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Jeannie,

I, and many others, share your frustration. I was diagnosed in May and

although I have the diagnosis, all my tests results have been " normal " or

" borderline " . I was in the hospital with Pneumonia in March and after my

release I

was having symptoms of fever and swollen glands, tingly feet, pain in my

ankles, back, shoulders, right hand, face flushing, vertigo, shaky hands, etc.

I

have been diagnosed with Undiff. Spondy, Fibro, and CFS.

I was on Short Term Disability (STD) when in the hospital and for my

recovery. Because it took a few doctors, and so long to figure out a diagnosis,

I

exhausted my STD benefits and was terminated. Long Term Disability should

have kicked in September 1st, but, they are still dragging their feet saying my

Medical History (Tests) look normal. Not sure I will qualify to get

anything. They have not paid me, might not pay me, and I can't get a job. Been

fiddling with home base stuff, but, it's pocket change, if that.

Well, about 6 weeks ago I started having IBS symptoms, they have

progressed so that I have to go in Tuesday next week for Endoscopy, Colonoscopy,

exploratory and biopsy surgery. They told me I would be in surgery 3 hours give

or

take. I have no income, I am a self supporting single mom, and have no

family support. HoHoHo Merry Christmas! (I moved to Ohio, from California 4

years

ago....Job promotion! Look what it has gotten me!) Was rarely sick until I

moved here. My savings is exhausted, now I am on " Credit Card Payroll. "

Don't give up, all of us will prevail, and you need to believe you will.

My Rheumy, now looking back at when my symptoms probably started, dates my

onset to 3 years ago.

Keep your faith, keep positive thoughts, and keep leaning on us, that is

what we are all here for!

Smile... .....and laugh when you can. It's the cheapest medicine around!

Janet - Ohio

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In a message dated 12/18/2003 6:23:11 PM Pacific Standard Time,

efnbkab@... writes:

it would be a good idea to seek a " second opinion

I think it is time NOW to schedule that second opinion. IF the tylonal

works, GREAT! But while you are waiting to find out... be waiting for that

appointment for the second opinion.

Adrienne is waiting until the end of March to see a new Rheumy. That was the

soonest she could get in. These things take time. Call the doctor tomorrow

and tell him you are in a lot of pain, and would really appreciate getting the

referal underway for the second opinion. Or... will your husband make that

phone call for you? I find I have a lot of success being the caller/scheduler

for Adrienne. Sometimes having someone other than the patient make the

request seems to make things happen a little faster.

Good Luck!

I am very very sorry you are having such a rough time.

K

Adrienne's mom

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Hello everyone,

I just wanted to update you all on the latest news that I received today from my

Rheumatoidologist and see if I can get some feedback. I am extremely depressed

right now b/c of the way the visit with him went.

My bone scan results basically showed " nothing was wrong " other than there was

some slight increase in my wrist, one hip and a couple ribs on the right side.

He, again, said that with the physical exam and all the tests he has done he can

find " nothing " that backs up the symptoms I am having. He won't give me any

meds b/c he is afraid the ones he would want to try would flare up my Crohn's.

He said he is " stumped as to what the underlying cause is or what it is that is

creating all the symptoms " . He suggested I try taking 2-600 mg Tylenol T.I.D.

to see if that will help and then call him back in a month. He is contacting my

Gastro and PCP to update them as to what he is/isn't finding and making the

suggesting that if the Tylenol doesn't work maybe it would be a good idea to

seek a " second opinion from another Rheumatoidologist b/c maybe he just is

'overlooking' something " . I went back over all my symptoms with him and he

understands the severity of them. I asked him if this could be Fibro and he

said, upon his physical exam, he doesn't think so.

So at this point I feel like I am back at square one with no answers or no

prospect of getting them. I have been fighting with these symptoms since April

of this year. Right now I just don't know how much more I can keep fighting

this. I told my husband tonight whenI was explaining about the doc's visit, that

I just can't fight this anymore. I hear people making comments about the way I

walk (due to the extreme pain at times) and it really bothers me. I am only 49

but sometimes walk like I am 100.

So at this point I just don't know what to do, where to turn and even what to

think anymore. Sorry for this being so long.

Thanks for listening,

Jeannie

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Hi Jeannie,

I can relate to your comment about being 49 and walking like 100 (I'm

48, but have felt and walked like this for many years - sometimes better

and sometimes worse).

It took several doctors before I got a diagnosis and I'm still working

with my rheumatologist to get the right combination of medications. If I

was unhappy with my rheumatologist, I would be hard pressed to get

another opinion from a different rheumatologist (luckily, I am happy).

Can you get a second opinion?

Pat

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Hi Jeannie

I too can relate to your frustration with the doctors. I think most of us

went through the wringers before a diagnosis was made. Took them 10 years

in my case. I got all the standard answers like, it's all in your head and

stuff.

This family of diseases are really a pain in the butt. However, today, I

see better diagnostic tests and folks getting diagnosed more quickly.

I too know the feeling of walking like a 200 year old person. I have a

neighbour and parishioner with AS and she is about your age and is much more

pronounced in her posture than I. Why? Because AS was considered only a

man's disease, women didn't get it. Well, we all know how true that was.

After my last MRI my interna-rheumy said the new inflamation had stopped but

they could do nothing about the parts of my spine that are fused and that is

where the majority of my pain comes from. So it is OxyContin SR that keeps

me moving.

Will keep you in our prayers, that God will lift the sense of frustration

you are feeling.

+Dave (older than dirt)

" Everyday I beat my own previous record for number of consecutive days I've

stayed alive. "

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Jeannie,

I think the rheumatologist's idea that you should see a different

rheumatologist is a good one. There's a section of the website with doctor

recommendations. Where are you? Maybe some people in the group could

recommend better docs. depending on where you are. As exhausting as it is,

keep going until you find the right rheumatologist. I don't know why

doctors find it so hard to diagnose this disease.

God Bless,

Janet in San Francisco

ReA since 1973; diagnosed 1997; HLA-B27+

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If your problem is caused by sciatica there is a treatment that injects

steroids into the sciatic joint and wouldn't cause medication interactions.

The problem is that I don't know what is causing all this. No one seems to

know what the underlying cause is. My primary says talk to my Gastro, my Gastro

says it is probably an arthritic condition so see a Rheumy....now the Rheumy

says see another Rheumy. I have had so many tests in the past 6 months and

nothing shows up to give them a Dx. All I know is that I am tired of taking

drugs to " curb the pain " (which really aren't helping at all)and still having to

push through the pain with all the pain meds they have me taking. If I have to

take meds I want them to help what I am taking them for not take them and they

do NOTHING!!!

Thanks for the input and response.

Hugs,

Jeannie

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Call the doctor tomorrow and tell him you are in a lot of pain,

Hey K,

Thanks for responding to my post. I have explained to him how much pain I am

in. I went through all that with this last appt again to make sure he thoroughly

understood that I can't keep going like this and something has to be done.

My husband has been wonderful through all this...he is supportive but he has

lost his patience seeing me suffering all the time.

He gets really frustrated over all this esp. when I can hardly walk around or

move.

Thanks again for responding and the suggestions.

Hugs,

Jeannie

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I see better diagnostic tests and folks getting diagnosed more quickly

Hey Dave,

Thanks for responding and your input. I agree there are great advances within

the medical field regarding diagnostic testing and the ability to get a much

quicker Dx than previous yrs. I was able to see alot of that through earlier

yrs as well as learn about it while getting my degree. Plus working in the

medical field I am able to stay on top of progresses.

The rational side of my brain tells me all the medical stuff and keeps me sane

b/c of the background in the medical field. The irrational side (the patient)

is the one that is so frustrated and feeling hopeless. Guess this isn't a

really good combination....LOL.

Thanks again for the input and response.

Hugs,

Jeannie

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I've had the steroid injections

Hey Pat,

I don't know if they will put me on any more steriods at this point. I am on

a low dose of Prednisone (for the rest of my life)already and the Rheumy said if

there was soft tissue inflammation or ligament/tendon inflammation the

prednisone would be taking care of it. Well, it isn't b/c I was on the

prednisone prior to all this happening and still am on it with no help.

I know that prednisone and the injections are two different things but I just

wanted to pass along the info that I do have regarding all this.

Thanks for responding....

Hugs,

Jeannie

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Where are you? Maybe some people in the group could recommend better docs.

depending on where you are. As exhausting as it is,keep going until you find

the right rheumatologist.

Hey Janet,

I am in upstate NY. I have a wide array of places I can go depending on the

direction I travel. I don't know if anyone from the list is in my area to know

of any good Rheumy's besides the name I already have (he is suppose to be the

BEST in the area).

I do try to keep going but on the days when I am in excrutiating pain it is

really difficult to keep pushing through the pain or keeping the faith that it

will get better. Those are the days that are the worst and the ones when I

really want to give up trying to fight all this. Those are the days when I want

to crawl into bed and just stay there.

Thanks for the input and suggestions.

Hugs,

Jeannie

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First things first.

We wish you all a Merry Christmas and a Blessed New Year. Christmas Eve

Midnight Mass

included all of you on this list, asking God to deal with our common ailments

and if

it is His will, to heal us.

Jeannie wrote:

> The rational side of my brain tells me all the medical stuff and keeps me >

sane

b/c of the background in the medical field.

The problem with medical knowledge is that if one has that gift, things can get

out of

hand a bit faster than with someone with no medical knowledge.

When Dr. Baker, my diagnosing doctor, told me I had AS, I knew what the

prognosis was

as I had worked in the Nuclear Medicine field. I remembered all the X-rays that

I saw

during my training. It sent shivers up and down my spine. Now they just come

naturally.<GBG>

BTW it was the medical field that helped me along to insanity.

+Dave, AS, RS, PA, RA, and Parkinsons

" Everyday I beat my own previous record for number of consecutive days I've

stayed

alive. "

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What dose of pred are you on?

Thanks...Debra!

Hey Debra,

I am on 5 mg QAM & 2.5 mg QPM as a maintenance dose. In the event I get sick

it is upped to 10 mg QAM & 5 mg QPM until I am over being sick then it goes back

down. Please be aware of the side effects from this med....weight gain (due to

increased appetite), moon-face, edema of the legs, as well as others. Do some

research first on the drug to see if the side effects are worth going on the

drug.

Good luck!!!!

Jeannie

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Dear Jeannie,

Have you experienced any of the side effects you've mentioned? I thought that

only happens on high doses, and yours doesn't sound that high compared to

some I've read about. I haven't had any of that happen yet, but I have to diet

constantly to not gain weight and stay thin. Maybe that is occurring from the

steroid use. Please let me know more......

Thanks,

Debra!

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Have you experienced any of the side effects you've mentioned?

but I have to diet

constantly to not gain weight and stay thin. Maybe that is occurring from the

steroid use. Please let me know more......

Hey Debra,

When I was first on the Prednisone they did have me on a much higher dose and

did experience all of the side effects I mentioned. It wasn't until they were

able to find what my maintanence dose would be that the side effects seem to

calm down. The weight gain is a normal side effect of this steriod

(unfortunately) b/c it does increase your appetite as well as the water

retention (edema). When I do have to increase my dose due to illness I will

gain a little weight, my face becomes a bit rounder and I have alot of leg

edema. After I am able to decrease my dose back to the maintenance dose, the

side effects seem to calm down. I hope this helps....Keep us posted, please?

Jeannie

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