Guest guest Posted May 7, 2006 Report Share Posted May 7, 2006 If he is already off this list, then he will not be getting these messages. I suggest the Monitor contact him privately to find out who it is making these threats & make sure the offender is taken off this list. I know I do not want someone like that on this list. And let Dr. Schaller know that none of us agree with what was done to him Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted May 7, 2006 Report Share Posted May 7, 2006 Dr Schaller, I am so sorry to hear of what has happened and I can understand you wanting to leave the list. Surely it is the person who posted the email to you who should be removed from the list as such behaviour is completly unacceptable on any list. Thanks you for all your informative and caring posts and for the time you have given up for us all. With best wishes, Sheila > > I was recently contacted by a man on this list, who sent me the most > hateful, savage and cruel collections of soul murder I have ever seen. It > was one of the most dark and hateful pieces of contact imaginable, and it > has me fearing for my safety in light of the level of hate. The person > threatened me to leave the list, or he would destroy my reputation and do a > number of other acts. Some one who writes this way is literally too > dangerous to toy with, and I will not accept hate stalking and sadism. At > this level of aggression, reason and debate or even defense seems a waste of > time and provocative. > > I have deeply enjoyed they many fine members of this group, but feel I need > to limit myself to safe relating. I hope my comments have been of some use. > Obviously, all comments were strictly for a mere sharing of various ideas > and nothing was part of a patient-MD relationship or meant for any person to > act on outside the advice of their health care providers. And nothing was > presented as being the standard of care, since this list is obviously filled > with a context that appreciates that most medicine is off label, and much in > the CFS/FM community is not accepted by medical societies. I have accepted > this is not a medical list in which discussions replace the doctor--patient > relationship, a relationship I had with no one on this list. . > > My Best Wishes, > > Schaller, MD > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted May 7, 2006 Report Share Posted May 7, 2006 Why should you leave the list, can't the nutter who sent you such a message be removed, they have no place here n >From: " jschaller " <jschaller@...> >Reply- >< > >Subject: Schaller MD thanks/delisting >Date: Sun, 7 May 2006 03:48:25 -0400 > >I was recently contacted by a man on this list, who sent me the most >hateful, savage and cruel collections of soul murder I have ever seen. It >was one of the most dark and hateful pieces of contact imaginable, and it >has me fearing for my safety in light of the level of hate. The person >threatened me to leave the list, or he would destroy my reputation and do a >number of other acts. Some one who writes this way is literally too >dangerous to toy with, and I will not accept hate stalking and sadism. At >this level of aggression, reason and debate or even defense seems a waste >of >time and provocative. > >I have deeply enjoyed they many fine members of this group, but feel I need >to limit myself to safe relating. I hope my comments have been of some use. >Obviously, all comments were strictly for a mere sharing of various ideas >and nothing was part of a patient-MD relationship or meant for any person >to >act on outside the advice of their health care providers. And nothing was >presented as being the standard of care, since this list is obviously >filled >with a context that appreciates that most medicine is off label, and much >in >the CFS/FM community is not accepted by medical societies. I have accepted >this is not a medical list in which discussions replace the doctor--patient >relationship, a relationship I had with no one on this list. . > >My Best Wishes, > > Schaller, MD > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted May 7, 2006 Report Share Posted May 7, 2006 Hi I am so sorry to hear this, Dr Schaller. I have experienced e-mail abuse and it is a serious crime; I know how nasty it is. There is a law against this, and any instances of abuse (whether by e- mail or in forums) should be reported, either to your service provider or theirs- I would recommend both actually. If you send a copy of this filth with the full address to abuse @ your service provider, they WILL track down this criminal, and I believe they will be banned from using the internet; perhaps even prosecuted. I understand that you have to do what you feel is best, but I hope you will feel inclined to return at a later date- It is very wrong that a person so hateful should be getting their way and stopping such good people like yourself from helping us -we need all the help we can get here and you are a very kind person who deserves our gratitude. thank you all the best > > If he is already off this list, then he will not be getting these messages. > I suggest the Monitor contact him privately to find out who it is making > these threats & make sure the offender is taken off this list. I know I do not > want someone like that on this list. > And let Dr. Schaller know that none of us agree with what was done to him > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted May 7, 2006 Report Share Posted May 7, 2006 PLEASE, I agree. I'm going to email him privately (Dr Schaller). Whoever wrote the email should be delisted. It is easy for a moderator to ban someone. > > If he is already off this list, then he will not be getting these messages. > I suggest the Monitor contact him privately to find out who it is making > these threats & make sure the offender is taken off this list. I know I do not > want someone like that on this list. > And let Dr. Schaller know that none of us agree with what was done to him > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted May 7, 2006 Report Share Posted May 7, 2006 Yes, Dr Schaller, why can't the list moderator remove this person from the list so that you can post in peace? > > > > I was recently contacted by a man on this list, who sent me the most > > hateful, savage and cruel collections of soul murder I have ever > seen. It > > was one of the most dark and hateful pieces of contact imaginable, > and it > > has me fearing for my safety in light of the level of hate. The person > > threatened me to leave the list, or he would destroy my reputation > and do a > > number of other acts. Some one who writes this way is literally too > > dangerous to toy with, and I will not accept hate stalking and > sadism. At > > this level of aggression, reason and debate or even defense seems a > waste of > > time and provocative. > > > > I have deeply enjoyed they many fine members of this group, but feel > I need > > to limit myself to safe relating. I hope my comments have been of > some use. > > Obviously, all comments were strictly for a mere sharing of various > ideas > > and nothing was part of a patient-MD relationship or meant for any > person to > > act on outside the advice of their health care providers. And > nothing was > > presented as being the standard of care, since this list is > obviously filled > > with a context that appreciates that most medicine is off label, and > much in > > the CFS/FM community is not accepted by medical societies. I have > accepted > > this is not a medical list in which discussions replace the > doctor--patient > > relationship, a relationship I had with no one on this list. . > > > > My Best Wishes, > > > > Schaller, MD > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted May 7, 2006 Report Share Posted May 7, 2006 Except that this person can get back on the list by using a new email service and a new user name. Dr. S has put his phone numbers and physical address (thru links) on this list, so he has no alternative but to leave. Someone should b/c Dr. S w/ the email address for the moderator, so that he can forward the offensive email to them for appropriate action. Mike C > > PLEASE, I agree. I'm going to email him privately (Dr Schaller). > Whoever wrote the email should be delisted. It is easy for a moderator > to ban someone. > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted May 7, 2006 Report Share Posted May 7, 2006 On May 7, 2006, at 4:59 AM, n Tait wrote: > Why should you leave the list, can't the nutter who sent you such a > message > be removed, they have no place here The nutter who sent you such a message should not only be removed by this list's moderator, but reported to and the FBI, both of whom take official interest in threats issued via email. Please, Dr. S. There are official channels to deal with this stuff, and you owe it to the entire Net community to see to it that they are brought to bear. There's no reason for you to leave -- but every reason for the person responsible to be made accountable. And the mechanisms to do that are available. Understand that I've been here. My husband was once stalked by an employee he had to fire, forcing our entire family to flee the state for two weeks on one memorable occasion. It's horrible and scary, especially if you have an established home, career, and family to protect. But if you let him win, he wins. And good people cannot allow that to happen, especially when there are effective ways of dealing with this. Sara Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted May 7, 2006 Report Share Posted May 7, 2006 On May 7, 2006, at 9:20 AM, yakcamp22 wrote: > Except that this person can get back on the list by using a new email > service and a new user name. Not if they're reported to and their ISP -- who, if the threats meet the legal qualification, will call in the law. Again: there are serious steps that can be taken. The Net is no longer a frontier town without a sheriff. Sara Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted May 7, 2006 Report Share Posted May 7, 2006 I second this message. It is so wonderful to have an MD offering comments on this list. I too do not want anyone with dark tendencies on this list. Cbuf1920@... wrote: > If he is already off this list, then he will not be getting these messages. > I suggest the Monitor contact him privately to find out who it is making > these threats & make sure the offender is taken off this list. I know I do not > want someone like that on this list. > And let Dr. Schaller know that none of us agree with what was done to him > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted May 8, 2006 Report Share Posted May 8, 2006 THat terrible - Ithink we all know this list is about sharing info that we then can check with our physician. Most ofthe advice involves treatments available at any health food store anyway. Anyone whos impugning Dr. Schaller for giving advice is striking at the heart of what this message group is all about - the free flow of information amongst people who badly need it. yakcamp22 <yakcamp22@...> wrote: Except that this person can get back on the list by using a new email service and a new user name. Dr. S has put his phone numbers and physical address (thru links) on this list, so he has no alternative but to leave. Someone should b/c Dr. S w/ the email address for the moderator, so that he can forward the offensive email to them for appropriate action. Mike C > > PLEASE, I agree. I'm going to email him privately (Dr Schaller). > Whoever wrote the email should be delisted. It is easy for a moderator > to ban someone. > This list is intended for patients to share personal experiences with each other, not to give medical advice. If you are interested in any treatment discussed here, please consult your doctor. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted May 12, 2006 Report Share Posted May 12, 2006 > > If he is already off this list, then he will not be getting these messages. > I suggest the Monitor contact him privately to find out who it is making > these threats & make sure the offender is taken off this list. I know I do not > want someone like that on this list. > And let Dr. Schaller know that none of us agree with what was done to him > > ***I personally feel that Dr. Schaller should turn the email over to the police. This person needs more than being removed from the list. Bernie Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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