Guest guest Posted January 10, 2009 Report Share Posted January 10, 2009 It's so good to hear positive feedback. Thanks Carol! I've decided to postpone my revision another year so I get another summer of riding my bike (now that my kids finally learned how to ride this past summer.) It would be great to be able to walk a mile again, but I'm really going to miss being able to zoom around town on my bike! I bought myself an EASYWIPE this month but haven't actually tried it out yet. (Apparently we're not the only ones who need help down there.) Here's the address to where I bought it: http://www.vermontcountrystore.com/browse/Home/Apothecary/Home-Health-Care/Easyw\ ipe/D/30100/P/1:100:1000:10110/I/f11378?evar3=SEARCH > > > > > > Hi, > > > Just wanted to wish everyone a Happy New Year and blessings to all. > > My > > > flatback surgery was last February and I am coming up on the one > > year > > > mark. I just wanted to give you an update as to how I am doing. > > > > > > Last February I had my flatback surgery with all the bells. I had it > > > done at NYU medical center. I have to say, I feel great. I never > > would > > > have believed that I would ever be able to live even one day pain > > free > > > again. I am happy to say that at least for the last couple of moths > > I > > > have been virtually pain free except for the occasional Tylanol. In > > > October I walked an entire mile around a lake in upstate New York. > > In > > > November I walked around the strip (The boardwalk where the casinos > > > are). It was a blast. I couldn't believe I was actually able to > > walk > > > that much. I could barely walk up the block from my house last > > January. > > > > > > At this time last year I was barely functional. Walking was very > > > difficult for me then. I had to lean on shopping carts,lean on > > > people, and always walk with a cane, everywhere. I had to take > > > frequent breaks and sit down due to the spinal stenosis. I was > > > popping pain pills like candy. My life had become so small. I barely > > > wanted to get up in the morning and face another day of pain. > > > > > > The difference is enormous now. My pain has decreased to almost > > > nothing. My attitude and outlook are much more positive now. And I > > am > > > grateful for every day that I have with my " New and Improved " bionic > > > body. My stamina isn't up to par yet, but I am getting there with > > each > > > passing day. When I get tired, I listen to my body and go rest. We > > > need to put ourselves and our heath first for a change. > > > > > > I don't take my new found freedom for granted though. Who knows > > what > > > the future will hold. But for now, I am just trying to adjust and > > > start enjoying my life again. I feel like I have been given a > > second > > > chance. You won't catch me out snow skiing, water skiing, > > iceskating, > > > jumping from airplanes and the like. I still walk somewhat slowly > > and > > > gingerly and I thank God for any painless steps I can make now. I > > > figure, I don't want to tempt fate so I lead a somewhat less action > > > oriented > > > life now, but I'll take this to how I felt pre revision anyday. > > > > > > I do have some minor daily inconveniences. Like for instance, > > trouble > > > getting my shoes and > > > socks on. Often I have to ask my husband and grown kids to tie my > > > shoes and or or put my socks on for me. It's a little humiliating > > but > > > I take it in > > > my stride. And no one seems to mind at all. I think they also > > probably > > > feel that this is a minor inconvenience to them also, compared with > > > how they had to see me suffer in pain and disability these last 9 > > > years. Going to the bathroom is another challenge. (Number 2) that > > > is. As was elaborated on in the " wiping " thread spoken of earlier in > > > the Feisty site a year or so ago. I could sure use some pointers > > in > > > that area. LOL! > > > > > > Shaving my legs and cutting my toenails is very difficult for me > > now. > > > I am still working on solutions in that area. This is were the guy > > > flatbackers have there advantage. They don't have to shave their > > legs. > > > Lucky them. : ) > > > > > > Driving can be hard sometimes when you need to > > > actually twist or turn around to see traffic before you merge on to > > > streets, highways etc. Parallel parking is challenging also due to > > the > > > extra stiffness created from the long fusion. > > > > > > Airports are another fun place to go as a " metaled up " Feisty > > member. > > > You tend to set off alarms all over the place and have to put up > > with > > > getting > > > wanded, frisked, and virtually treated like a " terrorist/bad guy > > when > > > you go through security. Yikes! It's just another strange indignity > > we > > > as Scoliosis and Flatback veterans have to put up with. > > > > > > But in my estimation all of this is a small price to pay for the > > gift > > > that has been given me. A new life.! Albeit somewhat altered,and > > > certainly a hard > > > won new life. But > > > still, for the time being at least, it is once again a good life for > > > me now. > > > > > > Sometimes I do lament about the years that have been virtually lost > > > to me due to the > > > pain and disability. This is a > > > given. We have lost a lot. And so have our family and friends. We > > have > > > been dealt some rough cards here. I must mention though, that all of > > > you here and this Feisty group has been integral to my survival, > > > sanity, and recovery in many ways. The comeradery as well as the > > > good medical information and moral support has made a huge > > difference > > > in my life. I just had to mention that and thank everyone here..both > > > new and older veteran members of the Feisty site. > > > > > > There really is no way around this difficult malady except to go > > > through it and decide on the best course of action. And we all > > > have to walk that particular path alone. Making the very best > > choices > > > we can; > > > while hoping that eventually things will turn out for the better. > > > > > > I know the > > > future is precarious for all of us with this strange deformity. It > > > certainly is both a sobering and humbling experience. So, for > > now I > > > still > > > take it one day at a time, while praying for new medical > > > innovations to continue to make scoliosis and spinal surgery better > > > and better each year. > > > > > > I want for all of us Feisties to be mobile, pain free and functional > > > once again. Hopefully living out our years, having a full and > > quality > > > existence ahead. > > > > > > Happy New Year to everyone, and my best wishes for a great year > > ahead. > > > love Carol (NY) > > > > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted January 12, 2009 Report Share Posted January 12, 2009 Nerilka, I will look into it. It looks like a good e-store. Interesting that it is from Vermont? I will check into your suggestion. Thanks. Carol > > It's so good to hear positive feedback. Thanks Carol! I've decided to > postpone my revision another year so I get another summer of riding my > bike (now that my kids finally learned how to ride this past summer.) > It would be great to be able to walk a mile again, but I'm really > going to miss being able to zoom around town on my bike! > > I bought myself an EASYWIPE this month but haven't actually tried it > out yet. (Apparently we're not the only ones who need help down there.) > Here's the address to where I bought it: > http://www.vermontcountrystore.com/browse/Home/Apothecary/Home- Health-Care/Easywipe/D/30100/P/1:100:1000:10110/I/f11378?evar3=SEARCH > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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