthing plan must be submitted to the hospital in advance of the birth. Hospital staff must be informed, in advance, of your needs, wants and desires where your baby and birthing experience are concerned. The same applies to midwives. " Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted October 11, 2005 Report Share Posted October 11, 2005 Hi, I don't know the specific laws in Alabama, but I will tell you that nurse's job is to frighten you into complying. I created a birth plan with my requests, but my doctor still had not read it after having it for 12 weeks. When I was in your shoes I joined every alternative birthing site I could find and asked for help. I ended up changing care providers at 35 weeks (not for the faint of heart. lol). However, I had the best birthing experience I could have imagined and my child did not receive anything except what was mandated by law (the real laws, not what they try to lie and tell us the law says). Congratulations on your pregnancy and all the best with your decision. Take care, Josie Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted October 11, 2005 Report Share Posted October 11, 2005 At 07:57 AM 10/11/2005 -0700, you wrote: > Vaccines are not mandate in the US. Every single state allows for some type >of exemption... Some states allow for only religious reasons but others >allow for personal or medical reasons. AND NO vaccines are mandated at birth, anywhere, though they make you think they are. The exemptions from the states are for school attendance vax mandates. > >Even if you have a signed birth plan, you must be on constant watch. I've >found the nurses are the worst. They are actually brainwashed, they think >they know best and they will often try to sneak in the Hep B shot and Vit. >K, thinking they are doing what's best for your child. > >Most women who have strong objections often choose home birthing. Yup, Thanks Annette Good to see you> -------------------------------------------------------- Sheri Nakken, R.N., MA, Classical Homeopath Vaccination Information & Choice Network, Nevada City CA & Wales UK $$ Donations to help in the work - accepted by Paypal account vaccineinfo@... voicemail US 530-740-0561 (go to http://www.paypal.com) or by mail Vaccines - http://www.nccn.net/~wwithin/vaccine.htm Vaccine Dangers On-Line course - http://www.nccn.net/~wwithin/vaccineclass.htm Homeopathy On-Line course - http://www.nccn.net/~wwithin/homeo.htm ANY INFO OBTAINED HERE NOT TO BE CONSTRUED AS MEDICAL OR LEGAL ADVICE. THE DECISION TO VACCINATE IS YOURS AND YOURS ALONE. ****** " Just look at us. Everything is backwards; everything is upside down. Doctors destroy health, lawyers destroy justice, universities destroy knowledge, governments destroy freedom, the major media destroy information and religions destroy spirituality " .... Ellner Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted October 11, 2005 Report Share Posted October 11, 2005 I am expecting soon too and can't find any websites with info on the vit k shot(ie ingredients,side effects,etc) I see all the other vacs just not this one. Anyone know of a good resouce for info on it? Beth -GA Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted October 11, 2005 Report Share Posted October 11, 2005 Amy, If they're telling you it's the law, then have them prove it. If they cannot, they are intentionally lying. Check into the medical consent form that I assume all patients must sign at admission. I haven't been through this and I can't remember the last time I was ever admitted into a hospital, but I do hope to spend time with this subject in the future since it's nothing but a problem for all of us. Anyways, if you sign this form then modify it and restrict your signature. The bottom line is that you want to be the boss with the surgeon and all nurses obeying you. So with a proper medical consent form in addition to a detailed birth plan everything would seem like it should go alright. If trouble arises and they refuse to let you and your child leave, then you could rightfully bring kidnapping charges against the hospital. Another overlooked matter by most is the State birth certificate and the ss# that are forced as well. More unfortunate stress. And in my opinion, along with many others I'm sure, is that you'd be just fine birthing at home. Make friends with a true midwife and when the day comes you would certainly want your friend to be there. However you thank this friend for being so supportive is nobody's business. If you feel safer being close to a hospital you could also get yourself a nice, comfortable cargo van and be near to the hospital and birth in the van with assistance. If all goes well, then go home. If there's a real emergency, then you're right there and your arrangements still apply. Just some easily said thoughts Dan Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted October 11, 2005 Report Share Posted October 11, 2005 Hello Amy, It took me till my third delivery to get it ALL my way. My birth plan was detailed and I talked it over with our midwife. Still you have to watch every body and have some one see that your wishes are met. As for the vit k and new born screening. Didn't have them. I called the Kentucky Cabinet for Health to see what my rights were. They said I have the right to refuse any treatment for myself or child (unless it's life threatening). Dealing with the ped on call at the hospital was an entirely difference issue. I don't think he had a clue as to our rights to refuse or postpone the New born screening. He put me through HELL, then told my midwife " she does have the right to refuse " . With the vit k he told me it was like putting my child in the car with out a seat belt. My husband asked him if he had every seen a child with the bleeding disorder that the vit k was meant help. He said yes. My husband believes he lied. The stats, if I recall correctly, were 1/20,000 with the bleeding disorder. Any way, good luck! Camisha Kentucky mom to Noah, and Tirzah Algaveda@... wrote: I am due in less than 2 months. I am birthing at a new hospital 1 1/2 hours out of town (b/c it is the closest one that will allow me to VBAC). I called there today and was informed by a nurse in the nursery that since I am from out of town one of the neonatologists on call would be the baby dr. to come see our baby boy in the hospital...and that any of them would insist on the Vit K injection, the eye ointment, the PKU testing, etc. . She said they ALL follow the " standards " of care and will refuse to see our baby or even deal with us if we dont follow them b/c its the law. What do I do? Can they really make me do that- what does the law say and what are my rights? I am so frustrated. AS terrible as my birth was last time, the hospital at least respected my wishes as far as all of this goes and let us refuse everything- I just put it in my birth plan and it was followed no questions asked. I am in Alabama and here is a site about exemption but I cant tell what my rights are _Alabama Exemption Information_ (http://www.vaclib.org/exempt/alabama.htm) CAn anyone help me decipher what all that info means? Thanks, Amy Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted October 11, 2005 Report Share Posted October 11, 2005 In a message dated 10/11/2005 5:03:45 P.M. Central Standard Time, vaccinegenocide@... writes: Peer reviewed journals have linked large doses of vitamin K to childhood cancers and leukemia. So its not the injection that links the Vit K to cancer but the large doses of it???????? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted October 11, 2005 Report Share Posted October 11, 2005 http://poisonevercure.150m.com/vaccines/vitamin-k.htm National standard mandates newborn vitamin K injection Ignorance becomes tacit consent for the questionable neonatal procedure by Don Harkins In cooperation with a " national standard, " most, if not all states have mandated that U.S. hospitals routinely administer to all newborns a synthetic, fat-soluble vitamin K injection (generic name phytonadione) that exceeds an infant's recommended daily dietary intake of the vitamin by 100 times. Peer reviewed journals have linked large doses of vitamin K to childhood cancers and leukemia. Animal studies have linked large doses of vitamin K to a variety of conditions that include anemia, liver damage, kidney damage and death. " Little is known about the metabolic fate of vitamin K. Almost no unmetabolized vitamin K appears in bile or urine, " states both the 1988 and 1998 Physician's Desk Reference (PDR). " This is especially important due to the fact that it is a fat-soluble vitamin and therefore can accumulate in the body, " wrote Vitamin K Resources (VKR) in the extremely well-documented and footnoted 1999 article, Intramuscular Vitamin K Injection: Is K OK? In the 1988 PDR Merck's literature states that, " A single intramuscular dose of AquaMEPHYTON (Merck brand vitamin K injection) 0.5 to 1 mg within one hour of birth is recommended. " Merck's 1998 PDR entry for AquaMEPHYTON has removed adverse reaction liability from the pharmaceutical giant by stating, " The American Academy of Pediatrics (AAP) recommends that Vitamin K1 be given to the newborn. " Vitamin K injections are ostensibly administered to newborns to prevent vitamin K deficiency bleeding (such as hemophilia) that may occur in approximately 1 in 10,000 live births. " This figure would probably be much lower if high risk newborns were excluded [from this figure], " wrote VKR. Parents who wish to refuse the shot must do so in writing prior to the birth of their baby. Parental ignorance of the state-mandated injection is considered by hospitals as tacit consent authorizing them to administer the potentially damaging synthetic vitamin dose to newborns. Five post partem nurses from hospitals in Idaho, Washington and Oregon stated that they " routinely administer vitamin K injections to newborns, " as if all of them were reading from the same script. According to a seasoned Sacred Heart Medical Center (Spokane, WA), Birthplace nurse named Terri, " Routine vitamin K injections are in cooperation with the federal standard. " She also said that Washington hospitals are mandated by state code to provide the injections to all newborns. Terri acknowledged that parents who wish to refuse the shot must present the refusal to the hospital in writing before the baby is born. Scientists question intelligence of universal IM vitamin K injections Dr. Louise was quoted in the British Medical Journal in 1998 as stating, " It is not possible, on the basis of currently published evidence, to refute the suggestion that neonatal IM vitamin K administration increases the risk of early childhood leukemia. " The British Journal of Cancer published " Factors associated with childhood cancer " by J. Golding, et al, in 1990. The report indicated that universally administered IM vitamin K injections significantly increase our children's chances of developing childhood cancer. A follow-up study published two years later in the British Medical Journal reinforced the findings of the previous study. The authors' comments, in keeping with scientific style, are conservatively stated, but parents who are concerned about the health of their babies will read " danger " between the following lines: " The only two studies so far to have examined the relation between childhood cancer and intramuscular vitamin K have shown similar results and the relation is biologically plausible. The prophylactic benefits against haemorrhagic disease are unlikely to exceed the potential adverse effects from intramuscular vitamin K... " Both studies recommend that policies should be adopted to administer IM vitamin K injections only to high risk babies. Babies who have been identified as being at risk for vitamin K deficiency include those born to mothers who took drugs or antibiotics during pregnancy, premature babies and babies who are born cesarean. Mothers who had maternity diets low in high vitamin K foods or had diets that were low in fat have also been identified as being more likely to bear vitamin K deficient babies. Naturopathic physicians and others who successfully adhere to a more natural approach to healthcare advocate that high-risk mothers should increase the amount of vitamin K available to the fetus during pregnancy by eating adequate amounts of green leafy vegetables. It is also recommended that mothers continue to eat vitamin K rich foods after giving birth so that their infants will receive the natural form of the vital vitamin through their breast milk. As early as April 17, 1977, an article in one of the world's most esteemed medical journals, the Lancet, discredited the policy of routine vitamin K injections. " We conclude that healthy babies, contrary to current beliefs, are not likely to have a vitamin K deficiency....the administration of vitamin K is not supported by our findings... " Van Doorm, et al stated in the Lancet article. VKR cited 21 peer-reviewed reports that had been published in prominent medical journals. All of them concur that policies which mandate the universal injection of newborn babies are not based in sound science. There has been much peer-reviewed evidence generated which questions the efficacy of routine vitamin K injections as sound public health policy. Why, then, since publication of the July, 1987 article in Pediatrics " Health codes for newborns " when it was stated that only five states required hospitals to administer neonatal vitamin K injections, are they now mandated by most, if not all states? Commonsensically, VKR poses the question, " ...how could God (or nature) have erred so badly as to give all newborn babies only an infinitesimal fraction of their required vitamin K? Surely the human race could not have survived to this point if all newborns were born with this deficiency and none being administered at birth until very recently. " Although there seems to be no evidence to support universal IM vitamin K injections among the newborn from a public health standpoint, the medical establishment, as informed by the Food and Drug Administration, the AAP and as supplied by the pharmaceutical companies such as Merck, Roche Laboratories and Abbott Laboratories, continues to endorse state mandated, routine IM vitamin K injections. Eye of newt, spleen of bat? The body most readily utilizes vitamins and minerals that are found in plants. The body less readily utilizes synthetic vitamins and minerals. The vitamin K administered by hospitals to newborns is the synthetic phytonadione. The natural forms of vitamin K that are found in many foods, particularly in vegetables such as collard greens, spinach, broccoli, asparagus, brussels sprouts and salad greens, are called phylloquinone or menaquinone. Certain bacteria in the intestinal tract also produce menaquinones. The vitamin K injections administered by hospitals and manufactured by Merck and Roche and Abbott are not only synthetic but, according to the packet inserts and the PDR, contain benzyl alcohol as a preservative. The 1989 PDR states that, " there is no evidence to suggest that the small amount of benzyl alcohol contained in AquaMEPHYTON (Merck's vitamin K injection product), when used as recommended, is associated with toxicity. " Interestingly, in November, 1988, the French medical journal Dev Pharmacol Ther published a paper regarding benzyl alcohol metabolism and elimination in babies. The report stated that " ...we cannot directly answer the issue of safety of `low doses' of benzyl alcohol as found in some medications administered to neonates. This study confirms the immaturity of the benzoic acid detoxification process in premature newborns. " The 1998 PDR still states, contrary to the published findings of French scientists in 1988, " there is no evidence to suggest that... " There has been little reason to study the toxicological effects of benzyl alcohol over the last decade since state legislators have provided synthetic vitamin K manufacturers with the guaranteed marketplace of nearly every child born in a U.S. hospital. Vitamin K injections manufactured as recently as 1995 contain hydrochloric acid " for pH adjustment. " Roche's vitamin K product KONAKION contains ingredients such as phenol (carbolic acid—a poisonous substance distilled from coal tar), propylene glycol (derived from petroleum and used as an antifreeze and in hydraulic brake fluid) and acetic acid (an astringent antimicrobial agent that may drastically reduce the amount of natural vitamin K that would have otherwise been produced in the digestive tract). As reported in the PDR and as published in the IM vitamin K packet inserts for Merck, Roche and Abbott, " Studies of carcinogenicity, mutagenesis or impairment of fertility have not been conducted with Vitamin K1 Injection (Phytonadione Injection, USP). " The purpose of this article is to alert expectant parents that their ignorance of federally-suggested, state mandated hospital policy is enough assent to authorize health care professionals to administer what may be a lethal or damaging overdose of a synthetic substance that comes with the following warning from the manufacturers: " Severe reactions, including fatalities, have occurred during and immediately after INTRAVENOUS injection of phytonadione even when precautions have been taken to dilute the vitamin and avoid rapid infusion... " Please pass the preceeding information onto anybody you know who is expecting a baby. Afterall, we have the right to know what substances are being injected into our babies within the first hour of their lives. If we feel that a substance may be injurious to our baby, we have the right to refuse it. Don Harkins is the editor of The Idaho Observer www.proliberty.com/observer Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted October 11, 2005 Report Share Posted October 11, 2005 In a message dated 10/11/2005 9:59:40 A.M. Central Standard Time, mum2mishka@... writes: If you have a lawyer to help you with your birth plan, I'm sure you'll be fine. I hope so b/c if they do not follow it I will sue them, lol Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted October 12, 2005 Report Share Posted October 12, 2005 We brought our birth plan with us to the hospital and no one read it either. One nurse pretended to but then kept asking us questions which were answered in the plan. Our nurse midwife knew we didn't want any shots, drops, sticks, etc and my husband stood next to the baby after she was born and almost made them stop giving her a bath even! LOL! We didn't let her out of our sight because I didn't want some controlling nurse who thought she knew more than me making decisions on her own, then we high tailed it out of the hospital about 12 hours after the birth. They weren't too bad about us saying no to stuff, the peditrician either, but they did try to talk me out of leaving and wanted to keep the baby in the nursery. Just be firm, if they sense any hesitancy they will exploit it and try to guilt/bully you into changing your mind. Lynette Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted October 12, 2005 Report Share Posted October 12, 2005 Good point - don't let the baby out of your sight. If they want to take it away have your partner or relative/friend go with the baby and be with her all the time. We didn't have this problem as the birthing center I was at does not take them out of the room unless they are going into the infant care unit. C _____ From: Vaccinations [mailto:Vaccinations ] On Behalf Of lysisdane Sent: Tuesday, October 11, 2005 11:39 PM Vaccinations Subject: Re: help please with refusing Vit K and eye ointment We brought our birth plan with us to the hospital and no one read it either. One nurse pretended to but then kept asking us questions which were answered in the plan. Our nurse midwife knew we didn't want any shots, drops, sticks, etc and my husband stood next to the baby after she was born and almost made them stop giving her a bath even! LOL! We didn't let her out of our sight because I didn't want some controlling nurse who thought she knew more than me making decisions on her own, then we high tailed it out of the hospital about 12 hours after the birth. They weren't too bad about us saying no to stuff, the peditrician either, but they did try to talk me out of leaving and wanted to keep the baby in the nursery. Just be firm, if they sense any hesitancy they will exploit it and try to guilt/bully you into changing your mind. Lynette Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted October 12, 2005 Report Share Posted October 12, 2005 Hi again, I also want to back up what all these wonderful mothers are saying and add another caution. Try to talk to the Director of Nursing or Manager of the Department because information is usually not been consistent from shift to shift, department to department, in my experience. A recent example... We took a breastfeeding class and were directly told that vaccinations are not related to autism or autoimmune disorders. <shrugs> We were told that EBM can not be saved if the baby leaves any in the bottle. Yet, the Lactation consultant said that it can be saved and reheated once for a maximum of 24 hours. I was told that I could not nurse my baby after a mammogram and had to wait a minimum of 24 hours. The BF instructor said I could nurse after 6-8 hours and the LC said I could nurse immediately. and on and on and on. This was all the SAME hospital. I have heard of women getting their membranes stripped without consent. I have heard of women's babies being taken and stuck before they were aware of what was happening. I've heard of women being coerced into signing consents in moments of distress. You are your baby's best defense in an environment that will do almost anything to make you comply. (As mentioned previously, most of them don't even think about the inconsistencies of what they are saying). If I had no choice but to go into a hospital, I would send my birth plan via certified mail to my doctor and the DON and show up with enough people to advocate my rights and my baby's rights EVERY minute. It's cliche, but knowledge is power. All the best to you, Josie Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted October 12, 2005 Report Share Posted October 12, 2005 Amy, In addition to all the other great advice you've been given, I would say don't let the baby out of your sight (or a trusted family member's). They can't take your baby away w/o your permission! If baby HAS to go somewhere for any reason, send your husband with to make sure they follow your wishes. Can you room-in at night? Also, I went home after one night instead of two. If all goes well, maybe you could try that if you're up to it? The less time in the hospital, the better, IMHO. Less chance for them to do something you don't want. Best of luck, > > I am due in less than 2 months. I am birthing at a new hospital 1 1/2 hours > out of town (b/c it is the closest one that will allow me to VBAC). I > called there today and was informed by a nurse in the nursery that since I am > from out of town one of the neonatologists on call would be the baby dr. to come > see our baby boy in the hospital...and that any of them would insist on the > Vit K injection, the eye ointment, the PKU testing, etc. . She said they ALL > follow the " standards " of care and will refuse to see our baby or even deal > with us if we dont follow them b/c its the law. What do I do? Can they > really make me do that- what does the law say and what are my rights? I am so > frustrated. AS terrible as my birth was last time, the hospital at least > respected my wishes as far as all of this goes and let us refuse everything- I > just put it in my birth plan and it was followed no questions asked. > I am in Alabama and here is a site about exemption but I cant tell what my > rights are > _Alabama Exemption Information_ (http://www.vaclib.org/exempt/alabama.htm) > CAn anyone help me decipher what all that info means? > Thanks, > Amy > > > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted October 13, 2005 Report Share Posted October 13, 2005 Thanks to Dan, Josie and others for all the helpful info on the Vit K injection! Beth-GA Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted October 13, 2005 Report Share Posted October 13, 2005 well, after you have the baby you can leave AMA...Against Medical Advice. First you ask if they will postphone the procedure for a couple of hours and then you leave as soon as you can get dressed. That you can have a VBAC is phenomenal at this time as so many are not allowing it and malpractice premiums are going up for those who do. And don't trust what the nurse says ...talk to the doc, get your exemptions, and if you must, leave. Laurie help please with refusing Vit K and eye ointment I I am birthing at a new hospital 1 1/2 hours out of town (b/c it is the closest one that will allow me to VBAC). baby dr. to come see our baby boy in the hospital...and that any of them would insist on the Vit K injection, the eye ointment, the PKU testing, etc. . She said they ALL follow the " standards " of care and will refuse to see our baby or even deal with us if we dont follow them b/c its the law. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted October 13, 2005 Report Share Posted October 13, 2005 I, myself, was not comfortable with a hospital VBAC (had a failed hospital VBAC and had 2 second) with all their crap so had my 3rd VBAC at a birth Center out of state 3 hours away and then my 4th, 5th, and 6th VBAC's at home. ALmost had my 3rd at a hospital but 4 weeks b4 baby due I switched to midwife. Laurie .. I am not comfortable with a home birth being a VBAC. THANKS so much. My best friend is an attorney- I am having her help me with my birth plan so they KNOW I mean business. Amy Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted October 27, 2005 Report Share Posted October 27, 2005 oral vit K has toxins in it too. Ifeel bad for u it soulnd like u are stuck between a rock and a hard place. I had these issues and that is why I had my last two daughters at home. I refused Vit. K and refuse the eye oinment this last time Jackie Western NY let me know if I can guide you to someone in WNY that may be able to help you! --- Algaveda@... wrote: > > In a message dated 10/11/2005 8:25:08 A.M. Central > Standard Time, > alison73@... writes: > > I could be wrong, but I just figured the oral K was > a lesser evil than the > vaccine one. I'm due in December... and if that's > wrong, someone enlighten me > so that I put no vit K at all in this baby! > > > we had a girl last year and we refused the Vit K all > together. > Amy > > > [Non-text portions of this message have been > removed] > > " When we give government the power to make medical decisions for us, we, in essence, accept that the state owns our bodies. " ~U.S.Representative Ron , MD The Nuremberg Code (to which NZ is a signatory) describes Informed Choice as: - A choice made on the basis of adequate information concerning research and all available alternatives. - A choice made without controlling influences such as force, fraud, deceit, duress, over-reaching or other forms of constraint or coercion. Does this not apply to us? __________________________________ FareChase: Search multiple travel sites in one click. http://farechase. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted October 28, 2005 Report Share Posted October 28, 2005 Hi Jackie I am actually planning on having a unassisted homebirth with this upcoming baby.... I'll more than likely have my siblings here, who have had UC's themselves I'd been wanting one; ever since before my 1st baby. What's funny (or insane) about the oral vit. K is that the ped. told me that I'd have to give it to her (a prescription) for the remainder of the time I'd be nursing her... I was like, but, I nurse for a long time... I'm not just talking 6 wks, 6 mths, a year, my firstborn, in fact, was still nursing at that time, at almost 4 yrs old... he just nodded along and gave me that 'script... that I didn't fill... LOL Whatever... as if... *I'd still be giving her oral K if I had listened to that bull... ha ha ha Alison, extended breastfeeding, co-sleeping, baby-wearing, non-vaccinating sahm to 2 wonderful girls: Calista (2-13-99) and Ursula (12-22-02) and pregnant for a boy! (EDD: 12-27-05) Re: help please with refusing Vit K and eye ointment oral vit K has toxins in it too. Ifeel bad for u it soulnd like u are stuck between a rock and a hard place. I had these issues and that is why I had my last two daughters at home. I refused Vit. K and refuse the eye oinment this last time Jackie Western NY let me know if I can guide you to someone in WNY that may be able to help you! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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