Guest guest Posted January 14, 2010 Report Share Posted January 14, 2010 , I needed to take a deep breath just to read that. I suspect you need to take a deep breath. My dear sweet, funny and compassionate . This is something you cannot fix. You can't. If Kim does not want surgery, if she wants to just lie in the sun and let nature take its course, or if she wants to go to the ends of the earth to get better....that is her journey to take. Not yours. All you can do is be there for her when she needs you. It is not fair for her to ask you to make and decisions for her. This is her life journey. Then your job is to deal with all those painful emotions that come up when you have to watch her pain and her path and not be able to have any control. You are so good to her. You offer her a haven in your home. A soft hug and a listening ear. That is enough. Nothing more is expected and you are going to make yourself ill trying to do more. When you are begging for a day to be over, that is not a good sign. Remember what I said. You cannot fix people. I cannot fix people. I cannot fix my daughter. You cannot fix Kim. Rest. Hug your puppies and take a deep breath and know you are enough just holding her hand in the sun. hugs, Sue ------This is for kim. I told her and she started doing the head over bowl w/ towel. not sure if she is boiling water, but she says she is.-- She has had a cough for over a year now. to stop the rib breaking cough she takes decongestants. Remember her major surgery is next Thursday. I had had enuf of this day, so I pulled covers over head and rested. She called.---She is not going to have the surgery. She is nervous as a cat on a hot tin roof. I told her I would call her when I woke up. I'm fixing to freak out if this day doesn't stop!!! I can't take it. I don't. lol---- Maybe cause she is sick. By the way don't blow. it forces bugs up into the sinusis.---- But we did have a disagreeement about whether or not it is good to snifff. she says it goes down the throat. so iddunn0. --- Poor thing. I know she is scared. 3 major surgeries at once.+whatever else they can find. I know she is worried that the liver tumor is a cancer that is going into her brain. It is true that she is forgetting things more and more, but I chalked it up to her having MS, and so much on her mind. I wouldn't put it past her to just livve out her life here in the sun w/ me and puppies. omg.I can't say I blame her. But she does have a twisted bowel protruding out of something.....liver tumor and ...????She has a ton of things wrong w/ her. it will take a lot of mental positioning and letting go ( and talking to her) to let god. I know she is tired of everything. but she lit up so much when I got her guys.-----I don't know what stance to take. ok .. I just listen for a couple of days,weeks, months. at some point she is going to ask my opinion. ?????? Where is Carlene????? lol I know this dream has to end today.thankx people. I wish I could transport myself to Acapulco. The wind, sun, sand and beautiful bodies, scuba and boats and parachutes.k/> > > From: MMU Morse Sherry <sherry.morse@ panalpina.> com>> Subject: RE: ahhhh New Orleans-sinusitis> > Date: Thursday, January 14, 2010, 4:24 PM> > > > > > > > > > > Just to add my 2 cents> on the sinusitis – AFTER you’ve gotten this round beat,> this is what’s helped me out this winter (and I sure hope> I don’t jinx myself by typing this since I’ve been doing> really well) – I have a vaporizer that I use at night with> a drop of eucalyptus in it. Then during the day when> I’m here in the driest/hottest office on the planet I have> a mini-humidifier that I keep running so I don’t get dried> out. It’s SO dry here that this humidifier is> supposed to run 12 hours on one tank and yesterday it was> full and didn’t make it quite 10 hours before it ran> dry. NOT good and until I started using both of these> I would wake up in the morning gagging from mucous pooling> in my throat and then be totally dried out at the end of the> day. The drier it is the more likely things you> don’t want can> grow in your sinuses so moisture is good. > > I’ve had 4 people> who sit near me get sick and so far (I’m knocking wood)> I’ve been ok in spite of them wheezing and sneezing and> coughing. I’m of course also taking all my vitamins> but that hasn’t always been enough to keep the creeping> crud away. The super duper moisture treatment seems to> really work, even better than using the colloidal silver and> saline nasal sprays.> Sherry in> PA> > > From: > [mailto:fibro- research] On Behalf Of> Urbanczyk> Sent: Thursday, January 14, 2010 4:14 PM> > Subject: Re: ahhhh New> Orleans-sinusitis> > > > > > > Ooooh, I love puppies.> They smell so good and they just bring such joy. You cannot> be sad with puppies. I wanted to breed my Gracie (my two> year old pug) but when her pancreas acted up we decided not> to. She would have to have such a high protien diet that she> could get sick. Not worth hurting her.> > Eculyptus essential oil> in a vaporizer will help or just a few drops in a steaming> bowl of water. Towl over head and breath deep. If you want> to get serious about it. Look below.> > I still want a tiny> runt of the litter. We can wait until you get a really tiny> one. I am in no hurry. I am> patient.> > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > > ------------------------------------ Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted January 15, 2010 Report Share Posted January 15, 2010 , I am speechless at your loving offer. He sounds just lovely. I could not leave to pick him up however. I have so much going on with the court case against Nell's school district and so much going on with Nell. Although it is sooooooooo very tempting to just hop on a plane and come and see you and your puppies. I wish I was in a place were I could come and get him. He sounds so sweet. He would get so much love here. Just like there. How is Kim? I have benn thinking of her. So sorry to hear about her blood sugar. Seems like her body made up her mind for her. I am sure you are very worried. Someone posted this on Facebook today and I thought it really wonderful. You may only be someone in the world, but to someone else, you may be the world. I would say you are the world to Kim. hugs, Sue From: /LA <karens.special1>Subject: Re: Hi allDate: Friday, January 15, 2010, 10:02 AM Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted January 15, 2010 Report Share Posted January 15, 2010 WOw thankx. Her blood sugar was 531 this am , then she passed out in wal-mart thank god she was not driving this time. It was 700+ just now They are gonna have to put her on insulin and yes she is gonna have surgery. She was just stressed and sick. See, how I love mornings? lol thank you /sue u. From: /LA <karens.special1>Subject: Re: Hi allDate: Friday, January 15, 2010, 10:02 AM Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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