Guest guest Posted October 2, 2011 Report Share Posted October 2, 2011 Good one, Al! I agree whole-heartedly. Also, most people I know are dysfunctional in this area. This is information that can't be passed on and assimilated by logic alone. In fact, you can truly believe it is true, and yet not follow through on it. You have to get it through actually doing it. This is such an important concept to internalize, especially when you are interested in teaching others. Kudos for putting it exactly right! On Sun, Oct 2, 2011 at 7:40 AM, Bayard <Bayard@...> wrote: > ** > > > At 04:12 PM 10/1/2011 -0400, you wrote: > >I mentioned a phrase I channeled yesterday in our meeting and Bayard > >wanted me to send it to you as the subject of a lesson... > > > > " Inappropriate Savior " > > > >In MY life, because I didn't have real parents (and also in past lives, > >where I've accessed I was orphaned a lot) -- I keep/kept looking for > >parent-figures to help/save me. > > > >I've often associated with the wrong people who just used me and left my > >life a shambles. > > > >When I met all of you, I gave that up and my life has been getting better > >and better all the time. > > > >I think handing responsibility for your life and your cure to others is a > >disability. Functionality looks like being responsible for your own life > >and cure, and asking for help when you need it, but not putting > >responsibility for the results on others. > > > >When I/others do that, the other person ALWAYS fails, and it looks like > >betrayal. It's not. Nobody else is supposed to be responsible for you and > >your results. > > > >Love, > >Al > > > -- Meredith W. Nisbet Arkadelphia Talent Education Lessons on violin, viola, cello, piano Member American Suzuki Association and ASTA Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted October 2, 2011 Report Share Posted October 2, 2011 Comments like this are really helpful. Â Thanks for saying this and enhancing the lesson. > >I mentioned a phrase I channeled yesterday in our meeting and Bayard > >wanted me to send it to you as the subject of a lesson... > > > > " Inappropriate Savior " > > > >In MY life, because I didn't have real parents (and also in past lives, > >where I've accessed I was orphaned a lot) -- I keep/kept looking for > >parent-figures to help/save me. > > > >I've often associated with the wrong people who just used me and left my > >life a shambles. > > > >When I met all of you, I gave that up and my life has been getting better > >and better all the time. > > > >I think handing responsibility for your life and your cure to others is a > >disability. Functionality looks like being responsible for your own life > >and cure, and asking for help when you need it, but not putting > >responsibility for the results on others. > > > >When I/others do that, the other person ALWAYS fails, and it looks like > >betrayal. It's not. Nobody else is supposed to be responsible for you and > >your results. > > > >Love, > >Al > > > -- Meredith W. Nisbet Arkadelphia Talent Education Lessons on violin, viola, cello, piano Member American Suzuki Association and ASTA Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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