Guest guest Posted July 24, 2000 Report Share Posted July 24, 2000 In a message dated 07/24/2000 9:22:03 AM Eastern Daylight Time, nabirch@... writes: << they probably won't let me talk to satisfied clients as there are strict privacy laws over here. >> HI , Perhaps the doctors' office would contact a couple of patients and ask their permission to give you their phone numbers, or ask the patients to contact you directly. The amount of time in the hospital and in rehab does sound excessive by American standards, but you know the old saying, " When in Rome.... Besides, the first several weeks at home are difficult; perhaps the longer rehab stay will be worthwile. I think they discharge us from hospitals here far too early. Good luck with your appointment! Bonnie Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted July 24, 2000 Report Share Posted July 24, 2000 I think Clelia went through a similar amount of time in hospital and rehab following revision surgery in Germany. She told me yesterday she was going to subscribe here as well. Perhaps when she comes on line you could ask her. Or if you would like her e-mail address I can send it to you. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted November 26, 2000 Report Share Posted November 26, 2000 Hi, : Good question! (No, seriously...). Just off the top of my head, here are some things you might want to discuss: * for this procedure, what are the pros? the cons? * how many of these procedures have you performed? * can I speak to your former patients? * how will the peristalsis be affected? will it improve? no change? * how long after the procedure before I see changes in eating abilities? * what kinds of changes should I expect? what degree of improvement? * what symptoms would indicate a problem? * under what conditions should I not hesitate to contact you? * is the surgery a one-time-only procedure? if it is unsuccessful, what is my next step? * what will the pre-op preparation consist of? * how long does the surgery take to perform? * how many incisions will I have? where located? stitches to be removed? scarring? * how long will I be hospitalized? * what will my diet be like post-operatively? for how long? * what will be my post-operative limitations? * what kind of care should I require at home? * how long before returning to normal activities? * what kind of activities should I avoid post-operatively? for how long? * what will my post-op pain control be in hospital? at home? * what kind of post-op testing or check-ups will you require? when? , I'm sure there are others you'll want to ask but maybe this will give you something to go on. Good luck! Carol questions to ask > Hey everyone, > I know that many of you have had lyproscopic surgery in the past. > Could you give me a little assistance? What questions did you feel > were important? What questions do you wish you had asked before you > had surgery, but didn't? Please help me if you can. > > > > > > > > ____________NetZero Free Internet Access and Email_________ Download Now http://www.netzero.net/download/index.html Request a CDROM 1-800-333-3633 ___________________________________________________________ Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted November 29, 2000 Report Share Posted November 29, 2000 Dear , Have just read Carol's suggested questions(!) for you to ask your doc, . She's spot on and very thorough - I'm sure I couldn't have done anywhere near as well. She's a gem. Just wondered if you would consider sharing your doctor's replies with this group, and your post op experiences ? - it would be really helpful for others facing a similar decision regarding surgery. I wish you the very best of hospital experiences and a successful surgery - your youth is in your favour with regard to speedy healing! Regards, Jeanne. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted November 30, 2000 Report Share Posted November 30, 2000 Jeanne, I would be happy to share my information that I receive with the group. I will do my best to remember all of the important answers I received. I have my visit with my surgeon today, so wish me luck! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted May 19, 2004 Report Share Posted May 19, 2004 > Tomorrow I go to the Doctor to discuss the surgery on my neck. Does anyone > have something I should ask specifically? I want to gather as much info and > ask as much as I can tomorrow. I still may not decide at that point for I > want to get a second opinion too. > > Thanks, Joy > Joy - Q: Doc, if this was *your* neck, what would *you* do? joe Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted May 20, 2004 Report Share Posted May 20, 2004 In a message dated 5/19/2004 11:57:57 PM Eastern Standard Time, maxwellj@... writes: Q: Doc, if this was *your* neck, what would *you* do? joe Thanks Joe. That is a true statement that is for sure. I know back in Nov after that auto accident, only one disc was bulging and the DR told me if it was his neck he leave it alone. It wasn't until the March 2nd accident that the one DR said I needed to and then referred me to this other doctor that does this kind of surgery. I had a hard time sleeping last night worrying about this. Joy Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted May 20, 2004 Report Share Posted May 20, 2004 Success rate? Expected recovery time? How to prepare home and others for special needs while in recovery? How he feels about a second opinion? (if he is uncomfortable about it, definitely get one) Viv in GA Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted February 2, 2005 Report Share Posted February 2, 2005 You might get some ideas for questions from this list. http://hipuniverse.homestead.com/files/docques.htm > On February 15th I will be going in for my second opinion. > > I am looking for questions that you suggest I ask... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted February 2, 2005 Report Share Posted February 2, 2005 Hi Cheryl, I was diagnosed with AVN in October of 2003. I delayed surgery on my left hip -- partly for legitimate reasons -- I needed to modify my insurance, but also because I was frightened. Like most of the users in this group, I was very happy after the surgery (October 2004) and wished I hadn't waited so long. In December, my right hip began to go -- I'd been warned that the MRIs showed that the right hip was worse than the left -- but that hip didn't hurt, so I had surgery on the left. I am now desperate to have surgery on the right hip. It hurts all the way down my leg to my ankle. The pain is sometimes so great, I nearly break into tears. Unfortunately, my surgeon is so in demand that he is now taking appointments for December. He doesn't use the minimally invasive procedure -- on me he used an anterior approach with the Stryker ceramic-on-ceramic implant. That seems to be somewhat standard for active people in their 50s. My recovery was pretty swift -- home in 2 days and walking down the street in 2 weeks. You didn't say much about your age or activity levels, but it sounds like the pain is taking over your life. I'm 52 and was used to working out daily. I also hate to pull myself up the stairs by the handrail and waking up every two to three hours each night. I'm not sure why your husband wants you to postpone surgery, but you should be the one to decide. Your recovery -- and the ability to do all the things you've always done together will start afterwards. Only you can decide when that should take place -- along with your doctor and physical / occupational therapists. Best of luck, Carol cheryl schlegel <schlegel@...> wrote: On February 15th I will be going in for my second opinion. I am looking for questions that you suggest I ask? (That way I won’t forget something.) This doctor was found as one of 5 who utilizes the minimally invasive technique in my metro area. He only does hips. I am not worried anymore about a minimally invasive technique, only success and lack of pain. My hip has gone down hill rapidly since September when I first found out that I needed a THR. ( Bone on bone – no possibility of resurfacing.) The first doctor put me on Bextra, but that really no longer holds off the pain. As I walk, sometimes, you can hear the joint grind. Guess that’s the word. From reading your posts, I find many of my fears quelled. However, I have not had any major surgery at all. Although I am quite tough (about pain), I am not looking forward to this AT ALL. Many times, nocturnal sleep is difficult. I can’t sleep on the ‘bad’ side at all. As I am a teacher, going up and down stairs has become difficult. You should see me pull myself up on the railing! J When I can I use the elevator. I am thinking of finding a cane. This would really be a “HOOT” for my 8th graders. My husband would like for me to put this off until next Jan. I am worried about the muscles and the heart. As it hurts to walk, I am not getting the cardio that I used to do. Finding a heated pool to exercise in would be a blessing. The local classes are during the day, when I work. My husband and I are (were) quite active – water skiing, kayaking, boating, bicycling, and snow skiing. As a teacher, I am looking forward to summer already. Maybe I’ll do this surgery over the spring break. I don’t want to ‘whine’, but it seems that pain does strange things to you! If any one has suggestions about questions to ask the surgeon, I welcome their input. Thanks so much! Cheryl in Missouri Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted February 2, 2005 Report Share Posted February 2, 2005 Cheryl: I am interested in what part of Missouri you live, and who is the doctor whom you chose? I am in Mexico, MO, northeast of Columbia. Marilyn cheryl schlegel wrote: On February 15th I will be going in for my second opinion. I am looking for questions that you suggest I ask? (That way I won’t forget something.) This doctor was found as one of 5 who utilizes the minimally invasive technique in my metro area. He only does hips. I am not worried anymore about a minimally invasive technique, only success and lack of pain. My hip has gone down hill rapidly since September when I first found out that I needed a THR. ( Bone on bone – no possibility of resurfacing.) The first doctor put me on Bextra, but that really no longer holds off the pain. As I walk, sometimes, you can hear the joint grind. Guess that’s the word. From reading your posts, I find many of my fears quelled. However, I have not had any major surgery at all. Although I am quite tough (about pain), I am not looking forward to this AT ALL. Many times, nocturnal sleep is difficult. I can’t sleep on the ‘bad’ side at all. As I am a teacher, going up and down stairs has become difficult. You should see me pull myself up on the railing! J When I can I use the elevator. I am thinking of finding a cane. This would really be a “HOOT” for my 8th graders. My husband would like for me to put this off until next Jan. I am worried about the muscles and the heart. As it hurts to walk, I am not getting the cardio that I used to do. Finding a heated pool to exercise in would be a blessing. The local classes are during the day, when I work. My husband and I are (were) quite active – water skiing, kayaking, boating, bicycling, and snow skiing. As a teacher, I am looking forward to summer already. Maybe I’ll do this surgery over the spring break. I don’t want to ‘whine’, but it seems that pain does strange things to you! If any one has suggestions about questions to ask the surgeon, I welcome their input. Thanks so much! Cheryl in Missouri Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted February 3, 2005 Report Share Posted February 3, 2005 Hi Cheryl, I dont know much about shopping around for surgeons as I'm in the UK but I would recomend purchasing a folding cane. Mine folds up like an umbrella and has a neat little case. I was too vain to use it prior to surgery but often carried it just in case. Since the surgery the canes been great and when you are just about to get rid of the cane post surgery-again you can pull it out if you get tired in the transition to non cane use. A physio measured me up for it and then I purchased it online. Best of luck in choosing your surgeon. For me the main thing is that the surgeon is aware of your active lifestyle and feels comfortable in letting you return to most of your desired activities, Leigh Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted February 3, 2005 Report Share Posted February 3, 2005 I'm wondering why your husband wants you to put off the surgery?? I would begin to talk to the doctor now because often times, they are booked so far ahead you can't get in anyway. Get the cane...it will help a lot if nothing else, with security in walking and it does help to push up the stairs or support while going down. My problem is in my knee but I have two canes...one I keep in the car because I keep forgetting to bring mine, and then the other stays in the house. I don't have to use it too much in the house, but it's there if I need it. It does help a lot. You get over the embarassment quickly. I also use the motorized carts at the grocery store and other places if they have them. It saves lots of pain and allows me to have less pain throughout the day if I'm not overworking the knee. Once you are bone on bone and grinding, it goes downhill very fast. sandicheryl schlegel <schlegel@...> wrote: On February 15th I will be going in for my second opinion. I am looking for questions that you suggest I ask? (That way I won’t forget something.) This doctor was found as one of 5 who utilizes the minimally invasive technique in my metro area. He only does hips. I am not worried anymore about a minimally invasive technique, only success and lack of pain. My hip has gone down hill rapidly since September when I first found out that I needed a THR. ( Bone on bone – no possibility of resurfacing.) The first doctor put me on Bextra, but that really no longer holds off the pain. As I walk, sometimes, you can hear the joint grind. Guess that’s the word. From reading your posts, I find many of my fears quelled. However, I have not had any major surgery at all. Although I am quite tough (about pain), I am not looking forward to this AT ALL. Many times, nocturnal sleep is difficult. I can’t sleep on the ‘bad’ side at all. As I am a teacher, going up and down stairs has become difficult. You should see me pull myself up on the railing! J When I can I use the elevator. I am thinking of finding a cane. This would really be a “HOOT” for my 8th graders. My husband would like for me to put this off until next Jan. I am worried about the muscles and the heart. As it hurts to walk, I am not getting the cardio that I used to do. Finding a heated pool to exercise in would be a blessing. The local classes are during the day, when I work. My husband and I are (were) quite active – water skiing, kayaking, boating, bicycling, and snow skiing. As a teacher, I am looking forward to summer already. Maybe I’ll do this surgery over the spring break. I don’t want to ‘whine’, but it seems that pain does strange things to you! If any one has suggestions about questions to ask the surgeon, I welcome their input. Thanks so much! Cheryl in Missouri Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted February 4, 2005 Report Share Posted February 4, 2005 Re: embarrassment over carrying a cane--I was there It occurred to me to wonder if it is possible to get a cane the telescopes so I could collapse it in my purse when I didn't need it but it would be there where needed. I called Walgreen and learned that they did not have a telescope type, but they did have a folding cane. I am delighted with it. It is black hollow metal and folds in four with a bungie cord inside (like for tent poles)It has an attractive black handle the sticks out of my purse bag. I keep a strong rubber band around it so it snaps into cane only when I want it. It is amazingly strong, but pulls apart easily for collapse. During that stage when I was embarrased to have to use a cane I got a kick out of showing it off to people. It is facinating to see it suddenly snap into a cane on demand. The price was about $20. Now that I am 4 months post op I have the cane in my purse only when in a group for some activities which may tire my leg when others are still raring to go. With my cane I always know I'll be able to get back to the car even if my leg is weak. I give me freedom. I love it!. LOVE RUTH --- sandi <vanillarwc@...> wrote: > I'm wondering why your husband wants you to put off > the surgery?? I would begin to talk to the doctor > now because often times, they are booked so far > ahead you can't get in anyway. Get the cane...it > will help a lot if nothing else, with security in > walking and it does help to push up the stairs or > support while going down. My problem is in my knee > but I have two canes...one I keep in the car because > I keep forgetting to bring mine, and then the other > stays in the house. I don't have to use it too much > in the house, but it's there if I need it. It does > help a lot. You get over the embarassment quickly. > I also use the motorized carts at the grocery store > and other places if they have them. It saves lots > of pain and allows me to have less pain throughout > the day if I'm not overworking the knee. Once you > are bone on bone and grinding, it goes downhill very > fast. > > sandi > > cheryl schlegel <schlegel@...> wrote: > > On February 15th I will be going in for my second > opinion. > > I am looking for questions that you suggest I ask? > (That way I won’t forget something.) > > This doctor was found as one of 5 who utilizes the > minimally invasive technique in my metro area. He > only does hips. I am not worried anymore about a > minimally invasive technique, only success and lack > of pain. My hip has gone down hill rapidly since > September when I first found out that I needed a > THR. ( Bone on bone – no possibility of > resurfacing.) The first doctor put me on Bextra, but > that really no longer holds off the pain. As I > walk, sometimes, you can hear the joint grind. > Guess that’s the word. From reading your posts, I > find many of my fears quelled. However, I have not > had any major surgery at all. Although I am quite > tough (about pain), I am not looking forward to this > AT ALL. Many times, nocturnal sleep is difficult. > I can’t sleep on the ‘bad’ side at all. As I am a > teacher, going up and down stairs has become > difficult. You should see me pull myself up on the > railing! J When I can I use the elevator. I am > thinking of finding a cane. This would really > be a “HOOT” for my 8th graders. My husband would > like for me to put this off until next Jan. I am > worried about the muscles and the heart. As it > hurts to walk, I am not getting the cardio that I > used to do. Finding a heated pool to exercise in > would be a blessing. The local classes are during > the day, when I work. My husband and I are (were) > quite active – water skiing, kayaking, boating, > bicycling, and snow skiing. As a teacher, I am > looking forward to summer already. Maybe I’ll do > this surgery over the spring break. I don’t want to > ‘whine’, but it seems that pain does strange things > to you! > > > > If any one has suggestions about questions to ask > the surgeon, I welcome their input. Thanks so much! > > > > Cheryl in Missouri > > > > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted February 4, 2005 Report Share Posted February 4, 2005 Hi Ruth, I got over my embarrassment about carrying a cane when I traveled through airports. Airline personnel took me and my traveling companions to the start of every security line! No need to get to the airport one or two hours early I've been thinking about buying one those collapsible canes ever since! Carolruth davenport <rmurfdav@...> wrote: Re: embarrassment over carrying a cane--I was thereIt occurred to me to wonder if it is possible to get acane the telescopes so I could collapse it in my pursewhen I didn't need it but it would be there whereneeded. I called Walgreen and learned that they didnot have a telescope type, but they did have a foldingcane. I am delighted with it. It is black hollowmetal and folds in four with a bungie cord inside(like for tent poles)It has an attractive black handlethe sticks out of my purse bag. I keep a strongrubber band around it so it snaps into cane only whenI want it. It is amazingly strong, but pulls aparteasily for collapse. During that stage when I wasembarrased to have to use a cane I got a kick out ofshowing it off to people. It is facinating to see itsuddenly snap into a cane on demand. The price wasabout $20. Now that I am 4 months post op I have the cane in mypurse only when in a group for some activities whichmay tire my leg when others are still raring to go. With my cane I always know I'll be able to get back tothe car even if my leg is weak. I give me freedom. Ilove it!. LOVE RUTH--- sandi wrote:> I'm wondering why your husband wants you to put off> the surgery?? I would begin to talk to the doctor> now because often times, they are booked so far> ahead you can't get in anyway. Get the cane...it> will help a lot if nothing else, with security in> walking and it does help to push up the stairs or> support while going down. My problem is in my knee> but I have two canes...one I keep in the car because> I keep forgetting to bring mine, and then the other> stays in the house. I don't have to use it too much> in the house, but it's there if I need it. It does> help a lot. You get over the embarassment quickly. > I also use the motorized carts at the grocery store> and other places if they have them. It saves lots> of pain and allows me to have less pain throughout> the day if I'm not overworking the knee. Once you> are bone on bone and grinding, it goes downhill very> fast.> > sandi> > cheryl schlegel wrote:> > On February 15th I will be going in for my second> opinion. > > I am looking for questions that you suggest I ask? > (That way I won’t forget something.) > > This doctor was found as one of 5 who utilizes the> minimally invasive technique in my metro area. He> only does hips. I am not worried anymore about a> minimally invasive technique, only success and lack> of pain. My hip has gone down hill rapidly since> September when I first found out that I needed a> THR. ( Bone on bone – no possibility of> resurfacing.) The first doctor put me on Bextra, but> that really no longer holds off the pain. As I> walk, sometimes, you can hear the joint grind. > Guess that’s the word. From reading your posts, I> find many of my fears quelled. However, I have not> had any major surgery at all. Although I am quite> tough (about pain), I am not looking forward to this> AT ALL. Many times, nocturnal sleep is difficult. > I can’t sleep on the ‘bad’ side at all. As I am a> teacher, going up and down stairs has become> difficult. You should see me pull myself up on the> railing! J When I can I use the elevator. I am> thinking of finding a cane. This would really> be a “HOOT” for my 8th graders. My husband would> like for me to put this off until next Jan. I am> worried about the muscles and the heart. As it> hurts to walk, I am not getting the cardio that I> used to do. Finding a heated pool to exercise in> would be a blessing. The local classes are during> the day, when I work. My husband and I are (were)> quite active – water skiing, kayaking, boating,> bicycling, and snow skiing. As a teacher, I am> looking forward to summer already. Maybe I’ll do> this surgery over the spring break. I don’t want to> ‘whine’, but it seems that pain does strange things> to you!> > > > If any one has suggestions about questions to ask> the surgeon, I welcome their input. Thanks so much!> > > > Cheryl in Missouri> > > > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted February 4, 2005 Report Share Posted February 4, 2005 Try a wheelchair....you get fantastic service. We went to Iowa last October and I was hurting enough that I knew I couldn't walk the airport so we requested wheelchair or one of those transport carts to get us to the next gate in Chicago. Long story short...stormy weather, late and cancelled flights and our connection was cancelled. Rather than going to the line where everyone else went and begging for flights, we were transported into a special room for handicapped and treated like royalty. We were booked on the next available flight, and brought to the gate. It was wonderful really. I have absolutely no problem using a cane at this point, it would be far more embarassing to fall down!' sandiCarol <carolann1312004@...> wrote: Hi Ruth, I got over my embarrassment about carrying a cane when I traveled through airports. Airline personnel took me and my traveling companions to the start of every security line! No need to get to the airport one or two hours early I've been thinking about buying one those collapsible canes ever since! Carolruth davenport <rmurfdav@...> wrote: Re: embarrassment over carrying a cane--I was thereIt occurred to me to wonder if it is possible to get acane the telescopes so I could collapse it in my pursewhen I didn't need it but it would be there whereneeded. I called Walgreen and learned that they didnot have a telescope type, but they did have a foldingcane. I am delighted with it. It is black hollowmetal and folds in four with a bungie cord inside(like for tent poles)It has an attractive black handlethe sticks out of my purse bag. I keep a strongrubber band around it so it snaps into cane only whenI want it. It is amazingly strong, but pulls aparteasily for collapse. During that stage when I wasembarrased to have to use a cane I got a kick out ofshowing it off to people. It is facinating to see itsuddenly snap into a cane on demand. The price wasabout $20. Now that I am 4 months post op I have the cane in mypurse only when in a group for some activities whichmay tire my leg when others are still raring to go. With my cane I always know I'll be able to get back tothe car even if my leg is weak. I give me freedom. Ilove it!. LOVE RUTH--- sandi wrote:> I'm wondering why your husband wants you to put off> the surgery?? I would begin to talk to the doctor> now because often times, they are booked so far> ahead you can't get in anyway. Get the cane...it> will help a lot if nothing else, with security in> walking and it does help to push up the stairs or> support while going down. My problem is in my knee> but I have two canes...one I keep in the car because> I keep forgetting to bring mine, and then the other> stays in the house. I don't have to use it too much> in the house, but it's there if I need it. It does> help a lot. You get over the embarassment quickly. > I also use the motorized carts at the grocery store> and other places if they have them. It saves lots> of pain and allows me to have less pain throughout> the day if I'm not overworking the knee. Once you> are bone on bone and grinding, it goes downhill very> fast.> > sandi> > cheryl schlegel wrote:> > On February 15th I will be going in for my second> opinion. > > I am looking for questions that you suggest I ask? > (That way I won’t forget something.) > > This doctor was found as one of 5 who utilizes the> minimally invasive technique in my metro area. He> only does hips. I am not worried anymore about a> minimally invasive technique, only success and lack> of pain. My hip has gone down hill rapidly since> September when I first found out that I needed a> THR. ( Bone on bone – no possibility of> resurfacing.) The first doctor put me on Bextra, but> that really no longer holds off the pain. As I> walk, sometimes, you can hear the joint grind. > Guess that’s the word. From reading your posts, I> find many of my fears quelled. However, I have not> had any major surgery at all. Although I am quite> tough (about pain), I am not looking forward to this> AT ALL. Many times, nocturnal sleep is difficult. > I can’t sleep on the ‘bad’ side at all. As I am a> teacher, going up and down stairs has become> difficult. You should see me pull myself up on the> railing! J When I can I use the elevator. I am> thinking of finding a cane. This would really> be a “HOOT” for my 8th graders. My husband would> like for me to put this off until next Jan. I am> worried about the muscles and the heart. As it> hurts to walk, I am not getting the cardio that I> used to do. Finding a heated pool to exercise in> would be a blessing. The local classes are during> the day, when I work. My husband and I are (were)> quite active – water skiing, kayaking, boating,> bicycling, and snow skiing. As a teacher, I am> looking forward to summer already. Maybe I’ll do> this surgery over the spring break. I don’t want to> ‘whine’, but it seems that pain does strange things> to you!> > > > If any one has suggestions about questions to ask> the surgeon, I welcome their input. Thanks so much!> > > > Cheryl in Missouri> > > > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted February 4, 2005 Report Share Posted February 4, 2005 Hi Sandi, I agree with you some people are nice when they see you with a cane .I been using a cane for the last five years since before I had my Hip and Knee replacement and it helps me when I'm Walking I went with my daughter and grandson and her boyfriend to this Ice cream place called Cold Stone it was neat they made all kinds of ice cream well some people gave us a table I think that was nice of them .Well you have a nice day Susie -------------- Original message -------------- Try a wheelchair....you get fantastic service. We went to Iowa last October and I was hurting enough that I knew I couldn't walk the airport so we requested wheelchair or one of those transport carts to get us to the next gate in Chicago. Long story short...stormy weather, late and cancelled flights and our connection was cancelled. Rather than going to the line where everyone else went and begging for flights, we were transported into a special room for handicapped and treated like royalty. We were booked on the next available flight, and brought to the gate. It was wonderful really. I have absolutely no problem using a cane at this point, it would be far more embarassing to fall down!' sandiCarol <carolann1312004@...> wrote: Hi Ruth, I got over my embarrassment about carrying a cane when I traveled through airports. Airline personnel took me and my traveling companions to the start of every security line! No need to get to the airport one or two hours early I've been thinking about buying one those collapsible canes ever since! Carolruth davenport <rmurfdav@...> wrote: Re: embarrassment over carrying a cane--I was thereIt occurred to me to wonder if it is possible to get acane the telescopes so I could collapse it in my pursewhen I didn't need it but it would be there whereneeded. I called Walgreen and learned that they didnot have a telescope type, but they did have a foldingcane. I am delighted with it. It is black hollowmetal and folds in four with a bungie cord inside(like for tent poles)It has an attractive black handlethe sticks out of my purse bag. I keep a strongrubber band around it so it snaps into cane only whenI want it. It is amazingly strong, but pulls aparteasily for collapse. During that stage when I wasembarrased to have to use a cane I got a kick out ofshowing it off to people. It is facinating to see itsuddenly snap into a cane on demand. The price wasabout $20. Now that I am 4 months post op I have the cane in mypurse only when in a group for some activities whichmay tire my leg when others are still raring to go. With my cane I always know I'll be able to get back tothe car even if my leg is weak. I give me freedom. Ilove it!. LOVE RUTH--- sandi wrote:> I'm wondering why your husband wants you to put off> the surgery?? I would begin to talk to the doctor> now because often times, they are booked so far> ahead you can't get in anyway. Get the cane...it> will help a lot if nothing else, with security in> walking and it does help to push up the stairs or> support while going down. My problem is in my knee> but I have two canes...one I keep in the car because> I keep forgetting to bring mine, and then the other> stays in the house. I don't have to use it too much> in the house, but it's there if I need it. It does> help a lot. You get over the embarassment quickly. > I also use the motorized carts at the grocery store> and other places if they have them. It saves lots> of pain and allows me to have less pain throughout> the day if I'm not overworking the knee. Once you> are bone on bone and grinding, it goes downhill very> fast.> > sandi> > cheryl schlegel wrote:> > On February 15th I will be going in for my second> opinion. > > I am looking for questions that you suggest I ask? > (That way I won’t forget something.) > > This doctor was found as one of 5 who utilizes the> minimally invasive technique in my metro area. He> only does hips. I am not worried anymore about a> minimally invasive technique, only success and lack> of pain. My hip has gone down hill rapidly since> September when I first found out that I needed a> THR. ( Bone on bone – no possibility of> resurfacing.) The first doctor put me on Bextra, but> that really no longer holds off the pain. As I> walk, sometimes, you can hear the joint grind. > Guess that’s the word. From reading your posts, I> find many of my fears quelled. However, I have not> had any major surgery at all. Although I am quite> tough (about pain), I am not looking forward to this> AT ALL. Many times, nocturnal sleep is difficult. > I can’t sleep on the ‘bad’ side at all. As I am a> teacher, going up and down stairs has become> difficult. You should see me pull myself up on the> railing! J When I can I use the elevator. I am> thinking of finding a cane. This would really> be a “HOOT” for my 8th graders. My husband would> like for me to put this off until next Jan. I am> worried about the muscles and the heart. As it> hurts to walk, I am not getting the cardio that I> used to do. Finding a heated pool to exercise in> would be a blessing. The local classes are during> the day, when I work. My husband and I are (were)> quite active – water skiing, kayaking, boating,> bicycling, and snow skiing. As a teacher, I am> looking forward to summer already. Maybe I’ll do> this surgery over the spring break. I don’t want to> ‘whine’, but it seems that pain does strange things> to you!> > > > If any one has suggestions about questions to ask> the surgeon, I welcome their input. Thanks so much!> > > > Cheryl in Missouri> > > > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted February 5, 2005 Report Share Posted February 5, 2005 Cheryl You said that you didn't want to whine but pain does strange things to you. How well I know!!! People who got to know me through that year when I was trying to avoid surgery, as the pain was increasing, were amazed at the difference in my appearance when I reappeared at warm pool therapy 3 months after surgery. " You are smiling all the time now! " was the common exclamation. I do so enjoy getting rid of that bone on bone pain. I was determined to follow PT process religiously and my muscles are doing well too. I tire after walking about 6 blocks and the doctor says it takes a year to return to full strength. I am 76 years old. You'll do better. I never planned to be 76 and can't believe I am. My older sisters still regard me as baby, but here I am and I am so glad to have my life back after deciding to " bite the bullet " and go through surgery and recovery. More power to you. LOVE RUTH --- juneflower60@... wrote: > Hi Sandi, > I agree with you some people are nice when they see > you with a cane .I been using a cane for the last > five years since before I had my Hip and Knee > replacement and it helps me when I'm Walking I went > with my daughter and grandson and her boyfriend to > this Ice cream place called Cold Stone it was neat > they made all kinds of ice cream well some people > gave us a table I think that was nice of them > .Well you have a nice day > > > Susie > > -------------- Original message -------------- > > Try a wheelchair....you get fantastic service. We > went to Iowa last October and I was hurting enough > that I knew I couldn't walk the airport so we > requested wheelchair or one of those transport carts > to get us to the next gate in Chicago. Long story > short...stormy weather, late and cancelled flights > and our connection was cancelled. Rather than going > to the line where everyone else went and begging for > flights, we were transported into a special room for > handicapped and treated like royalty. We were > booked on the next available flight, and brought to > the gate. It was wonderful really. I have > absolutely no problem using a cane at this point, it > would be far more embarassing to fall down!' > > sandi > > Carol <carolann1312004@...> wrote: > Hi Ruth, > > I got over my embarrassment about carrying a cane > when I traveled through airports. Airline personnel > took me and my traveling companions to the start of > every security line! No need to get to the airport > one or two hours early > > I've been thinking about buying one those > collapsible canes ever since! > > Carol > > ruth davenport <rmurfdav@...> wrote: > > Re: embarrassment over carrying a cane--I was there > > It occurred to me to wonder if it is possible to get > a > cane the telescopes so I could collapse it in my > purse > when I didn't need it but it would be there where > needed. I called Walgreen and learned that they did > not have a telescope type, but they did have a > folding > cane. I am delighted with it. It is black hollow > metal and folds in four with a bungie cord inside > (like for tent poles)It has an attractive black > handle > the sticks out of my purse bag. I keep a strong > rubber band around it so it snaps into cane only > when > I want it. It is amazingly strong, but pulls apart > easily for collapse. During that stage when I was > embarrased to have to use a cane I got a kick out of > showing it off to people. It is facinating to see it > suddenly snap into a cane on demand. The price was > about $20. > > Now that I am 4 months post op I have the cane in my > purse only when in a group for some activities which > may tire my leg when others are still raring to go. > With my cane I always know I'll be able to get back > to > the car even if my leg is weak. I give me freedom. I > love it!. LOVE RUTH > --- sandi wrote: > > > I'm wondering why your husband wants you to put > off > > the surgery?? I would begin to talk to the doctor > > now because often times, they are booked so far > > ahead you can't get in anyway. Get the cane...it > > will help a lot if nothing else, with security in > > walking and it does help to push up the stairs or > > support while going down. My problem is in my knee > > but I have two canes...one I keep in the car > because > > I keep forgetting to bring mine, and then the > other > > stays in the house. I don't have to use it too > much > > in the house, but it's there if I need it. It does > > help a lot. You get over the embarassment quickly. > > > I also use the motorized carts at the grocery > store > > and other places if they have them. It saves lots > > of pain and allows me to have less pain throughout > > the day if I'm not overworking the knee. Once you > > are bone on bone and grinding, it goes downhill > very > > fast. > > > > sandi > > > > cheryl schlegel wrote: > > > > On February 15th I will be going in for my second > > opinion. > > > > I am looking for questions that you suggest I ask? > > > (That way I won’t forget something.) > > > > This doctor was found as one of 5 who utilizes the > > minimally invasive technique in my metro area. He > > only does hips. I am not worried anymore about a > > minimally invasive technique, only success and > lack > > of pain. My hip has gone down hill rapidly since > > September when I first found out that I needed a > > THR. ( Bone on bone – no possibility of > > resurfacing.) The first doctor put me on Bextra, > but > > that really no longer holds off the pain. As I > > walk, sometimes, you can hear the joint grind. > > Guess that’s the word. From reading your posts, I > > find many of my fears quelled. However, I have not > > had any major surgery at all. Although I am quite > > tough (about pain), I am not looking forward to > this > > AT ALL. Many times, nocturnal sleep is difficult. > > I can’t sleep on the ‘bad’ side at all. As I am a > > teacher, going up and down stairs has become > > difficult. You should see me pull myself up on the > > railing! J When I can I use the elevator. I am > > thinking of finding a cane. This would really > > be a “HOOT” for my 8th graders. My husband would > > like for me to put this off until next Jan. I am > > worried about the muscles and the heart. As it > > hurts to walk, I am not getting the cardio that I > > used to do. Finding a heated pool to exercise in > > would be a blessing. The local classes are during > > the day, when I work. My husband and I are (were) > > quite active – water skiing, kayaking, boating, > > bicycling, and snow skiing. As a teacher, I am > > looking forward to summer already. Maybe I’ll do > > this surgery over the spring break. I don’t want > to > > ‘whine’, but it seems that pain does strange > things > > to you! > > > > > > > > If any one has suggestions about questions to ask > > the surgeon, I welcome their input. Thanks so > much! > > > > > > > > Cheryl in Missouri > > > > > > > > > > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted February 5, 2005 Report Share Posted February 5, 2005 I never planned to be 76 and can't believe I am. Myolder sisters still regard me as baby, but here I amand I am so glad to have my life back after decidingto "bite the bullet" and go through surgery andrecovery. More power to you. LOVE RUTH Hey Ruth, I just had my 73rd birthday yesterday. Likewise, I never planned to be 73, it just sort of happened. I still cannot walk very far, but I do have moments when I realize that I am happily doing something that I either could not do in the last ten years, or did not WANT to do. I call that healing, too. hugs Marge Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted February 8, 2005 Report Share Posted February 8, 2005 Thanks for the wonderful list of questions. This will help next Tues. I found out that they plan to take another series of x-rays. My last ones were in September. That will help (in my mind, anyway) to see how quickly the hip joint is deteriorating. Keep me in your thoughts and prayers around noon Central time next Tues. 2/15/2005. Thanks for all of your collective wisdom. I especially like the worldwide input! Cheryl in Missouri Re: Questions to ask You might get some ideas for questions from this list. http://hipuniverse.homestead.com/files/docques.htm > On February 15th I will be going in for my second opinion. > > I am looking for questions that you suggest I ask... Be your own advocate! The best patient is an informed patient! -- No virus found in this incoming message. Checked by AVG Anti-Virus. Version: 7.0.300 / Virus Database: 265.8.5 - Release Date: 2/3/2005 -- No virus found in this outgoing message. Checked by AVG Anti-Virus. Version: 7.0.300 / Virus Database: 265.8.6 - Release Date: 2/7/2005 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted February 8, 2005 Report Share Posted February 8, 2005 Cheryl I made a note to be thinking of you 2/15 at noon. Glad you have your list of questions. I write my list and pull it out of my pocket while sitting on the ex table. My mind goes blank when in ex room, but I have my trusty paper to carry on. I think a doctor likes it when a patient is focused that way. Let us know how it goes. LOVE RUTH --- cheryl schlegel <schlegel@...> wrote: > Thanks for the wonderful list of questions. This > will help next Tues. > I found out that they plan to take another series of > x-rays. My last > ones were in September. That will help (in my mind, > anyway) to see how > quickly the hip joint is deteriorating. Keep me in > your thoughts and > prayers around noon Central time next Tues. > 2/15/2005. Thanks for all > of your collective wisdom. I especially like the > worldwide input! > > > > Cheryl in Missouri > > > > Re: Questions to > ask > > > > > You might get some ideas for questions from this > list. > > HYPERLINK > " http://hipuniverse.homestead.com/files/docques.htm " http://hipuniverse.h > omestead.com/files/docques.htm > > > > On February 15th I will be going in for my second > opinion. > > > > I am looking for questions that you suggest I > ask... > > > > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted February 10, 2005 Report Share Posted February 10, 2005 Hi Cheryl, I would definitely agree w/the last poster re the cane. Pride goes before the (literal) fall in this case! Ask the surgeon what sports he recommends post-op. You seem to be very active and there's some controversy over sports after a THR. My own doc told me that I could ice skate but if I fell, I'd surely break my hip, so I'm gonna pass on that one, altho I know other people who have returned to skating and even downhill skiing. But the later is a huge risk. When do you see the surgeon? January sounds like a long way away for the operation if you're already having a rapid deterioration. Pain can be a real downer. Also, by postponing, your muscles may atrophy if you can't be active. Don't worry about " whining. " We've all been there - at least, I certainly have. You might ask if you should donate blood, if the doc recommends a spinal or general anesthesia, if you'll be on crutches or a walker after, and approximately how long you'll have to take off from work. I had very bad anemia after my THR. I was sorry that I hadn't donated blood because I'm a fainter. Good luck with your decision. It's a tough one. No one likes surgery. The only perk is that the pain will either disappear or gretaly diminish afterwards :-) Best, Sigrid > On February 15th I will be going in for my second opinion. > > I am looking for questions that you suggest I ask? (That way I won't > forget something.) > > This doctor was found as one of 5 who utilizes the minimally invasive > technique in my metro area. He only does hips. I am not worried > anymore about a minimally invasive technique, only success and lack of > pain. My hip has gone down hill rapidly since September when I first > found out that I needed a THR. ( Bone on bone – no possibility of > resurfacing.) The first doctor put me on Bextra, but that really no > longer holds off the pain. As I walk, sometimes, you can hear the joint > grind. Guess that's the word. From reading your posts, I find many of > my fears quelled. However, I have not had any major surgery at all. > Although I am quite tough (about pain), I am not looking forward to this > AT ALL. Many times, nocturnal sleep is difficult. I can't sleep on the > `bad' side at all. As I am a teacher, going up and down stairs has > become difficult. You should see me pull myself up on the railing! :-) > When I can I use the elevator. I am thinking of finding a cane. This > would really be a " HOOT " for my 8th graders. My husband would like for > me to put this off until next Jan. I am worried about the muscles and > the heart. As it hurts to walk, I am not getting the cardio that I used > to do. Finding a heated pool to exercise in would be a blessing. The > local classes are during the day, when I work. My husband and I are > (were) quite active – water skiing, kayaking, boating, bicycling, and > snow skiing. As a teacher, I am looking forward to summer already. > Maybe I'll do this surgery over the spring break. I don't want to > `whine', but it seems that pain does strange things to you! > > > > If any one has suggestions about questions to ask the surgeon, I welcome > their input. Thanks so much! > > > > Cheryl in Missouri > > > > > -- > No virus found in this outgoing message. > Checked by AVG Anti-Virus. > Version: 7.0.300 / Virus Database: 265.8.2 - Release Date: 1/28/2005 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted February 12, 2005 Report Share Posted February 12, 2005 Thanks for responding to my post. A quick question for anyone: How many of you have had a MRI as well as an x-ray to determine the range of surgery? My 2nd opinion appointment is on Tues. 2/15/2005. First opinion – bone on bone – need total hip replacement due to arthritis. A nurse told me that I should definitely have a MRI before even considering a hip replacement. Thoughts? Is this common? Now, I am wondering if I have muscle problems, too?? Cheryl in Missouri Re: Questions to ask Hi Cheryl, I would definitely agree w/the last poster re the cane. Pride goes before the (literal) fall in this case! Ask the surgeon what sports he recommends post-op. You seem to be very active and there's some controversy over sports after a THR. My own doc told me that I could ice skate but if I fell, I'd surely break my hip, so I'm gonna pass on that one, altho I know other people who have returned to skating and even downhill skiing. But the later is a huge risk. When do you see the surgeon? January sounds like a long way away for the operation if you're already having a rapid deterioration. Pain can be a real downer. Also, by postponing, your muscles may atrophy if you can't be active. Don't worry about " whining. " We've all been there - at least, I certainly have. You might ask if you should donate blood, if the doc recommends a spinal or general anesthesia, if you'll be on crutches or a walker after, and approximately how long you'll have to take off from work. I had very bad anemia after my THR. I was sorry that I hadn't donated blood because I'm a fainter. Good luck with your decision. It's a tough one. No one likes surgery. The only perk is that the pain will either disappear or gretaly diminish afterwards :-) Best, Sigrid > On February 15th I will be going in for my second opinion. > > I am looking for questions that you suggest I ask? (That way I won't > forget something.) > > This doctor was found as one of 5 who utilizes the minimally invasive > technique in my metro area. He only does hips. I am not worried > anymore about a minimally invasive technique, only success and lack of > pain. My hip has gone down hill rapidly since September when I first > found out that I needed a THR. ( Bone on bone – no possibility of > resurfacing.) The first doctor put me on Bextra, but that really no > longer holds off the pain. As I walk, sometimes, you can hear the joint > grind. Guess that's the word. From reading your posts, I find many of > my fears quelled. However, I have not had any major surgery at all. > Although I am quite tough (about pain), I am not looking forward to this > AT ALL. Many times, nocturnal sleep is difficult. I can't sleep on the > `bad' side at all. As I am a teacher, going up and down stairs has > become difficult. You should see me pull myself up on the railing! :-) > When I can I use the elevator. I am thinking of finding a cane. This > would really be a " HOOT " for my 8th graders. My husband would like for > me to put this off until next Jan. I am worried about the muscles and > the heart. As it hurts to walk, I am not getting the cardio that I used > to do. Finding a heated pool to exercise in would be a blessing. The > local classes are during the day, when I work. My husband and I are > (were) quite active – water skiing, kayaking, boating, bicycling, and > snow skiing. As a teacher, I am looking forward to summer already. > Maybe I'll do this surgery over the spring break. I don't want to > `whine', but it seems that pain does strange things to you! > > > > If any one has suggestions about questions to ask the surgeon, I welcome > their input. Thanks so much! > > > > Cheryl in Missouri > > > > > -- > No virus found in this outgoing message. > Checked by AVG Anti-Virus. > Version: 7.0.300 / Virus Database: 265.8.2 - Release Date: 1/28/2005 Be your own advocate! The best patient is an informed patient! -- No virus found in this incoming message. Checked by AVG Anti-Virus. Version: 7.0.300 / Virus Database: 265.8.6 - Release Date: 2/7/2005 -- No virus found in this outgoing message. Checked by AVG Anti-Virus. Version: 7.0.300 / Virus Database: 265.8.7 - Release Date: 2/10/2005 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted February 12, 2005 Report Share Posted February 12, 2005 ---My first dr told me that the xray showed him enough. The second opinion dr wanted a mri. That showed him that the femoral ball was not dead. I still needed the hip replacement for bone on bone pain. I went with my first dr for the surgery. He's very young (32), but trained by the best, had done 200-300 surgeries, and I felt confident with him. Anyway, the xray was enough for me.> > > > > > > > Cheryl in Missouri > > > > Re: Questions to ask > > > > > Hi Cheryl, > > I would definitely agree w/the last poster re the cane. Pride goes > before the (literal) fall in this case! Ask the surgeon what sports > he recommends post-op. You seem to be very active and there's some > controversy over sports after a THR. My own doc told me that I could > ice skate but if I fell, I'd surely break my hip, so I'm gonna pass > on that one, altho I know other people who have returned to skating > and even downhill skiing. But the later is a huge risk. > > When do you see the surgeon? January sounds like a long way away for > the operation if you're already having a rapid deterioration. Pain > can be a real downer. Also, by postponing, your muscles may atrophy > if you can't be active. > > Don't worry about " whining. " We've all been there - at least, I > certainly have. > > You might ask if you should donate blood, if the doc recommends a > spinal or general anesthesia, if you'll be on crutches or a walker > after, and approximately how long you'll have to take off from work. > > I had very bad anemia after my THR. I was sorry that I hadn't > donated blood because I'm a fainter. > > Good luck with your decision. It's a tough one. No one likes > surgery. The only perk is that the pain will either disappear or > gretaly diminish afterwards :-) > > Best, Sigrid > > > > On February 15th I will be going in for my second opinion. > > > > I am looking for questions that you suggest I ask? (That way I > won't > > forget something.) > > > > This doctor was found as one of 5 who utilizes the minimally > invasive > > technique in my metro area. He only does hips. I am not worried > > anymore about a minimally invasive technique, only success and > lack of > > pain. My hip has gone down hill rapidly since September when I > first > > found out that I needed a THR. ( Bone on bone – no possibility of > > resurfacing.) The first doctor put me on Bextra, but that really no > > longer holds off the pain. As I walk, sometimes, you can hear the > joint > > grind. Guess that's the word. From reading your posts, I find > many of > > my fears quelled. However, I have not had any major surgery at > all. > > Although I am quite tough (about pain), I am not looking forward > to this > > AT ALL. Many times, nocturnal sleep is difficult. I can't sleep > on the > > `bad' side at all. As I am a teacher, going up and down stairs has > > become difficult. You should see me pull myself up on the > railing! :-) > > When I can I use the elevator. I am thinking of finding a cane. > This > > would really be a " HOOT " for my 8th graders. My husband would > like for > > me to put this off until next Jan. I am worried about the muscles > and > > the heart. As it hurts to walk, I am not getting the cardio that > I used > > to do. Finding a heated pool to exercise in would be a blessing. > The > > local classes are during the day, when I work. My husband and I > are > > (were) quite active – water skiing, kayaking, boating, bicycling, > and > > snow skiing. As a teacher, I am looking forward to summer already. > > Maybe I'll do this surgery over the spring break. I don't want to > > `whine', but it seems that pain does strange things to you! > > > > > > > > If any one has suggestions about questions to ask the surgeon, I > welcome > > their input. Thanks so much! > > > > > > > > Cheryl in Missouri > > > > > > > > > > -- > > No virus found in this outgoing message. > > Checked by AVG Anti-Virus. > > Version: 7.0.300 / Virus Database: 265.8.2 - Release Date: > 1/28/2005 > > > > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted February 12, 2005 Report Share Posted February 12, 2005 I don't know of any orthopods who require an MRI prior to total joint surgery. Afterwards, you won't be able to have an MRI bacause of the metal in the prosthesis. Marilyn cheryl schlegel wrote: Thanks for responding to my post. A quick question for anyone: How many of you have had a MRI as well as an x-ray to determine the range of surgery? My 2nd opinion appointment is on Tues. 2/15/2005. First opinion – bone on bone – need total hip replacement due to arthritis. A nurse told me that I should definitely have a MRI before even considering a hip replacement. Thoughts? Is this common? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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