What's up?

[Guest guest]

Sue, I am so pleasantly surprised to hear from you. Always thought that I was of the least interest in this group.

I follow your posts very closely and you amaze me with each and everyone.

Your wisdom is beyond words.

I am regrouping this four day weekend finally off.

BTW, I just treated a patient with Transverse Myelitis with possible underlying Lupus or LYME !!!

She is originally from Sweden, recalls lots of tick bites 20 years ago, managed somehow just to get by about to feel strongest overall, when suddenly finds herself paralyzed from the nippleline down, Thoracic vertebrae shows the confirming spots on MRI, she is well versed in Lyme, however, more amazed by my knowledge off recent discovery of current protocols,thanks to this group, we exchanged emails and see what happens, Withheld my own story of birdmite or whatever is ailing me. I am getting worse internally, however, as I said, I will revise my battle plan on all levels as soon as I get time out.

Your advise and gentle sharing in so many ways, including the 'vibration' theory is of enormous wealth to me and instills tremendous courage and hope in me. Helps me out of my despair modes and refusing to live this life of a leper and looser of possesion and health.

Thank you, Sue.

Marguerite

From: Sue <sue@...>Subject: What's up?bird mites Date: Tuesday, November 18, 2008, 5:26 PM

Hi, Marguerite! Haven't heard from you lately & wondering how you are...think of you often. Best wishes, Sue

[Guest guest]

Dear Marguerite, you give me way too much credit & yourself way too

little. So admire your spirit & your fortitude in adversity! That you

just keep wading through the mitemare & give so much of yourself in

caring for others, like this latest example of your Swedish lady,

inspires & uplifts me. The deeply personal introspections you've

shared likewise earned my sincere respect & affection. Chuckle every

time I recall your " elevator incident " with the sharp-looking fellow

mismatched to your exterior projection. You're a rare lady to

recognize the irony & be willing to share a shrugging laugh at

yourself.

The way you sleuthed out the culprits' inroads at your dream digs &

tracked down your current abode in your determined mode demonstrates

your steady reasoning & strength of character - as do all your posts.

Have dearly missed your insights, smarts & wit - your unique " vibe " -

Miss M...you are a " gentle bay breeze " ...chime in! Best wishes, Sue

From: Sue <sue@...>

Subject: What's up?

bird mites

Date: Tuesday, November 18, 2008, 5:26 PM

Hi, Marguerite! Haven't heard from you lately & wondering how you

are...think of you often. Best wishes, Sue

[Guest guest]

Thank you very much, Sue.

I feel encouraged again. Now, all I need is some time off to focus on this mite matter.

I will post a detailed status report soon, so people can help me in more specific ways. I do need help.

What a contrast this group represents in comparison to the mainstream professionals I now so thread even to approach for help in fear of rejection, AGAIN or in fear of ridicule or mis-diagnosis. I do have a parasitosis of the non-dilutional kind. A year ago, someone telling me such a story, I may have raised a brow or two myself, yeap.

I will be back this weekend in full force for cleaning internally, environmentally, may take a moment of relaxing and checking in for some healing moments with all you angels in this group,

thank you

M

From: Sue <sue@...>Subject: Re: What's up?bird mites Date: Wednesday, November 19, 2008, 8:49 AM

Dear Marguerite, you give me way too much credit & yourself way too little. So admire your spirit & your fortitude in adversity! That you just keep wading through the mitemare & give so much of yourself in caring for others, like this latest example of your Swedish lady, inspires & uplifts me. The deeply personal introspections you've shared likewise earned my sincere respect & affection. Chuckle every time I recall your "elevator incident" with the sharp-looking fellow mismatched to your exterior projection. You're a rare lady to recognize the irony & be willing to share a shrugging laugh at yourself.The way you sleuthed out the culprits' inroads at your dream digs & tracked down your current abode in your determined mode demonstrates your steady reasoning & strength of character - as do all your posts.Have dearly missed your insights, smarts & wit -

your unique "vibe" - Miss M...you are a "gentle bay breeze"...chime in! Best wishes, SueFrom: Sue <sue@...>Subject: What's up?bird mitesDate: Tuesday, November

18, 2008, 5:26 PMHi, Marguerite! Haven't heard from you lately & wondering how you are...think of you often. Best wishes, Sue

[Guest guest]

So good to hear from you again, Marguerite. Interesting how this

deepens our capacity for listening & compassion, isn't it? That old &

true " walk a mile in my shoes " ...

The mitemare is isolating in itself. Stay close! Best wishes, Sue

From: Sue <sue@...>

Subject: What's up?

bird mites

Date: Tuesday, November 18, 2008, 5:26 PM

Hi, Marguerite! Haven't heard from you lately & wondering how you

are...think of you often. Best wishes, Sue

[Guest guest]

I had heard this group has times when it is silent. I guess this is one of them.

I hope that means everyone is well and doing fine, but I know that is most

likely not true. How is everyone doing, not only health wise but economically,

socially, house wise, all of it?

I propose each of us post a message saying what are the 5 biggest worries or

problems we are having. Who knows just maybe one of our Poz buddies in this

group may have a solution to one or more of our problems.

[Guest guest]

How do I tell a new boyfriend that I'm HIV POZ? I want to tell him before is too

late or I just dump him without telling what's going on. Doug my worry is the

shape of my body which was altered by ARV. Is it possible to get back fats on my

thighs and bums. Atleast I can keep on with big breasts and belly.

Sent from my BlackBerry® wireless device

What's up?

I had heard this group has times when it is silent. I guess this is one of them.

I hope that means everyone is well and doing fine, but I know that is most

likely not true. How is everyone doing, not only health wise but economically,

socially, house wise, all of it?

I propose each of us post a message saying what are the 5 biggest worries or

problems we are having. Who knows just maybe one of our Poz buddies in this

group may have a solution to one or more of our problems.

[Guest guest]

Hi Nokusa,

I do not know if you can get back fat on your thighs, but I know you can build

them up. My body has changed shape from Haart. For a while I was going to a gym

that had excellent equipment. One of the things they had was a squat machine.

When I do squats I always get light headed from standing up so fast. This

machine had a U shaped bar I could stand in the U shape and hold onto the sides

of it. The bar sides rested on my shoulders so when I stood up my shoulders

raised the bar while I hung on. This was the best, when combined with thigh

squeezes and thigh pushes done on a leg machine, my legs were filling out

nicely. Six months after starting the workouts I had sex with a friend of mine

who said he noticed my thighs and ass had firmed up more than my chest and arms.

You might want to try it.

I wrestle with the same social problems as you have. I am supposed to go to my

homecoming this fall. All my former friends from school will be there. I am

thinking of not going because I don't know how to tell them I am disabled and

not working. I know they'll ask why and I don't know what to tell them. Many of

them are homophobic so I do not want to get into the HIV thing. Tact is not one

of my virtues, as the guys here know, I probably would just come out and tell my

boyfriend. He has a right to know, especially if you are going to have anal sex.

Hopefully he is committed enough to stay with you through thick and thin. I

would start out by saying some introduction like " you know I love you and what I

have to tell you might be one of the biggest tests of our love. I hope you love

me enough to stay with me. " You need not dump him without an explanation. In

fact it is not fair to him if you just dump him. Give him the chance to stay

with you. He might be more of a man, and more caring of you than you think.

What's up?

I had heard this group has times when it is silent. I guess this is one of

them. I hope that means everyone is well and doing fine, but I know that is most

likely not true. How is everyone doing, not only health wise but economically,

socially, house wise, all of it?

I propose each of us post a message saying what are the 5 biggest worries or

problems we are having. Who knows just maybe one of our Poz buddies in this

group may have a solution to one or more of our problems.

[Guest guest]

Don,

You have helped me more than once. I know I can depend on you when I have issues

that I need help with. I am going to post my list of 5 concerns and problems.

Are you going to list your 5? I hope each of us lists 5 so we can help

eachother.

What's up?

I had heard this group has times when it is silent. I guess this is one of

them. I hope that means everyone is well and doing fine, but I know that is most

likely not true. How is everyone doing, not only health wise but economically,

socially, house wise, all of it?

I propose each of us post a message saying what are the 5 biggest worries or

problems we are having. Who knows just maybe one of our Poz buddies in this

group may have a solution to one or more of our problems.

[Guest guest]

Nokusa,

I couldn't remember the name of the leg machine I used for squeezes and thigh

pushes. It was Nautilus, Like Capt. Nemo's Submarine. Those 3 exercises together

had my thighs and ass bulking up nicely, so much so my friend noticed and

commented about it. Let me know how it works for you.

What's up?

I had heard this group has times when it is silent. I guess this is one of

them. I hope that means everyone is well and doing fine, but I know that is most

likely not true. How is everyone doing, not only health wise but economically,

socially, house wise, all of it?

I propose each of us post a message saying what are the 5 biggest worries or

problems we are having. Who knows just maybe one of our Poz buddies in this

group may have a solution to one or more of our problems.

[Guest guest]

DOUG MAN

Thank you about the info but I have never heard of those machine I'll try to

find them. Someone told me about Naturone, its a cream that I need to put on my

soft tissues especially thighs and bums. I'll buy it and see how it works.

Sent from my BlackBerry® wireless device

Re: What's up?

Nokusa,

I couldn't remember the name of the leg machine I used for squeezes and thigh

pushes. It was Nautilus, Like Capt. Nemo's Submarine. Those 3 exercises together

had my thighs and ass bulking up nicely, so much so my friend noticed and

commented about it. Let me know how it works for you.

What's up?

I had heard this group has times when it is silent. I guess this is one of

them. I hope that means everyone is well and doing fine, but I know that is most

likely not true. How is everyone doing, not only health wise but economically,

socially, house wise, all of it?

I propose each of us post a message saying what are the 5 biggest worries or

problems we are having. Who knows just maybe one of our Poz buddies in this

group may have a solution to one or more of our problems.

[Guest guest]

You can try the cream, but don't expect any results at all. It would be better

if you used the cream to jerk off with. If you believe otherwise, I know of a

bridge in Brooklyn, New York you can buy.

Any squat machine and thigh squeeze and pull machine will do. I told you about

Nautilus machines because that is what I used. It was popular back then. These

exercise machines come and go in fads. What you want is the motion, not so much

the name on the machine.

What's up?

I had heard this group has times when it is silent. I guess this is one of

them. I hope that means everyone is well and doing fine, but I know that is most

likely not true. How is everyone doing, not only health wise but economically,

socially, house wise, all of it?

I propose each of us post a message saying what are the 5 biggest worries or

problems we are having. Who knows just maybe one of our Poz buddies in this

group may have a solution to one or more of our problems.

[Guest guest]

Doug, personally I wouldn't go to the homecoming.  I just don't think it will

be mentally healthy for you.  I know it wouldn't be for me.  People can be

very judgemental and cruel and why have to deal with that if you don't have to?

In regards to Nokusa, I don't think it will be a " test " of their love and she

tells him and see how he responds.  My thing is this:  You should never get

involved with anyone and allow them to fall in love with you if you already know

you're positive.  People should have the choice in the beginning on whether

they want to fall in love with someone who has HIV.  You really have to place

yourselves in other's shoes and understand that this is a big deal to most

people.  The key is to not let it EVER get that far and just be blunt from the

beginning.  That will save you the headache and heartache later on and will

also allow the other person the fair opportunity to decide what he/she wants

right away.

It reminds me of Jerry Springer episodes where transexuals and lesbians would

lie to their partners and make them think they were something they weren't only

to later come on the Jerry Springer show and say " hey, I'm really a man " or " I'm

really a woman, " and then they are shocked when their love interest goes crazy

on them.  The fact is, we have to be honest from the beginning and not mislead

people.  They will have more respect for us if we're just honest from the

start.  Who knows, you may run across someone who will love and accept you as

you are.  Just don't wait til feelings are involved and then try to " test " the

love.  I don't think that's fair at all.  Good luck!

Randall

________________________________

From: DOUG MAN <dougman1@...>

cures for AIDS

Sent: Wednesday, June 15, 2011 8:59 PM

Subject: Re: What's up?

 

Hi Nokusa,

I do not know if you can get back fat on your thighs, but I know you can build

them up. My body has changed shape from Haart. For a while I was going to a gym

that had excellent equipment. One of the things they had was a squat machine.

When I do squats I always get light headed from standing up so fast. This

machine had a U shaped bar I could stand in the U shape and hold onto the sides

of it. The bar sides rested on my shoulders so when I stood up my shoulders

raised the bar while I hung on. This was the best, when combined with thigh

squeezes and thigh pushes done on a leg machine, my legs were filling out

nicely. Six months after starting the workouts I had sex with a friend of mine

who said he noticed my thighs and ass had firmed up more than my chest and arms.

You might want to try it.

I wrestle with the same social problems as you have. I am supposed to go to my

homecoming this fall. All my former friends from school will be there. I am

thinking of not going because I don't know how to tell them I am disabled and

not working. I know they'll ask why and I don't know what to tell them. Many of

them are homophobic so I do not want to get into the HIV thing. Tact is not one

of my virtues, as the guys here know, I probably would just come out and tell my

boyfriend. He has a right to know, especially if you are going to have anal sex.

Hopefully he is committed enough to stay with you through thick and thin. I

would start out by saying some introduction like " you know I love you and what I

have to tell you might be one of the biggest tests of our love. I hope you love

me enough to stay with me. " You need not dump him without an explanation. In

fact it is not fair to him if you just dump him. Give him the chance to stay

with you. He might be

more of a man, and more caring of you than you think.

What's up?

I had heard this group has times when it is silent. I guess this is one of them.

I hope that means everyone is well and doing fine, but I know that is most

likely not true. How is everyone doing, not only health wise but economically,

socially, house wise, all of it?

I propose each of us post a message saying what are the 5 biggest worries or

problems we are having. Who knows just maybe one of our Poz buddies in this

group may have a solution to one or more of our problems.

[Guest guest]

Nanyo,I don't think is fair for people who are hiv positive to just disclose

their status to anyone who happened to have interest in them. I have not gone

far with this guy but I feel I should tell him because of the feeling I have for

him. I cannot just meet a guy and disclose my status, I have to see first if he

is serious about me or I am serious about him before I can tell him. I think

that's fair for both of us.

I cannot just meet a guy and say hello! Before you make move on me I should tell

you that I am hiv positive. What if I won't like him anyway and I just told him

of my secret. Yes, I won't get involve with him until I disclose my status

because I find out that I love him. Going around and tell everyone who greet me

that I am hiv positive, I won't do that.

I will tell him even if its after a year. I did not apply to have hiv nor did I

invent it.

Sent from my BlackBerry® wireless device

Re: What's up?

 

Hi Nokusa,

I do not know if you can get back fat on your thighs, but I know you can build

them up. My body has changed shape from Haart. For a while I was going to a gym

that had excellent equipment. One of the things they had was a squat machine.

When I do squats I always get light headed from standing up so fast. This

machine had a U shaped bar I could stand in the U shape and hold onto the sides

of it. The bar sides rested on my shoulders so when I stood up my shoulders

raised the bar while I hung on. This was the best, when combined with thigh

squeezes and thigh pushes done on a leg machine, my legs were filling out

nicely. Six months after starting the workouts I had sex with a friend of mine

who said he noticed my thighs and ass had firmed up more than my chest and arms.

You might want to try it.

I wrestle with the same social problems as you have. I am supposed to go to my

homecoming this fall. All my former friends from school will be there. I am

thinking of not going because I don't know how to tell them I am disabled and

not working. I know they'll ask why and I don't know what to tell them. Many of

them are homophobic so I do not want to get into the HIV thing. Tact is not one

of my virtues, as the guys here know, I probably would just come out and tell my

boyfriend. He has a right to know, especially if you are going to have anal sex.

Hopefully he is committed enough to stay with you through thick and thin. I

would start out by saying some introduction like " you know I love you and what I

have to tell you might be one of the biggest tests of our love. I hope you love

me enough to stay with me. " You need not dump him without an explanation. In

fact it is not fair to him if you just dump him. Give him the chance to stay

with you. He might be

more of a man, and more caring of you than you think.

What's up?

I had heard this group has times when it is silent. I guess this is one of them.

I hope that means everyone is well and doing fine, but I know that is most

likely not true. How is everyone doing, not only health wise but economically,

socially, house wise, all of it?

I propose each of us post a message saying what are the 5 biggest worries or

problems we are having. Who knows just maybe one of our Poz buddies in this

group may have a solution to one or more of our problems.

[Guest guest]

I understand where you're coming from.  Opinions are like a**holes, we all have

one right?  I was just sharing my feelings but you have to do what you feel is

right in your own heart.  I do clearly comprehend your reasons for going about

it the way you are.  I wish you the best and hopefully he will be an

understanding guy who will give you the human respect you deserve.  I have a

feeling things are going to work out for you and for your highest good.  Best

wishes!

Randall

________________________________

From: nokusa ivy xhantini <nxhantini@...>

cures for AIDS

Sent: Sunday, June 19, 2011 2:11 PM

Subject: Re: What's up?

 

Nanyo,I don't think is fair for people who are hiv positive to just disclose

their status to anyone who happened to have interest in them. I have not gone

far with this guy but I feel I should tell him because of the feeling I have for

him. I cannot just meet a guy and disclose my status, I have to see first if he

is serious about me or I am serious about him before I can tell him. I think

that's fair for both of us.

I cannot just meet a guy and say hello! Before you make move on me I should tell

you that I am hiv positive. What if I won't like him anyway and I just told him

of my secret. Yes, I won't get involve with him until I disclose my status

because I find out that I love him. Going around and tell everyone who greet me

that I am hiv positive, I won't do that.

I will tell him even if its after a year. I did not apply to have hiv nor did I

invent it.

Sent from my BlackBerry® wireless device

Re: What's up?

 

Hi Nokusa,

I do not know if you can get back fat on your thighs, but I know you can build

them up. My body has changed shape from Haart. For a while I was going to a gym

that had excellent equipment. One of the things they had was a squat machine.

When I do squats I always get light headed from standing up so fast. This

machine had a U shaped bar I could stand in the U shape and hold onto the sides

of it. The bar sides rested on my shoulders so when I stood up my shoulders

raised the bar while I hung on. This was the best, when combined with thigh

squeezes and thigh pushes done on a leg machine, my legs were filling out

nicely. Six months after starting the workouts I had sex with a friend of mine

who said he noticed my thighs and ass had firmed up more than my chest and arms.

You might want to try it.

I wrestle with the same social problems as you have. I am supposed to go to my

homecoming this fall. All my former friends from school will be there. I am

thinking of not going because I don't know how to tell them I am disabled and

not working. I know they'll ask why and I don't know what to tell them. Many of

them are homophobic so I do not want to get into the HIV thing. Tact is not one

of my virtues, as the guys here know, I probably would just come out and tell my

boyfriend. He has a right to know, especially if you are going to have anal sex.

Hopefully he is committed enough to stay with you through thick and thin. I

would start out by saying some introduction like " you know I love you and what I

have to tell you might be one of the biggest tests of our love. I hope you love

me enough to stay with me. " You need not dump him without an explanation. In

fact it is not fair to him if you just dump him. Give him the chance to stay

with you. He might be

more of a man, and more caring of you than you think.

What's up?

I had heard this group has times when it is silent. I guess this is one of them.

I hope that means everyone is well and doing fine, but I know that is most

likely not true. How is everyone doing, not only health wise but economically,

socially, house wise, all of it?

I propose each of us post a message saying what are the 5 biggest worries or

problems we are having. Who knows just maybe one of our Poz buddies in this

group may have a solution to one or more of our problems.

[Guest guest]

Hi Nokusa,

Randall is right that we each have an option. If you are serious about this

boyfriend and intend to stay with him long haul, these are your options. 1) you

can not tell him now about your status and sooner or later he'll find out. You

will have to deal with it then plus the fact that you did not tell him when you

should have. 2) You could tell him now, not live a lie with him, and look good

in his eyes even if does not stay with you. In option 1 he will be more likely

to leave you because you failed to be honest and open with him. I would choose

option 2 because, like you, I feel he has a right to know and if you want this

relationship to work out and last honesty is essential. For me it is not when I

tell him, it is how am I going to tell him. What words will I say.

What's up?

I had heard this group has times when it is silent. I guess this is one of

them. I hope that means everyone is well and doing fine, but I know that is most

likely not true. How is everyone doing, not only health wise but economically,

socially, house wise, all of it?

I propose each of us post a message saying what are the 5 biggest worries or

problems we are having. Who knows just maybe one of our Poz buddies in this

group may have a solution to one or more of our problems.

[Guest guest]

Nokusa, you should look into the 10 year study that was made where they had 100

couple, one HIV+ the other HIV- and the HIV- people never became HIV+.  HIV is

much hard to transmit than you think.

From: nokusa ivy xhantini <nxhantini@...>

Subject: Re: What's up?

cures for AIDS

Date: Sunday, June 19, 2011, 1:11 PM

 

Nanyo,I don't think is fair for people who are hiv positive to just

disclose their status to anyone who happened to have interest in them. I have

not gone far with this guy but I feel I should tell him because of the feeling I

have for him. I cannot just meet a guy and disclose my status, I have to see

first if he is serious about me or I am serious about him before I can tell him.

I think that's fair for both of us.

I cannot just meet a guy and say hello! Before you make move on me I should tell

you that I am hiv positive. What if I won't like him anyway and I just told him

of my secret. Yes, I won't get involve with him until I disclose my status

because I find out that I love him. Going around and tell everyone who greet me

that I am hiv positive, I won't do that.

I will tell him even if its after a year. I did not apply to have hiv nor did I

invent it.

Sent from my BlackBerry® wireless device

Re: What's up?

 

Hi Nokusa,

I do not know if you can get back fat on your thighs, but I know you can build

them up. My body has changed shape from Haart. For a while I was going to a gym

that had excellent equipment. One of the things they had was a squat machine.

When I do squats I always get light headed from standing up so fast. This

machine had a U shaped bar I could stand in the U shape and hold onto the sides

of it. The bar sides rested on my shoulders so when I stood up my shoulders

raised the bar while I hung on. This was the best, when combined with thigh

squeezes and thigh pushes done on a leg machine, my legs were filling out

nicely. Six months after starting the workouts I had sex with a friend of mine

who said he noticed my thighs and ass had firmed up more than my chest and arms.

You might want to try it.

I wrestle with the same social problems as you have. I am supposed to go to my

homecoming this fall. All my former friends from school will be there. I am

thinking of not going because I don't know how to tell them I am disabled and

not working. I know they'll ask why and I don't know what to tell them. Many of

them are homophobic so I do not want to get into the HIV thing. Tact is not one

of my virtues, as the guys here know, I probably would just come out and tell my

boyfriend. He has a right to know, especially if you are going to have anal sex.

Hopefully he is committed enough to stay with you through thick and thin. I

would start out by saying some introduction like " you know I love you and what I

have to tell you might be one of the biggest tests of our love. I hope you love

me enough to stay with me. " You need not dump him without an explanation. In

fact it is not fair to him if you just dump him. Give him the chance to stay

with you. He might be

more of a man, and more caring of you than you think.

What's up?

I had heard this group has times when it is silent. I guess this is one of them.

I hope that means everyone is well and doing fine, but I know that is most

likely not true. How is everyone doing, not only health wise but economically,

socially, house wise, all of it?

I propose each of us post a message saying what are the 5 biggest worries or

problems we are having. Who knows just maybe one of our Poz buddies in this

group may have a solution to one or more of our problems.

[Guest guest]

Yes Nokusa , I lived. Whit my ex more then 6 years and she stay HIV - so don't

worry please...

Regards

Sent from my BlackBerry® smartphone from du

Re: What's up?

 

Hi Nokusa,

I do not know if you can get back fat on your thighs, but I know you can build

them up. My body has changed shape from Haart. For a while I was going to a gym

that had excellent equipment. One of the things they had was a squat machine.

When I do squats I always get light headed from standing up so fast. This

machine had a U shaped bar I could stand in the U shape and hold onto the sides

of it. The bar sides rested on my shoulders so when I stood up my shoulders

raised the bar while I hung on. This was the best, when combined with thigh

squeezes and thigh pushes done on a leg machine, my legs were filling out

nicely. Six months after starting the workouts I had sex with a friend of mine

who said he noticed my thighs and ass had firmed up more than my chest and arms.

You might want to try it.

I wrestle with the same social problems as you have. I am supposed to go to my

homecoming this fall. All my former friends from school will be there. I am

thinking of not going because I don't know how to tell them I am disabled and

not working. I know they'll ask why and I don't know what to tell them. Many of

them are homophobic so I do not want to get into the HIV thing. Tact is not one

of my virtues, as the guys here know, I probably would just come out and tell my

boyfriend. He has a right to know, especially if you are going to have anal sex.

Hopefully he is committed enough to stay with you through thick and thin. I

would start out by saying some introduction like " you know I love you and what I

have to tell you might be one of the biggest tests of our love. I hope you love

me enough to stay with me. " You need not dump him without an explanation. In

fact it is not fair to him if you just dump him. Give him the chance to stay

with you. He might be

more of a man, and more caring of you than you think.

What's up?

I had heard this group has times when it is silent. I guess this is one of them.

I hope that means everyone is well and doing fine, but I know that is most

likely not true. How is everyone doing, not only health wise but economically,

socially, house wise, all of it?

I propose each of us post a message saying what are the 5 biggest worries or

problems we are having. Who knows just maybe one of our Poz buddies in this

group may have a solution to one or more of our problems.