Re: my thanks to you all....

[Guest guest]

Dear ,

My condolences on your mom.....

I pray she will rest in peace....

I went thru this with my mom for over a year, 13 years ago, when she had

incurable cancer.

I'm glad you were able to say something to her before she passed...and that

you got to see her in February.

Debra

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In a message dated 4/4/2004 3:16:10 AM Pacific Standard Time,

jr_clost@... writes:

my mom passed away not very long after i spoke to her on the telephone. at

least she was able to hear me one more time

Oh I am so glad you were able to call and talk to her. I am sure that helped

her feel at peace, knowing you were ok and that you loved her, and just being

able to hear your voice. She knew you were with her, even if you were not

physically standing beside her. It is ok.

You were close in spirit.

My prayers are with you, And your family.

K

[Guest guest]

--my RISG was just restored after mysteriously disappearing at the

beginning of February. Knew your mother was ill, but not that you'd been

home nor that she was going so quickly. You are in such a difficult place

to be able to truly grieve--I hope you have made some understanding friends

there, or perhaps can come home for a few days around May 1? Just to be

able to surround yourself with family for a bit . . . . It's wonderful you

were able to speak with your mother, so she knew you were " with " her,

too. Please know that I care and am thinking of you. --bc

[Guest guest]

My sincere condolences to you and your family , and our prayers will be for

all of you left to grieve.

Susie

[Guest guest]

I am so sorry and I understand your grieving so much!

It's Easter time and I miss my mom so much, too! She passed away last

October and it still hurts. I guess she had AS, either and I finally

understand what she went through and how brave she was. Loosing a mother

even when you are quite grown up is very tough. We have to be brave as they

were so we can raise our children with hope, even when we feel we've lost

it. Talk to her whenever you can, she'll be by your side and come to you in

your dreams.

Moms never die.

Feel free to write.

Jacinta

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So very sorry to hear about your Mom. I lost mine to Cancer in August of

2003. You made the right choice in going home in Feb. What a blessing to have

been able to talk to her before she passed. She felt you spiritually and held

out to hear your voice once more. My Mom did the same for my daughter.

Keep talking with her - she's listening!

Janet - Ohio

Undif Spondy - Fibro - CFS

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I am so sorry about your Mom's passing. I know how hard it is to loose a

parent. Glad you spoke to her before she went.

Joy

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I join with the rest of our family here in giving you many loving hugs and

prayers for your pain.

I'm so glad she got to go to rest at home....My mama was in the hospital

and so was daddy....I was with daddy when he died---but mama I never even

got to go to her funeral because of freeing temperatures. Home is the

most peaceful and calm and she had had the joy of hearing your voice so

she did feel you with her too I'm sure....H

HUGS

Liz

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[Guest guest]

,

I'm so sorry. I hope you can feel the peace of knowing your Mom is no

longer suffering.

God is amazing in how he makes things happen, like your last visit and your

phone call shortly before she passed away. Hearing your voice might have

helped her let go.

This is one of the toughest things a human being ever endures, so like Matt

said so much more eloquently than I, let yourself grieve in your own way and

your own time. No right or wrong when it comes to grieving.

Love and blessings,

Janet in SF

[Guest guest]

I'm sorry for your loss, . You did all that you could in your visits and

phone calls. Take care.

Kay

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My deepest and most heart-felt condolences to you and your family during this

difficult time. I am so sorry for you as you mourn your mother's passing.

Take comfort in the knowledge that she is no longer in pain and her spirit now

knows freedom without bounds. Grieve in your own time and in your own fashion,

but grieve for yourself not for your mother for she is blessed with a new life

that exceeds even our imaginations. I hope that the Easter season reminds you

of the renewal and life to which we are called when we pass from this earth.

My father has chronic lymphocytic leukemia (CLL) and we consider each day we

have with him a gift from God; however, from that circumstance, I know it is

extremely hard to watch a beloved parent suffer. I know from your posts how

much it meant to you to be able to spend some time with your mom in February and

I am certain that she knew your voice as you said your last goodbyes by

telephone. I'm grateful that you were given that opportunity and hope that you

will view it as such.

May God bless you, comfort you and keep you wrapped in the warm and loving

memories of your mother until such time as you are reunited with her. You and

your family will remain in my thoughts and prayers.

Warmest regards,

(NC)