Guest guest Posted January 21, 2006 Report Share Posted January 21, 2006 Tammy.... don't fight with dh over your ending weight goal. It's your decision and yours alone. He is probably afraid you are going to get all healthy and skinny and leave him. When I was married, that was my husband's underlying motive behind keeping me fat and disgusted so many years. Don't tell him he "can't" buy you chocolates for V-day/anniversary.... just put it OSOM (out of sight, out of mind) and allow yourself a piece every so often.... that could be another change he fears is that you aren't going to be the fun, fat snacker he loves.... My b/f is my greatest ally right now (other than my co-workers, mom and you all) and if he gives me a goodie, I don't slap him in the face for it.... Hey, if you are absolutely against eating any of it, throw a piece away at a time so he *thinks* you are eating it. I am not advocating dishonesty really, just trying to help you find ways to compromise with him over it or allow yourself the goodie every so often.... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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