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-Well said .

-- In achalasia , " RICHARD " <cynmark24@...> wrote:

>

> For those of you new to this board, I was diagnosed with Achalasis

in

> 1982. After numerous stretchings and dilitations had the open

Heller

> Myotomy 12/17/91 Despite my doctor calling my operation his first

> failure, I have not had any " work " done on me since. While many

come

> to this board relatively new to this disease looking for help, I

came

> here looking to help.

>

>

> I have met many courageous people here, but in all likelihood will

> never meet any in person. However, in the world of 2006, you often

> get to know people online better than people you see everyday in

> the " real " world.

>

>

> One of the people I have sought to know better is from

upstate

> NY. I'm from downstate, NY. She is 32 years old. To distinguish

> people you see every day, you might say a person is the one with

the

> blonde hair, or the glasses, or overweight. On this board,

is

> the one with the mega-esophagus.

>

>

> has had this disease over half her life, so at age 32 it has

> been for at least 16 years. 16 years ago, there was no internet as

> we know it to research and communicate amongst ourselves. 16 years

> ago laparoscopic surgery was still in its infancy, having been

> performed for the first time in 1987. 16 years ago, most doctors

> had never heard of achalasia, and the ones that did rarely or never

> saw a patient with this disorder. 16 years ago found herself

> alone with this disease after first being accused of being

bulemic!

>

>

> I have been trying to coordinate with to talk with her in the

> chat room. Wednesday night I failed again, but in response to my

> attempt she sent me a rather lengthy email telling me about herself

> and this disease. I read it over breakfastthe following morning,

> thus " Breakfast with " is the subject of this post. (: I

> was not " bored to tears " reading it. In fact, you left me wanting

to

> read more. I guess I took that long to finish eating breakfast!).

>

>

> I am not writing to recount or summarize what she has written. Its

> all on this board starting back in Sept 2005. My point in writing

is

> to pay tribute to a person who through no fault of her own finds

> herself seeking medical help where they may not be any available.

> Yes, she can have an esophagectomy (the removal of the esophagus),

> but if it were that simple, it might have been performed already.

> Heller myotomy is a piece of cake compared to an esophagectomy.

> Perhaps she will find another alternative.

>

>

> This board has provided all kinds of help and support to hundreds,

if

> not thousands of people with achalasia who would otherwise have

been

> alone. When I was first diagnosed, it was like I had arrived from

> another planet, with biological attributes not common to any other

> life form. Likewise with . With her own resources and the

help

> of others on this board she has been seeking the opinions of other

> physicians and surgeons.

>

>

> has neither complained, nor said " Why me… " and is not living

in

> the past regretting what was. She is going forward with her life,

> while being the mother of two pre-school children, working full

time,

> and studying nursing. The lessons to be learned from are

that

> we must be in control of our own lives. We have to be our own

> advocate. We cannot and must not let a doctor get away with giving

> incomplete, unsatisfactory answers to questions that are vitally

> important to us. We are human beings with a disease, not a disease

> that happens to be in a human being.

>

>

> The resources provided by this website are incredible and we owe a

> debt of gratitude to those responsible for it. There are links to

> numerous useful sights, the databases with vital information at our

> fingertips, but most importantly the message boards here, with over

> 31,000 posts representing people looking for help and others giving

> of themselves. Asking for help is not enough. One must act upon it

> too.

>

>

> The more I read, the more I become aware of so many people here who

> deserve so much credit for helping others to make an informed

> decision. Many of us have entered this " online world " asking about

> the Heller Myotomy, and once having it done, have generously shared

> their experiences with the rest of us. We all know that it is the

> surgeon's job to cut, and its sometimes difficult to escape the

> feeling as to where their motivation lies. The help and

> encouragement selflessly given here is heartwarming, and has

enabled

> Achalasians to make confident decisions as to what course of action

> to take. The networking between patients and surgeons have created

a

> strong sense of community that has directed many of us to follow

the

> course of action that has been best for ourselves.

>

> When I " google " " mega-esophagus " or " megaesophagus " I find many

more

> references to dogs with that condition than people. No cures for

the

> canine either. While I don't know exactly where is in her

> journey to decide a course of action, I believe that in making

> doctors more aware of this disease, and her condition in

particular,

> (and others who have it), it may ultimately result in more research

> being done and other, more desirable alternatives. I would suggest

> to everyone reading this message that the next time you speak with

> your GI doctor or surgeon, you ask the question what they know

about

> the mega-esophagus conditon, and if there is any research or

> treatments they know about which might improve it. That could add

a

> thousand voices to help .

>

> By helping others we help ourselves.

>

>

>

>

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Thank you so much for taking your time and sharing your compassion. Think I'm in lust w/ you. Although , always quiet, but there when you need him has a special spot in my heart too.

Sandy in So Cal.... come visit, hot this weekend.>> For those of you new to this board, I was diagnosed with Achalasis in > 1982. After numerous stretchings and dilitations had the open Heller > Myotomy 12/17/91 Despite my doctor calling my operation his first > failure, I have not had any "work" done on me since. While many come > to this board relatively new to this disease looking for help, I came > here looking to help.> > > I have met many courageous people here, but in all likelihood will > never meet any in person. However, in the world of 2006, you often > get to know people online better than people you see everyday in > the "real" world.> > > One of the people I have sought to know better is from upstate > NY. I'm from downstate, NY. She is 32 years old. To distinguish > people you see every day, you might say a person is the one with the > blonde hair, or the glasses, or overweight. On this board, is > the one with the mega-esophagus.> > > has had this disease over half her life, so at age 32 it has > been for at least 16 years. 16 years ago, there was no internet as > we know it to research and communicate amongst ourselves. 16 years > ago laparoscopic surgery was still in its infancy, having been > performed for the first time in 1987. 16 years ago, most doctors > had never heard of achalasia, and the ones that did rarely or never > saw a patient with this disorder. 16 years ago found herself > alone with this disease after first being accused of being bulemic! > > > I have been trying to coordinate with to talk with her in the > chat room. Wednesday night I failed again, but in response to my > attempt she sent me a rather lengthy email telling me about herself > and this disease. I read it over breakfastthe following morning, > thus "Breakfast with " is the subject of this post. (: I > was not "bored to tears" reading it. In fact, you left me wanting to > read more. I guess I took that long to finish eating breakfast!).> > > I am not writing to recount or summarize what she has written. Its > all on this board starting back in Sept 2005. My point in writing is > to pay tribute to a person who through no fault of her own finds > herself seeking medical help where they may not be any available. > Yes, she can have an esophagectomy (the removal of the esophagus), > but if it were that simple, it might have been performed already. > Heller myotomy is a piece of cake compared to an esophagectomy. > Perhaps she will find another alternative. > > > This board has provided all kinds of help and support to hundreds, if > not thousands of people with achalasia who would otherwise have been > alone. When I was first diagnosed, it was like I had arrived from > another planet, with biological attributes not common to any other > life form. Likewise with . With her own resources and the help > of others on this board she has been seeking the opinions of other > physicians and surgeons. > > > has neither complained, nor said "Why me…" and is not living in > the past regretting what was. She is going forward with her life, > while being the mother of two pre-school children, working full time, > and studying nursing. The lessons to be learned from are that > we must be in control of our own lives. We have to be our own > advocate. We cannot and must not let a doctor get away with giving > incomplete, unsatisfactory answers to questions that are vitally > important to us. We are human beings with a disease, not a disease > that happens to be in a human being. > > > The resources provided by this website are incredible and we owe a > debt of gratitude to those responsible for it. There are links to > numerous useful sights, the databases with vital information at our > fingertips, but most importantly the message boards here, with over > 31,000 posts representing people looking for help and others giving > of themselves. Asking for help is not enough. One must act upon it > too. > > > The more I read, the more I become aware of so many people here who > deserve so much credit for helping others to make an informed > decision. Many of us have entered this "online world" asking about > the Heller Myotomy, and once having it done, have generously shared > their experiences with the rest of us. We all know that it is the > surgeon's job to cut, and its sometimes difficult to escape the > feeling as to where their motivation lies. The help and > encouragement selflessly given here is heartwarming, and has enabled > Achalasians to make confident decisions as to what course of action > to take. The networking between patients and surgeons have created a > strong sense of community that has directed many of us to follow the > course of action that has been best for ourselves. > > When I "google" "mega-esophagus" or "megaesophagus" I find many more > references to dogs with that condition than people. No cures for the > canine either. While I don't know exactly where is in her > journey to decide a course of action, I believe that in making > doctors more aware of this disease, and her condition in particular, > (and others who have it), it may ultimately result in more research > being done and other, more desirable alternatives. I would suggest > to everyone reading this message that the next time you speak with > your GI doctor or surgeon, you ask the question what they know about > the mega-esophagus conditon, and if there is any research or > treatments they know about which might improve it. That could add a > thousand voices to help .> > By helping others we help ourselves.> > > >

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Amazing, . Last night as we tried to be supportive ot ,

I had wished for someone with more knowledge to help. A few of us

are going to be seen soon, and as you said, we can help her by

gleaning what we can from our Drs on her condition. May I suggest

that at the next chat that the " experts " on this board (,

, Notan, Debbi, Carolyn and all the others) to meet with

. That way she will get more than emotional support.

Jo

>

> For those of you new to this board, I was diagnosed with Achalasis

in

> 1982. After numerous stretchings and dilitations had the open

Heller

> Myotomy 12/17/91 Despite my doctor calling my operation his first

> failure, I have not had any " work " done on me since. While many

come

> to this board relatively new to this disease looking for help, I

came

> here looking to help.

>

>

> I have met many courageous people here, but in all likelihood will

> never meet any in person. However, in the world of 2006, you

often

> get to know people online better than people you see everyday in

> the " real " world.

>

>

> One of the people I have sought to know better is from

upstate

> NY. I'm from downstate, NY. She is 32 years old. To distinguish

> people you see every day, you might say a person is the one with

the

> blonde hair, or the glasses, or overweight. On this board,

is

> the one with the mega-esophagus.

>

>

> has had this disease over half her life, so at age 32 it has

> been for at least 16 years. 16 years ago, there was no internet

as

> we know it to research and communicate amongst ourselves. 16 years

> ago laparoscopic surgery was still in its infancy, having been

> performed for the first time in 1987. 16 years ago, most doctors

> had never heard of achalasia, and the ones that did rarely or

never

> saw a patient with this disorder. 16 years ago found

herself

> alone with this disease after first being accused of being

bulemic!

>

>

> I have been trying to coordinate with to talk with her in

the

> chat room. Wednesday night I failed again, but in response to my

> attempt she sent me a rather lengthy email telling me about

herself

> and this disease. I read it over breakfastthe following morning,

> thus " Breakfast with " is the subject of this post. (:

I

> was not " bored to tears " reading it. In fact, you left me wanting

to

> read more. I guess I took that long to finish eating breakfast!).

>

>

> I am not writing to recount or summarize what she has written.

Its

> all on this board starting back in Sept 2005. My point in writing

is

> to pay tribute to a person who through no fault of her own finds

> herself seeking medical help where they may not be any available.

> Yes, she can have an esophagectomy (the removal of the esophagus),

> but if it were that simple, it might have been performed already.

> Heller myotomy is a piece of cake compared to an esophagectomy.

> Perhaps she will find another alternative.

>

>

> This board has provided all kinds of help and support to hundreds,

if

> not thousands of people with achalasia who would otherwise have

been

> alone. When I was first diagnosed, it was like I had arrived from

> another planet, with biological attributes not common to any other

> life form. Likewise with . With her own resources and the

help

> of others on this board she has been seeking the opinions of other

> physicians and surgeons.

>

>

> has neither complained, nor said " Why me… " and is not living

in

> the past regretting what was. She is going forward with her life,

> while being the mother of two pre-school children, working full

time,

> and studying nursing. The lessons to be learned from are

that

> we must be in control of our own lives. We have to be our own

> advocate. We cannot and must not let a doctor get away with

giving

> incomplete, unsatisfactory answers to questions that are vitally

> important to us. We are human beings with a disease, not a

disease

> that happens to be in a human being.

>

>

> The resources provided by this website are incredible and we owe a

> debt of gratitude to those responsible for it. There are links to

> numerous useful sights, the databases with vital information at

our

> fingertips, but most importantly the message boards here, with

over

> 31,000 posts representing people looking for help and others

giving

> of themselves. Asking for help is not enough. One must act upon it

> too.

>

>

> The more I read, the more I become aware of so many people here

who

> deserve so much credit for helping others to make an informed

> decision. Many of us have entered this " online world " asking about

> the Heller Myotomy, and once having it done, have generously

shared

> their experiences with the rest of us. We all know that it is the

> surgeon's job to cut, and its sometimes difficult to escape the

> feeling as to where their motivation lies. The help and

> encouragement selflessly given here is heartwarming, and has

enabled

> Achalasians to make confident decisions as to what course of

action

> to take. The networking between patients and surgeons have

created a

> strong sense of community that has directed many of us to follow

the

> course of action that has been best for ourselves.

>

> When I " google " " mega-esophagus " or " megaesophagus " I find many

more

> references to dogs with that condition than people. No cures for

the

> canine either. While I don't know exactly where is in her

> journey to decide a course of action, I believe that in making

> doctors more aware of this disease, and her condition in

particular,

> (and others who have it), it may ultimately result in more

research

> being done and other, more desirable alternatives. I would

suggest

> to everyone reading this message that the next time you speak with

> your GI doctor or surgeon, you ask the question what they know

about

> the mega-esophagus conditon, and if there is any research or

> treatments they know about which might improve it. That could add

a

> thousand voices to help .

>

> By helping others we help ourselves.

>

>

>

>

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You guys are awesome. You have made me cry

tonight with your encouraging words and support.

I cannot get over it. Thank you EVERYONE.

And, not to be a downer when I am feeling

so comforted and somewhat optimistic thanks to you all.

But when you are speaking to your doctors,

don’t just ask the questions for my sake. I don’t know how to say

it other than just to say it, but you could all be in my shoes at some point in

the future. The fact remains that this is a progressive disease, and I hope

none of you have to be where I am at. However, learn all you can now, and take

control of your treatment now, so that hopefully you can avoid all this. The best

thing we can do is educate ourselves and stay on top of our options and our

treatment. That being said, I’d love to hear what they say when you do

ask the questions.

in NY

From: achalasia [mailto:achalasia ] On Behalf Of Jo Blauer

Sent: Friday, February 10, 2006 9:14 PM

achalasia

Subject: Re: BREAKFAST

WITH TRACY

Amazing, . Last night as we tried to be

supportive ot ,

I had wished for someone with more knowledge to

help. A few of us

are going to be seen soon, and as you said, we can

help her by

gleaning what we can from our Drs on her

condition. May I suggest

that at the next chat that the " experts "

on this board (,

, Notan, Debbi, Carolyn and all the others)

to meet with

. That way she will get more than emotional support.

Jo

>

> For those of you new to this board, I was

diagnosed with Achalasis

in

> 1982. After numerous stretchings and

dilitations had the open

Heller

> Myotomy 12/17/91 Despite my doctor calling my

operation his first

> failure, I have not had any " work "

done on me since. While many

come

> to this board relatively new to this disease

looking for help, I

came

> here looking to help.

>

>

> I have met many courageous people here, but

in all likelihood will

> never meet any in person. However, in

the world of 2006, you

often

> get to know people online better than people

you see everyday in

> the " real " world.

>

>

> One of the people I have sought to know

better is

from

upstate

> NY. I'm from downstate, NY. She is 32

years old. To distinguish

> people you see every day, you might say a

person is the one with

the

> blonde hair, or the glasses, or

overweight. On this board,

is

> the one with the mega-esophagus.

>

>

>

has had this disease over half her life, so at age 32 it has

> been for at least 16 years. 16 years

ago, there was no internet

as

> we know it to research and communicate

amongst ourselves. 16 years

> ago laparoscopic surgery was still in its

infancy, having been

> performed for the first time in

1987. 16 years ago, most doctors

> had never heard of achalasia, and the ones

that did rarely or

never

> saw a patient with this disorder. 16

years ago

found

herself

> alone with this disease after first being

accused of being

bulemic!

>

>

> I have been trying to coordinate with to talk with her in

the

> chat room. Wednesday night I failed

again, but in response to my

> attempt she sent me a rather lengthy email

telling me about

herself

> and this disease. I read it over

breakfastthe following morning,

> thus " Breakfast with " is the subject of this

post. (:

I

> was not " bored to tears " reading

it. In fact, you left me wanting

to

> read more. I guess I took that long to

finish eating breakfast!).

>

>

> I am not writing to recount or summarize what

she has written.

Its

> all on this board starting back in Sept

2005. My point in writing

is

> to pay tribute to a person who through no

fault of her own finds

> herself seeking medical help where they may

not be any available.

> Yes, she can have an esophagectomy (the

removal of the esophagus),

> but if it were that simple, it might have

been performed already.

> Heller myotomy is a piece of cake compared to

an esophagectomy.

> Perhaps she will find another alternative.

>

>

> This board has provided all kinds of help and

support to hundreds,

if

> not thousands of people with achalasia who

would otherwise have

been

> alone. When I was first diagnosed, it

was like I had arrived from

> another planet, with biological attributes

not common to any other

> life form. Likewise with . With her own

resources and the

help

> of others on this board she has been seeking

the opinions of other

> physicians and surgeons.

>

>

>

has neither complained, nor said " Why me… " and is not living

in

> the past regretting what was. She is

going forward with her life,

> while being the mother of two pre-school

children, working full

time,

> and studying nursing. The lessons

to be learned from

are

that

> we must be in control of our own lives.

We have to be our own

> advocate. We cannot and must not let a

doctor get away with

giving

> incomplete, unsatisfactory answers to

questions that are vitally

> important to us. We are human beings

with a disease, not a

disease

> that happens to be in a human

being.

>

>

> The resources provided by this website are

incredible and we owe a

> debt of gratitude to those responsible for

it. There are links to

> numerous useful sights, the databases with

vital information at

our

> fingertips, but most importantly the message

boards here, with

over

> 31,000 posts representing people looking for

help and others

giving

> of themselves. Asking for help is not enough.

One must act upon it

> too.

>

>

> The more I read, the more I become aware of

so many people here

who

> deserve so much credit for helping others to

make an informed

> decision. Many of us have entered this

" online world " asking about

> the Heller Myotomy, and once having it done,

have generously

shared

> their experiences with the rest of us.

We all know that it is the

> surgeon's job to cut, and its sometimes

difficult to escape the

> feeling as to where their motivation

lies. The help and

> encouragement selflessly given here is

heartwarming, and has

enabled

> Achalasians to make confident decisions as to

what course of

action

> to take. The networking between

patients and surgeons have

created a

> strong sense of community that has directed

many of us to follow

the

> course of action that has been best for

ourselves.

>

> When I " google "

" mega-esophagus " or " megaesophagus " I find many

more

> references to dogs with that condition than

people. No cures for

the

> canine either. While I don't know

exactly where

is in her

> journey to decide a course of action, I

believe that in making

> doctors more aware of this disease, and her

condition in

particular,

> (and others who have it), it may ultimately

result in more

research

> being done and other, more desirable

alternatives. I would

suggest

> to everyone reading this message that the

next time you speak with

> your GI doctor or surgeon, you ask the

question what they know

about

> the mega-esophagus conditon, and if there is

any research or

> treatments they know about which might

improve it. That could add

a

> thousand voices to help .

>

> By helping others we help ourselves.

>

>

>

>

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,

I am deeply moved by your post and

flattered with the time and energy you spent not only reading my post, but in

writing this exceptional post back to everyone about my situation and the major

issues we all face. That is, trying to find the right doctor who has the right

treatment for each of us AND getting the moral support we all so desperately

need from each other in order to make these life-altering decisions. I have no

idea what your line of work is, but you should seriously consider motivational

speaking. in Lancaster,

PA already has Dr. Haluck

expecting my call……AMAZING.

I truly don’t know what to say,

besides THANK YOU, and maybe someday we can really have breakfast together!

I hope to continue talking with you. Your

kindness and support has been incredible, and I can only hope to help others

through my situation the way you have helped me with even this one post.

in NY (with tears in her eyes)

From: achalasia [mailto:achalasia ] On Behalf Of RICHARD

Sent: Friday, February 10, 2006 4:50 PM

achalasia

Subject: BREAKFAST

WITH TRACY

For those of you new to this

board, I was diagnosed with Achalasis in

1982. After numerous stretchings and dilitations

had the open Heller

Myotomy 12/17/91 Despite my doctor calling my

operation his first

failure, I have not had any " work " done

on me since. While many come

to this board relatively new to this disease

looking for help, I came

here looking to help.

I have met many courageous people here, but in all

likelihood will

never meet any in person. However, in the

world of 2006, you often

get to know people online better than people you

see everyday in

the " real " world.

One of the people I have sought to know better is from upstate

NY. I'm from downstate, NY. She is 32 years

old. To distinguish

people you see every day, you might say a person

is the one with the

blonde hair, or the glasses, or overweight.

On this board,

is

the one with the mega-esophagus.

has had this disease over half her life, so at age 32 it

has

been for at least 16 years. 16 years ago,

there was no internet as

we know it to research and communicate amongst

ourselves. 16 years

ago laparoscopic surgery was still in its infancy,

having been

performed for the first time in 1987.

16 years ago, most doctors

had never heard of achalasia, and the ones that

did rarely or never

saw a patient with this disorder. 16 years

ago found

herself

alone with this disease after first being accused

of being bulemic!

I have been trying to coordinate with to talk with her in

the

chat room. Wednesday night I failed again,

but in response to my

attempt she sent me a rather lengthy email telling

me about herself

and this disease. I read it over

breakfastthe following morning,

thus " Breakfast with " is the subject of this

post. (:

I

was not " bored to tears " reading

it. In fact, you left me wanting to

read more. I guess I took that long to

finish eating breakfast!).

I am not writing to recount or summarize what she

has written. Its

all on this board starting back in Sept

2005. My point in writing is

to pay tribute to a person who through no fault of

her own finds

herself seeking medical help where they may not be

any available.

Yes, she can have an esophagectomy (the removal of

the esophagus),

but if it were that simple, it might have been performed

already.

Heller myotomy is a piece of cake compared to an

esophagectomy.

Perhaps she will find another alternative.

This board has provided all kinds of help and

support to hundreds, if

not thousands of people with achalasia who would

otherwise have been

alone. When I was first diagnosed, it was

like I had arrived from

another planet, with biological attributes not

common to any other

life form. Likewise with . With her own resources and the

help

of others on this board she has been seeking the

opinions of other

physicians and surgeons.

has neither complained, nor said " Why me… "

and is not living in

the past regretting what was. She is going

forward with her life,

while being the mother of two pre-school children,

working full time,

and studying nursing. The lessons to

be learned from

are that

we must be in control of our own lives. We

have to be our own

advocate. We cannot and must not let a

doctor get away with giving

incomplete, unsatisfactory answers to questions

that are vitally

important to us. We are human beings with a

disease, not a disease

that happens to be in a human

being.

The resources provided by this website are

incredible and we owe a

debt of gratitude to those responsible for

it. There are links to

numerous useful sights, the databases with vital

information at our

fingertips, but most importantly the message

boards here, with over

31,000 posts representing people looking for help

and others giving

of themselves. Asking for help is not enough. One

must act upon it

too.

The more I read, the more I become aware of so

many people here who

deserve so much credit for helping others to make

an informed

decision. Many of us have entered this " online

world " asking about

the Heller Myotomy, and once having it done, have

generously shared

their experiences with the rest of us. We

all know that it is the

surgeon's job to cut, and its sometimes difficult

to escape the

feeling as to where their motivation lies.

The help and

encouragement selflessly given here is

heartwarming, and has enabled

Achalasians to make confident decisions as to what

course of action

to take. The networking between patients and

surgeons have created a

strong sense of community that has directed many

of us to follow the

course of action that has been best for ourselves.

When I " google "

" mega-esophagus " or " megaesophagus " I find many more

references to dogs with that condition than

people. No cures for the

canine either. While I don't know exactly

where is in her

journey to decide a course of action, I believe

that in making

doctors more aware of this disease, and her

condition in particular,

(and others who have it), it may ultimately result

in more research

being done and other, more desirable

alternatives. I would suggest

to everyone reading this message that the next

time you speak with

your GI doctor or surgeon, you ask the question

what they know about

the mega-esophagus conditon, and if there is any

research or

treatments they know about which might improve

it. That could add a

thousand voices to help .

By helping others we help ourselves.

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To both and RIchard, and all of you too. It was so touching to read your posts and remember what I went through 30 years ago and like most of you, be diagnosed with acid reflux. I went through Procardia, Pepsid, - I can't even remember all of the prescribed medications I tried, and of course, they checked me as the "knew" I was having heart attacks. After all of this time, with NO help until about seven years ago when I was truly diagnosed with Achalasia after a major blockage, - I now have no pain, and no surgery. I know those of you that know me (Hi Sandy) know my story, but your posts really touched me. To spend so many years with NO ONE knowing or understanding what is going on, and suffering the pain,etc. as you all know, - we now have each other. I don't write often, but I read everything every day, and live it all with all of you. THank you for beinig there, not only for me, but all of the others who join us every day. Thank you again. Marilyn in Beverly Hills RE: BREAKFAST WITH TRACY

,

I am deeply moved by your post and flattered with the time and energy you spent not only reading my post, but in writing this exceptional post back to everyone about my situation and the major issues we all face. That is, trying to find the right doctor who has the right treatment for each of us AND getting the moral support we all so desperately need from each other in order to make these life-altering decisions. I have no idea what your line of work is, but you should seriously consider motivational speaking. in Lancaster, PA already has Dr. Haluck expecting my call??AMAZING.

I truly don?t know what to say, besides THANK YOU, and maybe someday we can really have breakfast together!

I hope to continue talking with you. Your kindness and support has been incredible, and I can only hope to help others through my situation the way you have helped me with even this one post.

in NY (with tears in her eyes)

From: achalasia [mailto:achalasia ] On Behalf Of RICHARDSent: Friday, February 10, 2006 4:50 PMachalasia Subject: BREAKFAST WITH TRACY

For those of you new to this board, I was diagnosed with Achalasis in 1982. After numerous stretchings and dilitations had the open Heller Myotomy 12/17/91 Despite my doctor calling my operation his first failure, I have not had any "work" done on me since. While many come to this board relatively new to this disease looking for help, I came here looking to help.I have met many courageous people here, but in all likelihood will never meet any in person. However, in the world of 2006, you often get to know people online better than people you see everyday in the "real" world.One of the people I have sought to know better is from upstate NY. I'm from downstate, NY. She is 32 years old. To distinguish people you see every day, you might say a person is the one with the blonde hair, or the glasses, or overweight. On this board, is the one with the mega-esophagus. has had this disease over half her life, so at age 32 it has been for at least 16 years. 16 years ago, there was no internet as we know it to research and communicate amongst ourselves. 16 years ago laparoscopic surgery was still in its infancy, having been performed for the first time in 1987. 16 years ago, most doctors had never heard of achalasia, and the ones that did rarely or never saw a patient with this disorder. 16 years ago found herself alone with this disease after first being accused of being bulemic! I have been trying to coordinate with to talk with her in the chat room. Wednesday night I failed again, but in response to my attempt she sent me a rather lengthy email telling me about herself and this disease. I read it over breakfastthe following morning, thus "Breakfast with " is the subject of this post. (: I was not "bored to tears" reading it. In fact, you left me wanting to read more. I guess I took that long to finish eating breakfast!).I am not writing to recount or summarize what she has written. Its all on this board starting back in Sept 2005. My point in writing is to pay tribute to a person who through no fault of her own finds herself seeking medical help where they may not be any available. Yes, she can have an esophagectomy (the removal of the esophagus), but if it were that simple, it might have been performed already. Heller myotomy is a piece of cake compared to an esophagectomy. Perhaps she will find another alternative. This board has provided all kinds of help and support to hundreds, if not thousands of people with achalasia who would otherwise have been alone. When I was first diagnosed, it was like I had arrived from another planet, with biological attributes not common to any other life form. Likewise with . With her own resources and the help of others on this board she has been seeking the opinions of other physicians and surgeons. has neither complained, nor said "Why me?" and is not living in the past regretting what was. She is going forward with her life, while being the mother of two pre-school children, working full time, and studying nursing. The lessons to be learned from are that we must be in control of our own lives. We have to be our own advocate. We cannot and must not let a doctor get away with giving incomplete, unsatisfactory answers to questions that are vitally important to us. We are human beings with a disease, not a disease that happens to be in a human being. The resources provided by this website are incredible and we owe a debt of gratitude to those responsible for it. There are links to numerous useful sights, the databases with vital information at our fingertips, but most importantly the message boards here, with over 31,000 posts representing people looking for help and others giving of themselves. Asking for help is not enough. One must act upon it too. The more I read, the more I become aware of so many people here who deserve so much credit for helping others to make an informed decision. Many of us have entered this "online world" asking about the Heller Myotomy, and once having it done, have generously shared their experiences with the rest of us. We all know that it is the surgeon's job to cut, and its sometimes difficult to escape the feeling as to where their motivation lies. The help and encouragement selflessly given here is heartwarming, and has enabled Achalasians to make confident decisions as to what course of action to take. The networking between patients and surgeons have created a strong sense of community that has directed many of us to follow the course of action that has been best for ourselves. When I "google" "mega-esophagus" or "megaesophagus" I find many more references to dogs with that condition than people. No cures for the canine either. While I don't know exactly where is in her journey to decide a course of action, I believe that in making doctors more aware of this disease, and her condition in particular, (and others who have it), it may ultimately result in more research being done and other, more desirable alternatives. I would suggest to everyone reading this message that the next time you speak with your GI doctor or surgeon, you ask the question what they know about the mega-esophagus conditon, and if there is any research or treatments they know about which might improve it. That could add a thousand voices to help .By helping others we help ourselves.

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Dear Marilyn,

I can see that you would prefer not to post regularly, but wondered if you would answer just this one question for me? If you now have no pain and have not had any surgery, what has happened to improve things for you? I respect your privacy if you prefer not to reply.

Best Wishes from Ann in England x>> To both and RIchard, and all of you too. It was so touching to read your posts and remember what I went through 30 years ago and like most of you, be diagnosed with acid reflux. I went through Procardia, Pepsid, - I can't even remember all of the prescribed medications I tried, and of course, they checked me as the "knew" I was having heart attacks. After all of this time, with NO help until about seven years ago when I was truly diagnosed with Achalasia after a major blockage, - I now have no pain, and no surgery. I know those of you that know me (Hi Sandy) know my story, but your posts really touched me. To spend so many years with NO ONE knowing or understanding what is going on, and suffering the pain,etc. as you all know, - we now have each other. I don't write often, but I read everything every day, and live it all with all of you. THank you for beinig there, not only for me, but all of the others who join us every day. Thank you again. Marilyn in Beverly Hills > > BREAKFAST WITH TRACY> > For those of you new to this board, I was diagnosed with Achalasis in > 1982. After numerous stretchings and dilitations had the open Heller > Myotomy 12/17/91 Despite my doctor calling my operation his first > failure, I have not had any "work" done on me since. While many come > to this board relatively new to this disease looking for help, I came > here looking to help.> > > I have met many courageous people here, but in all likelihood will > never meet any in person. However, in the world of 2006, you often > get to know people online better than people you see everyday in > the "real" world.> > > One of the people I have sought to know better is from upstate > NY. I'm from downstate, NY. She is 32 years old. To distinguish > people you see every day, you might say a person is the one with the > blonde hair, or the glasses, or overweight. On this board, is > the one with the mega-esophagus.> > > has had this disease over half her life, so at age 32 it has > been for at least 16 years. 16 years ago, there was no internet as > we know it to research and communicate amongst ourselves. 16 years > ago laparoscopic surgery was still in its infancy, having been > performed for the first time in 1987. 16 years ago, most doctors > had never heard of achalasia, and the ones that did rarely or never > saw a patient with this disorder. 16 years ago found herself > alone with this disease after first being accused of being bulemic! > > > I have been trying to coordinate with to talk with her in the > chat room. Wednesday night I failed again, but in response to my > attempt she sent me a rather lengthy email telling me about herself > and this disease. I read it over breakfastthe following morning, > thus "Breakfast with " is the subject of this post. (: I > was not "bored to tears" reading it. In fact, you left me wanting to > read more. I guess I took that long to finish eating breakfast!).> > > I am not writing to recount or summarize what she has written. Its > all on this board starting back in Sept 2005. My point in writing is > to pay tribute to a person who through no fault of her own finds > herself seeking medical help where they may not be any available. > Yes, she can have an esophagectomy (the removal of the esophagus), > but if it were that simple, it might have been performed already. > Heller myotomy is a piece of cake compared to an esophagectomy. > Perhaps she will find another alternative. > > > This board has provided all kinds of help and support to hundreds, if > not thousands of people with achalasia who would otherwise have been > alone. When I was first diagnosed, it was like I had arrived from > another planet, with biological attributes not common to any other > life form. Likewise with . With her own resources and the help > of others on this board she has been seeking the opinions of other > physicians and surgeons. > > > has neither complained, nor said "Why me?" and is not living in > the past regretting what was. She is going forward with her life, > while being the mother of two pre-school children, working full time, > and studying nursing. The lessons to be learned from are that > we must be in control of our own lives. We have to be our own > advocate. We cannot and must not let a doctor get away with giving > incomplete, unsatisfactory answers to questions that are vitally > important to us. We are human beings with a disease, not a disease > that happens to be in a human being. > > > The resources provided by this website are incredible and we owe a > debt of gratitude to those responsible for it. There are links to > numerous useful sights, the databases with vital information at our > fingertips, but most importantly the message boards here, with over > 31,000 posts representing people looking for help and others giving > of themselves. Asking for help is not enough. One must act upon it > too. > > > The more I read, the more I become aware of so many people here who > deserve so much credit for helping others to make an informed > decision. Many of us have entered this "online world" asking about > the Heller Myotomy, and once having it done, have generously shared > their experiences with the rest of us. We all know that it is the > surgeon's job to cut, and its sometimes difficult to escape the > feeling as to where their motivation lies. The help and > encouragement selflessly given here is heartwarming, and has enabled > Achalasians to make confident decisions as to what course of action > to take. The networking between patients and surgeons have created a > strong sense of community that has directed many of us to follow the > course of action that has been best for ourselves. > > When I "google" "mega-esophagus" or "megaesophagus" I find many more > references to dogs with that condition than people. No cures for the > canine either. While I don't know exactly where is in her > journey to decide a course of action, I believe that in making > doctors more aware of this disease, and her condition in particular, > (and others who have it), it may ultimately result in more research > being done and other, more desirable alternatives. I would suggest > to everyone reading this message that the next time you speak with > your GI doctor or surgeon, you ask the question what they know about > the mega-esophagus conditon, and if there is any research or > treatments they know about which might improve it. That could add a > thousand voices to help .> > By helping others we help ourselves.> > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > >

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Dear Ann, I suffered through the many years of pain, regurgitation, no sleep, always running to the bathroom in a restaurant over and over again. The weird thing is that I have for the past about five-six years been drinking a sip of carbonation before every bite of food. The doc suggested I do that "until" my surgery. As time progressed, the pain subsided, and I was able to "manage" the problem. I learned what NOT to eat, and mainly to not eat fast and chew my food thoroughly. I learned that if I felt a blockage coming on, I would raise both hands high over my head, and most times the food would go down. I have suggested carbonation to many, but stopped leaving posts, as Sandy can tell you, when I was chastised for recommending it. The trick was a sip of carbonation, which triggers the esphagus to open, thence the food would go down. I suffered terribly the first ten years. The chest pains (heart attacks???) the nerve spasms in my throat and roof of my mouth, etc. etc. Now, after 30 years, I can feel the cold and hot go down, and do not swallow until I know things are moving. I do know I should have another endoscopy, and called my personal physician re; that a few weeks ago. I recently aspirated after an epidural and spend weeks in bed with pneumonia. I have now recovered, and will proceed soon to seed what is going on. Perhaps an upper GI would help me know. The last time I had one, I frightened the doctor so much he came screaming in and said, "don't swallow any more, it's not going down". HaHa, I knew it, but even he didn't realize what Achalasia does. I used to post more often, but stopped when I realized that we are all so different, and "what is good for the goose, is not always good for the gander". Good luck to you. When I know what has happened with my runaway E, I will let you know. Regards, Marilyn in Beverly HIlls BREAKFAST WITH TRACY> > For those of you new to this board, I was diagnosed with Achalasis in > 1982. After numerous stretchings and dilitations had the open Heller > Myotomy 12/17/91 Despite my doctor calling my operation his first > failure, I have not had any "work" done on me since. While many come > to this board relatively new to this disease looking for help, I came > here looking to help.> > > I have met many courageous people here, but in all likelihood will > never meet any in person. However, in the world of 2006, you often > get to know people online better than people you see everyday in > the "real" world.> > > One of the people I have sought to know better is from upstate > NY. I'm from downstate, NY. She is 32 years old. To distinguish > people you see every day, you might say a person is the one with the > blonde hair, or the glasses, or overweight. On this board, is > the one with the mega-esophagus.> > > has had this disease over half her life, so at age 32 it has > been for at least 16 years. 16 years ago, there was no internet as > we know it to research and communicate amongst ourselves. 16 years > ago laparoscopic surgery was still in its infancy, having been > performed for the first time in 1987. 16 years ago, most doctors > had never heard of achalasia, and the ones that did rarely or never > saw a patient with this disorder. 16 years ago found herself > alone with this disease after first being accused of being bulemic! > > > I have been trying to coordinate with to talk with her in the > chat room. Wednesday night I failed again, but in response to my > attempt she sent me a rather lengthy email telling me about herself > and this disease. I read it over breakfastthe following morning, > thus "Breakfast with " is the subject of this post. (: I > was not "bored to tears" reading it. In fact, you left me wanting to > read more. I guess I took that long to finish eating breakfast!).> > > I am not writing to recount or summarize what she has written. Its > all on this board starting back in Sept 2005. My point in writing is > to pay tribute to a person who through no fault of her own finds > herself seeking medical help where they may not be any available. > Yes, she can have an esophagectomy (the removal of the esophagus), > but if it were that simple, it might have been performed already. > Heller myotomy is a piece of cake compared to an esophagectomy. > Perhaps she will find another alternative. > > > This board has provided all kinds of help and support to hundreds, if > not thousands of people with achalasia who would otherwise have been > alone. When I was first diagnosed, it was like I had arrived from > another planet, with biological attributes not common to any other > life form. Likewise with . With her own resources and the help > of others on this board she has been seeking the opinions of other > physicians and surgeons. > > > has neither complained, nor said "Why me?" and is not living in > the past regretting what was. She is going forward with her life, > while being the mother of two pre-school children, working full time, > and studying nursing. The lessons to be learned from are that > we must be in control of our own lives. We have to be our own > advocate. We cannot and must not let a doctor get away with giving > incomplete, unsatisfactory answers to questions that are vitally > important to us. We are human beings with a disease, not a disease > that happens to be in a human being. > > > The resources provided by this website are incredible and we owe a > debt of gratitude to those responsible for it. There are links to > numerous useful sights, the databases with vital information at our > fingertips, but most importantly the message boards here, with over > 31,000 posts representing people looking for help and others giving > of themselves. Asking for help is not enough. One must act upon it > too. > > > The more I read, the more I become aware of so many people here who > deserve so much credit for helping others to make an informed > decision. Many of us have entered this "online world" asking about > the Heller Myotomy, and once having it done, have generously shared > their experiences with the rest of us. We all know that it is the > surgeon's job to cut, and its sometimes difficult to escape the > feeling as to where their motivation lies. The help and > encouragement selflessly given here is heartwarming, and has enabled > Achalasians to make confident decisions as to what course of action > to take. The networking between patients and surgeons have created a > strong sense of community that has directed many of us to follow the > course of action that has been best for ourselves. > > When I "google" "mega-esophagus" or "megaesophagus" I find many more > references to dogs with that condition than people. No cures for the > canine either. While I don't know exactly where is in her > journey to decide a course of action, I believe that in making > doctors more aware of this disease, and her condition in particular, > (and others who have it), it may ultimately result in more research > being done and other, more desirable alternatives. I would suggest > to everyone reading this message that the next time you speak with > your GI doctor or surgeon, you ask the question what they know about > the mega-esophagus conditon, and if there is any research or > treatments they know about which might improve it. That could add a > thousand voices to help .> > By helping others we help ourselves.> > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > >

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Marilyn;

So great to hear from you again and glad to know you have recovered. Get in and

see that

GI and let us know how things look,

Peggy Cordero

> >

> > To both and RIchard, and all of you too. It was so touching to read

your posts

and remember what I went through 30 years ago and like most of you, be diagnosed

with

acid reflux. I went through Procardia, Pepsid, - I can't even remember all of

the prescribed

medications I tried, and of course, they checked me as the " knew " I was having

heart

attacks. After all of this time, with NO help until about seven years ago when I

was truly

diagnosed with Achalasia after a major blockage, - I now have no pain, and no

surgery. I

know those of you that know me (Hi Sandy) know my story, but your posts really

touched

me. To spend so many years with NO ONE knowing or understanding what is going

on,

and suffering the pain,etc. as you all know, - we now have each other. I don't

write often,

but I read everything every day, and live it all with all of you. THank you for

beinig there,

not only for me, but all of the others who join us every day. Thank you again.

Marilyn in

Beverly Hills

> >

> > BREAKFAST WITH TRACY

> >

> > For those of you new to this board, I was diagnosed with Achalasis in

> > 1982. After numerous stretchings and dilitations had the open Heller

> > Myotomy 12/17/91 Despite my doctor calling my operation his first

> > failure, I have not had any " work " done on me since. While many come

> > to this board relatively new to this disease looking for help, I came

> > here looking to help.

> >

> >

> > I have met many courageous people here, but in all likelihood will

> > never meet any in person. However, in the world of 2006, you often

> > get to know people online better than people you see everyday in

> > the " real " world.

> >

> >

> > One of the people I have sought to know better is from upstate

> > NY. I'm from downstate, NY. She is 32 years old. To distinguish

> > people you see every day, you might say a person is the one with the

> > blonde hair, or the glasses, or overweight. On this board, is

> > the one with the mega-esophagus.

> >

> >

> > has had this disease over half her life, so at age 32 it has

> > been for at least 16 years. 16 years ago, there was no internet as

> > we know it to research and communicate amongst ourselves. 16 years

> > ago laparoscopic surgery was still in its infancy, having been

> > performed for the first time in 1987. 16 years ago, most doctors

> > had never heard of achalasia, and the ones that did rarely or never

> > saw a patient with this disorder. 16 years ago found herself

> > alone with this disease after first being accused of being bulemic!

> >

> >

> > I have been trying to coordinate with to talk with her in the

> > chat room. Wednesday night I failed again, but in response to my

> > attempt she sent me a rather lengthy email telling me about herself

> > and this disease. I read it over breakfastthe following morning,

> > thus " Breakfast with " is the subject of this post. (: I

> > was not " bored to tears " reading it. In fact, you left me wanting to

> > read more. I guess I took that long to finish eating breakfast!).

> >

> >

> > I am not writing to recount or summarize what she has written. Its

> > all on this board starting back in Sept 2005. My point in writing is

> > to pay tribute to a person who through no fault of her own finds

> > herself seeking medical help where they may not be any available.

> > Yes, she can have an esophagectomy (the removal of the esophagus),

> > but if it were that simple, it might have been performed already.

> > Heller myotomy is a piece of cake compared to an esophagectomy.

> > Perhaps she will find another alternative.

> >

> >

> > This board has provided all kinds of help and support to hundreds, if

> > not thousands of people with achalasia who would otherwise have been

> > alone. When I was first diagnosed, it was like I had arrived from

> > another planet, with biological attributes not common to any other

> > life form. Likewise with . With her own resources and the help

> > of others on this board she has been seeking the opinions of other

> > physicians and surgeons.

> >

> >

> > has neither complained, nor said " Why me? " and is not living in

> > the past regretting what was. She is going forward with her life,

> > while being the mother of two pre-school children, working full time,

> > and studying nursing. The lessons to be learned from are that

> > we must be in control of our own lives. We have to be our own

> > advocate. We cannot and must not let a doctor get away with giving

> > incomplete, unsatisfactory answers to questions that are vitally

> > important to us. We are human beings with a disease, not a disease

> > that happens to be in a human being.

> >

> >

> > The resources provided by this website are incredible and we owe a

> > debt of gratitude to those responsible for it. There are links to

> > numerous useful sights, the databases with vital information at our

> > fingertips, but most importantly the message boards here, with over

> > 31,000 posts representing people looking for help and others giving

> > of themselves. Asking for help is not enough. One must act upon it

> > too.

> >

> >

> > The more I read, the more I become aware of so many people here who

> > deserve so much credit for helping others to make an informed

> > decision. Many of us have entered this " online world " asking about

> > the Heller Myotomy, and once having it done, have generously shared

> > their experiences with the rest of us. We all know that it is the

> > surgeon's job to cut, and its sometimes difficult to escape the

> > feeling as to where their motivation lies. The help and

> > encouragement selflessly given here is heartwarming, and has enabled

> > Achalasians to make confident decisions as to what course of action

> > to take. The networking between patients and surgeons have created a

> > strong sense of community that has directed many of us to follow the

> > course of action that has been best for ourselves.

> >

> > When I " google " " mega-esophagus " or " megaesophagus " I find many more

> > references to dogs with that condition than people. No cures for the

> > canine either. While I don't know exactly where is in her

> > journey to decide a course of action, I believe that in making

> > doctors more aware of this disease, and her condition in particular,

> > (and others who have it), it may ultimately result in more research

> > being done and other, more desirable alternatives. I would suggest

> > to everyone reading this message that the next time you speak with

> > your GI doctor or surgeon, you ask the question what they know about

> > the mega-esophagus conditon, and if there is any research or

> > treatments they know about which might improve it. That could add a

> > thousand voices to help .

> >

> > By helping others we help ourselves.

> >

> >

> >

> >

> >

> >

> >

> >

> >

> >

> >

> >

> >

> >

> >

> >

> >

> >

> >

> >

> >

> >

> >

> >

> >

> >

> >

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-Good luck with the appointment Marilyn.

Thanks for your story. We are all so different but so much the same.

I couldn't have carbonated drinks before surgery it caused me so much

greif but tried it since surgery and can tolerate small quantities.

Some times I crave it.

-- In achalasia , mwatsonre@... wrote:

>

> Dear Ann, I suffered through the many years of pain, regurgitation,

no sleep, always running to the bathroom in a restaurant over and

over again. The weird thing is that I have for the past about five-

six years been drinking a sip of carbonation before every bite of

food. The doc suggested I do that " until " my surgery. As time

progressed, the pain subsided, and I was able to " manage " the

problem. I learned what NOT to eat, and mainly to not eat fast and

chew my food thoroughly. I learned that if I felt a blockage coming

on, I would raise both hands high over my head, and most times the

food would go down. I have suggested carbonation to many, but stopped

leaving posts, as Sandy can tell you, when I was chastised for

recommending it. The trick was a sip of carbonation, which triggers

the esphagus to open, thence the food would go down. I suffered

terribly the first ten years. The chest pains (heart attacks???) the

nerve spasms in my throat and roof of my mouth, etc. etc. Now, after

30 years, I can feel the cold and hot go down, and do not swallow

until I know things are moving. I do know I should have another

endoscopy, and called my personal physician re; that a few weeks

ago. I recently aspirated after an epidural and spend weeks in bed

with pneumonia. I have now recovered, and will proceed soon to seed

what is going on. Perhaps an upper GI would help me know. The last

time I had one, I frightened the doctor so much he came screaming in

and said, " don't swallow any more, it's not going down " . HaHa, I

knew it, but even he didn't realize what Achalasia does. I used to

post more often, but stopped when I realized that we are all so

different, and " what is good for the goose, is not always good for

the gander " . Good luck to you. When I know what has happened with

my runaway E, I will let you know. Regards, Marilyn in Beverly HIlls

>

>

> BREAKFAST WITH TRACY

> >

> > For those of you new to this board, I was diagnosed with

Achalasis in

> > 1982. After numerous stretchings and dilitations had the open

Heller

> > Myotomy 12/17/91 Despite my doctor calling my operation his first

> > failure, I have not had any " work " done on me since. While many

come

> > to this board relatively new to this disease looking for help, I

came

> > here looking to help.

> >

> >

> > I have met many courageous people here, but in all likelihood

will

> > never meet any in person. However, in the world of 2006, you

often

> > get to know people online better than people you see everyday in

> > the " real " world.

> >

> >

> > One of the people I have sought to know better is from

upstate

> > NY. I'm from downstate, NY. She is 32 years old. To distinguish

> > people you see every day, you might say a person is the one with

the

> > blonde hair, or the glasses, or overweight. On this board,

is

> > the one with the mega-esophagus.

> >

> >

> > has had this disease over half her life, so at age 32 it

has

> > been for at least 16 years. 16 years ago, there was no internet

as

> > we know it to research and communicate amongst ourselves. 16

years

> > ago laparoscopic surgery was still in its infancy, having been

> > performed for the first time in 1987. 16 years ago, most doctors

> > had never heard of achalasia, and the ones that did rarely or

never

> > saw a patient with this disorder. 16 years ago found

herself

> > alone with this disease after first being accused of being

bulemic!

> >

> >

> > I have been trying to coordinate with to talk with her in

the

> > chat room. Wednesday night I failed again, but in response to my

> > attempt she sent me a rather lengthy email telling me about

herself

> > and this disease. I read it over breakfastthe following morning,

> > thus " Breakfast with " is the subject of this post. (:

I

> > was not " bored to tears " reading it. In fact, you left me wanting

to

> > read more. I guess I took that long to finish eating breakfast!).

> >

> >

> > I am not writing to recount or summarize what she has written.

Its

> > all on this board starting back in Sept 2005. My point in writing

is

> > to pay tribute to a person who through no fault of her own finds

> > herself seeking medical help where they may not be any available.

> > Yes, she can have an esophagectomy (the removal of the

esophagus),

> > but if it were that simple, it might have been performed already.

> > Heller myotomy is a piece of cake compared to an esophagectomy.

> > Perhaps she will find another alternative.

> >

> >

> > This board has provided all kinds of help and support to

hundreds, if

> > not thousands of people with achalasia who would otherwise have

been

> > alone. When I was first diagnosed, it was like I had arrived from

> > another planet, with biological attributes not common to any

other

> > life form. Likewise with . With her own resources and the

help

> > of others on this board she has been seeking the opinions of

other

> > physicians and surgeons.

> >

> >

> > has neither complained, nor said " Why me? " and is not

living in

> > the past regretting what was. She is going forward with her life,

> > while being the mother of two pre-school children, working full

time,

> > and studying nursing. The lessons to be learned from are

that

> > we must be in control of our own lives. We have to be our own

> > advocate. We cannot and must not let a doctor get away with

giving

> > incomplete, unsatisfactory answers to questions that are vitally

> > important to us. We are human beings with a disease, not a

disease

> > that happens to be in a human being.

> >

> >

> > The resources provided by this website are incredible and we owe

a

> > debt of gratitude to those responsible for it. There are links to

> > numerous useful sights, the databases with vital information at

our

> > fingertips, but most importantly the message boards here, with

over

> > 31,000 posts representing people looking for help and others

giving

> > of themselves. Asking for help is not enough. One must act upon

it

> > too.

> >

> >

> > The more I read, the more I become aware of so many people here

who

> > deserve so much credit for helping others to make an informed

> > decision. Many of us have entered this " online world " asking

about

> > the Heller Myotomy, and once having it done, have generously

shared

> > their experiences with the rest of us. We all know that it is the

> > surgeon's job to cut, and its sometimes difficult to escape the

> > feeling as to where their motivation lies. The help and

> > encouragement selflessly given here is heartwarming, and has

enabled

> > Achalasians to make confident decisions as to what course of

action

> > to take. The networking between patients and surgeons have

created a

> > strong sense of community that has directed many of us to follow

the

> > course of action that has been best for ourselves.

> >

> > When I " google " " mega-esophagus " or " megaesophagus " I find many

more

> > references to dogs with that condition than people. No cures for

the

> > canine either. While I don't know exactly where is in her

> > journey to decide a course of action, I believe that in making

> > doctors more aware of this disease, and her condition in

particular,

> > (and others who have it), it may ultimately result in more

research

> > being done and other, more desirable alternatives. I would

suggest

> > to everyone reading this message that the next time you speak

with

> > your GI doctor or surgeon, you ask the question what they know

about

> > the mega-esophagus conditon, and if there is any research or

> > treatments they know about which might improve it. That could add

a

> > thousand voices to help .

> >

> > By helping others we help ourselves.

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