...depression...brother died/Rx...TIME..?

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Sandy, I'm Irish and Irish Wakes Celebrate...Best Memories of LIFE, Not Death. Lost (38-yo) wife many, many years ago...GRIEF-IS-NORMAL...GIVE-IT-TIME... Accepting -- "Birth and Death" as package-deal -- LIFE is the DASH -- in middle. Hopefully LINK may be of interest, to everyone..? http://www.thedashmovie.com Since this may (perhaps?), not exactly be an ON-TOPIC message thread...I will, keep it short and briefly say, Hang-In-There -- Try to get (local), Grief Counseling. Anyone with (long term) DEPRESSION should seek PROFESSIONAL-HELP..!!! There are no Magic Cures, Pills, or Beck Protocol...that will...fast-forward, TIME! ========================================================== irishdrought1955 <irishdrought1955@...> wrote: I have not been visiting any of the forums lately.My only brohter was found dead about a month ago.This is so hard I don't know if I am going to make it.He was the only brohter I have and he lived alone.He was found three days after he passed away. I live 5 hrs from him and we talked often on the phone.I am his only survervior and things feel worse each day instead of better.He was 49 and the coronor said he droppd dead with a heart attack.He was sent to the crime lab in GA and it will be a few more weeks before I know the complete details.I have to do something to get through this. I am hurting so badly I don't know what to do.I have tried

Lexipro and it is making my heart beat fast.If anyone can offer suggestions pleae email me privately.I might not be on the forums I post on for a while.I wondered about the brain tuner?If I don't get some help I am going to beg my dr for shock treatments.I have looked at the EFT tapping but don't understand the complete details.Please help.This hurts more than anything I have ever lived through.Thanks,sandy

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Hi Bella,

Maybe off-topic, but sure was beautiful! I really enjoyed the movie!

I have to agree about celebrating the life a person lived rather than

getting caught up in the moment of their death. Death happens in

only 1 day, while life extends the length of their whole being.

We've had so much death in our family, that for a while there it

seemed to be just a way of life. One after the other died. Each one

finds there own way of coping. It takes time to heal and move on.

Sometimes less than others sometimes more, but it's not a contest.

Just go at the pace you need.

For me it's not so much time that heals all wounds, rather it is God

that heals. And it is not so much what you've accomplished in life,

but rather how much you've loved that's important.

Gail

-- In , Bella Lugosi

<batzcuz@...> wrote:

>

> Sandy, I'm Irish and Irish Wakes Celebrate...Best Memories of LIFE,

Not Death.

> Lost (38-yo) wife many, many years ago...GRIEF-IS-NORMAL...GIVE-

IT-TIME...

> Accepting -- " Birth and Death " as package-deal -- LIFE is the

DASH -- in middle.

> Hopefully LINK may be of interest, to everyone..?

http://www.thedashmovie.com

>

> Since this may (perhaps?), not exactly be an ON-TOPIC message

thread...I will,

> keep it short and briefly say, Hang-In-There -- Try to get

(local), Grief Counseling.

> Anyone with (long term) DEPRESSION should seek PROFESSIONAL-

HELP..!!!

>

> There are no Magic Cures, Pills, or Beck Protocol...that

will...fast-forward, TIME!

>

> ==========================================================

>

> irishdrought1955 <irishdrought1955@...> wrote:

> I have not been visiting any of the forums lately.

>

> My only brohter was found dead about a month ago.

>

> This is so hard I don't know if I am going to make it.

> He was the only brohter I have and he lived alone.

> He was found three days after he passed away. I live 5 hrs from him

> and we talked often on the phone.

>

> I am his only survervior and things feel worse each day instead of

> better.

> He was 49 and the coronor said he droppd dead with a heart attack.

>

> He was sent to the crime lab in GA and it will be a few more weeks

> before I know the complete details.

>

> I have to do something to get through this. I am hurting so badly I

> don't know what to do.

> I have tried Lexipro and it is making my heart beat fast.

>

> If anyone can offer suggestions pleae email me privately.

> I might not be on the forums I post on for a while.

>

> I wondered about the brain tuner?

> If I don't get some help I am going to beg my dr for shock

> treatments.

> I have looked at the EFT tapping but don't understand the complete

> details.

> Please help.

> This hurts more than anything I have ever lived through.

>

> Thanks,

> sandy

>

>

>

>

>

>

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Of course missing him is the bad part, but I hope you

don't grieve from thinking that his life has ended.

Life goes on, for him and for you. I have died before

and know that what's waiting for us is a beautiful

experience that far surpasses anything down here where

we live like animals. Some cultures that believe this

celebrate the passing of their people. Why do we

mourn? Do we not have any knowledge of the afterlife

despite having the advantage of so much information

from so many sources over thousands of years? I'm glad

for anyone that escapes this dog-eat-dog survival

contest. Death is not really death, but however we

view it, it is definitely an expected part of all of

our lives. I'm sorry you are depressed. When I was

severely depressed after having been sick for 16 years

I used a brain tuner (from www.sotainstruments.com) to

reharmonize my brain waves and that really did the

trick for me. Now I am depressed again and have

ordered the parts to make one to get over this. It

will help but you need to acheive some acceptance of

what has happened and try to be glad for his release.

And I need to accept how terribly hard my life is in

order to not harbor negative thoughts about it. The

reality and the thoughts about the reality are two

different things.

Forrest

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