Guest guest Posted May 16, 2005 Report Share Posted May 16, 2005 I just saw your e mail. Don't know what it's about, but I have had melanoma, 2 yrs ago. Can I help with whatever you want to know? Carol in LI, NY Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted May 16, 2005 Report Share Posted May 16, 2005 My blood test showed that my protein level was higher than normal. What cancer is associated with this? also my salt and magnesium levels were higher than normal. I am doing krystal salt as my complete mineral supplement and vit c protocol. Should I lower my intake of these? joyce jamkaye@...<mailto:jamkaye@...> The heart Dr. dismissed me because my heart catherization was normal even though my venous blood gas was 33% on exertion. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted May 16, 2005 Report Share Posted May 16, 2005 FWIW: I also had melanoma; when I first got sick and my immunity was in the pit, I guess. An endocrinologist who still believed in examining people's naked bodies spotted it. I had never even noticed it. It was on the inner side of my breast. Adrienne Re: Melonma I just saw your e mail. Don't know what it's about, but I have had melanoma, 2 yrs ago. Can I help with whatever you want to know? Carol in LI, NY Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted May 17, 2005 Report Share Posted May 17, 2005 I wonder... has any body else out there had melanoma, and how sick were you when you got it??? Taking a poll.. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted May 17, 2005 Report Share Posted May 17, 2005 I'm wondering what was done to treat it? Surgery? and? Marcia Re: Melonma I wonder... has any body else out there had melanoma, and how sick were you when you got it??? Taking a poll.. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted May 17, 2005 Report Share Posted May 17, 2005 Just surgery. I caught it the day it came out. It was melanoma insitu, earliest stage. I have a long nasty scar. they dig down deep. Didn't need anything else. had the world's #1 dermatopathologist review my case. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted May 17, 2005 Report Share Posted May 17, 2005 Yeah: I had surgery also, and it was all I needed. It has been something like 20 yrs ago, when I first became chronic. Adrienne Re: Melonma Just surgery. I caught it the day it came out. It was melanoma insitu, earliest stage. I have a long nasty scar. they dig down deep. Didn't need anything else. had the world's #1 dermatopathologist review my case. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted May 18, 2005 Report Share Posted May 18, 2005 Mine was the size of an eraser head. Huge scar. It was on the back of my arm, which is very common. The best dermatopathologist in tthe woorld is a guy named Ackerman. I was a hsopital dietitian, so he read my report and slides; diagnosed and made recommendations for me as a professional courtesy. As for dermatologists, DO NOT TRUST THEM! the one I went to insisted it was not melanoma, that it was an insect bite that I scratched. Had to scream at her to make her biopsy it, instead of just watching it. a very good friend of mine died from melenoma and it was a horrible death. He was very brave.She apologized and wanted toknow how I knew it was melanoma and she did not. What a jerk! Melanoma is black, irregular borders, crusts and scabs over and then bleeds. It can also be behind your eyes, in the pigment of yur pupil, making it important to have an opthamologist check your reyes out yearly. It can even be in your scalp. A good dermatologist will use a hair dryer thru your scalp, looking for it. It caneven be internal, vaginally, or in your intestine. I take naltraxone. It prevents cancer. If you had melanoma, going on it is a really good idea.If anything looks suspicious, I have it biopsied right away from a friend who is a plastic surgeon. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted May 18, 2005 Report Share Posted May 18, 2005 For the record, I had surgery only, too. I was told at that time that chemo and radiation were uncommon and unhelpful for Melanoma. I had " Superficial Spreading Malignant Melanoma " on left ankle. I think it was stage 2...don't know size/depth. I looked it up and found another name to be " Galloping Melanoma " , because it moves so fast. Oh yeah, I was thrilled to hear that. Yet thought Finally..a way out! (from CFIDS). Many other interesting thoughts, as I had 6 weeks to know if they had succeeded. Actually, before main surgery, I got kind of hyped up and did alot of fun stuff lol. They did very " Agressive Surgery " . Because getting clear margins is so crucial. This involved much more than just the tumor. Will spare you the details. But have 7 inch scar. 9 months to heal, sort of. Still have nerve damage. This was at the 10 yr mark of CFS/CFIDS/ME, preceded by 4 or 5 years bedridden average 20 hours a day. Melanoma on the torso is most risky, and in men, most risky. DO NOT DO WHAT I DID!!!!!!!!!! For a few months I was car-less, brain-fogged and putting out all of the other CFIDS fires. We (Dermatologist) had watched the spot for quite awhile. I kept putting off the next appointment. If you have any concerns, IT IS EASY to get checked out. Find a good Dermatologist. All clothes off, in a robe, he quickly checks you from head to toe. That's it. That's his job. If there is a suspicious, or changing spot, he removes and biopsies it. Not thrilling, but a total piece of cake compared to alternative. Melanoma is NOT like other Cancer. It is FAST moving. BUT, if caught. HIGHEST survival rate...like 98%. So, just say yes, and do it! Katrina P.S. The same week I was diagnosed with Cancer, I won a car In a Raffle At the AIDS Project Announced to me Live on the Radio > Yeah: I had surgery also, and it was all I needed. It has been something like 20 yrs ago, when I first became chronic. > Adrienne > Re: Melonma > > > Just surgery. I caught it the day it came out. It was melanoma insitu, > earliest stage. I have a long nasty scar. they dig down deep. Didn't need anything > else. had the world's #1 dermatopathologist review my case. > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted May 18, 2005 Report Share Posted May 18, 2005 Melanoma is not always black. I had to write about it a long time ago and it scared me to learn it can be small, red, pearly even. Anything that looks weird go get it biopsied. I had a very tiny dark mole on the inside of my thigh and I didn't like it because its different than anything else. The derm assured me it was fine but they took the whole thing out for me anyway because I was feeling so neurotic. It *was* fine but I'm glad I did it anyway, this was a few years ago. > Mine was the size of an eraser head. Huge scar. It was on the back of my > arm, which is very common. The best dermatopathologist in tthe woorld is a guy > named Ackerman. I was a hsopital dietitian, so he read my report and slides; > diagnosed and made recommendations for me as a professional courtesy. As for > dermatologists, DO NOT TRUST THEM! the one I went to insisted it was not > melanoma, that it was an insect bite that I scratched. Had to scream at her to > make her biopsy it, instead of just watching it. a very good friend of mine died > from melenoma and it was a horrible death. He was very brave.She apologized > and wanted toknow how I knew it was melanoma and she did not. What a jerk! > Melanoma is black, irregular borders, crusts and scabs over and then bleeds. It > can also be behind your eyes, in the pigment of yur pupil, making it > important to have an opthamologist check your reyes out yearly. It can even be in > your scalp. A good dermatologist will use a hair dryer thru your scalp, looking > for it. It caneven be internal, vaginally, or in your intestine. I take > naltraxone. It prevents cancer. If you had melanoma, going on it is a really good > idea.If anything looks suspicious, I have it biopsied right away from a > friend who is a plastic surgeon. > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted May 18, 2005 Report Share Posted May 18, 2005 Boy! I got off real lucky! But mine was brown, which they can be, never crusted, scabbed or bled, though. Adrienne Melanoma is black, irregular borders, crusts and scabs over and then bleeds. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted May 18, 2005 Report Share Posted May 18, 2005 Katrina, amazing story! Awesome that you won a car and that you caught the melanoma in time. I thank all of your for sharing your melanoma experiences, I'm quite surprised we have so many among us that have had this! So its obviously something we all need to know about and I appreciate learning from your experiences. I have related much of my cfs life to your thoughts of relief of a possible 'way out out our cfs misery'(death). With this illness its much harder to live decade after decade with it than it is to die. But after you get a lot of years behind you with it, you kind of develop a sense of determination that I've come 'this' far, its not gonna beat me now! Marcia Re: Melonma For the record, I had surgery only, too. I was told at that time that chemo and radiation were uncommon and unhelpful for Melanoma. I had " Superficial Spreading Malignant Melanoma " on left ankle. I think it was stage 2...don't know size/depth. I looked it up and found another name to be " Galloping Melanoma " , because it moves so fast. Oh yeah, I was thrilled to hear that. Yet thought Finally..a way out! (from CFIDS). Many other interesting thoughts, as I had 6 weeks to know if they had succeeded. Actually, before main surgery, I got kind of hyped up and did alot of fun stuff lol. They did very " Agressive Surgery " . Because getting clear margins is so crucial. This involved much more than just the tumor. Will spare you the details. But have 7 inch scar. 9 months to heal, sort of. Still have nerve damage. This was at the 10 yr mark of CFS/CFIDS/ME, preceded by 4 or 5 years bedridden average 20 hours a day. Melanoma on the torso is most risky, and in men, most risky. DO NOT DO WHAT I DID!!!!!!!!!! For a few months I was car-less, brain-fogged and putting out all of the other CFIDS fires. We (Dermatologist) had watched the spot for quite awhile. I kept putting off the next appointment. If you have any concerns, IT IS EASY to get checked out. Find a good Dermatologist. All clothes off, in a robe, he quickly checks you from head to toe. That's it. That's his job. If there is a suspicious, or changing spot, he removes and biopsies it. Not thrilling, but a total piece of cake compared to alternative. Melanoma is NOT like other Cancer. It is FAST moving. BUT, if caught. HIGHEST survival rate...like 98%. So, just say yes, and do it! Katrina P.S. The same week I was diagnosed with Cancer, I won a car In a Raffle At the AIDS Project Announced to me Live on the Radio Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted May 18, 2005 Report Share Posted May 18, 2005 hi i know this list is about your own experiqnce but one of my best friends with cfids/fm who was a nurse got melanomia , about 18 years into this illness and it spread fast with surgery requiring removing a large part of her nose ..( still hasnt been able to finish the plastic surgery for it due to other family issues).. she did have an overall imporvment in her illness for a few months after the surgery but now back to pre surgery crappy levels. ... and another close cfids/fm friend got cancer in her throat which presented oddly ... kinda scarey but reality .tea > [Original Message] > From: Marcia <mgrahn@...> > < > > Date: 5/18/2005 1:08:47 PM > Subject: Re: Re: Melonma > > Katrina, > amazing story! Awesome that you won a car and that you caught the melanoma in time. I thank all of your for sharing your melanoma experiences, I'm quite surprised we have so many among us that have had this! So its obviously something we all need to know about and I appreciate learning from your experiences. I have related much of my cfs life to your thoughts of relief of a possible 'way out out our cfs misery'(death). With this illness its much harder to live decade after decade with it than it is to die. But after you get a lot of years behind you with it, you kind of develop a sense of determination that I've come 'this' far, its not gonna beat me now! > > Marcia > Re: Melonma > > > For the record, I had surgery only, too. I was told at that time that chemo and radiation were uncommon and unhelpful for Melanoma. > > I had " Superficial Spreading Malignant Melanoma " on left ankle. I think it was stage 2...don't know size/depth. I looked it up and found another name to be " Galloping Melanoma " , because it moves so fast. Oh yeah, I was thrilled to hear that. Yet thought Finally..a way out! (from CFIDS). Many other interesting thoughts, as I had 6 weeks to know if they had succeeded. > > Actually, before main surgery, I got kind of hyped up and did alot of fun stuff lol. > > They did very " Agressive Surgery " . Because getting clear margins is so crucial. This involved much more than just the tumor. Will spare you the details. But have 7 inch scar. 9 months to heal, sort of. Still have nerve damage. > > This was at the 10 yr mark of CFS/CFIDS/ME, preceded by 4 or 5 years bedridden average 20 hours a day. > > Melanoma on the torso is most risky, and in men, most risky. > > DO NOT DO WHAT I DID!!!!!!!!!! > > For a few months I was car-less, brain-fogged and putting out all of the other CFIDS fires. We (Dermatologist) had watched the spot for quite awhile. I kept putting off the > next appointment. > > If you have any concerns, IT IS EASY to get checked out. Find a good Dermatologist. All clothes off, in a robe, he quickly checks you from head to toe. That's it. That's his job. > > If there is a suspicious, or changing spot, he removes and biopsies it. Not thrilling, but a total piece of cake compared to alternative. > > Melanoma is NOT like other Cancer. It is FAST moving. BUT, if caught. HIGHEST survival rate...like 98%. > > So, just say yes, and do it! > > Katrina > > P.S. The same week I was diagnosed with Cancer, > > I won a car > > In a Raffle > > At the AIDS Project > > Announced to me Live on the Radio > > > > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted May 19, 2005 Report Share Posted May 19, 2005 When I was diagnosed with melanoma I had just remarried, my childhood sweetheart who lived in Florida. Didn't move there after the melanoma. He said he was going to move to NY becasue of it, then time passed and he did not want to. We kept going back and forth as to who was going to move where. And time passed. During that time I found out he was not who he presented himself to be, and had a crazy, stressful dysfunctional life. Also found out he had cheated on me the whole time, since Day One. My Mother thought the melanoma was a " blessing " because I did not end up moving to Fla to be with him. I finally decided to move there and he was coming up to NY to get me in January. The day he was coming up to get me , I called him and he said he was divorcing me. I had already given up my business to be with him. Since then, I have gotten some of my clients back. My Mother still thinks the melanoma was a blessing that my life would have been worse had I moved there. I guess I would have done it, because I thought no one would put up with my lifestyle with this disease, and my crazy cognitive issues. So, here I am, alone. I'll be 49 on Sunday. I guess the melaonoma served a purpose in my life too. Hope my life turns out better, but at 49, my youth is almost behind me. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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