Guest guest Posted February 17, 2009 Report Share Posted February 17, 2009 Dear Tim, At treatment (tx) time, it's a good idea to get a second or even third opinion from an " expert " or two.. Once you decide on a plan, you often can find a local hospital or cancer center equipped and willing to carry it out. The way to find out is to come right out and ask. You can call local cancer centers and speak with the chairman of the hem/onc dept. Or sometimes I find it's good to speak with the nurse in the dept—they can be really helpful. If the treatment you decide on is fairly " routine " it should be possible. Also bear in mind, Tim, tx regimes vary in terms of how often one has to go. You may end up with a plan requiring only 1 day/week or 3 days/week for only 1 week per month. All things considered, if it results in your getting the best treatment and you explain it to your children, they'd be best off with you healthy and thriving. U. Mich (my freshman year school) has a great facility. Hope this helps a little. -Ellen Diamond > I've been reading in the background for the last year since I was > diagnosed with CLL and have got so much information from this site. > I'm 49 and W & W. After a bad overall experience with my first > oncologist and general lack of trust, rapport and confidence, I > started to see a CLL specialist at University of Michigan which is > about an hour and a half from my house. This guy is great, he explains > things, great manner, he's a CLL researcher, same overall philosophy, > this is the guy I want making the detailed decisions about my > treatment. However, after taking the day off from work in December and > my trek to Ann Arbor turned into a 10 hour round trip excursion due to > heavy snow and traffic, I finally faced up to the reality of my future > treatments (which likely won't be more than 1 or 2 years away). Since > I work and my kids are young, it will probably be extremely difficult > for me to be running back and forth to U of M for chemo and for that > matter to be hospitalized in the event of an infection. There is a > decent local hospital in my community although it has no affiliation > with U-M. > > I know that many people posting here use a CLL specialist at some > distance from their home but also have a local oncologist as well as > an Internist. What I wanted to know is how do you go about getting all > of these doctors to cooperate and coordinate with each other in a > timely way, especially if you should require hospitalization during > chemo or due to infection? How does the CLL specialist monitor you at > a distance? Do any of these doctors resent having to coordinate > outside their own hospital or with an expert some distance away? Do > you or a family member have to do the coordination? I have heard of a > good local doctor who I would want to be my hematologist in this area > but I know my Internist has no experience with CLL. > > Any input on how you make all this work would be appreciated. Thanks, > > Tim > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted February 17, 2009 Report Share Posted February 17, 2009 I too carry a binder with me when I go to any and all my physicians. It contains a copy of any tests performed by any physician or lab. Even if I think it might not be related to my CLL, I show it to the doctor I am with and make them a copy for them to keep in my files. Often times doctors need to be reminded not only who you are, but what conditions you have. They are not neglectful or malicious they are just overwhelmed. You need to be your advocate and keep copies of every single thing that is done on or for you. Even ask the doctors for a copy of their notes to take with you as well. Most are glad to oblige, if not they are not the doctor for you. May God Bless. Helen K. A Good Credit Score is 700 or Above. See yours in just 2 easy steps! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted February 17, 2009 Report Share Posted February 17, 2009 Several thoughts re: coordination among Md's. What has become clear to me in my own continuing journey through CLL-land is that (1) all doctors are very busy, and hence have limited time to focus on my case. This being the case, I find it absolutely necessary to bring whatever fruits of research I have done on current treatment options to his attention, and to bring up potential alternative scenarios, including seeing other care providers, etc. (2) unless the oncologist is a specialist in CLL, he or she may not be able to pinpoint the best course of action for your particular sitation at a particular point in time (itself a moving target, as are all aspects of dealing with CLL, as I find each day). Hence, there is indeed great wisdom in having a variety of treatment resources. One way to get these resources to better cooperate is to find someone in each office who has the time, skills, inclination and willingness to be your advocate. For example, last year I traveled 1800 miles to see a CLL specialist at the MD Center in Houston. While there, I was given the name of the doctor's assistant who is essentially the conduit for communication with the doctor. I have had great success in communicating through her. At the same time, I have become enough of an individual to my local oncologist's assistant that I feel I can gain the oncologist's ear by communicating through her. I have also taken the step of making sure each care provider sends whatever information is generated during my visit to each of the other care providers (including my primary care physician). In sum, I have found that an essential part of dealing with my CLL requires me to take a very active role in the entire scenario. > > > I've been reading in the background for the last year since I was > diagnosed with CLL and have got so much information from this site. > I'm 49 and W & W. After a bad overall experience with my first > oncologist and general lack of trust, rapport and confidence, I started > to see a CLL specialist at University of Michigan which is about an hour > and a half from my house. This guy is great, he explains things, great > manner, he's a CLL researcher, same overall philosophy, this is the > guy I want making the detailed decisions about my treatment. However, > after taking the day off from work in December and my trek to Ann Arbor > turned into a 10 hour round trip excursion due to heavy snow and > traffic, I finally faced up to the reality of my future treatments > (which likely won't be more than 1 or 2 years away). Since I work > and my kids are young, it will probably be extremely difficult for me to > be running back and forth to U of M for chemo and for that matter to be > hospitalized in the event of an infection. There is a decent local > hospital in my community although it has no affiliation with U-M. > > I know that many people posting here use a CLL specialist at some > distance from their home but also have a local oncologist as well as an > Internist. What I wanted to know is how do you go about getting all of > these doctors to cooperate and coordinate with each other in a timely > way, especially if you should require hospitalization during chemo or > due to infection? How does the CLL specialist monitor you at a distance? > Do any of these doctors resent having to coordinate outside their own > hospital or with an expert some distance away? Do you or a family member > have to do the coordination? I have heard of a good local doctor who I > would want to be my hematologist in this area but I know my Internist > has no experience with CLL. > > Any input on how you make all this work would be appreciated. Thanks, > > Tim > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted February 17, 2009 Report Share Posted February 17, 2009 In sum, I have found that an essential part of dealing with my CLL requires me to take a very active role in the entire scenario. I'll second that. Obviously lots depends on the individuals involved, the specialist and the local doc. So you go about it trying to be respectful of everyone's time by preparing and providing the contact info (phone, email, fax) and summarizing your main questions and the salent points and sharing with each. You then make clear what your current understanding is regarding therapy when needed, and the main open questions ... subject to change as circumstances and available options change. Also,don't forget to bring a loved one or signficant other with you to sit in on the consults. I think this simple step has been proven to improve the quality of the consult, and likely the cooperative spirit going forward as well. Karl Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted February 17, 2009 Report Share Posted February 17, 2009 I have a similar problem in that I have gone through kidney failure and a TIA, which requires/required a neurologist and a nephrologist, in addition to my GP and osteopath and Traditional Chinese Medicine practitioner. I have also been getting second opinions at Dana Farber. My approach is to keep as complete a file on myself as I am able. I get copies of all lab tests and do not assume they are shared. I bring copies with me whenever I go to another appointment and provide them to the treating physician. SOmetimes I send them ahead of time. I check to make sure whatever tests ANY of them want are on the agenda at each appointment. I have a good personal relationship with the drs' staff so I can get them to forward records or make sure test orders include everything that should be included. In your situation, I would suggest using your Michigan Dr as a second opinion, and make sure that copies of records are sent to him. Find a local oncologist who feels comfortable regularly consulting with him. That will minimize the number of trips to Michigan, yet still provide the comfort and access to his opinion. (When all medical records are computerized, this will be less difficult.) Scans and such can be reduced to CD's now and probably can be emailed as files, assuming compatability. Hope this helps. Toby Hollander Portland, ME > > > I've been reading in the background for the last year since I was > diagnosed with CLL and have got so much information from this site. > I'm 49 and W & W. After a bad overall experience with my first > oncologist and general lack of trust, rapport and confidence, I started > to see a CLL specialist at University of Michigan which is about an hour > and a half from my house. This guy is great, he explains things, great > manner, he's a CLL researcher, same overall philosophy, this is the > guy I want making the detailed decisions about my treatment. However, > after taking the day off from work in December and my trek to Ann Arbor > turned into a 10 hour round trip excursion due to heavy snow and > traffic, I finally faced up to the reality of my future treatments > (which likely won't be more than 1 or 2 years away). Since I work > and my kids are young, it will probably be extremely difficult for me to > be running back and forth to U of M for chemo and for that matter to be > hospitalized in the event of an infection. There is a decent local > hospital in my community although it has no affiliation with U-M. > > I know that many people posting here use a CLL specialist at some > distance from their home but also have a local oncologist as well as an > Internist. What I wanted to know is how do you go about getting all of > these doctors to cooperate and coordinate with each other in a timely > way, especially if you should require hospitalization during chemo or > due to infection? How does the CLL specialist monitor you at a distance? > Do any of these doctors resent having to coordinate outside their own > hospital or with an expert some distance away? Do you or a family member > have to do the coordination? I have heard of a good local doctor who I > would want to be my hematologist in this area but I know my Internist > has no experience with CLL. > > Any input on how you make all this work would be appreciated. Thanks, > > Tim > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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