medication questions for reactive arthritis and rheumatoid arthritis

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I was diagnosed with reactive arthritis in march of this year it is devastating

to know i will not be the for i was very athletic what is worst is my sister was

diagnosed with rheumatoid arthritis in may after giving birth to her first baby.

my question is really for my sister she is taking enbrel and methotrexate and it

is taking its toll on her body she used to be healthy and athletic and now very

skinny and her hair used to be curly and dark black now it is coming out

straight and her roots are white. i think it is the meds. what should she do she

doesnt want to take the meds anymore?