New here and need some advice

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First of all she understands what shes doing. You have to re-direct her. Or after she screams say are you mad at me or daddy tell me you are mad or upset. Kinda show her how to talk through her emotions. Or give her a pillow or stuffed animal to hit when she hits you say no hit them show her how to squeeze or hug her animal. It all depends on how much speech your daughter has and how much she understands, but to think she does not know could be a mistake your husband is right it will only get worse as she gets older

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She could be going into puberity. My JJ was up and down starting at age 12.

He just turned 17 and is doing a little better now. It could be sensory or a

cobo of both puberity/sensory. Lois (J's mom)

New Here and need some advice

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> I have a daughter who is going to be 12 this December 17, and she

> has been going to a public school since 3rd grade. But this is a

> small town school Not a big city where we were from (a suburb of

> L.A.) that did not have any clue of her condition, principal always

> falling a asleep in meetings! (shows you no care) Well we had to get

> her out of there, and we sold our property and left, never turning

> back! Its a lot better here!

> The advice I need is do any of your kids have a lot of anger at home?

> My daughter seems to always have an outburst with her dad, when he

> seems concern over what she wants. He jokes with her, plays games

> like stuff she likes, but she lets out a BIG screem and sometimes

> hits him! She sometimes does that to me, I try to just ignore her

> because they say they do not understand that what they are doing is

> bad. But my husband says we better start doing something now before

> she gets any older. What do you guys think about this, and what

> would you do?

> Thanks!

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Hi everyone,

I'm new here and I was diagnosed with achalasia a little over 3 years

ago, i went through a terrible pregnancy, right after my son was born I

had a botox shot which helped for about 4 months then I had the heller

myotomy (last april) and I thought I was cured.. but I'm starting to

get food stuck and today I threw up for the first time, it was very

hard and painful, and I could see some blood in there.

I'm very scared, Please! has this happened to any of you too?

Thanks in advance

Hilda

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Hello Hilda,Welcome to the Group. Don't panic darlin'. I think that what you are describing has happened to quite a few people. From what I have read, some people need a dilation a few months after surgery. You would think that having the surgery would be a permanent answer wouldn't you? But it doesn't seem to be like that.As for the blood, join the club! As long as it doesn't happen regularly the Doctors don't seem to be too concerned about it. I had some a couple of weeks ago and did exactly the same as you,panicked, straight onto email to talk to my friend . A couple of hours later I was feeling a lot calmer when I could be a bit more logical. Our oesophaguses (oesophagi ? - Oh blimey!) become quite vulnerable, misshapen, sore - you name it, they are it, and sometimes they complain.I assume you will be seeing you Doc quite soon so that he can arrange a check-up for you. Meanwhile try not to worry too much. Just have a chat to us lot if it is getting you down. There is a lot of caring in this Group.Lots of love from Ann in England (Where are you Hilda?) XXX>> Hi everyone, > I'm new here and I was diagnosed with achalasia a little over 3 years > ago, i went through a terrible pregnancy, right after my son was born I > had a botox shot which helped for about 4 months then I had the heller > myotomy (last april) and I thought I was cured.. but I'm starting to > get food stuck and today I threw up for the first time, it was very > hard and painful, and I could see some blood in there.> I'm very scared, Please! has this happened to any of you too?> Thanks in advance> Hilda>

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Hilda wrote:

....I could see some blood in there. ...

Not something all of us do, but it has been a topic here at times.

It may be worth calling your doctor, because you never know, but it is

generally not a big deal. However, if you don't feel right or have

tarry stools you should call sooner than later.

One of the problems with achalasia is that symptoms and problems that

it causes can be caused by other diseases also. It can be good to check

some of these out to make sure we don't have another problem also

causing those symptoms. I was recently checked by a cardiologist to

make sure none of my pains were heart related, even though they seemed

consistent with pains achalasia could cause. All turned out fine.

notan

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Ann you cannot roller skate? Well I will have to teach you then. How about Ice skating? Or even Snow skiing?

in Suffolk

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lol... Just think of what he would say if you drank coffee in front of him. I think you could do some more ice skating. That way you could have a nice cup of warm tea when your done....lol

in Suffolk

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Have you visited England? Where did you go? Try not to let things get you down. It seems to be one of those disorders that will always have it's ups and downs, and whichever you are going through at the time, certainly affects your mood, because eating is such a fundamental part of life, not like not being able to roller-skate (I can't do that either)Just make the decision to get things sorted out as soon as you are able and take things from there. It's best if we don't rest on our laurels with this because we can never take things for granted. But there is almost always a way of dealing with the problems. Keep posting Hilda, and have a good moan if you like.Sending you a big Hug,With love from Ann > >> > Hi everyone, > > I'm new here and I was diagnosed with achalasia a little over 3 years > > ago, i went through a terrible pregnancy, right after my son was born I > > had a botox shot which helped for about 4 months then I had the heller > > myotomy (last april) and I thought I was cured.. but I'm starting to > > get food stuck and today I threw up for the first time, it was very > > hard and painful, and I could see some blood in there.> > I'm very scared, Please! has this happened to any of you too?> > Thanks in advance> > Hilda> >> > > >

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Hi ,Did roller-skating when I was about 7, Ice-skating when I was 17 (great place to meet boyfriends. I was very good at accidentally falling over and having to be picked up my some young Hunk), never been ski-ing and anyway am getting a bit old for all 3 ( And if you don't agree with that you ask your little son, he thinks I'm a Dinosaur, and that's only cos I drink Tea) !!!!>> Ann you cannot roller skate? Well I will have to teach you then. How about > Ice skating? Or even Snow skiing? > > in Suffolk>